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Name: Ben Fischer Ridwan


18 M bari street owerri, Immo state 23483 Nigeria
phone #: +234-703-919-6208

asking money on those infos: Dr Mrs Elizabeth Eze
#4 uratta street, ptt Quaters, portharcourt Road, Owerri, Nigeria

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is someone received this photo from a dating site MuslimMarriage?, said he is german, and he is an angineer in roads and bridge in nigeria.
but i think she is a woman from nigeria, because the voice don't match with the man photo, i really fell in love with the guy on this picture and his country (Germany), and i'm sure he is not the real scammer, poor man!, i'm sure he is a victim and i really feel sorry for him and for me, because myself i send photos and now i hope the scammer will not use them to scamm another men.

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2009-04-27, 20:56:34
anonymous from United States  
Here are Jeff's emails to me.....

It is Sunday, I have been in a serious prayer with tears in my eyes as I write to you. It has been a terrible period and nightmare for us this few weeks, I think it's enough. I can't stop imagining the kind of stress I have lead you to, I really feel ashamed of myself. Deep inside your heart, you must be mad at me, I will not blame you for that, you are a woman, every man's dream. One thing I need you to understand is that whatever time brings, you remain my only love, I will cherish and treasure you so much. I will always be there for you . I am making arrangements to write and seek for your hand in marriage, she will call you up at the right time.

I've always felt there are two basic kinds of people, the givers and the takers. The givers are often taken advantage of and devalued but the givers are the ones who shape lives and hearts and make this earth a better place. The takers take and use to get what they want and to achieve what they feel is success. They may reach the top of the ladder they choose to climb but they are shallow and soon forgotten. Lovers, givers are unforgettable and their memory is carried forever in the hearts they have left their footprints on. Even with the suffering it sometimes brings, I'd rather be used than a user, rather give than take. Rather take all the risks for love. If you are living in fear you will never trust. They are emotional opposites and it's impossible to embrace them both fully at one time. So the first step is to decide which one you really want in your life and which one you are damn sick and tired of.

I don't want to believe the Lawyer, Nigerian government or Mr Brian is taking advantage of us because we were able to raise all the charges they have asked for, I don't want to believe I am being used. I spoke to Mr Smith and Brian so harsh lately. Smith has insisted I pay him or get the sum deposited to his account in Nigeria before he will deliver a situation report because I lead him to flewing to Cyprus. He used his influence as a diplomat to make sure the documents are safe. He told me you insisted he brings the package back to me, I will have to raise the sum in total he is requesting for both the flight and hotels bills. It is totalling at $5200.00USD. Get me this loan and I will not bother you again as I will have to fly back home with my passport when he comes back. I don't want to fight with you.......!!!!!!

What makes a man is over coming difficulties and hard times. Being an orphan has been on thing I regret about my life but the fact that you stand solidly behind me has given me all the courage and hope I ever wanted, you will not regret having me as a partner or meeting me in life. I took up the job at the stadium to at least be helpful, Leaving all my problems for an innocent woman with lots of loads / other responsibilities.........It hurts me. Be rest assured that I will make it up to you someday. God is with us.

Don't call Mr. Smith anymore, lets deal it from here since you insisted the package is being sent back to me.

I feel so frustrated and wished you are here to cuddle me, wished I can hold hands with you, talk to you about all my worries and make passionate love to you.
Hugs and kisses!


I talked to the Attorney this morning about a written note from him stating the legality of the charges to secure the duplicate documents he answered me positively. He added 'You can still get a police report later or certificate to confirm the scene if you want to' That was his statement to me but the issue right now is he is not in the same state or city with me right now, He traveled to the Federal Capital Territory, Abuja for a meeting and I have no way to do down there as the flight ticket it's expensive compared to my daily living now, I can't afford it.

He said if I can be able to raise the charges required to secure those documents, he will get them right there in Abuja before he comes back......The Police are all over the city now because of the daily stories and acts here (Robbery and kidnap) Do you hear all this on the news? Read CNN NEWS!

