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Dating scammer Mike Connor


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A really smooth scammer using a picture of a really gorgeous man. Though smooth and maybe gorgeous, not really the brains of his operation apparently.

'How are u doing..i am planning my way back to the state right now..i know u don't want to talk to me anymore but i want to come and see u finally and talk to you,i need ur understand,baby i am in sme little problem with my BTA fees right now baby meaning if BTA(basic travel allowance)baby i need to pay the money to the airport before i can leave Nigeria Friday and they are charging me for 900$ baby ..also i have finish with my late father funds here in Nigeria and the money we are talking abt here is 1.5m$ here in banco gulf bank here in Nigeria..i will be transferring the money to my private account in the state..BANK OF AMERICA but i need to be home to do clearance bfr the funds we be release to me in america..that why i am down right please help me i need ur to help me with 900$ baby please baby please i am going to pay u back saturday when i get home,i love u so much and i need ur help me..please call me if u can ...or drop me ur mobile # i will call you and explain to you better baby please i know u are nt happy with me..but please allow me home to you and speak to you in ur face ..i love u and i will never stop loving you....i am waiting for ur mobile my wife..please don't give up in me...u are the best..i wish u have a soft heart for me...'

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2009-06-19, 09:05:23
anonymous from United States  
Ok, this is just REDICULOUS. I had met Mike Connor on a dating website and he told me the same thing. That he was from Virgina Beach and currently down in Nigeria to attend his late father's funeral and sell his property. He also sent me pictures and all. This is just insane. LADIES BEWARE OF MIKE CONNOR.
2009-06-29, 12:24:48
anonymous from United States  
This scam is also showing up on Black Today it has a boxer on it.
Trying to encourage people to e-mail at lonelyman 1147.
2009-07-08, 19:54:05
Oh, Ladies...Mr Mike is at it again. He sent me a message on Black Christian People asking me to email him at the lonelyman email because someone had hacked into his profile on BCPM and he was having it taken off the website. He is a smooth taker and tries to have you give up your heart and soul by the end of the first conversation. He also wants to hear your voice so he asks you to call him, but if you refuse then he asks for your number and makes a big deal about calling you from Nigeria...and if you look at the number it's looks international...He has a heavy accent and you can't understand nothing he says...He's all about the I Love yous...He seems really interested in talking to you..he calls once or twice a day...for maybe a 2 minute conversation....I'm just glad I decided to google him before anything else could happen..
2009-07-12, 13:52:10
anonymous from United States  
These comments were very helpful. I just 'met' Mike on and after receiving this very intense email from Mike about his father dying in Nigeria, etc. I thought I should Google him.

I am soooooo glad I did. Although I did respond and sent my number. I know not to let this go any further.

Beware ladies....too good to be true...he usually is.

2009-07-16, 21:07:10
anonymous from United States  
Well, well, well...Mr. Mike Connor is a very busy man. I just started talking to him last week and he's already proposed marriage as soon as he gets back from Nigeria...I found it a bit odd when his language in his emails was very broken and how much I was the one he had been looking for, etc., etc., etc...He obviously hasn't learned his lesson because he's back on as just so happened to put his name in as a friend request on facebook and found this link...
2009-07-28, 10:28:25
anonymous from United States  
I was contacted by 'lonelyman1147' on He then contacted me via my private email, using '' He kept calling me 'Queen' and baby, never addressing me by my real name. He gave me the story about his father dying and his need to settle his estate in Nigeria although he himself claimed to be from the United States. I was highly amused by his marriage proposals and requests that I relocate and I made a bet with a friend on how long it would take him to ask me for money. Then one day he made the mistake of confusing me with someone else and I blasted him via email. His next mistake came when he finally asked me for a six figure sum to help him release his father's estate so that he could have access as well as his promises to reimburse me for any aid I could give him. What a riot. Needless to say, I really let him have it. I wish someone could find this guy and really work him over. He is so ridiculous that it is insulting.
2009-07-29, 08:31:08   (updated: 2009-07-29, 08:46:00)
anonymous from United States  
I was contacted by this person or someone like him. He went by the name Cole Williams on He said to be a businessman who was stationed in Nigeria. He said that he was a widower with 2 kids. He talked a lot about his kids and the business that he was in. He was heavely accented but you can understand hmi. He gave me his personal e-mail address and a international cell phone number. We spoke almost every day. He quickly got involved in conversations on love and how lonley he was. He even got into conversations about returning home. His business was having problems and needed help to help finished the project before he could come home. then he talked about the airport scam..where he was there in the airprot stuck because he had too much luggage and need money to pay for the overload. I was not as fourtunate as most people was. i was scammed. Ii fell for what he was saying. He promised to pay this money back when he returned home..which he said that he lived in Anniston, Alabama. He was a smooth talker and he had a answer for everything. He said thinngs like 'u are a gift from God to me', 'da wont let me leave tis country without paying for the clearence on my luggage.' as i said before he got to me. I think that the fact we were both widowers made this more possible for him. He played on the fact that i was lonely. We started with conversations on the fact that we were both lonely. So ladies be ware. Im having to pay back thousands of dollars to my credit card company.
2009-08-23, 00:32:37
anonymous from United States  
He went by Shielufatai on
2009-08-23, 00:43:09   (updated: 2009-08-23, 00:54:12)
He went by Shielu Fatai on BBBM. If it's not him, I hope who ever he is will find him and kick his black behind. Here's the scammer's cell # (NOTE;HERE IS MY CELL IN NIGERIA.0112348053759821 MY CELL IN THE STATE IS OFF FOR NOW..CALL ME WHEN U ARE FREE.ALSO YOU NEED INTERNATIONAL CALLING CARD BEFORE YOU CAN CALL MY CELL HERE ...HERE IS THE CELL # AGAIN 0112348053759821. ) Call him and let him know what's on you mind ladies! I shot him a couple of nasty emails. I can't seem to upload his picture but go to facebook and type in Shielu fatai, you'll see him. Since I've to his picture and his cell #, maybe he should send me money!
2009-10-12, 06:52:28
anonymous from United States  
OMG, thank yall for posting your information about this scam artist from Nigeria...he is still using the same story, burying late father, settling estate, widower, daughter with grandmother in MIA, call me on my Nigerian cell 0112348053759821. This time he goes by the name of Gerald Darren - reach him at He is back on the seen at He has even taken his site down...I thought he was just nervous at first with the broken emails but to send it again and pouring the love thing on thick made me stop to do some research. The picture he keeps attaching is of a radio personaility named Albert Butler or Al B! ~ just shamful I ca't believe this guy is still at it...glad it only went to two emails and no money was involved. Thanks for putting this guy on blast!
2009-11-26, 21:33:02
This guy is going by the name of Andrew Gerald Connor now, I have a passport information with a picture of him or who ever, bank account information, 2 different address information and some more current pictures of him or who ever, he contacted me off of end of last month. He said his father passed in May-09, he is very very smooth. This Nigeria number apparently can be turned off and on, I see where others have used this same number, a lady's voice said this number is no longer a working number as of this week.

