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I am Miss Marple and a contributor at this site, I have met many victims here at this site and I wanted to create an thread for those who are interested to find out how you recognize African male scammers. I met an scammer while ago, and he came from Nigeria and he tried to scam me, that’s why I created this thread so you can save some time and hopefully your Money by reading this general information I have written here.
I have made studies of African scammers in general and collected some stuff. I will represent here some basic information and some good advices what you can think about when you are out on the dating sites and online, which are the best ways to avoid scammers and learn how to spot them.

Are you an woman and have met the most wonderful, good looking and to good to be true man on the internet? He is also very smart, well educated, working probably as an constructor or engineer and travels a lot in his job, He tells you that he is an widower and has raised his child all alone, and he is now looking for true love. He falls in love very quickly and wants to marry you and wants to meet you soon. Suddenly he must travel to Africa. To Nigeria, Ghana, Ivory coast or another west African country for work and he will come back soon to meet you soon as possible. During his visit he gets in lot of trouble, he gets sick or have accidents. And he suddenly needs money, his credit card is not good enough or he’s has trouble to get his money from his account. Then he begins to ask for money.
Is this something you recognize?? You have probably met an scammer from Africa. Nigeria, Ghana and Ivory coast, Senegal and Dakar is the most common countries where scammers comes from, but they do operate with accomplices from European countries also as Germany, Holland and United Kingdom. Malaysia and China has also reported more scammers activities the latest time.
There is lot of different scams, Lottery scams, Charity scams, credit card scams and spams (Variation from the 419 scam)and other different types of scams, But this is page is only about ROMANCE SCAMMERS or DATING SCAMMERS

You can find scammers on every Dating site, Face book, tagged.com and My space and many other different communities .Please read the profiles and look at the photographs, the photos are always stolen from agency models and sometimes from other victims as identity theft: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mijGF9T325Y the agency you can check is http://focushawaii.com. You can also search for photographs in picture search in database at this site http://www.delphifaq.com/cgi-bin/faq_pictest.pl and scamdigger where you upload an photo and see if the scammer is reported in another site http://www.tineye.com/ http://scamdigger.com/ If you think you have contact with an scammer by email, read these general warning signs

WARNING SIGNS:

1.Scammers use templates before they starts to ask for money and there is variations in time in that also before they do that from 2 weeks until 2-3 years. Scammers use templates because they scam many people at the same time and have no time to write personal mails.
2.Look for the language, scammers has often very bad grammar and their skills in European language is bad, the templates are often translated by GOOGLE
3.They fell in love very quickly and talk about endless and undying LOVE
4.Avoiding your questions in the mails (typical for scammers who use templates) but variations do exist in this also.
5. Asking money from strangers is a scam, African, Russian, man,woman makes NO DIFFERENCE! http://ladies-russia.net/Scam.php
6.The scammer tells you to end your dating site account because you are the only true love for him (this is the way he can control the victim)
7.Scammers uses an +44 as an UK number to confuse victims with that they are in UK but they are in fact in Nigeria . ID Spoofing
http://wikipedia.org/wiki/Caller_ID_spoofing
8.If it sounds to good to be true it is often that also.

What can you do to protect yourself?

You must protect yourself even if it is not an scammer you are talking to. Never give out any personal information to somebody that you don’t know such your home address, telephone numbers no bank account/credit card numbers or other sensitive information as log in to your email addys or other accounts .Scammers asks for telephone numbers so they can convince people with their undying love as they asks for money, so don’t give out any phone numbers to foreigners. As scammers are criminal in the cyber world their knowledge in computers are very good .Get yourself an good Antivirus program to protect you from malware and spams, never click on links that unknown people sends you in mails, there could be an trojan waiting for you. As trojan is an malware and is created to steal and copy information from other computers.

How do scammers work out and how do you recognize them??