I don't feel safe here and will never dream or think of coming to Nigeria again.

You don't have to feel sorry for me, You need to know everything to clear the doubt.

Love from the dept of my heart...Can you hear my heart calling you?

Hugs and kisses!

2009-04-29, 09:48:41
anonymous from United States  
Recieved from Jeff yesterday: Jeff Samuel []

Yes, I am in Nigeria but not in Owerri.

I am in Abuja right now.

Call me whatever you like but I will not buy the idea of posting my name on those websites or offering me to someone else, How will you feel if I do the same to you?

Why can't you wait a little more to see me at least even if you don't want me for a partner anymore. You brought me back here, all your nagging and stupidity caused me all this pain I am going through.

I will write later.
Have a lovely day.

2009-06-12, 20:20:22
anonymous from United States  
Jeff's address in Abuja
22 Ozumba Mbadiwe Crescent, Maitama
Abuja, Nigeria

He is very dangerous.

I got his Ireland address checked by the post office.
It is a fake address.
2009-07-12, 06:41:03
anonymous from United States  
This is the details Jeff Samuel gave me to send money on:
Bank Name: FIN BANK
Account Number: 329440000009302
Account Name: Chukwezi Okechukwu
Correspondence Bank Account.
United Bank Of Africa
Address: 40 East 52nd Street, New York, NY 10022
Swift Code: UNAFUS33
Account Name: First Inland Bank Plc
Account Number: 68188151


Bank Name: FIN BANK
Account Number: 329440000009302
Account Name: Chukwezi Okechukwu
Correspondent Bank: Citi Bank
Address: 111 Wall Street, New York, USA
Swift Code: CITIUS33
Account Name: First Inland Bank Plc
Account Number: 36147178

The address he gave me is this:
Plot 1, Federal Housing Estate, Egbu Road. Owerri

Please catch this man. I have deposited $6200 for Jeff on the name of Chukwezi Okechukwu.
2009-07-12, 06:44:01
anonymous from United States  
These are the same words I received from Jeff Samuel.
He says he is in London now. Most likely he is using different id.
He was angry with me to expose him. I know he is out there cheating other victims.
2009-07-16, 16:21:05
anonymous from United States  
Jeff Samuel writes to me asking 3000 pounds now. He tells me that he is in London now. He demands I should send him money at the address below:

Jeff Oniel Samuel
15 Arica Rd, Brockley
London SE4 2PY
2009-07-28, 01:34:39
Of course it is a scammer. Check out the bad grammar and the insults. If you were really scammed you wouldnt be looking for the guy in the pic wanting to marry a total stranger. You would have to be a complete idiot or scammer but I am going to go with both.
2009-07-28, 23:25:49
Ben Fischer is Adbul Raman...... I'm so drained... and broken
2009-08-09, 20:31:44
anonymous from United States  
Jeff once told me that he is Houston. I went there at the address. He was not there....

Here is his email

have wrong you my love for keeping you waiting up till this time, I should have met you long time ago if not for the idea of confirming the transfer of my contract payment which is taking all my time and sweat out there in Nigeria but see what it lead me to, I might lose that huge sum if care is not taken, It is affecting me already, I am messed up already with the whole thing I have taken a bold step to let it go.

My Blood pressure was too high that caused me a heart attack which almost took my life on the 17th of February, the only thing I could remember till I found myself here in Texas was when I almost ran into a car while I was walking out of a bank in Nigeria, now I was told that a my neighbours in Nigeria had to sign an agreement with their community with their house and other properties as a collateral before I was flawn here for medications, now that I am feeling alright, I am being threatened to be taken back to Nigeria which I don't want because I have to pay back the family that made the pledge and agreement on my behalf before I would be free to leave to my country.

The worst thing that would happen to me now as going back to that country, I can't and I don't want it, if there is anything you can do to stop this, do it my Queen!!!

You will not understand how terrible life out there is, Please do something my Queen! You can call me between 12pm-2pm Houston, Texas USA time today, I want to talk to you please, I would be expecting to speak with you on the phone then.....

