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Name: Becker Anderson


Email: realbecker1@aol.com // becker.anderson@hotmail.com


Address:
Local Western Union agent address as supplied to me by Becker:
24A Avocado dr,
Becker anderson
24A Avocado dr,
Ikeja
Lagos
Nigeria
23401



Other Comments:
I first came into contact with Becker on the http://www.friendsreuniteddating.co.uk on the 10/03/2007. His name on the site is Goldheartbecker. He has broken my heart, I thought he was the one for me after our constant emails & telephone calls to each other. His letters were so utterly romantic & now I have been duped - as this morning he told me he was starving hungry, had no money untill he got paid next week & could I send him some money via Western Union? This aroused my suspicions immediately & I pointed out to him directly that I believed him to be an internet dating site scammer, which he denied. Below is our MSN chat conversation which I saved to file.
Becker says:
Sweetie ....i feel sad here
Gina says:
DON'T BE SAD - WE SHOULD BE THE MOST HAPPIEST TWO PEOPLE IN THE WORLD!
Becker says:
Yes baby
Becker says:
but am having a lil problem here and i wish u can help me
Gina says:
i missed you last night soooooo much
Gina says:
....honey what is it? how can I HELP?
Becker says:
i missed u too
Becker says:
Sweetie could u believe i didn't eat here last night?
Becker says:
and this morning
Gina says:
WHY NOT?
Becker says:
u know i wont get paid untill am done with my contract here
Gina says:
so what do you want - money?
Becker says:
No baby
Becker says:
how do u thing u can help baby
Gina says:
by flying out to see you, be near you.... i don't know what would you want me to do?
Becker says:
weetie ...do u think u can help me with few bucks to get some fod here?
Becker says:
Gina says:
don't you have any savings? can't you ask your company for a sub?
Becker says:
Sweetie ..the company will be paying me when am done next week
Gina says:
You said you didn't want any money
Becker says:
Sweetie...not that i dont have any money
Becker says:
Aight...?
Becker says:
But its not much..and things here are expensive
Gina says:
so??........... buy yourself some food baby
Becker says:
Sweetie..its not much here...i used the last bucks on food last night
Becker says:
Sweetie are u there?
Gina says:
You know what? I thought this was too good to be true - now I AM SO HURT BECAUSE i think you are one of those internat dating scammers - there has been alot about that on the news lately. What do you take me for, some dumb person you could take for a ride? - shame on you Becker - if that's your real name. I fell in love with you for chrisets sake....
Becker says:
Sweetie am not asking u for ur money baby
Becker says:
I was trying to let u know that i also have money...but i cant get it here Lisa
Becker says:
hy do u have to make me feel this way??
Gina says:
Now I a gaping hole in my heart & don't feel I CAN TRUST YOU ANYMORE. yOU HAVE LEFT ME WITH ANWONDERFUL ILLUSION @ SHATTERED DREAMS OF WHAT WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER
Becker says:
Sweetie why are u making me feel this way?
Becker says:
DO u think am trying to get money from u or wht?
Gina says:
It's not that I want you to feel this way but yes that is how you have made me feel. I AM A VERY GENEROUS PERSON BUT YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND i have never met you in person..........
Becker says:
Yes i know baby
Becker says:
I do understand
Becker says:
Sweetie we have to deal with trust here till we meet
Becker says:
See my love....if we cant trust eachother now...Then when??
Gina says:
i know that but I am also a very cautious person when it comes to money. Of course I would like to trust you: your photos gave the insight that we are at least equal standing but this request from you has cast a huge doubt in my mind
Becker says:
Oh no baby
Becker says:
No
Gina says:
.....what about your work colleagues, maybe they could help?
Becker says:
well they all are greedy assholes
Becker says:
Sweetie...i have a company i worked for in Uk
Becker says:
Now now they are willing to pay me off baby
Gina says:
what is the name? & how long ago?
Becker says:
8months
Gina says:
surely they should have paid you before or soon after you left them?
Gina says:
what is the name of the company?
Becker says:
yes..but they had a lil problem then
Becker says:
So sweetie do u think i can trust u with this?
Gina says:
what is the name of the company?
Becker says:
Brixton Company
Gina says:
IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU TRUSTING ME AT THIS POINT, IT'S ABOUT ME TRUSTING YOU! - I don't believe that's a true company name - what type of business is it?
Becker says:
They run an international shipping
Gina says:
so what is the name of the company tou work for now?
Becker says:
EA TEXTILES
Gina says:
What type of business is it & what is your job title with them?
Becker says:
Its a textile company and i work as a Cpa Accountant
Gina says:
.... so an accountant with no money or access to it? why can't you access your bank accounnt baby? sorry to sound so cynical.
Becker says:
how do umean?
Becker says:
its a Uk check and i cant get it cash here
Gina says:
so how would I get money to you if that is what I decide?
Becker says:
Westernunion baby
Gina says:
Can't you ask you family, brother to post the money via western union?
Becker says:
U know baby
Becker says:
i told u about how i lostmy siblings
Becker says:
now u make me feel so sad again
Gina says:
what do I know honey?
Becker says:
u there?
Gina says:
You have never told me that - it is something I would remember. What you did say was that you were a & I quote: 'a son, brother parent ' etc........ how do you explain this?
Becker says:
Sweetie...i told u i lost my wife and kid in an auto accident 5 years ago when i was in germany and my dad died when i moved to the states
Becker says:

