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Name: Jeff Mclaren

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Tel: 00233249999227

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This man contacted me through singles over 50 site. He made me shut down my account as we had 'found each other', Here is what he claimed to be,
Name: Jeff Mclaren
Age :56
Children: 1 son called sean age 16
Occupation: dermatoligist in the us army
Martial Status: widower
Claimed to be in Iraq

This man quickly sent me e-mails and communication through windows live messanger, claiming he had met the love of his life how I made him whole, he always used the word Honey and princess, I love you honey and only you. He sent me e-cards to my email address and I was suspious when I supposedly received a card from his 16yr old son on moters day I mean what 16year old boy does that to someone hes never met? Everytime I asked him a question he would really off loads of lovey messages and never answer the question, He told me he was in Iraq in the us army as a dermaoligist he wrote a big long email stating that he grew up in america with an uncle as his parents died. That he was now widoed with a 16 son sean and they were looking for a a woman to compleate him,

I had an email about how he can't live without me how people don't understand how we feel and that we will live a happy life together ect ect,

After 2 months he told me 'good news honey im comming home' Well within a day he said I've had bad news my luggage is being held could you ring this number for me and find out whats going on a man told me he was from the miliatry and needed 4500usd to send the luggage to my home address, stright away I knew that this was a scam.

I told him over IM that I didn't have that money he asked what I could afford, I didnt reply I thought that would be the last I heard from him however he sent me 2 e-mails saying how I didnt trust him he was hurt, I will paste the messages at the end 2 see if anyone else has had the same,

The email was copied and pasted from a lady bloggers page that I found on the internet, Before he sent me the chocolate syrup email and that he count sleep ect that I have seen similar on here.

He did come back in IM and ask again I told him that I knew he was a scammer and that did he think I was stupid, I aint heard from him todate. I could not find this name he used on her so I put him as a new scammer but his email did say it was on here,




Good morning my love , i hope all is well with you and you are enjoying your easter holidays .. i also had a nice time at the mass yesterday but i was missing you to the peak baby , wishing you were there with me and am very sorry i could not log on yestreday .. i wish i could give you a chocolate egg .. I love you baby, With you I will always follow my heart, and with you is where I want to be forever. I ask you please to love me the way i do to you and praise this relationship . Lets enjoy the blessings god has given to us. To have each other's love and to be together is the most important thing in the world to me...always remember that when hard times cross our path, because as long as I know you love as much as I love you, then I can get through hard times knowing you will always be by my side .. i adore you darling because this is an extraordinary love and I know that it is a union designed by God, based on the dynamics of conviction and cultivation that are involved. God has certainly prepared us for one another, in so many ways and on so many levels.. I worship you my goddess .. bye for now m.. Xxxxxx

Honey am really missing you . i wish more than anything we were together over the weekend it will have been my best easter holidays ever baby .. i wish i was there darling to take care of you as you are my responsibility darling. i love you more than you can ever think of , more than love itself baby what i feel for you is beyond ordinary it;s an unending and undying flame baby which blazes every passing second of my life ..I want to lay by your side and feel every beat of your heart through the night and I want to know I can reach out and touch you and watch you sleep and I want to be the first thing you see in the morning - you will always feel me with you all day and night long. Life is better with you in my world I adore you and need you and could never think of any thing else I could want except your love - the sun shines - the birds sing and I smile all the time just because I am so in love with you , baby girl .. i have to go now , speak to you tonight . bye for now Xxxx
Ps , i will not be online tonight as i have a mass to attend ..

How are you darling , am going for dinner and i can'[t but thinking about you and sending you this email to tell you the way you have changed my life has been the most happiest thing in my life. baby with you by my side, I will always have a heart full of love, and as you walk with me I know that I can walk around the world because you will never leave. Baby as time goes on my love for you goes out of control and baby I Promise that I will care, respect, and love you as you do for me. I wake up every day now since your in my life knowing that today is going to fill more love in the places that are empty in my heart, all because of the way you are.Honey you rock my world and with out you in my life I would be a boy that doesn’t know what love is. And as the one month with you have been the time of my life and baby I will never stop loving you. have a nice time honey and keep enjoying your weekend .. bye for now .. Xxxxx