Maybe you are talking for the moment with an scammer but nothing is not what it appears to be as the wonderful man you talking to is an criminal sitting in a internet cafe and knows exactly what he is doing ,because he has done this so many times before that you can’t even imagine that your lovely man is only an criminal and wants to have your money, they are trained to be psychological and knows exactly what to talk and uses your weaknesses to get you into the trap. They send you gifts and talks poetry to you to get you really fall in love. And when you are enough in love then they starts to ask for money. They suddenly gets in to trouble and get into accidents and make up fake stories and involves other scammers also pretending to be doctors and lawyers or barristers that the story sound so real as possible, so that the victim feels empathy and open up the wallet to the scammer. They ask money for anything, from food to hospital bills, they can even send you fake documents that you have to sign your personal information that you suddenly can get involved in the crimes to without any knowledge of what you have really got involved into. As scammers are criminals they are involved in money laundry and drugs. They use most Western union to transfers to receive money from victims, but money gram is also more common now. Scammers uses stolen identities from other victims from another earlier scams or stolen from internet also. So the names they use to collect your money in are not their own names. So catch theses scammers are very difficult because of this.
The grammar is very bad as their skills are not good in English so they use templates translated by some translator and many time the scammers uses GOOGLE to translate their letters, so look for the language in the letters you receive from the scammers. Scammers uses much religion also in their scams they talk many times that they are GOD fearing and pretend to be very religious. http://www.delphifaq.com/faq/male_scammers/f3269.shtml?p=11#comments often the scammers has children and they are widowers also, because in this way they can affect the victims in a emotionally way to the single mothers, everybody can be scammed but they often seek for single women with kids and in the age of 40, as people has generally made carrier and has an stabile economic situation as that attract scammers of course.

What can you do if you suspect you talking to an scammer?

If you suspect that the person you are talking to on the internet is an scammer, there is sites where you can seek for photographs, as I have put an link in the beginning of this information, but there is others you can do also, if you have contact with an scammer through email, you can look up the IP address, that the person uses and see if the person uses forged IP or has been reported to an scammer site. If the IP address is forged it is absolutely an scam, no real and honest person uses forged IP address, and if they begin to start talking about Africa that they are travelling to Nigeria or Ghana for business or work it is an scam also. Even if they have not asked for money yet it can be an scammers as well, as they can wait with that question a long time. Look for information on the internet what your love is doing and report scammers to sites because only by reporting scammers you reduce the scammers to operate and scam other people. Talk to other people about scamming and inform your friends who you also are talking to on the internet. If you have been scammed you must of course report this crime to the nearest authorities in your hometown and country. And here I have some links where you can find also information what you can do if you have been scammed, but I must put out an warning if you want to report scammers to authorities in Africa be careful who you are talking to, and also find out if it is real people you have contact with, as scammers abuses also this and goes under fake persons and scams people by saying the helping scammed people, there is a lot of fake detectives, so be careful who you are talking to and who you leave your personal information to.

FBI : http://travel.state.gov/travel/cis_pa_tw/financial_scams/financial_scams_4554.html
http://ic3.gov
EFCC: http://efccnigeria.org
UK: http://www.met.police.uk
AUSTRALIA: http://scamwatch.gov.au/content/index.phtml/tag/Nigerian419Scams
CANADA : http://bbb.org
And in this link you have more information of what you can do if you
are scammed.
http://consumerfraudreporting.org/governments.php


Many thanks to DOC with the language/Translation,OJAS with good and informative links,and many thanks to Delphifaq.com and all other contributors and friends here at this site.




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2012-04-17, 14:42:04
hemisphere from Czech Republic  

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How you recognize male scammers.



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2012-04-17, 18:08:49   (updated: 2012-04-17, 19:02:24)
Miss Marple from United States  
@hemisphere
You are correct in this,there are no socialnetworksites where are no scammers,they are everwhere! that is why people needs to get informed about romance scams so people do not get scammed ! The scammer must be confused or he has some kind of an cheap explanation to this also..they are good liars..the first photo ,or let me say the man on the photo(whos photos are stolen and abused by scammers) is reported here before,links to the threads below.Scammers do whatever to hide them self of course.but they can try to hide how much they want as they can never hide from their behaviours! You can recognize them anyway by other signs as well..asking for money from strangers is always an scam...
Thanks //Miss Marple//
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http://whww.delphif..m?#219114
http://whww.delphif..=2#211036
http://www.romances..5&start=15
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2012-04-17, 19:25:53   (updated: 2012-04-17, 19:49:45)
Miss Marple from United States  
Fake soldiers ...

