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Name: Dexter Swain
Other Comments: claimed his wife died of breast cancer 4years ago, he has a dgtr staying in London with his mom , Chatted online with him said he is working in Ireland as a Oil Ris Spillage engineer and he is based in USA. After few chats onlinem stated he is in Nigeria as he was send there,, that woke me up.. I hav not heard from him anymore as I told him flatly that i dont talk to anyone from Nigeria.
I have received similar information from a one named Dexter Swain with the same email address, email@example.com. we have chatted online. he claimed taht he was a Cuban American, but with time his accent is Nigeria not latino and he forgets that i know how Nigerians talk. Then he started asking me for money to be send to Nigeria where his mom in law is with his daughter. the daughter has to undergo an an operation urgently. he also claims to work in Scotland as an oil spillage Rig Engineer. He says that his wife died of cancer three years ago, his daughter stays with his mom in law who is a missionary in London but now has been send to Nigeria. the picture of his daughter is white, but the last name of his mom in law is Nigerian. that woke me up and I got suspicious.
anonymous from United Kingdom
Some good news for you!!
anonymous from United States
OMG, I've also been contacted by this F**king A...hole, god do they never stop with the scamming? I knew he had to be too good to be true. This is the email I received from him...I AM GOING TO REPORT HIM TO THE SITE I WAS CONTACTED ON...WHAT A PACK OF LIESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
Thanks so much for getting back at me and forwarding your email address to me.I chose to communicate with you here so we can share photos as we get on knowing each other better. You are welcome to my hearty world. I am in search of true love and happiness with the right lady. I desire to shower the real lady with lots of love, respect, loyalty, happiness and care.
A little about me....My names are Dexter Swails from United States of America(Alabama,Montgomery)48years old ,6ft Tall,bald hair,blue eyes and a Christian. I am an Oil Rig/Spillage Engineer to be precise, I really enjoy my job because its always fun although....I was born on September 25th 1960, I am the only child of my parents.....I am a widower, seriously searching for a serious and real lover for a long lasting relationship that will lead into marriage!!My wife died 3 years back and since then i have been single,i am in search for true love with the right woman for the rest of my life. I have a Daughter and her name is Tammy,she is 13years old.She lives with her Grand Mom in London who is a Catholic Missionary,i love my Daughter so much because she is all have got in Life and in this whole world.......
I am an easy going man with lots of respect for a woman because I know what importance they play in our life's either as a mother or as a wife.I am kind, caring, fun-loving and romantic guy that loves getting to know lots of new people. I enjoy going to the pub with friends, meals out, cinema, theater, walks along the beach, cycling and playing/watching different sports.
My achievement with my profession at its peak means nothing to me until I can have someone to share my dreams ,anticipation and all with.My friends say I am humble, understanding, friendly , funny and some just say I am a good friend with a basic understanding and value for true friendship.
My wealth of experience gathered through work trips,it's really a plus to my person and if you don't mind I could share lots about my experience.Life is a great teacher and i think you just might be in a better position to tell me what kind of person I am which I am optimistic would be a positive remark.Spontaneous is a word to describe me.
Work has not provided me the best of life experience although it’s very stressful but the bulk of experience would further assist me in managing my life with that of my special woman.My work is so demanding and have made me traveled to some parts of USA, Mexico, Japan, the UK, Singapore, Germany, and most frequently to Brazil.
I like swimming and exploring nature on the walking trails of the state parks. I love to spend time walking on paths in natural gorges with running water and waterfalls.
I like animals, and i have a Dog lol..
I don't smoke ,drink socially and have a very straight sexual orientation.
I love to go tent camping in the woods. I also love taking a jet ski out on the lake! If I am home. I really do enjoy yard work taking care of the bushes, flowers and cutting the grass, I take pride in my lawn. If I am out on the town during the evenings I like to go to established bars NOT with a rowdy crowd, not trendy, flashy, high dollar new places, someplace where I can go and play some darts or pool. I suck at both, but I enjoy pretending I know how to play and let the women win.
I enjoy watching humor movies, and when it comes to music, i prefer to listen to r&b.My favorite romantic activity is any outdoor romance.
Please feel invited to say anything, to share your intentions, your objectives in detail as much as you feel fit doing.
If you've got an Instant Messenger,you may add me so we may chat online sometimes too...Love knows no bounds but what you put in is what you get out of any venture in life..Hope to hear from you soon.
DISTANCE IS NEVER AN ISSUE,WE CAN BOTH WORK THINGS OUT TOGETHER IF WE FIND THE CLICK BETWEEN US.
Am a very easy going person,love to work hard and take risks.I love giving to the less privilege ones.I sometimes get carried away with social activities but am quick to correct myself.I lost my wife 3years ago after she died of breast cancer,been lonely all this while and have kept alot to my self.Only just opened up my heart to love again and thats why i joined a dating service.You will know more about me when we get talking.Generally am looking for someone that is ready to love,am not looking for an internet mate or a friend i want to have a happy family and am looking for that special woman.
Oh and here is another guy who is a scammer he goes by the name john frank one minute he is in atlanta georgia then ghana with a son who has an accident needs money then he losses his passport an luggage an his business is failing always asking for money .. oh an he falls inlove with you within a week .. from Shelly Queensland Australia
He told me the same story about having a son and shipping cars into Ghana..he lost his luggage and needed money to complete his business in Ghana.
He stated that he was coming back to America to meet me .. I played along with the game until he asked me for my bank account information.. He is good I must admit. He was on top of the questions and answered them well.. I knew he was a scammer just because I live in the USA don't mean I am desperate.
Thank God, I was on top of the game..Because he was really a good scammer...I tormented this guy so bad that he asked me to please stop sending him messages.
I cursed him like a sailor and threaten to kick his ass and send him to hell
anonymous from Perth Amboy, United States
OH MY GOD I DONT BELIEVE IT IWAS ALMOST HAD BY THIS CON ARTIST ..OH HE IS SMOOTH ..OR SO HE THOUGHT THAANK GOD I WAS LOOKING UP THE DEFINITION OF SPILLAGE ENGINEER ...I THOUGHT HE SOUNDED TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE I'VE ONLY BEEN TALKING TO HIM FOR LESS THAN A WEEK...I LOVE THIS SITE KEEP IT UP.HE COULD'NT GET MONEY FROM ME ANYWAY..NEVER GIVE MEN MONEY ....MOVE ON DEXTER SWAIN...
I met this guy in Shaadi.com, posing as Eric Cottrell. A week after corresponding, I already sensed something is really wrong. He really sounded too good to be true. I copy pasted some of his lines and searched for it in google. I got exactly the same letter posted here. I reported him to Shaadi.com.
By the way, I met the guy on the site of Afro Romance...same old story...
I think he is acting all over the globe: USA, Germany, UK, Autralia...just hope
he will give up....