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Name: Stephen Hayde


Email: shaydenss@hotmail.com


Address:
accra ghana


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phone numbers 2333206874905 and names attached to this scammer who scammed me out of 80 grand...Sherif Sule 4 Drive Accra Ghana,Kwabena Manu Ofori, Kelvin MazeOfori, Yahaya Ansah Nyankom all from Ghana


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2009-07-23, 16:37:28   (updated: )
[hidden] from Canada  



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2009-07-23, 16:37:28   (updated: )
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2009-07-27, 13:49:10
anonymous from Canada  
Without you here, I speak to the moon, hoping it will tell me how you are.
I sing at night to the sound of the sea, wishing you could hear my lullaby.
I see the sun set in the evening, knowing another day has passed and I missed you.
I here you in the silence of the evening, in the music of the morning birds.
Athina, your words are in the poetry of my life, in the music of my memories and in the fire in my heart.
Every day and night we are far apart, my dreams are of you. I dream of your beauty,love, entwine my heart in the memory of your love. And for that brief moment, from dusk until dawn, we will soon be together forever.
I ache with all my being to be with you.
I miss you my darling.
Love forever,
Stephen
2009-07-27, 13:50:21
anonymous from Canada  
First of all, i have to Thank you for coming into my life, wish talking to you on phone so as to hear your voice well need my number too as well this my number +447045737446 wish i can hear your voice and thanks for chatting with me yesterday. Life is long and sometimes sweet. Then all at once a woman you meet. A woman so honest so true. Who gives you back, what once was you. I send to you though far apart a precious gift which is my heart. Just think of me before you sleep my heart I give for you to keep and hope you will keep with care..... I care Stephen

This is after just a couple of days of him emailing me.
2009-07-27, 13:51:23
anonymous from Canada  
since i was waiting to hear from you i think i have to tell you a bit about my self ..I was born in Milan,and raised in the state where my dad lived . Am half Swedish which is my fathers side and Half Italian which is my mothers side .I have been widowed for about 6yrs now with a son who lives with me.He is 11yrs and named Richard..My wife death made me lived in so much pain and so decided to be single but I think life is too short so we have to all move on as life does goes on . I am the only child of my late parents... I lost them in a car accident a few years ago. My wife died of breast cancer only a little over 6 years ago. I dated again after her death, but I was hurt by a woman...she lied and cheated on me...I was heartbroken and I don’t want all that to happen to me again....And life is meaningless without love. I am shy but outgoing, timid but strong, a loner but loves to be around people. It all depends on who I am with and how familiar or comfortable that I am with them. I am very educated, not necessarily from a collegiate accomplishment level as I am street wise and in tune with my surroundings, making me more often comfortable than anxious. I think confidence is the greatest asset a person can have, both in themselves and in the environment around them. I like a woman who has achieved self actualization, that is not dwelling on what happened way back when but what could happen today or tomorrow, a respectable woman who is willing to commit to a relationship after we spend time getting to know each other to see if we share enough in common.I am a computer engineer and car dealer with motor parts,i was once a formal assistant manager of dell computers but now i run my own business...i do export and import of this computers and cars to other countries. l don't like to use my profession that much cos it takes too much of my time,am a very busy person too but l can make time for those l care about and the love of my life,l am a very funny person with a lot of humor..l don't play games with anyone. Sometimes l find it difficult to express myself on the first day so do understand me if l don't seem to write much on here about me OK..I don't have any major preference towards race, age or body type.. Sounds all too common, right? More than anything I am looking to meet a mature woman who is at the point in her life where she is looking for a long term committed and monogamous relationship. It would be nice to meet someone who is faithful and is looking to meet someone who is faithful.I believe in treating a woman with respect and dignity. I expect the same in return. I am handsome with a good job, making tons of money. I am kind hearted and I am told I make a nice partner. Those that dwell in the past are not around me very long, I spot them from miles and run fast. I enjoy dancing, great conversation.If you think we share something in common I would hope you take the time to respond. I would look forward to meeting you. Looking forward to hearing from you.take care Big Kisses and Hugss .Stephen xx
2009-07-27, 13:56:16
anonymous from Canada  
Good Morning Honey,
Good morning , how was your night hope you had a wonderful one...How are you doing this morning.You, you, you and you alone... you shall reign in my heart. You are the one I desire without whom I could not be complete. I will live for you alone and I will work for you alone. I will share with you my thoughts, my heart, my mind and my body. I am waiting to receive you everything about you and share with you I will never use force on you not even by words. In your presence, I will always be honest, transparent and sincere. I want always to be at your side...honey can you tell me what you do for a living ? xxx Hayden

Just one of his love notes that is copied from online,..that should have been a sign that if he can't make up his own letter, then he was trying to attempt to make me fall in love with him....

Please check the IP addresses, I wish I did when we first met online, he told me he was living in Ireland and now that I have been had...I checked the IP addresses and they were all from Ghana, Accra and some from China...his friend...wow its big business to rip off people.