I saw your Profile and stopped to check it out and to my greatest surprise,I certainly like what I see in you and i would so much love to learn more about you.Am actually new at this but would like to try to learn more about you and hopefully get to know you better. I believe,if you are interested in also getting to know me, that it would be easier.I will be Looking forward to hearing from you soonest.You have a nice profile and thanks for taking time to read this message, its a pity that I don\'t visit the site regularly. You can just send a short note on here and you will get a prompt response or you can always email me via my email address as(gerrywest60@yaho o.com) I will be looking forward to read from you. Hoping to read from you soon. Regards Sgt Gerry west

gerrywest60
- 47 y/o male
- leescity, USA
- English, English, English
- us army
- Have 1 children
- Last logged in: 2012-04-17 11:10:31
http://www.datemefr..ID=213875

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2012-04-17, 19:46:11
Miss Marple from United States  
From: Gerry West <gerrywest60@yahoo.com>

Hello
.Really nice to hear from you soon ...well i just joined the site
recently and never had an experience of this before...you will be my
first contact on here and i wish it to be the last...i find your
profile so special that i cant stop staring at it.I'm a man.. that
needs true love and i know there is a love for me somewhere... and i
will be happy to meet her one day... this profile of yours got me
attracted to you... and i will like to know you more,I learn t that
loves can come from anywhere in the globe,and i also learn that
friendship blossom into love.
well maybe telling you more about myself will solve some questions from
you here..
I m an independent man born and raised in Missouri,blessed with a
lovely son .Dad is an English man while mom was from the sate...i m the
first kid of the family followed by my sister.
I work in the US army ..am on deployment to Afghanistan at the moment
to help the military troops here in Afghanistan .Well working as a
military man has been an hectic work here in the war zone ..
I just hope am out of here soon . so i can plan my life with the right
woman. I'm honest , caring , romantic and understanding man looking for
an honest caring and romantic woman ready for a serious relationship on
here a woman that won't cheat on me.. have never tried this before this
will be my first time ..
so what more will you like to know about me?
tell me more about you? babe tell me your experiences on the dating
sites....your life, past relationship ,your background and things you
feel i need to know about you ..what are your likes and dislikes ,do
you drive ?what type of car do you drive...What work do you do for a
living,do you own your apartment ...what are you idea of a perfect
dating...
try to send me more of your pics..
Cant wait to read from you

Sgt Gerry west

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2012-04-21, 06:58:48   (updated: 2012-04-21, 07:00:40)
Miss Marple from United States  
Scam Artists' Favourite Phrases

Many of the words and phrases you'll see below are unique to e-mail scammers, most are not. Scammers love to use big or official-sounding language in their letters because it makes them more believeable. Things like...

Foreign Remittance Department: This is a fictitious department of a bank or government office. If you call any registered bank and ask to speak tho their 'managing director of foreign remittance', they will most likely laugh or tell you that there is no such thing.

Diplomatic Courier: This one is a favourite among fraud artists. They'll even build fake websites for their fictitious courier companies. In reality, a diplomatic courier is an employee or appointee of a country's government who carries packages (usually documents) to an embassy / consular office in another country. A real diplomatic courier does not ever carry a bank draft for an individual, and their services are never available to the public.

Cancer Problem / Stroke Sickness: Both of those really do exist, and they truly are a problem and a sickness. Most widow scammers love to use one (often both) of these in their introduction letters. Strangely, no scammer ever seems to by afflicted with HIV, glaucoma, or any other illness. While those medical conditions are very real, I've never seen anyone except a fraud artist use those terms.

