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A really smooth scammer using a picture of a really gorgeous man. Though smooth and maybe gorgeous, not really the brains of his operation apparently.

'How are u doing..i am planning my way back to the state right now..i know u don't want to talk to me anymore but i want to come and see u finally and talk to you,i need ur understand,baby i am in sme little problem with my BTA fees right now baby meaning if BTA(basic travel allowance)baby i need to pay the money to the airport before i can leave Nigeria Friday and they are charging me for 900$ baby ..also i have finish with my late father funds here in Nigeria and the money we are talking abt here is 1.5m$ here in banco gulf bank here in Nigeria..i will be transferring the money to my private account in the state..BANK OF AMERICA but i need to be home to do clearance bfr the funds we be release to me in america..that why i am down right please help me i need ur to help me with 900$ baby please baby please i am going to pay u back saturday when i get home,i love u so much and i need ur help me..please call me if u can ...or drop me ur mobile # i will call you and explain to you better baby please i know u are nt happy with me..but please allow me home to you and speak to you in ur face ..i love u and i will never stop loving you....i am waiting for ur mobile my wife..please don't give up in me...u are the best..i wish u have a soft heart for me...'

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2014-07-24, 18:19:39
Hello ladies! Satan is back! He is online again at The username he is using now is pbfbmatyahoo and his email addresses are & He is still using the same pictures and the same e-mails from before. However, his name is Anthony Lawrence now and the phone numbers have changed. The cell phone number is 786-408-3572 & the home phone number is 757-905-8192. Surprisingly, he is still using the same lame Bank of America debit card and the same lame story about going to Ghana. He supposedly got this big contract worth $780K. He arrived in Ghana on today 07-24-14 and he needs $200 because his debit card isn't working, the bank put his funds on hold for three days and he needs the money for food. He can't call his 'mum' because she's old and doesn't have any money. He supposedly takes care of her. What a joke. He has a daughter named Kelly, she is 16 years old and he is mix race. His father is African American and his mother is Spanish America. He sent me the same lame so-called 'love letters/emails' everyday for '7 days' and he professed his unconditional love for me! I am the one he has been praying for all these years. His wife supposedly died from cancer and he has been single for three years. Yeah right. A man who looks like that is not going to be single for three years! I'm just saying. Highly unlikely! Needless to say, this lying jerk did not get any money from me! And he begged for hours! Lmao! The joke is on you Satan! My God sees all and knows all! This stupid guy will get what's coming to him. I know that without a shadow of a doubt! Any man who tells you he is 'in love with you' and he has never met you in person, is a sure 'RED FLAG'! Then he had the audacity to ask me for money! This fool had truly lost his mind! I was like no! Lmao! I text him and told him that I found 'ALL OF HIS SCAMS' online and he never texted me back! What a 'L-O-S-E-R!' You have to be pretty desperate and pathetic to go online and trick women into falling in love with you! And this guy is the poster boy! Words of advice.....'DON'T GIVE THIS MAN ANY MONEY' & Please do not fall for the so-called love letters! He is smooth and extremely dumb at the same time! I lost 7 days of my life that I will never get back! And that's ok! 'IT DID NOT COST ME ANYTHING!' LMAO!
2014-07-27, 19:30:46
Anthony (Tony) Lawrence is his name now!!! Got this from him after I reached out to him through his email on blackpeoplemeet

How are you doing ? Thank you for understanding the code and
responding to my personal email address i am new to online dating it
was even my daughter that help me set up my profile page,My names are
Anthony Lawrence,I am widower as you see in my profile,I have one
daughter she is 16th years old her name is Kelly we reside in Virginia
Beach, I am on the dating website seeking for my soul mate i have been
single for three years now,I was Married for 17 years it hurt so bad
for you to lost someone you love,life is such a gift,I'm Self-Employed
(I'm into Oil And Gas) I'm open for a long distance relationship i
have been through it before with my late wife so i can do it. My late
wife pass away by cancer it was very painful but such is life,I lost
my dad few year back, He was in the United State Army i am the only
child of my parent, My Birthday is April 19th 1966,I have an accent
when I speak ( I was brought up by my father , I was born in Miami 6
years after my dad was transfer to Jamaica ,we stayed there for 13
years,My mother is Spanish America she reside in Miami Gosh she love
Miami why my father is African America,I'm a mix race.Anything else
you want to know will fall as follow as we get to know one
another.tell me more about your self,I am going to place my profile
page on hold,so that i can concentrate on getting to know you, I will
send you some pictures and write more when I hear from you you seem
like a real woman.