IP addresses 41 210 39 232 Accra Ghana...he told me he was in IReland....assssss
41 210 36 81 Accra Ghana
196 201 34 165 china
2009-07-27, 13:57:51   (updated: 2009-07-27, 14:08:19)
anonymous from Canada  
THIS SHOULD HAVE BEEN A WAKEUP CALL RECEIVING THIS EMAIL...I WAS DEVASTATED AND BUT HE WAS SMOOTH IN TELLING ME THAT THIS FRIEND OF HIS WHO HE WON THIS CONTRACT OVER WAS TRYING TO SPLIT US UP. SO THE LAST OF MY MONEY WENT TO HIM AS WHEN HE WAS SUPPOSEDLY GOING HOME HE AND HIS SON WERE ARRESTED FOR OVERSTAYING HIS WELCOME IN GHANA AND ALSO A FRIEND OF HIS GAVE HIM GOLD FOR HIM AND I....SO THERE FORE THE AUTHORITIES CALLED ME AND TOLD ME TO SEND 12K TO GET HIM OUT OF JAIL....WOW I WAS STUPID

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From: nicetalks@live.com
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Subject: URGENT PLS ABOUT MR STEPHEN SHAYDENSS..........
Date: Sat, 20 Jun 2009 18:09:12 -0700

PLS I AM SO SORRY TO TELL YOU ALL ABOUT THIS MR STEPHEN SHAYDEN IS NOT A REAL MAN AND HE IS NOT FROM IRELAND. IF YOU LIKE YOU CAN DO A BACKGROUND CHECK ON HIM. I JUST HAD THIS INFORMATION AND THATS WHY AM TRYING TO TELL YOU TO STOP COMMUNICATING WITH HIM TO PREVENT YOU SENDING HIM MORE MONEY. AT THE END YOU ARE GOING TO BE IN A GREAT MESS MADAM. MR STPEHEN SHAYDEN HAVE USES DIFFERENT NAME ON THE INTERNET TO SCAM PEOPLE SUCH AS TERRY SMITH SCAMMED BONNIE AND SUSAN ALL FROM CANADA. HE MET THEM ON LAVALIFE. I KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT WHAT IS GOING ON BETWEEN THE MAN AND YOU AND EVEN SOMETIMES I DO TALK TO YOU ON THE MSN MESSENGER TRYING TO CONVINCE YOU BECAUSE MR STEPHEN.. IS NOT EDUCATED AND HE CANT SPEAK GOOD ENGLISH SO I STAND FOR HIM.I CAN PROVE YOU EVERYTHING IF YOU LIKE TO KNOW AND TRY TO FIND OUT FROM IRELAND PLEASE DO A BACKGROUND CHECK FIRST. ALSO DONT TRY TO LISTEN TO HIM WHAT HE COMES ON TO TALK. CHECK HIS GRAMMAR VERY WELL AND ALSO HOW HE TALKS AND HOW I TALK TO YOU. COMPARE THE TWO. THE WAY I TALK TO YOU ONLINE AND THE WAY HE IS GOING TO TALK TO YOU OK. ALSO AS SOON AS HE EMAILS YOU THAT HE IS IN IRELAND OR SOMETHING TELL HIM TO CALL YOU OR SEND YOU SMS AND ALSO SOMETIMES HE WILL TRY TO USE SKYPE TO CALL BECAUSE SCAMMERS ARE VERY FAST AND I DID HELP HIM PLAY SOME AND I AM SO SORRY FOR THAT AND NEED YOUR FORGIVENESS.. CIRCUMSTANCES LET ME DID THAT BUT I WILL TRY TO STAY IN TOUCH WITH YOU TO PAY YOU BACK YOUR FUNDS. MR STEPHEN IS VERY WICKED AND HAS HURT A LOT OF PEOPLE. ALL THE SWEET THINGS THAT I HAVE BEEN TALKING WITH YOU ARE ALL SAID BY ME AND AM THE ONE SAYING ALL THAT NOT HIM OK. PLEASE CUT OFF COMMUNICATION WITH HIM OR ELSE YOU WILL LIVE TO REGRET IT SERIOUSLY.YOU CAN EVEN CHECK OUT FROM THIS SCAMMING SITE AND READ MORE SCAM VICTIMS MADE BY MR STEPHEN. HE HAS NO SON AND THATS WHAT HE HAS BEEN DOING FOR SO LONG CHEATING ON WOMEN AND SCAMMING THEM.

http://www.scamvict..start=200

DO NOT HESITATE TO ASK ME AND I WILL HELP YOU TO STOP COMMUNICATING WITH HIM. HE IS A BIG LIAR.. THANKS

JUST AS STUPID....VERY VERY STUPID.



2009-07-27, 14:03:59   (updated: 2009-07-27, 14:04:56)
anonymous from Canada  


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From: shaydenss@hotmail.com
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Subject: Good Morning, you complete me here
Date: Sun, 8 Feb 2009 08:06:40 +0000

When I met you, my life could not have been in a worse state. My heart had been broken too many times to count and life just didn't seem worth living anymore. Then you came along.

