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Name: Damien


Email: Schneider


Address:
48 rowan close,bellfields estate ,guildford ,surrey, England
tel: +447572718626
Companys scam homepages: www.dseengineering.com
e-mail: dsdamienschneider@gmail.com
Use messenger address: damien.schneider24@yahoo.com
Username: skylove2012


Other Comments:
Age 46
English guy who owns a big comppany. Have son (23 year) who is studying medicin in Yale. His wife has died 3 years ago by car accident. Also his parents have died when he was 13 years old.

He found me from be2.com. He told that he was going to move to my home country where he has lived his first 5 years before his family moved to England. He wants to come back for good. But first he has to make business trip to HongKong.

The troubles stated soon when he was arrived to Hong Kong. He didn´t have money enough to pay taxes for oil pumps and he needed my financial assistance.

This guy is very clever. He speaks good English. At first with strong English accent. I checked ip address of his mails and found out that he locate in USA.


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2012-05-10, 12:42:31   (updated: 2012-05-10, 12:50:28)
indygrl from United States  
@ Nena..
I am one of the ladies that Miss Marple told you about.. The man I was scammed by took me for over $9000 American Dollars. I was involved with this man for over 2 yrs.. He was from Nigeria.. but he told me to start with he was from Nashville, Tennesse.. He caused me to lose the respect of my family and friends as I borrowed money from them to send him.. I ended up having to file bankruptcy because of him.. The man belittled me and harassed me continous. He made my life a pure hell.. I was so depressed , ashamed and humiliated of what this man had caused me to do.. He tried to involve me in illegal doings and had me borrowing money from credits co to send him.. I couldnt seem to get away from him.. It was like I was addicted too his words and attention.. But by accident I found this site,, If it wasnt for Miss Marple helping me and guiding me.. I dont know if I would have even been here today.. I was at the lowest time of my kife.. She helped me understand I WAS A VICTIM!!!! He Was A thief.. He stole from me.. It is no different than him having broke into my home and stealing from me.. He used my emotions against me.. I was vulnerable.. He called continous day and night, I had to change my email addresses 4 times , I have blocked him from every site I was on and had to block him 3 times on FB.. He still seemed to get thru.. You have to report what your scammer has done to you to the authorities and break on means of communications with him.. He is NOT REAL... They steal the pictures and profiles The scammer I knew had 4 other idenities.. 2 of them were on FB using the same picture and different names but same story line.. I had another scammer who I thought was in Chicago, Illinois in the States.. He had a phone number from there.. He called several times a day.. Miss Marple discovered he was a scammer when I turned to her because I had my doubts.. He was in Nigeria.. They are able to get American phone numbers and I imagine also from any country they want to.. They can obtain American IP addresses.. The scammer I had that took me for the money had me to open an account for him over here.. They are also able to forge IP addresses.. The one in Chicago had several IP addresses for over here.. The reason I am telling you this..is because you dont need to be ashamed.. It is happening to millions of men and women.. Please do as Miss Marple has advised you and feel assured you are not alone in this tragedy.. We are all here to give you moral support and advise you as much as possible.. But please break all communications with the person scamming you.. It wont do nothing more than bring you more heartache if you dont.. Just remember.. HE is not the man you fell in love with ..HE IS NOT REAL!!! If the man or woman asks for money from someone they have never met or has fell in love in a matter of a short time.. They are scammers..
2012-05-10, 12:52:11
anonymous from Switzerland  
Hello together

I have no words to describe how your willingness to help me help this sorry tale to survive and I can tell you in those two days I've heard several relevant and important findings.

OJAS: your tip was successful!

Venezolano: I would like to deliver you documentation, can I pass that on to you via email?

RealMadrid: i will do this but with the police I do not count in such.

Malek: you are right, it is Thailand, please give me some Mail where I might to forward the, when I publish it here I fear that these gangsters will watch all this!

Miss Marple: as I wrote above I fear that these rascals watch all this and act accordingly be.
What do you think?