How are you doing this morning my princess ,am having another busy day at work doing some paper work yet you are all over my mine and i decided to send you this email to tell you one more that i love you my Darling baby with all my heart you meen the absolute world to me.I am so much in love with you baby my heart is full to overflowing with love for you. Baby ,you are the only woman that I will ever want in my life to share all my hopes and dreams with and to plan our future together. I am looking forward to seeing you every day of my life to laughing with you crying with you and making love with you. I feel like the luckiest man on earth to have you love me as much as you do. My love for you is so strong that i dont know how it could grow any stronger but it does every single day. I am so waiting for the day that we eventually meet and put our arms around each other and have our first proper kiss and say the the words we are both longing to hear 'I love you my Darling ' We will have a three way family hug you me and our our boy. We will create our future memories together as a loving family and as a loving couple.I will always love you till the day I die baby my Darling. Until the day I can kiss your lips I will continue to kiss your photographs and talk to you when I lay in bed at night and when I wake in the morning and many times in between. I will say good day my baby girl and I will speak to you in the evening keep safe and remember I love you more than anything in the world xxxxxxxx

Hi Sweetheart, i hope you are doing good anyway It's almost time to leave the sick bay now and i wanted to do something simply to show you how proud I am of the love I have for you and that I'm not afraid to announce it to the world. I want the world to know how I love you and how much you mean to me. Every day my love for you grows and it gets stronger and stronger. It's such an overwhelming feeling to be this much in love.I know I don't tell you everyday, but you are the most beautiful girl I know, both on the inside as well as the outside. Your beauty is so captivating! It's not even possible for me to stop thinking about you even for a minute; you are always on my mind. You do something to me... something so indescribable there are no words that I can say that can even give you the slightest clue as to how much I love you. You have truly made me the happiest man on earth; I have never ever been happier in all my life. I have no clue as to what I did to be so, so lucky and I will be eternally grateful for you and the love you give to me. I will never stop loving you. Pleased take good care of yourself for me and have a good day .. speak to you tonight .. bye for now

Hello honey am back and as i promised am sending you an email.. everything went of well with here where i am but a few blast in other polling stations enough for now as i will tell you later tonight .. i miss you baby i hope you are doing good .. I want to let you know that you are the love of my life. You everything I ever wanted in life. You are my only one. It's you and you alone. I will love forever. I will love you through out eternity and a day!. I will live with ONLY YOU, share with ONLY YOU, learn with ONLY YOU, and grow with ONLY YOU for the rest of my life. If there is one face I really want to see every day of my life, one smile that makes a difference in everything that I do. If there is one joy, one love that I desire to have forever, it's YOU - that special someone in my world, my life, my heart! I've chosen to be exclusively yours for the rest of my life. No body can take your place in my heart. You really mean more to me than all the words in the world put together can ever express. Always and forever is what my love for you means to me baby girl .. i adore you .. Take care before we chat tonight .. bye for now .. Xxxxxx

Hello honey , i hjope everything is well with you but am sorry to annouce to you now that i will not be online tonight as i have to help out with the soldiers who are going to see to it that Iraq has a very free and fair parliamentary elections which began this morning but we just had news that the security are not enough at some of the polling station so a team which included me as been called out to help so i may no be online tonight but hopefully tomorrow as soon as am back i will email you .. am in uniform ready to leave now and am writing you this email but before i leave am just wanting to let you know the love I have for you is undying. It is a love that is strong and enduring and will stand the test of time. I truly feel blessed that you have become a part of my life and I cannot wait for the day that we can join our lives together. I want to lie next to you at night and fall asleep in your arms, only to wake to your beautiful smile. I want to share in your joys and sorrows. I want to be your everything. You are everything to me.
You are everything I do. You see and bring out the best in me. You are the one I want to share everything with - my thoughts, hopes and dreams. Thinking of you makes my heart feel full. You are such a source of inspiration for me. I will forever be indebted to you for all you have brought to my life. So, to repay you, I promise you my heart and all the love in it for the rest of my life baby .. have a nice day and remember me in your prayers ... i have to go now honey .. bye for now ... Loads of kisses..


I love you baby , just wanting to let you know that all relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire. We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it. When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.i love you so much and i want to be with you forever honey .. bye for now Xxxxx

Tomorrow's hopes and dreams may never die for as long as you believe in us and follow our heart. Kindnesses in our hearts will guide you to accomplish many things in life and overcome all challenges, all obstacles, and love. Never give up, always have faith in us and we will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love you righteously deserve. Whatever we may do in future's way, never let anyone or thing stand in the way of pursuing our dreams and wishes we have always dreamt of in your life. Know that we will always have people to rely on and stand by whenever we need them. Vow to our words and soul that loving others with dignity and respect is the key to achieve great success and everlasting love in life. No matter what we may decide to do in life, the help, and the gratitude, will always be there from me. honey, just all these to let you know that Thank you Darling and remember i love you forever .....

All a scam to get money

anyone know him??


2010-04-12, 13:02:13   (updated: )
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2010-04-12, 13:02:13   (updated: )
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