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Name: John Bassit


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was wondering if anyone has ever been contacted by this man who says he is American born, but his mother moved him to Germany when he was 6 years old because his father died. Now he is working as an Engineer in Ogun State and trying to move to the US but needs funds for freeing up a shipment of bldg goods he bought to sell to another company in order to have more money to come to the US with.... PLEASE HELP me figure out if he is for real or not! THANKS ALL!!


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2008-08-04, 12:36:12   (updated: )
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2008-08-05, 22:16:52
anonymous from United States  
i've been in contact with the same age as a matter of fact the same man. evidently he has quite a story, dump him honey whatever he is telling you is a lie.
2008-08-06, 06:43:10
anonymous from United States  
Dear Anonymous, you've been contacted by this same man? recently? what about a man named Fredrick aka yahoo screen name of yoshi582002 also from the same area in nIgeria. Do you know what his son's name is?
2008-08-06, 09:44:54
anonymous from United States  
OMG, I've been emailing this guy for the last month. I actually believed his sad story. Any more information would be appreciated.
2008-08-06, 14:32:21
anonymous from United States  
HE IS GOOD, DON'T LET HIM FOOL YOU, HE HAD ME CONVINCED
2008-08-06, 17:40:52
anonymous from United States  
may i ask what story he was telling you?? what part of the country do you live? I live in Florida and he said he had relatives that he was going to look up.. do you know what part of FLorida they lived by chance so I can do some back ground checking? how much $ has he asked you for... if you don't mind me asking so we can compare stories! What a jerk... and to THINK i ALMOST fell for him big time becuase he's so damn cute!
2008-08-06, 17:42:42
anonymous from United States  
has he by chance told you that he was divorced? did he send you a pic of his ex wife.. what was her name???? from Engladn??? OMG
2008-08-06, 18:26:05
anonymous from United States  
Dear OMG: Which was have you been emailing for the lsat month? bassit or yoshi? or both???
2008-08-06, 19:56:28
anonymous from United States  
this guy said he was divorced with sole custofy of his son named mickey who is 7 years old. it sounds like he got around and he carries it off well perhaps to well. has anyone bothered to ck. out his stories? was his wife a drug addict? now i know it's the same guy.
2008-08-07, 04:49:11
anonymous from United States  
Yep.. You are certainly correct! At least it's the same story to me!. Mikey, 7 - ex-wife - addicted to drugs hence the divorce... and needed $2500 in order to complete a transaction to ship bldg goods so he had enough money to leave to come to florida. although after 2 days he was able to find $1500.. now he only needs $1000 and was getting quite peeved becuz I said I dont have it. he vowed to pay it back immediately upon me picking up him at the airport when he moved here with his son and to buy us a big home so we could get married, etc. OMG huh? LOL

j bassit (8/5/2008 6:58:02 PM): how much can you get
j bassit (8/5/2008 6:58:39 PM): let me know what youc an come up with

j bassit (8/5/2008 6:58:54 PM): but you hould be able to come up with something
j bassit (8/5/2008 6:59:01 PM): don't think twice

j bassit (8/5/2008 7:12:25 PM): i never intended to put you in this but right now i ahve no choice..my only delay is $1000,,i told you my flight schedule is for this week so i can pay back at sight at the Airport
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:12:25 PM): i know you have problems with money and especailly giving it out..so i never inteneded to get you into this
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:12:26 PM): that doesnt mean i can't love you or would stop loving you
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:22:45 PM): i would pay you back almost immediately..i can have the koney wired back to you if you need it asap..that if you can't wait till weekend
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:23:44 PM): i am asking for $500 if that would be much more comfortable
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:24:07 PM): i jst want to be able to do this right away
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:24:20 PM): hte bils increase daily
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:24:29 PM): so the more my delay the harder for me
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:25:06 PM): and i know deeply inside that i ahve plans of getting a home for us..
j bassit (8/5/2008 7:27:11 PM): you know i love you beyond resonable doubts