I greet you all cordially
N.
2012-05-10, 13:13:40
OJAS from United States  
@Nena,

When you are logged on to this site, on Miss Marple comment, click the ✉
You can then send her an internal mail. She can then give you her email, also ask her, if you want to discuss with others using email. I know it is hard, but at least in emails you can discuss more freely. She is expert on Mugu, please discuss with her.

Keep discussing with people who know scams. The worst thing is to feel alone! I assure you, that you are NOT alone! You have so many good people supporting you.

Gruß
2012-05-10, 13:49:52
anonymous from Finland  
Hello @Nena,

I´m so sorry to hear that this man has scammed you too.
You will get my email address from host of these pages soon and I hope we can help each others by discussion via email.

Here are some letters from Damien Schneider. I hope these help you to regognize this scammer.

Hello,

I hope this mail finds you in good health,Thanks for the mail you
sent me and i am really sorry for the late reply ...Seems Your English
is far better than my finnish as i can see clearly .Have you got kids
?and have you got family that stays with you back in Finland ? Well i
thought i should use this means to explain alot more about myself to
you as thats the proper way to start a true and honest relationship
well i have lived in the United Kingdom for over 40years now even
though i do travel to other countries for work and holiday purposes i
have found out that i have not always gotten the feeling of my true
home country (Finland) and i look forward to relocating back to Nokia
someday for work related reasons and some other personal reasons I
would not be able to say in this email.


Well after loosing my Wife to a car accident 3 years back . Getting
on this website seemed like a good idea,as my collegue thought the
shock was getting into me and i was unbalance and this affected alot
about my lifestyle and work generally so he suggested i give this
dating site a try and here i am writing to you ,so tell me what are
your experiences on this dating site and are you on other dating sites
as well ?


My Son Jason is also done with college and he is doing his masters in
Yale University in the United states ,i really do miss him ,how fast
time flies so tell me alittle more about your relationship with kids
??

I really can't say exactly what I like about your profile, but the
person it portrayed to me was my kind. I do not sign into this website
often. If you want to stay in touch it would be better for us to
contact through my private email. Please i would be glad if you can
send me more pictures of you on here as i have already attached some
of mine .

Warm Greetings from Surrey .

Damien


Dear
Thanks for the mail I can almost hear the cheerfulness of
your personality in the words you wrote me and I think you must smile
a lot. That is great and I love that, because I try to be that way as
well. I am a very positive person and try to remain that way, no
matter the circumstances..

I understand all you have written i only wish i was
sitting in front of you sharing thoughts together... I see we have
alot in comon i sometimes consider myself ambitious because I have a
lot of dreams I wish to achieve before I die.work related reasons and
other
personal reasons i will share with you when we meet personally its
really nice to know how much you love your job and i would be glad to
know alot more about it dear .

I like to go Skiing in the Winter. Two places I usually go to are
Rossland, in British Columbia and Winter Park, Colorado. But when I
started visiting in Europe I started visiting some Ski resorts in
Austria, like Kirchberg and Kitzbuhel. I like to read all kinds of
books ranging from Non Fiction to Biographies, I also like super
thrillers and Espionage stories. I have a whole lot of other things I
do to catch some fun but it greatly depends on who I'm with and where
we are. Sometimes I go to see a movie at the Cinema or maybe just
listen to some good
music. I'm thinking about going on a short vacation soonest after my
forthcoming business trip and i hope i could spend all of it with you
dear

I also enjoy taking cruises, shopping, hanging out at the park or
museum. You can also catch me taking long walks at the beach but its
usually always lonely when you don't have someone to share that time
with, someone to hold hands with & dig our feet into the sand, to
Listen to the waves crash on the shore. To feel the sun upon our
faces. Someone willing to travel to new exotic places and appreciate
the things we've got, Even if it's not a lot. To feel the wind flow
through our hair. To feel heaven as if we were there because that
special
someone is next to me and there's no other place I would rather be.

In my short journey in life, I've noticed public opinions about
relationships usually do more harm than good. For this reason I like
to keep my relationships private because when both partners sit down
and talk about there differences they usually find better Solutions
together. I have been very single for couple of years now but didn't
really take note until Jason moved to Yale .