Gina says:
your profile says you are a widower but we have never discussed that part of your life.I'm sorry.
Becker says:
yes baby
Becker says:
but its okay
Becker says:

Gina says:
write something to me in German baby
Becker says:

Becker says:
like wht?
Gina says:
whatever you fell like saying to me!
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
ich liebe u
Becker says:
do u know hwt that mean?
Gina says:
yes! more please?
Becker says:
Like?
Gina says:
a few sentences........about you
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
ich wuchs in Deutschland. .and auf, das ich singles gewesen bin, nachdem ich meine Frau verlor und Sohn in einem Motor accident.now morgens glücklich ich u lisa fand
Gina says:
baby i'm crying because I feel I have been so horrible to you!
Becker says:
Baby,...it sokay
Becker says:
Just that u made me feel so sad and foolish here
Becker says:
May be u thought i was lying to u
Gina says:
Believe me I didn't want to make you feel that way
Becker says:

Gina says:
I'm honest & I have to admit I did
Becker says:
Its okay Darling
Gina says:
sorry, don't you have to be in work today?
Becker says:
No am off today

Becker says:
i love u so much my Darling Lisa
Gina says:
Have you read my mails yet?
Becker says:
yes..Daring
Becker says:
So sweetie...how do u feel u can help me
Gina says:
I can't & I feel so bad about that
Becker says:
no am not asking u for miney my love
Becker says:
I just want u to help me get my check from the company
Gina says:
sorry - what do you mean then?
Gina says:
How do I go about doing that?
Becker says:
i will just ask them to send it to u
Becker says:
then u can help me get the cash and wire it to me
Gina says:
& then what do i do with it?
Becker says:
u there??
Gina says:
yes baby
Becker says:
DO u understand now?
Gina says:
But it will be a chq made out in your name honey I can't cash or bank it for you
Gina says:
yes i understand
Becker says:
No..i will make them make it in ur name baby
Becker says:
iw ill tell them u are my fiancy
Gina says:
wow, you really trust me that much?
Becker says:
Sweetie...i have to..cos i want this to work out for is baby
Gina says:
.......the same goes for you my precious how can you be so sure about me? we have only known each other for a few days........
Becker says:
Yes baby
Becker says:
thats why we need trust and makes thsi work
Becker says:
I love u
Gina says:
ok, if that's what you want I will agree to do as you ask. Put the chq in the name of Gina ******* & send me the details of where to wire the money to.
Becker says:
okay
Becker says:
whts the address??
Gina says:
send me the details of where to wire the money to first.
Becker says:
Okay
Becker says:
Name...Becker anderson
Becker says:
addess....24A Avocado dr,
Becker says:
City....Ikeja
Becker says:
States.....Lagos
Becker says:
Country.......Nigeria
Becker says:
ZipCode....23401
Becker says:
did u get it?
Gina says:
yes
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
So whts ur addresss??
Becker says:
where they will send it to baby
Gina says:
Gina *********
Gina says:
*******(work address)
Becker says:
post code
Becker says:
post code
Becker says:
post code and city
Becker says:
whats the post code?
Gina says:
I'm just getting it for you - i've forgotten it!
Becker says:
ok
Gina says:
city is **********
Becker says:
i have that already
Becker says:
i mean the post code
Becker says:
zip code
Gina says:
I know zip code means post code honey
Becker says:
so what is the post code honey?
Becker says:
every address has post code
Gina says:
scrap prvios addrees format, here is how you should write it:********
Becker says:
ok i got it
Gina says:
I don't have the need to use it every day!
Gina says:
good
Becker says:
ok honey
Becker says:
so, what do you have planned for the rest of the ay?
Becker says:
day?
Gina says:
are you smiling now?
Becker says:
yes honey
Gina says:
to stay on line with you & get to know you some more baby
Becker says:
ok honey
Becker says:
i need to go to the bathroom real quick
Becker says:
i will be back shortly