8527 Hearth Dr 77054
Texas, USA
Phone: 713 931 2951

My heart belongs to you.
I love you and wants the best for you.
Hugs and kisses!
2009-10-12, 11:27:24   (updated: 2009-10-12, 11:28:35)
anonymous from Canada  
fuck you scammer! go to hell! you are so so bad! means, ugly & disgusting!!! fuck the pussy of your nasty mum!!!
2009-10-12, 14:02:18
Agent 86 from Salem, United States  
2009-10-12, 11:27:24 (updated: 2009-10-12, 11:28:35)
anonymous from Canada

I see by your posting, Your angry but at who ?
It would help if, You mentioned who, You are referring to ?
I could only find postings made by victims ?
So if, You would be specific next time.

Kind Regards Agent 86 Maxwell Smart \\'^o^'// <><
2009-11-15, 12:34:30
anonymous from United States  
do you know anything about a ben connelly
2009-12-05, 08:24:25   (updated: 2009-12-05, 08:56:10)
anonymous from Hong Kong  
Hi thanks for your emails you saved me!!!
He has a new id/email:
'S. Glen Jefferson' <>
He is on World friends geo expat now.
Thanks girls again you rule!!!

He goes under the name of get this- lonelyht

A sample of hilies:
Wow!!!!!!!!! That was a very sweet email to get from you, it appears you have a sweet sense of humor, I love that. Reading through your email, I found out we have great things in common.
Its really my pleasure meeting you, your email really made me giggle.
I am looking for that special woman, who always believes in herself, (Like you) Someone that can look herself in the mirror and know that she is important to humanity (Like you), that is to say that she has to be very confident of her looks and her personality. I want a woman that understands the real meaning of commitment, someone who accepts the fact that there would be disagreements but would also be patient enough to talk the issues over. I am not abusive(physically, verbally or mentally), I don't do drugs and I want the same too from my partner. I am not looking for a perfect woman, I just want someone to complete me.
Things that makes me smile are the little things that looks like it doesn't matter, like blowing me a kiss after a phone conversation, holding my hands, whispering sweet things to my ears, cuddling while watching a movie, doing things together, like gardening, cooking, laundry. I love the outdoors so working out doors also makes me feel good. I love to exercise so I enjoy long walks.
What I dread most in a woman in nagging(not being patient), I want my woman to be confident and trust me, so I get very turned off when she starts listening to the world instead of her heart. I also dread laziness.
I really don't know how to describe myself more and more to you aside the little at first, but believe me I have a good heart. I am a man of my words, I rarely make promises but I try to keep them when I make them. I am very affectionate and caring, I have a good sense of humor (it keeps the wrinkles away). I am very beautiful on the inside, I have a lot of love to offer to the right woman but the last thing I want is to have my heart broken.
A relationship means a lot to me, love to me is happiness giving back and forth. Love is like a river, never ending as it flows, but gets greater with time. A relationship is like every other good thing in life attracts responsibility, some both parties should bring out their time to make it work, it takes you by surprise at first, but keeps you warm for a long time.
I love all you wrote and honestly I cant wait to meet you. Like you said, You will cherish a man who is kind, understanding and compassionate, I want the same, just pretend to be dreaming,Your dream will come true, Two heads are better than one, putting heads together, you can move the mountain. I think i have all it takes me make you smile and happy. (Laugh)
I have no red flags from all you said in your email, I believe we could share something beautiful together. It is not easy with me being so far away from you right now, but I know that with constant communication we would get a long way. You never know how far you can go from the moment you thought it has ended.
I like white and blue too.
I must tell you this ones again, I am a kind of busy man but I think someone special like you needs my attention. And I will try as much as I can to keep in touch.
What I value most in person is the size of their heart and not the size of their butt....(laughs) Don't mind me if I sound rude.............
Hugs and kisses!
Your new friend.