I have reached a level of understanding in which the qualities that
attract me to a woman usually have nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm not the kind of man who wants a woman for just sex or her body.
True love and Compassion can not be based on physical attraction(or
lust) alone. This is one of the important reasons why I don’t date
often.


I don’t have a problem with age, younger or older than me... I feel as
long as we have a connection and the person is mature enough to
understand that Mental Happiness is far more important than physical
happiness, major physical differences do not matter so much. Making
the world a better place is an Enormous task that can not be
accomplished by any individual or group alone. It can only be
accomplished by the cooperation of all human beings.


Well Beauty i respect your demand for my company details as i do
believe anyone could claim to be anyone on here and believe me i only
asked for your phone number as i was hoping we could take our
relationship another step by getting to hear each other on phone ,
anyway here is my company details you demanded for
www.dseengineering.com , i do hope to hear more from you soon as i
find you very nice and someone i would love to be more aquinted with
but you can be sure i am also willing to take things one step at a
time .Wish you are having a great weekend so far and hope to hear
more from you soon

Hugs

Damien


Hello My love ,

Good evening love ,how are you today? I hope you are feeling ok. I
am not doing too happy over here because today, I encountered some
problems with my mission here and coming back to Finland this weekend
is not so certain right now. However, if I'm able to solve the
problems , I might still be able to make it back for the weekend. Once
my flight has been confirmed and I have the details I will forward it
to you so you know when I would be landing at the Airport. If you are
free, I would be glad to see you the same day, I'm sure I won't be too
tired. Once I get back to Finland my plan is to take time out to find
a new residence( House) , after which I would go back to Surrey for a
few days to put my personal belongings together and prepare for a
move.

I shall now try to answer you . I actually take as a chance the fact
that we haven’t met physically, to get to know each other thoroughly
through concepts and words- even though they are just words- and tell
each other how we see, think or feel Life whether alone or
couple-wise.I have been thinking about you after reading your email.
All you said about the way love should be is really not contradictory
to me. I would be lying if I say I do not feel attracted to the person
who writes me these emails. For the last couple of weeks I have felt
very comfortable talking about my desires and wants with you.. It
gives a clue for all the rest… I explain myself : if the eyes of the
heart can tell you what is right and essential, many
questions about love become superfluous. It seems a bit contradictory
to the essence of love to woo love as such and then project it on a
person supposed to be the mould for it leading to the inevitable
answer : able or not able. I rather see it the other way round. But I
admit this is part of the inter-net bet. The verb to love for me,
can’t be put in the imperative form because the act of love is mostly
created by the attractiveness of the object. It cannot be subject to
conditions. It is absolutely free : sets you free enabling you to
become more yourself and gives the other one the space and freedom to
grow at his/her pace.

This is why all what I tell you of myself is never done in an
inventory manner, as if the more I would tell in the sense you expect,
the score the better.. I know it is not what your are aiming at, nor
doing. But it is just the way it comes out in the end, if we follow
this process.

To me, all what you require from a man, in love, is perfectly logical
and is de facto the direct consequence of it. I could even say the
negative form of what you are asking for is sign of NO love. So, what
is clear, at this stage of our communication is that we attribute the
same value to the same things. For me, people who truly love each
other are married in their hearts and Marriage puts in both the inside
and the outside. It is an alchemy made possible by the bliss (grace)
of love, in the mutual gift of life. Kindness is ok and I appreciate
but it is so far from love that better forget it. For the rest, I
prefer to be alone than to be half accompanied with tepidity.

I also appreciate that you see me as someone you can talk to. I know
what it means to have someone to talk to, Someone with whom you can
share your thoughts and desires. Nelson Mandela has been someone I've
always admired, he is one of the most selfless fellows that ever
existed with power. He is one of the few true heroes I know. I noticed
that when people who have met Mandela want to talk about him, the
first thing they say is 'After I met Nelson Mandela my life changed
forever' or 'Nelson Mandela is the greatest man I ever met'.