Defiled All Forms Of Medical Treatment: Defying medical treatment I can understand. But only a scammer can have an illness that defiles treatment.

Took Me So Special: Another scammer-ism. This phrase shows up in about 75% of all the rich-orphan scam letters I've seen. The intent is clearly to indicate that the orphan and his/her father were particularly close after mom died (mom is always dead), but only a scam artist seems to use that exact phrase.

Metallic Trunk Box: Again, these really exist. Way back in history, pirates would always be looking for chests full of treasure that were carried on ships. Nowadays, people use bank accounts to keep their money safe. If your new internet pen-pal mentions such a box, you really do have a better chance of finding one buried under a big X at the beach.
Escrow Account: Scammers love to use and mis-use the word 'escrow' in their letters. While real escrow companies exist (and they must be registered within their country to be real) and they do certainly have bank accounts, there is no such thing as an 'escrow account' at a bank.

Open Beneficiary: According to a scammer, this is when a dead guy's money has no next of kin and will be claimed by the bank (who strangely often does not know of its existence) if a suitable total stranger in another country doesn't come forward and claim it first. In reality, there is no such thing.
Security Company: These are often where the metallic trunk boxes are stored (see above), and of course the security company can't open said boxes. Often 'diplomatic' in nature, a scammer's security company will only accept payment by way of money transfer.

Payment Representative: Many real companies have employees who process payments for them in other countries, but those employees are never hired by e-mail and they generally do not keep a percent as 'commission' and forward the balance by Western Union to their employer. A scammer's explanation of why such an employee is needed is usually something like how the banks in their countries won't allow them to deposit certified cheques.

Foreign Partner: Many people and businesses have foreign partners. Those foreign partners, however, were not contacted by e-mail from a total stranger who addressed them as 'dear beloved'.

Business Proposal: In the real world, business proposals take place all the time. Only a scam artist will present a 'business proposal' of millions of dollars to a total stranger, but those words are the attention-getter. The text following will surely contain one or more of the phrases listed above. This phrase, while used in the real world, is used by too many scam artists to list in one place.


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2012-04-21, 14:37:12
anonymous  
Hi. What should I do if a scammer uses my pictures to scam other peaple? It makes me really worry if some one do that
2012-04-21, 16:48:52   (updated: 2012-04-21, 17:03:00)
Miss Marple from United States  
2012-04-21, 14:37:12
Well there are always an risk when people sending their photos to the scammer the pictures will be abused by scammers ,but how can you know in the beginning who you are actually talking to ?? a person that has not talked or even met an scammer before can not possibly know that they are dealing with an scammer .. so of course people are sending unknowingly private info ...only an person that knows how scammers operates can know from the profile,the pictures scammers are abusing in scams it is an scammer behind the profile.But today if anyone put out pictures on Facebook,myspace or any social networksite are in the danger to have their photos stolen and abused by scammers also.The more common is that when scammers profiling as females they uses photos of celebrities,models..the scammer wants to be attractive to the victim ,if you are an female let me say like this,scammers uses in the first place pornmodels and regular photo models pictures to scam with.If you have sent only 1-2 pictures i do not think you need to worry.I can not give you an better answer than this.
All kind regards //Miss Marple//
2012-04-22, 18:44:00
Miss Marple from United States  
X-Originating-IP: [41.218.254.21]* (Ghana Telecom Accra Ghana)
From: Harry Cole <harrycole@live.com>
http://www.datemefr..ID=213195


Hello My dear , I am happy to meet you, it is me Harry from Datemefree,

Good to hear from you and How are you doing today ? Hope every body is doing well in your family,It's my pleasure to meet you and i would like to tell you little more about myself , i hope you will also do the same .i will also like to see more pictures of you. as you already know my name is Harry. i live in California , in the city of Tracy where the Features local governance information, including directory of elected officials, committees, and city services, as well as area demographics.