Your New Friend


And got this this morning after I email him this morning and I looked up the number because he came on too strong for us only emailing each other once and we had never even spoken with each other at all!!!! Was creepy to me!!!

How are you doing? Thank you so much for your letter and for
introducing your self in such manner, I must confess that you are the
kind of woman i was praying to meet , Don't allow distance to be any
problem,all i am seeking is love and honest for us to build our
relationship strong and reliable.Relationship is not all about sex,it
about love,trust,commitment and happiness if both of us can share this
great bond of love together we make out something good in future ,Well
I can see and understand what you meant, Am sorry if you think I am
too fast . But if you know what i feel inside me, you will give me the
go ahead.I like shopping,romantic Comedies,dinner,Am very straight
forward person,I don't like liars,thief's fighting and yelling ,my
favorite color is red,I want someone that have good sense of humor.I
feel God have brought you and I together,I am not wanting or looking
for just any woman to have sex with don't get me wrong,I love sex but
I need someone that GOD have made for me ,that we last for ever I love
swimming and shopping but have not done any of all that in a while
because i hate doing it along.I like cars,I have a red BMW Sport ,it a
nice car Love it,I am thinking of acquiring a Mercedes Benz by the
will of God,I do go to church every Sunday I play guitar,I like
keeping my affair to my self,don't like sharing secret and personal
affair between me and my woman outside to friends.What i do is that i
buy and sell transformer that is use to generate raw crude oil into
variation of place like gas,fuel,petroleum ,kerosene,gasoline and
allot more.regarding the distance question you ask,She was in
Akron,Ohio and i was in Miami,we dated for 6month travel back and
front before we decided to move down to Virginia Beach.

You are so different, you are the kind I have been praying for all
this years baby, since the death of me late wife,I have not been a man
enough to look for another love. But now is the time and the season to
make my self happy and a woman like you happy.I have a lot which I
will like you to know about me, have enough which I will want a woman
like you to enjoy with me and for my family to embrace you as their
own,because there is this spirit in me that tells me when a woman is
fit for me. You may not understand what i mean, but with time i
believe you will see it all.I cant wait to meet you baby. I am 100%
sincere and want to have you in my life,my cell phone is (786)
408-3572 you can call me anytime or send a text message ,don't forget
to respond to this message.I will send couple of pictures in my next
email when i hear from you.

Take Care


I sent him a email after I looked on this site telling him all women are not NIEAVE and WEAK TO GOOD LOOKS THAT THEY WILL BELIEVE ANYTHING AND ATTACHED ALL THE NAMES AND PICTURES TO THE EMAIL!!! I am sure I will not be getting an email from him again.

2014-07-28, 16:15:12
Same guy that just tried to seduce me with the same stories. He used the pics with the little girl. shame for posting pics of someones innocent child!! This is just so wrong! His new story was he lives in LA and has a gemstone business. Born In Washington DC. sent back to Jamaica for schooling. Mother deserted him and his father. Says daughter is 8 living in VA with her maternal grandparents. Says he is a widower. When I called him out on it he of course got and tried to turn it around on me and hung up. He never got around to asking me for money. I only talked to him for 5 days and the red flags went crazy!!!
Please ladies do your due diligence and if your gut instincts send you warnings PLEASE listen!! I did. He has a Nigerian accent. I know this because I am familiar with it as I have friends with that accent.
I met him on
The phone# he is using is 323-515-7592 It is an Los Angeles prefix.

I will copy some of his emails to me for reference sake.