Quote...He was using Faithislove12 on this web site, as a 41 year old lonely widower then after he contacted me on he started using, he said his password was Jesus1, it does not work, He used an international calling card so he say's (513) 322-0004 is the number that showed up in my caller ID, it rings he also gave me this international number 011234805379821-Nigeria 6 hours ahead of (est), he also gave me a cell phone number (703) 961-1077 it is disconnected, I asked him why I could not leave a message on this line he said it does not work in Nigeria, but it was disconnected. This is the first contact letter he sent to me. Agent 86 Maxwell Smart please contact me, I have information for you, but I do not know how to get it to you. Can you leave me a message on this web site...quote

Quote...I am Andrew Connor from Virginia Beach VA, here is a little about me ,i have a daughter name Tracy she is 13th year of age I on to seek for my soul mate, after the death of my wife since about 6 years past now...... I Like going to the Beach with my woman to Make her happy and talk romantic on the beach hold each other hands together and walk up and down the street to make her proud....

The most important qualities i seek in my ideal woman is Honesty,i really cherish honesty so much in a relationship,and also reliable,loving and caring woman. Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end.' and also i believe The seed of greatness in a man begins to blossom when the right woman is there to water it. Life is a journey of experience's, and in this journey we meet many people each day. Some we forget the next moment, BUT some we cherish throughout ou lives. It is these people who give a 'true meaning' to our lives. 2 deep is a revelation, It is the understanding that there are 2 parts of every woman, the physical and the mental...all men see her physical beauty, but to really know a woman, he must know her mentally,which includes her spiritual and emotional presence, without finding her whole person, he falls short of completing himself and finding his better half. You have all what i want in a woman.......i thank the moment i meet you and i thank blackbabyboomermeet for bringing you to me.

I will take you to be my baby, and will forever be my baby.Please never give up, always have faith in yourself and you will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love you righteously deserve. I am in Nigeria now for the funeral of my late father, i will be coming back home after the funeral. My mothers lived in FL Miami since the divorced of she and my father, my father an African man from Nigeria , but my mother is White from Miami, i have spent must of my time in Nigeria learning my father tribe many years back i have been staying in Virginia beach now for over 12 years, i am the full owner of the house i stay. I am down here now to sell all is properties and his house before i get back home to start a fresh life. That was why i contacted you, i do pray to God that you are that woman who will always be by me for better and for worse. I WANT YOU IN MY LIFE. tell me more about your self....Quote


2009-11-28, 19:44:39
This is an e-mail from Mike Connor (AKA) Andrew Gerald Connor, Shielu Fatai, Gerald Darren, the scammer is very very smooth and he acts like he cares, but he really does not. Read below

Hi Sweety

Baby thank you so much for your wounder note,yes i like the cold wealther You're always lighting up my heart with the things you do and say. I feel so happy just being with you this way. You're my baby, and will forever be my baby. You will always be the love of my life, and please never give up, always have faith in yourself and you will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love you righteously deserve. Every time I think of you my heart misses a beat. You're my theme or a dream! Every moment we share together we grow closer.

I love you with all that I am Bonnie, all that I was and all that I will ever be. Please know that my love and I are inseparable and I would want it no other way and if time could express my love for you then it's forever and a day. I can't wait to be with you, see your smile, look in your eyes, feel your sweet touch, hear your perfect words and kiss your perfect lips. The way I feel about you some people call crazy, some call it insane, but I call it true love. I really love you.

Love always

Your Andrew
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