I'm a divorced , i have been a Soldier all my life and i have just one Son, i have a house in CA Tracy area , i live alone but i have been in Iraq for 5 years now. Am 57 years of age, i set to retire on 25 April then i will be free if every thing went well with me as i plan it. I don't have to be your first love, but I want to be your last ,I’m looking to find someone to develop a relationship, so if you are looking for only friendship or just hanging out then I am not the right person for you .

I am a responsible 57 year old Man. i enjoy my job and I thrive for success in everything I do. I enjoy intelligent conversation, all outdoors, movies, reaching goals, relaxing, cooking, born fires, boating, sports, romance, partying with friends, cars, and i love travelling just to name a few things. I am very adventurous. Commercial crab fishing and much of them are some examples of thrills I have been lucky enough to survive in so many Mission. Am American soldier stationed in Afghanistan as UN soldier fighting against Taliban's to bring peace in Afghanistan even though things are getting worst every day but we are doing our best to save the life's of innocent people. i been in Afghanistan for the past 38 month now and i am the squadron leader (S.L) 35th Infantry Regiment (United States) and i am a very caring and loving man. I'm looking for a true intimate and meaningful relationship where there is love, passion, respect and romance.

I am a fun loving man, jovial, lovely and passionate. I think of myself as being clever but harmless. My Hobbies include jogging, baseball, music, horseback riding, soccer, traveling, golfing etc. I also like pets like dog, cat etc. Well I will appreciate us being good mate in sincerity, honesty and trust although we just knew each other, we can share ideas and discuss about more issues as we talk more about ourselves, and as time goes on there may be something great for us in the future.

I am supportive and caring and have a loyal and tolerant character's very humble, honest, understanding and truthful. I'm a very passionate, physical person that would want the same in a mate, deeply romantic, optimistic, hopeful, wise, & smart, I have a good, honest heart and don't like being lied to.

I am looking for a woman whom I will love with all my heart, the woman that I will spend the rest of my life. Someone, who is willing to share her lives with me and I can share my life with her and together we will build a happy and enviable home. I'm insistent on personal/mutual respect, kindness and honor. I am affectionate by nature, but believe that trying to sense the boundaries of others shows caring, sensitivity and a willingness to move on.

I do not seek for perfection because no one is perfect. A man's happiness will never be complete until there is a woman right beside him. I hope that you are the right woman for me, and I hope that our coming together would open doors of blessings and affections in our lives. please i want to remind you that two can only walk together when they agree within themselves. we are no more youths, so we have to be honest to each other so that we can build a happy home for our better future. Please, feel free to tell me more about yourself and Have a wonderful day and I hope to hearing from you soon.

Take good care of yourself,

Harry.




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2012-04-22, 18:46:33
Miss Marple from United States  
This scammer pretends to be an US soldier under the name as Harry Cole in Afghanistan but IP shows Accra Ghana,the real man on the photo is Miller(surname )and has nothing to do with any scams,scammers from Ghana are abusing his Photos and ID to scam women with...

Dating scammer Rodney Pace:

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2012-04-22, 18:49:56
Miss Marple from United States  
X-Originating-IP: [41.218.254.21](Ghana Telecom Accra Ghana)
From: Harry Cole <harrycole@live.com

Hello My Precious Queen,

Thanks for answering those questions, i hope all is well with you. thank you for your email, i have read and understand more about you, we will chat face to face but we need to book appointment on that soon, i just want to tell you about somethings that came of my mind which i think you need to know.