I then didn't here from him for about 1 1/2 hrs!

IS THIS MAN A SCAMMER? I SERIOUSLY HPOE NOT BUT I NEED TO KNOW - NOT JUST FOR MYSELF BUT FOR OTHER UNSUSPECTING HOPEFULS OUT THERE


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2008-12-20, 17:25:37
Steve_dux from Australia  
Come clean
beckers wife Sharon Anderson his Queen


Where are you from, show your IP address, I'd bet your from Nigeria.

There are too many complaints to back these ladies up.

If he is as you say,
the most wonderful man in the world
why does he take money from these ladies and isn't marring them. He owes them and should pay them back.
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2010-02-01, 09:30:22   (updated: 2010-02-01, 09:34:27)
anonymous  
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Well He struck again. Under the name BECKER ROBINSON, Thur Match.com, My Sister -in-law was sucked in by the scum bag. Hook line and sinker. He has robbed her of everything. and is still after her for more. How can we get Scum like this off the Internet & the streets. He has given so many phone numbers to her to call, He is not acting alone he has lots of help. He has gotten in to here computer so he is the one she see's every time she turns her computer on. How Can we stop scum like this.
2010-02-01, 13:36:48
anonymous from United States  
He also uses Sam.Percy@me.com or Sampercy52@yahoo.com. He travels between Nigeria and Ghana and in Ghana he has a wife called Fidel Imoro at the Buduburan Refugee camp. He uses white people's pictures. He is patient and will ask for money every week for food, medicine etc. He uses many names but the story is the same.
2010-02-01, 13:40:22
anonymous from United States  
Gina/Lisa, He does go to the bathroom a lot, sometimes he calls it the washroom to 'wash down' and he will generally forget that you are online. This is because he is chatting with 4 or 5 women at the same time. Run away from him as fast as you can. Yes I have been his queen too and he called me 3 or 4 times a day.
2010-02-23, 05:40:56
anonymous from United States  
BECKER 'ANDERSON' IS A TOTAL SCAM ARTISIT! DO NOT SEND HIM ANY MONEY!!!!! He is a total fraud. I too ALMOST fell victim to him. He is SOOOOOOO smooth but lies are the only thing that comes out of his mouth! He pursued me on match.com and told me that his wife and child died in a car accident 5 years ago and died. He said that he was not only searching for love but a wife. Hell, he asked me to marry him within 1 week on talking to him. He said all the things to me that any woman would want to hear. And he HATES to be told no!!!! Doesn't like for you to refuse him. It makes him very angry.
When we first started talking he told me that he lived in NC and he was a CPA working on an assignment in Dubai. He said that his 'assignment' was coming to an end and that he would be coming home. Apparently he had been over there for 6 months. He gave me a cell number which when I searched on the internet it said that it was a landline from Tennessee. When I confronted him he said his dad had a home in Tenn, which he passed away, and that the cell phone and the ome phone were connected together. Sounded ok at first but only made me leary of him. GOOD INSTINCTS! He said that his mother walked out of his life as a child and he had no contact with her and had no other family. Again, I felt like he needed me. But what he was really after was my money. He inquired on my credit cards and the line of credit balances that funds were available to me.
As I have mentioned he was very smooth. He knew all the right things to say to me. Made me feel special and was earning my heart with his kind thoughts and words. Within 5 weeks, he asked me for $1000. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with that because of scams and this angered him very much. He got into the issue of 'don't you trust me?' How can we be married, one, if you don't trust me. He used to call me Mrs Robinson all the time. Again, any woman would have felt like they were special with his words. But, I was feeling like he was more interested in my money than he was me. Long story short, I told him that I didn't have the money to send and he back off for a few weeks. He called me at work one day saying he was at the airport and needed me to wire him $700 to get through the gate. I told him he was full of shit and all he needed was the ticket to get home. I told him to never call me again and to get out of my life. He said that he was going to get $850,000.00 when he finished his assignment but was unable to cash the check there. FISHY?!!!!!
I knew him as Becker Robinson and found him on facebook. I emailed 5 female friends of his telling my story and asking if they knew anything about him. All emailed me back with the SAME story. Said they just haven't deleted him as a friend and advised me to get away from him. Except for one that was stupid enough to admit that what I was saying wasn't true and believed that he was in love with her and only her. Not my job to convince her that he was playing her. She apparently is one of the dummies that was giving him money.
I did find one woman out of state that I have kept in touch with that has done more research on him that one could imagine. She googled him and called me immediately. When she led me to this webpage I almost fell out of my chair. The man that I knew as Becker Robinson was using the name Becker Anderson with everyone else but the pictures that he sent me, THIS WAS THE SAME GUY!!! If you spend time reading these comments you will see that his 'game' goes back MANY years. He has been playing this game for years!!
All that to say this. GET THE HELL AWAY FROM THIS GUY. BE CAREFUL, DON'T GIVE HIM YOUR ADDRESS, AND FOR GOD'S SAKE DON'T SEND THIS GUY A DIME!!!!!!!!
If you are stupid enough to ignore the comments and stories on this webpage, then you deserve to loose your money. And my last comment to you would be THAT NO ONE HAS EVER SEEN THIS MAN FACE TO FACE!!!!!!!!
Good luck ladies
2010-05-16, 16:44:06
anonymous from United States  
I just found out that this Becker Robinson is a scammer!! he sent me the same emotional email that he has sent others! I did some investigating and found someone who verified it. Working with the FBI to bring this creep to justice. Get away as fast as you can. I was lucky. No money out and I was smart enough to recognize this before it got out of hand.


