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2010-01-30, 11:14:42
Miss Marple from Sweden  
@2010-01-29, 23:07:16

2010-01-29, 23:08:10

2010-01-30, 00:26:44

2010-01-30, 00:28:31

Please dont post women profiles ore pictures at male threads..
there is threads that you can post these pictures where you can
do that instead,..on datingscams..

i will spam these 2 postings from this thread becuase they are posted
on another thread also...

2010-01-30, 19:28:03
anonymous from United States  
i recieved a email from lake moon he was looking for a serious relationship.he had a 7 yrold daughter mary within a few days he called crying mary fell down the stairs and he needed money until he got his pay from the government he said he was a road constructor and was going to be paid by the government .did not speak well english at all. asked for money ,was pushy for the mtcn # from western union.of course i pretended to send it . thankgod i was a smart one. he was good,but i caught on right away .i confrontrd him ,he would log off acted like it was poor connection.............lake moon

2010-02-13, 01:56:16
anonymous from United States  
Gary Russell, male dating scammer for sure . Info he gave me is similar to previous reported comment on Dubai finishing up a 3 year contract on a construction job and wanting to relocate to USA in florida where he says he is from, fort myers. email address is and on Mate as bluesky48894/48 years old with pic of himself? and his son. He also requested money be sent, after an on line and phone relationship of only 3 weeks, stated in first email what he was looking for which was marrage and that he was a catholic christian and wanting a women with the fear of God was most important to him. He emailed poetry written and gave a history of being raised by mom who married a french man who she later found to already be married with 3 grown kids. states he was raised in the way of the lord, his mom died of lung cancer and his wife killed 3 years ago in a 'bloodie car accident'. He bid on a contract in Dubai since his only living relative, an aunt lived there and he needed someone to help care for his son, now 12 and named Emanuel. the picture he sent me was the same as sent to 2 others one under Gary and one by name of Jeff Coleman both on this site. He also sent me 5 money grahms of $985 each and wanted me to cash and send money to him, the money grahms were fake, and when I told him this he said they were given to him by someone in payment for money owed him, he never said what for, and he wanted to find out for sure if they were fake and knew if they were, the bank would be able to tell. It was shortly after this that he scanned me a copy of a check for 960,000 he received for payment on 3 year contract and said he would get 450,000 more upon return to the states and that he could not cash in Dubai because of their banking system there. He told me that he got his last monthly check also but had spent it mostly on paying for his son's remaining school bill, rent and such so there would not be a problem when he was gone. He was planning on returning in the spring to get his son after his school was done. He wanted me to western union $ to help pay for his airfare home and to pay off a lean on his passport placed by a car rental accident that he owed yet.....such a long detailed story but the man cut off communication after it was apparent that I would not sent $ to help. Beware of this man, he is a smooth talker and knows how to hit the heart strings. This all occured over a months time from Jan 11th this year 2010 to just 2 weeks ago. BEWARE of GARY RUSSELL
2010-02-19, 07:06:17
anonymous from France  
Arthur Matthews
I'm german and since a few months member of a dating site called parship
he told me he lives in Avon with his son Sam.
He had to go to Ghana after some e-mails and some days of msn-chat.
He told me he loves me, I'm the only one ......aso.
He send me flight and flight number
afterwards the contract for a project of 2000 0000 Pound Sterling
from Ghana Government
after some days in Ghana he asked me a loan of 4000.-Euros for his project
when I didn't give him money he told me his son had an accident and sent me
some cruel photos
2 days later he asked me for money for an operation and hopital costs.
I stopped the contact at once
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Dating scammer Arthur Matthews

2010-02-19, 07:17:25
anonymous from France  
Arthur Matthews 0023 32 79 84 21 44
in Accra, Ghana

He is member of the a dating site called parship
his registration number there is PS5EZV8P
with the this photo
2010-03-02, 17:35:28
anonymous from United States  

2010-03-16, 15:11:09
anonymous from United States  
I was scammed around this tiem last year by a guy that called himself Mark 'Lucky' Smith. I was stupid as well. I sent him an Iopd touch and a total of 1,000 dollars in cash. Lied to me and told me that he lived in Conneticuit and owned his own construction company and he was in Nigeria working and got stuck and needed money to get back home. I will nver date online again. I'll just meed the natural way. In person when I'm out and about.

2010-03-24, 17:26:24
Madam Jones from Wichita, United States  
I wanted to add that this scammer using the name 'Reed Baxter,' is also using the name Mark Green. I have a photo and it is the same guy. He was 50, widowed, but divorced on the second marriage, no kids, from Clinton, Missouri. I have a lot on my blog about 4 scammers and more info. I also have saved emails, etc. Notice, I said scammers because they all 4 asked me for money. The photo is below:
2010-03-24, 17:26:24   (updated: 2010-03-24, 17:45:06)
Madam Jones from Wichita, United States  

See that this photo of Mark Green is the same guy as Reed Baxter.
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Dating scammer Mark Green

2010-04-02, 19:53:09 from United States  
A man is emailing my mother in law and we can't get anything out of him. He only emails and we finally got a phone number but he never answered it and never calls back. He says he is from Flordia but is in Londan to work. He never emails on weekends says he has a 14 year old son but can't give us pictures of him together. Can anyone out there help us? Have you seen this man?

2010-04-03, 02:26:25
anonymous from United States  
Just wanted to let everyone know that Joshua Howards and Thomas Mends has just turned into Michael Green from Columbus, Ohio... Engineer from Italy, both parents died when he was age 20.. His Uncle took him into the family business. Moved to US at 35.. married / divorced.. has one son named Jason. He is an engineer and does project engineer work on roads and buildings. Says he is out of the country for about 2 weeks at a time... to set up for the initial project... permits and hiring people. Good liar but even better scammer. He leaves nothing to be checked. His current phone number is 233241450760 and of course he is in Ghana. Trying to get me to buy a laptop after his died, than trying to get me to send money, and today telling me he was running out of money and soon wouldn't be able to afford food. I hope the bastard starves!

He goes to great lengths to get money.. giving me access to his mic_gree556@yahoo. com account to sending a scanned copy of his passport. I live 5 minutes from customs.. a special agent ran the passport number.. different guy owned the passport. It seems that little can be done with these birds... it was fun playing I spy.

This guy is very good, quotes poetry and the Bible... can melt the heart on an ice statue. Ladies beware, I was just reading through the blogs and found the exact verbiage he he used on me... during our still on courtship. Sent me 2 dozen roses and a stuffed bear... I guess I'm ahead of the game... feel bad for the poor person whose money he took to pay for them.

I had the opportunity to give him a call and tell him the game was up. Phone has gone dead.. Tried calling back, the number has been switched off... I'm including one of the pictures he sent me... I'm very sure it is not him, the guy is nice looking though, wasn't bad to look at for awhile.

It is bad enough to have someone try to take money from you but the emotional toll is even worse. I hope he rots in hell when his number is up!

2010-04-03, 02:47:57
anonymous from United States  
Lucky me... I had two scammers.. one right after the other. This is about Mark Greene, he was on Another one who wanted a laptop. He was a jeweler orginally from Switzerland now living in Duluth, Minnestota. Of course he had to go to Ghana to buy some diamonds and gold. Lost luggage...laptop...knew him for 4 weeks.. wanted me to buy a Macintosh laptop. High end guy.... Fortunately he was prior to Michael Greene who was much smoother and lots smarter! He helped with my preliminary education. I have included a picture he used on the dating site...

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