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Name: Timlan Lubbers

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Clark Summit, PA

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This individual is on mate1 and maybe on other website posing as a widower with a 10 yr son and soon have to go to Dubai for a job, he has to send his son to Englad to his mother, but one week later the son is hit by a truck and the driver has no money and that's how it starts.

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2012-02-19, 06:46:47
anonymous from United States  
Hello My Love,
How are you doing and hope you are in good hands? Can you imagine how yesterday went. I was with the nine rascals at the quarters. Oh! i need to tell you who the nine rascals are. They are my professional buddies. we work together, we have more of a friendship relationship than Employee employer relationship. When one of us has an occasion to grace, you would be thrilled. we could act much and make a crowd laugh out their stress. There is Nelson, Bishop, Owen, Chan, Lee, John, Brian, Nekky, and mike. Nelson met Debby online while we were in Africa, then we moved out after our project. Then Chan was always getting on Nelson's nerves, but really, they have always been like that. Bishop would call them, cat and dog. They would make fun of each other and i tell you the whole party would laugh. But today, Even Debby is Chan's best friend. After their marriage, we went to Saudi to bid for a project on one of their oil platforms. I personally logged most of my funds in the bidding's and so did many of us. It got to a point that we were knocked out by their local politics. It left us almost stranded, please don't laugh at us,lol. But somehow you wouldn't believe it , Debby did most of the work of getting our naughty asses out of there. We were disappointed that we lost big, but as humans, we don't know when God has a bigger plan for us. Just the same week we got back to Europe, we got this biggest project of our career herein Dubai. We were bidding for a 4 million gain project and we got a gift of over 10 m,lol.
Most of my colleagues still have this envy in them, but as it is , i did not make myself but God did. When we went back to the states to finalize nelson's wedding. we met her family. My dear, they had us for days and the old man did not want the rascals to go. They impacted so much into their lives. Even the man calls on us like a father, time to time till now. What i know is that, we were able to get people's love , not because of wealth but because of our simplicity. That is one thing that can never be compromised in life. So yesterday, i gave them an exclusive on how i met this woman who has become a screen saver on my mind, and they were thrilled, saying they can't wait to meet her. They promised they had a bet on who would be closer to her, can you believe that. They all said, Hey!.....please put up her pic in the main room,lol.
I can't wait to finish this project in less than weeks so i can come show you how much i can steal your heart, Let us see if you can resist this Happy man! LOL. The day was fun because we left early. And i started visualizing how soon i can see my woman. I wish i could get a house ahead of time so that on arrival i wouldn't need a hotel,lol.
How did your day go? do you think you have listened to your heart? listen to it and you will find out how much you can gain! I am just a man who wants my best friend with me. Someone i can look at and smile for no reason. Someone i can't wait to get home to be with. Someone to hold in my arms and whisper to her ears. someone to run my fingers through her ears. Someone who is never afraid of telling her deepest thoughts to me. Someone who sees me more as her twin.
What do you think?
By the way, i hope you too took your profile off the date site as i have taken mine off because i have found you and you have turned gold...My Dear you can text me of send me a Voice mail if am unable to pick the call,I just want to hear from you my dear. Missing you Big.
2012-02-19, 06:48:36
anonymous from United States  
Hello sunshine,

You must wonder why i call you sunshine, is simply because i Can't seem to get the picture of you off my mind. I felt like giving you a hug after reading from you sweet because it made me smile so much after reading from you,lol. It really made my day sweetie. Just as the sun, lights up the earth, you light up my life. You are the only one i have met online here, with a heart so bright. Just seems like yesterday, you came around my way, you changed my whole scene right away, with your outstanding personalty. The only reason this was possible even though i have not met you is because you must have portrayed yourself well and you have been Yourself. That is good, because if i ever fall in love with you for beauty, I wouldn't walk more than miles to see more beauty, If i love you for wealth, I wouldn't walk more miles to see more, If i love you for smiles, I would see more in TV,lol But the only thing i can fall in love with is 'you', and that can't be gotten by anyone else because its been YOU! that is absolutely what no one can ever be. Like i said, it takes a life time to try knowing the reason why you feel the way you do with some people but the answers are never there, trust me, the day relationships starts falling is the day people can figure out the exact reason they have loved each other. Life is boring if perfect. Life is worse when there is nothing to change about anything.

The balance in life is based on the facts that, there must be thieves and criminals for the police to remain employed, The medical practitioners would run out of business if we were all hale and hearty. The legal practitioners would die of boredom if there weren't offenders. If everyone are vegetarians, Oh my! guess how many people would not earn a living. Christians bring out the best in Christianity because of the presence of Islam. If everyone is rich, wealth would be meaningless... who would do the laundry? who would drive the car? who would guard who? who would keep whose money? lol. The essence for this short words is that, if you can read the meaning in this, then you are my woman for sure. The moral of the speech is that,. We were all created for each other. There is much fun in helping. We can all be better if we accept the fact that we can't live without each other. The world would be a better place if we can start accepting things we cant change. Because , the only constant thing in life is, CHANGE! Sitting here thinking about you, brings out a part of me that loves everything.