2009-12-05, 08:27:13   (updated: 2009-12-05, 08:30:31)
anonymous from Hong Kong  
Hi ,
Yes...I have no connection with my Japanese relatives.
My Dad? Hmmm......I really don't like talking about him... He left me to the care of my Mom's friend (A student then) and to my foster parent and never bother about my well-being even when we tried to contact him. According to my foster parent his initial reason for leaving me behind was because of his job abroad but I realized he used to drink a lot those days and he end of getting married to another woman(My step-mom) with another family over there. I would tell you more if we find each other more interesting...I really don't like talking about this.
He is late. Anyway I made up with him before his death in 2006. My childhood was really messy.
Yes, I do wonder about my Asian side and plan to go look for them someday but I guess I would find most of them in Auz.
I don't think I have an accent.....LOL
No...I don't go to Shanghai often It's my second time. I will definitely be in Shanghai before this weekend, It's going to be brief anyway.
Once I arrive Shanghai, I will let you know so we can talk over the phone...Okay?
I am ready to meet you anywhere as long as we find each other more interesting.
I am just a patient, down to earth and simple gentleman willing to give out heart & soul to the right woman.
I ditched 'Samuel' earlier on in my life because of my Dad....That's his name. My name is written in this format 'Jeff Glen Samuel' in my passport.
You are in my thoughts.
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Dating scammer Glen Jefferson

2009-12-05, 08:38:00
Thanks for telling more about you. S...Means Samuel. I have gone through the website, It is lovely, can you explain it more to me? I have an Asian (Japanese) and European (Irish) family background. It's been so long I communicated with my Asian relations.

I am originally from Ireland. Acquired masters and bachelors of science in Urban & Regional Planning/Architecture at the University College Cork, Ireland. I have been to so many country due to the position of my job. I plan to change a new dimension of business that will keep me close to the family I plan to build and settle down soon after the project I am working in conjunction and association with Dolphine Concept LTD. I am in Pennsylvania, United States right now on a contract bid and have just few days to stay here, I have plans of going down to China after the weekend. I am a Project Manager, I have a contruction firm whose services are based on amendments and reconstruction of houses, roads and bridges. I do seek/go for a contract bidding, If the contract is being awarded to me, I do set up a crew to execute the project. I start and conclude a project with my own money and after a job well done, I would be paid.

I was born 1964, I would turn 45 years by 26th of December. Dad is Irish, Mum is Japanese. My Mum died when I was 6 years old, Dad remarried few years later, Growing up as a kid wasn't easy at all, I past through hard times to stand on my fit at this time, I got married 10 years ago and lost my wife 3 years later, It has not been easy with me, I need love now and I believe true love heals a lot. I love giving and getting attention / affection.

I'm an easy going kind of man. I enjoy going out for dinner or dancing as well as a quite evening at home in front of a fire with a bottle of wine. I love to travel. I enjoy cooking, gardening, taking long walks or better still go see a movie, but I have not done that for a long time since there is no one to go see the movie with. I'm a hopeless romantic but have not been lucky enough to meet someone who I would say is my soul mate, I guess I have not been looking hard enough. I don't have any drama in my life and I equally expect the same, what you see is what you get...I'm a loving, caring, supportive man. Passionate, driven and ambitious. Stable career path. Goal oriented, but at the same time very spontaneous. Like to have a loose plan - not a rigid schedule when it comes to.........

To let you know what I am looking for in a woman, I am not asking for too much but just the same normal thing which every normal guy would ask for ... the proverbial 'entire package'- beauty, brains, pleasant disposition, morals, compassionate heart and ethics, a woman who has a great deal going for herself, yet carries herself as if she is oblivious to that fact. I wish to find that special woman who I am going to spend the rest of my life with someone who would be my best friend and soul mate. Someone who understands what life, relationship and commitment really means.. Someone who understands that every good relationship takes a lot of work from both partners this is because love is not just about finding the right person, but creating the right relationship. I wish to find someone who is easy going, honest, open minded.

What matters most to me is the inside of a woman, her heart!
Please tell me little more about you and send me some photos, Okay?

Your new friend,
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