>> Well let me tell you a little more about me, i was born in Washington DC, I had to write you and tell you more about me so that you can read and we talk over it. I was born in Washington DC, i am 44 years old now, born on the 5th day of march.... I was 10 when my Dad sent me to Jamaica for schooling because he wanted me to get use to the norms as He was originally from there. My father was from Portland Parish Jamaica and my mother from Miami. I schooled in Jamaica and did my masters in England and when i was through with schooling my dad had moved to La so i joined him to practice His trade until now when i lost him. I am the only child of my father, as i know, but my father use to tell me he has another Jamaican woman with 2 kids, i didn't happen to meet any of them before i lost him, he was my best friend and a mentor. My mom left us when my Dad was passing through hard times before he stated this business, years back, but we thank God every
> thing came back to normal and she wanted to come back, but my Dad did not allow that, that was the first lesson i learnt in marriage, never let a woman who can not suffer with you in bitter time, enjoy your good times, when things happen to get better. Well as i understand she is married to a man in Houston now. My daughter is still very young and she is currently in VA with my late wife's parent....she really miss that part of mom in her life, that is why i need an honest and trust worthy woman to live with forever... I have not dated no other woman or even had sex since i lost my wife, i just thought of moving on with life because life is empty without love.... Tell me about you, your favorite color, food and what you like doing when you lonely? I want to settle down, because since the death of my wife i have not dated any woman, but now i just thought of moving on with life, because life without love is like a harp without string. What i seek in my
> ideal woman, is not just beauty but, how sincere she can be, and how much we can compliment one and other. I Hope i don't scare you and you will keep in touch?
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On Tuesday, July 22, 2014 8:40 AM, Eric A. H <> wrote:
> I really appreciate your sincere response, and for telling me this much about you. Really sorry about last night I had some investors meeting with me. To be honest with you, i really want to meet a good woman, some one nice to start a new life with afresh. I want to meet a kind heart woman, some one i can trust because of her honesty and also her sincerity. A woman that is worthy to be a true friend and have the fear of God in her life, a woman that to understand our self wont be a problem. you know to understand a woman it is very important to know the two part of that woman which is the mental and the physical, virtually all men see the the physical beauty of a woman even though that draws attention, but if you must really know a good woman you must have to know her mentally and that includes her spiritual and emotional presence. without finding her whole person that man is definitely going to fall short of completing himself and finding the better
> half. As for me, I don't really look at that physical beauty of a woman but that inward nature because that is what makes a person...All I need is that woman that is ready to be that true friend, a best friend and a soul mate not a pretender nor a deceiver..... I hope to get a positive response from you.
> Eric

On Wednesday, July 23, 2014 4:38 PM, Eric A. H <> wrote:

Thanks for the picture I really love them you cute and you have a cute family too, though you need a formal introduction lol... Some thing tells me you are a very serious and honest person, Life is one big important thing that we all need to be very serious with, i am very, very serious with mine and the things that are of paramount importance to me. God's been number one and He's been the most important one in my life for without God life would have been meaningless, secondly family is important and there is one piece of that family unit missing and that had created a void in my life that unit is a wife, i am seeking a woman that we can be happy together, some one that can be a true friend, a best friend and a soul mate. I have prayed to God for that and i know there is a miracle waiting for me.... Hope am not scaring you now.. all i need is your sincere response... Attached are some of my pictures <image.jpeg>



The last one is me and my daughter Her name is Cherish


On Jul 26, 2014, at 8:50 AM, Eric A.H <> wrote:

I am glad you had a good rest, You where on my mind all through the night. Susie If there was a thing i could give to you, it would be the ability for you to see yourself as others see you, then you would realize what a truly special person you are. To be sincere with you, I believe i have the right words to make you feel better, the right arms to give you a hug, ears to listen to whatever you want to talk about, and I have a heart; a heart that's aching to be your true friend. You attract people by the qualities you display. You keep them by the qualities you posses. The best thing about loving and being hurt is that you get to know what true love really is. For as gold is tested in fire so will love be perfected in pain. When we get hurt we need to keep on with life. No matter how undesirable you may think you are that special person that loves you believes you are the most beautiful irresistible person on earth. Love is not about finding the right person but creating a right relationship. Its not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you been able to build till the end.... I really want to be there for you


2014-07-28, 16:15:59
anonymous from United States  

2014-09-12, 20:43:44   (updated: 2014-09-12, 20:45:54)
anonymous from United States  
He is still at it on black people luckily I was not nvested in it and knew it was fake.....if you gonna claim to have lived in Jamaica get the accent right!!!!! Feel very sorry for Mr Butler whose life and likeness has been used by this sorry pathetic scam artist.
2014-10-02, 20:02:00
anonymous from United States  
I hope to all god that he get what he looking for and finds himself in jail for the rest of his life . how can they take advantage of people like that.dont the have family how would they feel if it happen to them .but guess what god dose not sleep he see all and one day you will pay for all the wong you have done to people
2014-10-04, 02:13:47
anonymous from United States  
Were ever you are and whatever name your using you only have one face and someone will catch up with you. You have not heart or regards for anyone you take advantage of all people but before long you will get what comming you profess to be a Christian and a honest man where is it you have a heart of stone and have no idea how to love someone but god is watching you and you will pay for your crimes
2014-10-04, 02:37:28
anonymous from United States  
When is he going to stop. He will stop when someone gives him the beating of his life .I wonder if he was hurt so badly by a woman the he decided to take revenge of sll others woman that why he doing this. Is he heart made of stone. Do he have any feelings or love for any one.let me say this god see all and you will pay for all the hurt that you have done to people. You need to stop.
2014-11-19, 05:40:32   (updated: 2014-11-19, 05:48:56)
anonymous from United States  
Now he's Charles Edward from Virginia Beach, VA. Same story as before but now hes on so now his approach is towards christian women. I have included several pics and a copy of my latest letter as my previous have matched yours posted.
Hello My Queen