I have a proposal for you this wonderful day Honey, Because i know you at least care about me, after all you wake up to check on my mail and know if i am still alive,lol, that is something. So i want your help today. There is this woman whom i just met, and i could be scared about how she has gotten my attention, but i would be stupid to submit to fears. I noticed that she already has a place that can not be replaced in my heart. Who could ever think of hurting such a woman who only wants happiness? I want you to help me find her and tell her, i am not known for fears. I know a journey of a thousand years start with a single step. A man who wants to fly must at least learn to stand on his feet! tell her if she is willing, i would love to take her hands. I am a man who gives nothing or everything. Once i have her hand, i can promise her forever. Tell her i know this is not going to be a kid walk, tell her i know there are times we would argue in future. but tell her i would teach her to know that even while we argue we would still be holding hands because there are many sides to a coin. Tell her life is short, but we can make paradise out of it. Tell her, her worries have become mine, because i do not really know how she has done it. Tell her, that coming across her was by chance, communicating with her was by choice, but then falling for her is beyond my control.
You know where to find her my dear, just go to your dressing mirror and you would find her staring back at you,lol.
Please look into her eyes and speak this to her for me.


2012-02-19, 08:59:00
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Thank you for the postings here,valuable for other victims who make researches on this scammer,you do not need to worry he can not do anything to you anyway! The scammer is probably in Nigeria or Ghana and even leaving those 2 countries are not so easy as there are requirements that are very strict and especially travelling to Usa. This is only the confirmation on the booking but that do not mean he has paid it ,i think you have 48 hours to pay and then the booking will be cancelled! Scammers do this offen to theire victims and then something happpends of course that they have no money for the ticket and asks the victim to pay the fligh ticket.But in this case the scammer asks you to pay an Travelers Allowance Fee ( TAF ) which is just bogus and scam,there are no requirements for no one that you need to have money in your pocket to enter USA,i have my self immigrated to USA and did not need to have any money to show up!

//Miss Marple//

Pay at the office surcharge:
GBP 2,667.72
GBP 40.00
Total price: GBP 2,707.72

Same template/mail here:


I want to make sure that you are aware that requests for a 'TAF' (Traveler's Allowance Fee) or 'BTA' (Basic Travel Allowance) are most often part of a widespread type of internet fraud.
Usually this is part of a 'Romance Scam' type of scenario, in which someone strikes up an online romance, eventually promises to visit in person, and then asks the victim to forward this TAF money.
There are some other variations on the scam, in which the travel is for purposes related to promises of a job, an inheritance, lottery winnings, etc. etc. - but they are all basically the same thing.

Typically once the TAF or BTA money is wired, the scammer will contact the victim with a new story about a family or medical emergency that prevents his/her travel (and that usually requires additional funds for 'emergency surgery' or the like.)

2012-02-19, 09:28:48
Miss Marple  
Please read also my article how you recognize male scammers ,i have posted also an article about the most frequently asked questions ,you maybe find something that answers to your thinkings and wonderings.

All kind regards //Miss Marple//

2012-02-19, 10:56:39   (updated: 2012-02-19, 10:59:22)
Miss Marple  

well, I am a very qiute, calm, caring , loving and passionate someone, i so much belive in honesty, i'm full of laughing, am always in happy mood, I'm so friendly and i love being in group of kids. i play alot and i like jokes, am sometime kidding and i love watching tv . i love singing, dancing and swimming, i don't go to bar, but i love candle night

2012-03-22, 20:07:45
honorhonesty from United States  
This fool is still on Mate1 and yes, he does move on to another victim, so ladies any thing that seems out of place to you, dont second guess yourself take a good look at it and ask questions. After trying to get me to send him money, he is still attempting to contact me, but I work hard for my money so it has more appeal to me than a nasty ass lazy, still live with his mama and baby mama man.
2012-03-24, 12:52:23
anonymous from United States  
Hello Ladies,

Happy days, this fool has been kicked to the curb by Mate1 for fraud.
2012-03-24, 12:53:51
anonymous from United States  
Hello Ladies,

Happy days, this fool has been kicked to the curb by Mate1 for fraud.
2012-04-30, 08:12:24
anonymous from China  
We are led christmas lighting manufacturer(MeiMei Lighting), today we received this email,
name is: Timlan Lubbers

Date: Mon, 30 Apr 2012 11:07:59 +0100
Subject: Re: Enquiry


Thanks for your response to my colleague, please see again the copy of our request and we want you to treat this request as urgent, kindly see if you can produce the products as given to us from your order, by clicking on the product attached to see the product of what we want in a week and write out the new quotation to us asap. Do note our term of payment will be 30% deposit and the balance against B/L copy. Reply and let me know if this is OK by you.

I will be on the lookout for a response from you.

Awaiting your earliest response.


Timlan Lubbers
Block 4, Dong Anh district, Ha Noi, Viet Nam
Tel: (+84-4).3883.9166
Cell: +84.(0)9.8689.5353
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