I have a Bad experience in my past Relationship, it is a very long Story but i will cut it short for you. When i get married to my wife 15 years Ago, she had a baby boy for me after few month. We where living happily together as a family, But she had never like the nature of my Job, she always complain that i do not spend much time with her and she want me to quit the job. i told her i will be retire soon, i beg her to cope with me and relax, and she agreed with me. So one day i was giving a mission to go to Pakistan for 4 month, i told her about it she accepted on a condition that i must come back home to pay a visit of 3 days after ever three weeks. This was our agreement before i leave for my Mission, so after two weeks my Son called me on phone and he sad Dad please rush home, Mum is cheating on you. i was so worried and i came home on that particular day only to find my wife with another man Having an Affair (Sex) with another man. i was shuck for two days which lead me to sickness. She came to me and said she want to divorced me i never believe my eyes, but i have no choice than to move on with my life. She knew it was my Son who told me about it, When she took my son to School the next Day she Called my Son Bastard in the Present of his friends and all his friends was calling him Bastard from that Day and Son was always crying home and told me that he want to quit the School i took him to another School, not knowing that one of the boys also quit the previous school and came to the same school with My Son. he told all the Class that My Son was a bastard and Son was also crying home again, and he said he don't want to see his Mum anymore and i have no choice just to move on with my son, i was so frustrated and my Son told me he don't want to continue schooling anymore, i need to beg him and i took him out of the country, he is now in United Kingdome Study very hard and i do hear from him Via email once in a while, for the past two years now i have not set my eyes on him because of the nature of my job.

That is little about my past experience in my previous Marriage life and now i now that i found you i need to tell you what i think about Marriage and what one must know before moving on Marriage life because very soon i will be putting a wedding Ring on your hand i swear this.

I believe that Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness..... No matter how much you love someone if you dont have these ingredients you will never succeed. To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to. Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to make her/him realize how much you really love her/him....

Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again. You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot,they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient.

Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud.......... It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people.......


relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire.

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time.. When your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it.

When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.

Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.

There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These three qualities alone will help us nurture and develop a deeper relationship when you and i are together.

I believe that what make real relationship to work is Love, honesty, respect, humor, laughter, peace of mind. I think a couple should work together on all aspects of the relationship.Holding hands, protect from harm, hugs and loves daily, communication is very important, ask your partner to do something instead of telling them to do something.

We are both adults and need to ask for things not demand them. I think the little things mean a lot so if you would be thinking about your partner during your day and you see a beautiful flower you stop and get it for your partner.I will do the same. Little notes to each other to show we love each other. A sexy text during day just to say I love you. Never go to bed angry with each other always make up.If things are not going as you like talk to me, don't hold in till explode that benefits no one. Never leave the house without kissing and saying love you.Do what you must to remember important dates like 'Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays, when first kiss, when first date, etc.'I think to keep things frisky we should have a date night 1x a month. We should have breakfast in bed 1x month. We should spend the rest of the time with family breakfast and dinner.We should have family night 2x a month. When sad or upset we should try to make one another laugh cos it can't be as bad as we think at the moment.I like to give gifts just because and they don't have to be expensive, but if you see something that reminds you of the other person that you love get it and surprise them. Try to take into consideration how you would feel if someone did something to you before doing that to someone else. Take walks together.Don't be afraid to tell me what it is that you need or prefer. Open and honest totally is the best thing.I'm a person who is willing to put everything on the table and together we can select the best solution to building and maintaining a strong and rewarding relationship.i hope you do understand everything i have explain, i know it will take you special time to read it, as i have take special time to compose it as well. please let me know your mind says.

i have attach a photo of my Son for you to see and know him as well.

I hope to hear from you soon. have a wonderful and blessed day.kisses and millions hugs to you dear.million kisses on your lips and thousands hugs.

I am your darling,

Harry

2012-04-22, 18:54:31   (updated: 2012-04-22, 18:55:54)
Miss Marple from United States  
Harry Cole sent 4 pictures of an child,as the site policy do not admit postings on minors i will post an link where you can see the picture of an child model from focushwaii (Cody)abused by scammers of course, this child is not any longer an model obviously on focushawaii

http://www.romances..3&p=223606
2012-04-22, 18:58:49
Miss Marple from United States  
X-Originating-IP: [41.218.232.114]Ghana Telecom     Accra,Ghana
From: Harry Cole <harrycole@live.com>


Hello Sweetheart, here is my photo for your own perusal please take a look at it, i may not be handsome as you was expecting but this is just me, i hope to hear from you soon, i have really missed you today i was so busy here in my office, but i will write you long email soon, take good care of yourself, just want to let you know that i care for you and want us to hold each other tight so that we can meet in real and do the right thing to make love rain in our home, hug and kiss for you, love you.