j bassit (8/5/2008 7:30:47 PM):****** is all i care about right now

Does any of this sounds similar to you????? WHAT A DAMN JERK! OMG MAY I ask if you are in FLORIDA as well????
Quite funny that he didn't bothering sending me a message last night since this conversation... and he hasn't missed a day writing me for over a month. same with You????
We have to help each other my friend!!!
2008-08-07, 07:58:26
anonymous from United States  
Hello Charlotte,
I am the same person you get to talk to..i just want you to know the truth before you leave...Right now i am full of bullshit and i feel caught.i just want to you understand that i really fell in love with you sincerely as we spoke especially your approach to life ..i was going to tell you somethings about me personally and All i have been through as a man..My son Mickey is sick he has been diagnosed for cancer of the blood..and his sickness has cost me all that i have..my ex left me to handle our sick son alone..i cam e down here to Africa to meet with some pastors (pastor Chris of Christ Embassy ministries)to see if there can be a healing or miracle on his life..i have sold all i have to pay up for his treatment and he his notgettingg better..mycousinn introduced me tomy spacee and while i was there i got in contact withallott of women ..just before i met you..while talking to them i noticed they liked me and i told my cousin..when the bills came up on me that i had to other for myfurniture'ss and materials from Germany to Africa to sell because i figured out i would get a better price down here.i ran into customproblemss because i couldn'tt clear them all out from the sea port and i became devastated..Mickey had to pay forBil'ss to stay alive..then my cousin suggested i asked the woman onmy spacee for money because he noticed they liked me..i wasn't going to do that on a good day but i needed help so i did asked and since then it has been like that.as mickeys bill rose i became more frustrated and kept asking .secondly i got a job here and i still work round the clock to get money to pay up for his bills..The truth is that i fell in love with you on sight and after talking to you everything changed..i was thinking of telling you the truth right away but i was scared of losing you..i loved you for real..it makes no differencee now because you left me already..ij ust felt you should know the honest truth.Mickey might eventually die and i have loosed you already..i have nothing more left.That's the truth..
Charlotte i just want you to know that of every woman i have met you made a clear differencee.i respect you..i got an email from you alone which proves you are the only one that had an honest love for me in return..but it make no difference now..i screwed up big Time..just because i want Mickey to be safe..and i thank God i wasn't pushed to robbery..i am sorry i know i make you feel bad..i am writing you to know that i would always live to remember you and how sweet our lives would have been if ....

Love you in my heart Always

John Clark Bassit
P...S PLEASE REPLY.. ABUSE ME, LAY A COURSE ON ME..SAY WHATEVER YOU LIKE BUT PEASE WRITE SOMETHING IT WOULD MAKE ME KNOW YOU GOT MY EMAIL AND AT LEAST I LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH..FINALLY I WOULD ALWAYS SMILE TO SEE AN UNREAD MESSAGE FROM YOU



I CALLED HIM ON IT AND THE ABOVE EMAIL IS WHAT I GOT IN REPLY, I HAVE CONTACTED THE MINITRY LISTED ABOVE TO TELL THEM HE IS USING THEM AS A FRONT, HOPEFULLY IF HE IS REALLY IN AFRICA THEY CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. I WANT TO THANK EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU FOR BEING BRAVE ENOUGH TO ADMIT THAT WE ARE ALL VULNERABLE BECAUSE WITHOUT US THERE WOULD BE MORE WOMEN TAKEN IN BY MEN LIKE THIS. THANKS FOR YOUR HONESTY
2008-08-07, 08:28:44
anonymous from United States  
OMG CHARLOTTE:::: Here are just a few of the letters I've received from him! I KNEW HIM WAS A SCAM ARTIST I JUST KNEW IT!!! DAMN HIM DAMN HIM

Hello Baby,
i am sorry i couldnt get online to chat with you this evening..my comp was giving me serious problems so i couldnt log into the yahoo IM..anyway i want you to know that when i say i miss and love you i honestly do..its now impossible for me not to think of you every hour and everyday of my life...you are a part of me now..i don't make plans without including you...Mickey likes you and i think everything would work out fine for us..you are my love and i wish for us to get together Asap..Baby i think i would have serious problems with the customs..i went to them this evening and i learnt my Goods are already in Demurrage..Demurrage is a charge you get when your goods are not cleared 2 days after arriving...i guess they are charging me for demurrage .clearance and security fee..you can imagine that ..i have put in so much into this and it hurts me to still see that its causing me delays maybe i never should have tried this importation...i would get a receipt from the customs today,,so i can know exactly what to do..i am getting confused and frustrated about the whole thing...i would let you know what is at stake when i get back from there office today.i am getting real tired and scared of here.i went to check with the airlines and i think i should be leaving here pretty soon..i would look out for you online much later so wecould chat some more...
Love Always
John
AND ALSO...Dear *****,

'Valuing a relationship is not merely done by seeing each other everyday.. What counts is how much in our busy lives we remember each other.'