  How are you doing? Thank you for your beautiful email ,I miss you
,thought about last night , baby In life, we receive a wonderful
opportunity, and that is to love. Love comes in many forms. You love
people in different ways and for different reasons, depending upon how
they have touched your life. Love is a very powerful word and can
describe a multitude of feelings, but its main context carries the
same meaning. I must confess to you that since i met you i have not
been myself,you sounds great and sound sincere, you are really the
kind of woman i was searching and praying for, i will want us to work
a good and serious relationship for our self and to always make each
other happy.Because i believe God has reason for making us to meet
each other this way.

Baby i said a Prayer for us this morning: Lord, you are in control.
You don't make mistakes and are omni -present. You are the alpha and
the omega and creator of all things. I pray that you bless my cutie
pie and his family and that you bless me and my family and that
neither of us lean on our own understanding.  Let us see your plan for
our lives.  let our friendship grow if it is your will.  Let it be
spiritual and worthy of your blessing,Lord,we come together as husband
and wife to give you thanks and praise,for you are worthy, we thank
you for  your continued blessings on us,our families and  our
communities,show us thy ways,bring us  closer to you, oh lord bestow
on us your wisdom,  grace and peace guide and lead us,oh Lord for we
humble ourselves before you,In Jesus name I pray, AMEN. BABY may this
add a blessing to  your day.

Here is a bible verse for you: Phil. 4:6- don't worry about anything,
instead pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him
for all he has done.

Your Baby

2014-11-19, 05:41:42
anonymous from United States  

2014-11-19, 05:42:07
anonymous from United States  

2014-11-19, 05:42:37
anonymous from United States  

2014-11-19, 05:49:28
anonymous from United States  

2014-12-22, 08:40:25
anonymous from United States  
This fraud is now using the name of Tony Butler and is on He is using the phone number of 775-586-5526. The story is the same just the name has changed. Be very aware this guy is NOT the real deal.
2015-01-12, 09:17:34
anonymous from United States  
He is calling himself Mike Hill now!

  How are you doing? I hope that everything is good and stable,I do understand the content of your email and I need for you to see that we can a beautiful life together ,I am very serious about LIFE and the things that are important to me.firstly GOD is the most important one in my life for without life would have no meaning! Secondly, family is important, and I have one piece of that family that I'm missing - that is a WIFE. I am seeking to make someone very happy - to enthrone  her as my very QUEEN!!I am on the dating web searching for love,that we last for better for worse,I trust LOVE is so POWERFUL because it is God's most  distinguishing characteristic,LOVE is the greatest of the fruits of spirit - even greater than joy, peace, long-suffering,kindness, goodness, faith, mildness, and self-control.I send you several pictures of me.

  Further more Don't get me wrong i am taken thing slow, my mother was the one who told me about the dating website,she said her girl friend son,just meant a nice lovely woman from the website and they about to get married and my daughter helped me set it i am talking to you which give me butterfly in my stomach.Right from the moment I came across you from the dating website,My heart have been pounding I felt a very great connection between you and I,Your profile page was so simple for me to understand and the potential you process is what I am seeking for in a woman (smile)So don't misunderstand my letters to you.just pouring down my heart,I am not needing you to start calling me baby or love,if you don't sense or feel it inside your heart  when the right time comes i will be pleased to hear it from you.I hope that I do make things clear to you,I have this culture in me on how to treat a woman like a Queen,Don't double date outside my marriage home ,To me it forbidden ,I respect my woman to the fullest and also believe every relationship should be 100% 100% independent ,There is something about you that is driving me crazy,I ask my self several time , what is this beautiful Queen doing to me ? I never believe in my wildest dream that i will find a someone online everything is possible.Have you had the word love at first sight ? If you do ,you understand where my feeling are coming from ,Thank you for understanding.

Your Man


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