Warm Regard
Harry






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2012-04-22, 19:02:45
Miss Marple from United States  
X-Originating-IP: [41.218.247.26]Ghana Telecom Accra,Ghana
From: Harry Cole <harrycole@live.com>



Dear xxx
since the few minute you walked into my life I have been smiling. There hasn't been a moment i don't smile i love you for real baby there is no day I have gone to sleep with a frown on my face, and it's all because of you. Honey, I am glad that you came into my life. I have always wanted the love of my life to be understanding, loving, caring, and faithful. I wanted someone who would accept me for who I am. I know that I’ve found that person in you. My heart told me that my princess was there when I first said hello to you over the site, I didn't have to think twice when I asked you to be my wife. I knew that you were the perfect match for me. I don't think that there is, or that there ever could be, anyone better than you out there for me.
I love you with my whole heart. I have never trusted anyone the way I trust you. Sometimes I even doubt myself, but I know I will never doubt you because you are my true love from now on . I know deep down inside that you will never break my heart or let me down in any way.
Thank you for everything, honey. I pray to God every day to bless you with everything you deserve. I will love you until the end of time.
Always and Forever Yours,
Harry





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2012-04-22, 19:06:17
Miss Marple from United States  
X-Originating-IP: [41.218.232.26]Ghana Telecom Accra,Ghana
From: Harry Cole <harrycole@live.com>



Hello Sweetheart,

I have received two of your email, but i try to create time to compose you better because i was busy here in the camp base, i am so sorry for my late response, In your previous email you ask two question, (1) when am i coming to the state, (2) you want to know if my relationship with you is a dream or reality.

Well it is better you know more about me and you know what i can do, i am a man that never say the word i don't mean or i can't do, any words i say from my mouth is what i have think about and meditate on it before i will tell you from my words. You are not dreaming with me my love, you are truly with me, i know it will be very hard for you to believe it right now because i may be very far from you, but i tell you something sooner we will be hugging each other in real with a Gentle kiss of exchange.

Secondly i have told you i am the General in Command of my base here in Afghanistan, and a good leader has to show a good example, so i have did all my possible best to save innocent people life and i think i need a rest to settle with my wife and Son soon, I have having a Restrict Suicide mission next week and i will not be around, after the mission i can finally retire from the military but i think it is going to be two month time because the mission will last for one month and the preparation of my retirement will also last for extra one month. So by two month time i believe i will be meeting you in person.

Our love has state over the net and everything seemed almost perfect. We had never met but the love we felt for each other is so big and true already, and could only become complete by meeting each other which must surely come to pass. It isn't about looks, nor money but the simplicity in life that we find so attractive. Knowing we could survive anywhere as long as we are together.
Love is not a job, love simply is. Unconditional love is what I offer you, and with you I receive the same. You are my heart of hearts, my soul mate, friend, lover and partner for life.

xxxxxx, it should be emphasized that the kind of love existing in our relationship is void of fantasy or a whirlwind romance. If you don't know, my love for you isn't the comparative analysis of 'M&B' stories or any other fictional romance. But this is the love that is enveloped with the seal of reality without any shadow of doubt.

Not that there are no other fish in the ocean upon whom I can sling my hook, but who can be like my sweet xxx that loves me with such generosity of heart? I love a hand that meets my own with a grasp that causes some sensation and which only your's can do. I love you not only because of beauty but for your sense of decency, delicacy, kindness and other complementary qualities. I can't help doting on you. Therefore all my gestures of love towards you come straight from the bottom of my heart, I swear!

I will love you forever and a day. Thank you for being there, loving me and knowing what my true heart wants.

Warn Regard
Harry



2012-04-22, 19:07:19
Miss Marple from United States  
X-Originating-IP: [41.218.232.26]Ghana Telecom Accra,Ghana
From: Harry Cole <harrycole@live.com>


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