Everything you do for me reassures me that I am appreciated. I want you to know that you mean so much to me. from the first day we met, you were determined to get to know me as much as i did. At first, I was skeptical about you because of the fact that you were acting like who was suspicious about me or something, but you quickly grew on me. I want you to know that every moment we’ve spent together(online) since that first day holds a special place in my heart. I was afraid at first that if I let you in I’d regret it, but I haven’t regretted a single moment. I trust you, and I know you’ll be there for me no matter what. I trust that you’ll be faithful to me and that you won’t hurt my heart. You tell me how you want only the best for me. You just make me feel extra special; make me feel a sense of warmth inside. I want you to know that I love you for this! I love you for being so caring and genuine. I love you for everything you’ve done for me. I love you for the happiness and joy you bring to my life. I love you for you! We don’t even need to talk to communicate with each other,we can sense each other’s thoughts and inner feelings. I want you to know that I want the best for you as well. I want you to succeed and I want all your dreams and fantasies to come true. I know that in me you see a man full of kindness, understanding, and compassion. A man with an open-heart. A man who puts a smile on your face everyday. I will be that man who’s there for you just as you’re there for me, the one who encourages you through life’s ups and downs. But ultimately, I want to be the man who is your everything. Not an hour goes by that I don’t think about you. You have brought so much joy to my life and you give me so much to look forward to when I wake up every morning. I want you to know that I sincerely appreciate you and I can never tell you enough that “I LOVE YOU!”



To Be Close To You

I know the miles keep us from touching hands or kissing lips but To Be Close To You is all that i desire.

I know our love is young and the road to interlocking our hearts is long but To Be Close To You is all that i desire.

I know life can be tough and the world we have come from has been hurtful but To Be Close To You is all that i desire.

To hold your hand, To have your arms hold me, To kiss your lips, To Be Close To You is all that i desire.

LOVE, John


CHARLOTTE: we women have to help each other from MEN LIKE THIS! I certainly hope you did not mail him ANYTHING nor do I. Nor did I ever intend to do so. Yes I have money... but not for a man in AFRICA!
should we correspond off of this site to help each other... let men know if you feel comfortable enough. hang in there... just as I am by dear woman friend!
Now its my turn to call him on it!!!! i'll let you know HIS response to ME!
2008-08-07, 08:48:40
anonymous from United States  
Dear Anonymous, the second letter you listed is word for word something he sent to me also, he must keep it on file and send when he thinks he is going in for the kill, no I did not send him any money, I work hard for my money and would never do something like that. The problem is he started talking to me and I am probably one of the most cynical people you will ever meet, as soon as he said he loved me just days after starting these conversations i started looking for information on him and his company and his location. I am glad he did not get you either, just hope other women are smart enough to use the resources available to them to check out men like this.
2008-08-07, 15:42:34
anonymous from United States  
TOUGH TIMES NEVER LAST BUT TOUGHT PEOPLE DO..DON'T DECIEVE WOMEN LIKE YOU..YOU FELL AND WANT OTHERS TO FALL...WELL ONLY DOUBTING THOMAS LIKE YOU NEVER FIND TRUE LOVE...DON.'T DISCOURAGE OTHER WOMEN WITH A GREAT HEART AND LOVING HEART..LOVE COMES ONES AND THE BEST COMES AFTER THE WORSE....TELL THEM HOW YOU NEVER GOT MARRIED BECAUSE YOU ARE NEVER A GOOD LOVER AND YOU NEVER MADE A MAN TAKE HIS PLACE IN YOUR HEART.TELL THEM HOW YOU RASIED YOUR SON ALONE BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T WANT HIS FATHER TO BE A PART OF HIM.YOU ARE A LOSER DON'T DISCOURAGE WINNERS.PLEASE PASTE THIS EMAIL ALSO BECAUSE I CAN ALSO PASTE IT..BECAUSE YOU PROMISED THEM YOU WERE GOING TO PASTE WHATEVER I WROTE NEXT.IF YOU DONT I WOULD SURELY DO IT TRUST ME.
THE MANE YOU FALSEFULLY CALLED A SCAMMER
BYE LOSER


John

If that is really your name, this will be the last email you get from me, but on the off chance that you are telling the truth, i will continue to pray for you and especially Mickey, but I cannot continue to correspond with you, I have to protect myself, I truly feel that God revealed your scam to me so I would not get any further into this racket you have going. I hope if Mickey is really sick he gets the help he needs but I can't do this.
Charlotte



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TO ALL YOU LADIES OUT THERE, I GUESS HE THOUGHT I WOULD NOT POST THIS BECAUSE I WOULD BE EMBARASSED OF THE THINGS HE SAID ABOUT ME. HE DOESN'T HAVE A CLUE, I KNOW WHO I AM AND I AM A GOOD PERSON, HE IS THE LOSER. ALL I AM GOING TO CONTINUE TO DO IS PRAY FOR HIS SOUL BECAUSE THE FIRES OF HELL ARE HOT.
2008-08-08, 04:47:37
anonymous from United States  
i still question the fact he says his son has cancer. doesn't look like an ill child to me. i think this man just wants money period. anyone would be a fool to give it to him. what is wrong with the men in africa. r they really that stupid to think women in america r that stupid to give them whatever they want? wow. i tryied searchign for your profile on myspace - looks liek they already caught up with you cuz you are not there! tell your so called friends on myspace to stop asking women for money. sounds like another nigerian scam - no doubt about that.
count me out john bassit - i wuldn't give you the time of day -
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