From the first time I laid eyes on you, I knew that you would be someone that would make me smile again. You had such a warm, soft look on your face that I knew there was comfort and friendship in your heart. We started out as friends and you were the rock I needed in my life. I soon began to realize that what I was feeling for you was more than a friendship... something so overwhelming and wonderful that I couldn't even believe it myself. You opened my heart to new and wonderful things! You showed me what love really is and showed me that I was worth loving.

Now, very soon, we will be called husband and wife! What I thought was love in my past, I now know was only a small taste of the love to come. You have given me hope, fulfilled dreams, and given me a reason to go on. You have helped me become a better person, a better dad, and a better friend. You have completed me in more ways than you could ever imagine! The love you have given to me is sometimes so hard to believe that I still have to pinch myself to make sure it's really in my life!

I love you so very much, Sweetheart, always and forever! I'm so very thankful to share this unbelievable love with you! I love you, my angel!!!

Your husband
Stephen



THIS IS JUST AFTER A FEW MONTHS OF TALKING...HE ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM AND CLAIMS TO BE MY HUSBAND.....
2009-07-29, 17:20:13
anonymous from Canada  
2009-07-30, 16:13:43   (updated: 2009-07-30, 16:15:11)
anonymous from Canada  
We met on Fusion 101, right away he professed his love to me...that should have been a warning sign...asked me to marry him after 3 weeks. Then he won a contract in Accra Ghana...then his luggage was stolen at the airport when they arrived..he asked me to send a PS3 for his son so Richard his 11 year old would not be bored...I did...yeah what a fool I was to believe him...in my circle people just don't lie like that...idiot I am....so then the computer shipment arrived and he had to pay duty fees to China as that is where the shipement came from, then he had to pay the trucker to deliver the goods(all this time he does not have money as he put it all on this contract which will give him millions when he is done). Then he needed more money to pay the workers, then the hotel bills and the restaurant. Then when all was done, because I trusted and believed in him, his agent Yahaya Ansuh Nyakom gave him gold for us yes..he said us, his grandparents left it to Yahaya and gave it to Stephen. He is finally going home the next day, I get a call from the airport authorities that Stephen and his on Richard are in custody as he overstayed his time in Ghana and he had alot of gold on him so they told me I had to send 12k to be released...well My thoughts are of course, this is my future husband and child....what a dam fool I was...it was all a scam....I lost my life savings...around 80 grand.....hard hard lesson I learned...he was too good to be true ...warning ,,, when you say to yourself too good to be true..it usually is ...now what do I do.....
APPARENTLY HIS OTHER NAMES ARE MICHAEL BROWN, ROBIN JAMES, MATTHEW COLLINS, DAVIS CARL MORRIS, DAMMY MOORE, KELVIN JERKINS BROWN
2009-07-31, 00:10:29
Agent,86 from Salem, United States  
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Anonymous from Canada

I am very sorry for, Your Heartache and such a great loss
of money.
I lost all, I had also and found that, My Heartache was worse to
endure than the loss of money.
It took a lot of time to regain, My ability to trust, My own ability
to, make decisions again.
These scams do so much more harm to the victims than just loss
of money.
The scammers consider us as Mugu [ Big Fools ]
Mine actually sent, Me a page of Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha
Whenever, I ended it after learning the truth.
Please know that, Your not alone in this and their are people
who care about, You as a person.
Please do not be hard on, Yourself for this happening to, You.
Many others have gone through this and it is no ones fault except
the lying thieves who do these scams.
They may be getting away with this for the time being.
But their day is coming and when they are caught and have to
do the time for what they have done. I am sure they will wish
they had not done such evil to so many good people.
God will hold them accountable in the end also.
Please take the time now to learn all, You can about these thieves
and try to help others avoid being trapped like, You were.
I try to help as many as, I can and try to take as much money
away from scammers as possible.
I will fight them as long as they exist.

Kindest Regards Agent 86 Maxwell Smart \\'^o^'//


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2009-07-31, 12:59:09
anonymous from Canada  
Awww thanks I needed your message...and the lovely pic...Yes I really don't know where to go from here...don't know what steps to take...but I'm leaning on God right now...thanks again. I once said that this sort of thing would never happen to me....Never say never and if I can help anyone from this point on then I will.
2009-08-02, 15:59:25   (updated: 2009-08-02, 16:34:11)
anonymous  
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Collin Brown is same as Stephen Hayde, other name douglesin

His using lots of name and telling different story, now his in Nigeria working in Texaco Oil Company lived in Madrid, Spain You can find him in free dating sites in UK, US ,Canada and facebook. Check for this man...

Beware he will took your money and disappeared.





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2010-01-03, 12:19:40
[hidden] from United States  
He also uses the name Simon Mark Cook and is busy these days still scamming people. He has a fake UK passport too.


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2010-01-03, 12:21:22
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