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2010-05-24, 12:06:35   (updated: 2010-05-24, 12:23:26)
anonymous from United States  
Apparently Becker Robinson is still going strong. He just offered to buy my grandmother a house, pay off her credit card (to which he got the number) and payoff several other things. I am not so trusting and googled him. Thank God for this website. I could not believe what I was reading. He used the exact same story on her, down to working in Dubai. He had not asked her for money yet, although he does have her credit card number. Thank you for this helpful information! How do you go about reporting him?
2011-10-24, 12:40:51
anonymous from United States  
this man claims to be a ben wells in south west africa working for an orphange he has had several women picking up packages for him has even tryed to get me to to that and i refused he has even asked me to call women and pretend that i am the fbi because they have taken his goods
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2011-10-24, 12:48:52
anonymous from United States  
this man ROY BERNARD ALSO ON FACEBOOK AND SEVERAL OTHER SITES HE CALLS U HIS QUEEN CLAIMS HE IS BUTING GOLD AND GEMS FROM GHANNA

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2011-10-24, 12:48:54
anonymous from United States  
this man ROY BERNARD ALSO ON FACEBOOK AND SEVERAL OTHER SITES HE CALLS U HIS QUEEN CLAIMS HE IS BUTING GOLD AND GEMS FROM GHANNA

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2012-03-06, 12:14:37
anonymous  
Has this man been confenscated yet by the UAE or Nigerian goverment to put him behind bar's yet? If not he needed to be. So many FBI Investagation's of this man.He owe's all us women thousand's of dolllar's here in the US.
2012-06-19, 14:59:30
anonymous from United States  
I just cannot believe how naive you women are, who sends money to someone that they've never met and please tell me how you fall in love with someone so quickly that you've never met in person? I'm in total shock because women are smarter than that.
2012-06-19, 18:12:25
anonymous from Dominican Republic  
quiero que me investiguen de un señor llamado Andrews Jose me ha estado contactando y su historia es similiar a las que he leido
2012-11-04, 09:11:54
anonymous  
So It seam's The FBI in these country's and the US still haven't got him behind bar's yet. it seam's their not trying very hard to bring him to Justice.
2012-11-05, 10:20:26
anonymous  
This man is still out there scaming inocent women for money.Please bring this kreep to justice. Do your job FBI.
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