I usually take my time to know the person on the inside rather than
judge by appearances, present status or peoples opinions. One trait I
have noticed in couples who have maintained a steady caring
relationship for a long time is the ability for them to not always put
things on a Gold scale. Both partners are willing to trust and
compromise for the other. An interest I would like for my partner to
share with me is my vision for making the earth a better place for the
human race. It doesn't mean we have to setup charity organizations or
go to Africa to feed hungry children. It just means being willing to
do our own little bit, it could even mean impacting a better
perspective of our values or just supporting a project within your
vicinity that ensures sustainability.

I'm interested in hearing about your interests. I enjoy reading
everything you have told me about you,

Still thinking about you, I am looking forward to seeing you indeed

Damien


My Love

I am so sorry i couldnt make it on here yesterday for you as i was
in a very sad mood about my situation here and i must say thanks for
your concern. I am a very optimistic person naturally and I always
remain positive. I'm usually a very independent person but finding a
solution to my problem with the customs and the shipping company is
very overwhelming. I have used up all my capacity and invested so much
in this project for me to be able to get my profit out of this project
, I need to have the container in Europe first. Getting the money for
Shipment has been the problem .


I am quite depressed today because I have contacted my colleague and
his phone went into voice mail only to contact the wife to find out
that he is still in the hospital with his daughter after the accident
they were involved in and I have not still been able to gather the
full amount I need to pay for the storage of my goods. Right now I
still need quite a sum. I would appreciate if you can help me out in
anyway. If I am able to get the cash within the next 5 days, I can be
in Finland next week. I would pay you back within 2 weeks from the
date I arrive in Finland..


We have been friends for some time now. I've kept my feelings for you
contained for as long as I could. I'm already falling in love with
you. I promise you this: I will never cheat, lie or do anything to
hurt you. You make me feel so good inside i dream of you day in and
day out; I hope that we get along when we finally meet. I don't know
what the future holds - only God knows.


Although we are both tough individuals with a strong character, I
don't know how and through what sort of magic spell, we are melted in
the same mould and it is- as if most innate, natural- that we
understand each other so well. With you, I am really myself and even
more. You are doing to me what the sun is doing to the vineyards, at
this time of the year.


I understand now why we both look younger than our age. When the
agents of Age came to grave on our door the inexorable imprints of
Time,they said 'No, Not yet. They haven't met yet' !!! For so long I
have been waiting for you, no wonder why I was right away longing for
you.I printed one of your photos and I glance into your eyes when I
work as if asking your approval. And as you seem to agree, I feel I am
doing better and better.


Thank you my love to be with me as you are....
2012-05-10, 18:05:02   (updated: 2012-05-10, 18:09:14)
Miss Marple from United States  
@suomi (Finland),kiitos paljon olen suomen kielinen kanssa:)))))
@Finland thank you so much i do also talk Finnish...

@Nena the second mail posted by the finnish poster is also posted on a another antis scam forum as well,i put an link to that site below this mail,please go trough the other postings on that thread and look if there are something else you recognize ,this mail leads me to Nigeria as i suspected ,the scammer goes under different names but maybe there are other things you can recognize ,but scammers do sell and steel templates too from other scammers ,so it do not mean it is the very same scammer maybe the same scam ring?? i will send you an message with my emailaddress as everything do not need to be posted in public ,i understand it can be sensitive and sometimes scammers can check for victims on forums too,but i do advice ceasing with the scammer for your own peace of mind !
//Miss Marple//

Dear
Thanks for the mail I can almost hear the cheerfulness of
your personality in the words you wrote me and I think you must smile
a lot. That is great and I love that, because I try to be that way as
well. I am a very positive person and try to remain that way, no
matter the circumstances..
I understand all you have written i only wish i was
sitting in front of you sharing thoughts together... I see we have
alot in comon i sometimes consider myself ambitious because I have a
lot of dreams I wish to achieve before I die.work related reasons and
other
personal reasons i will share with you when we meet personally its
really nice to know how much you love your job and i would be glad to
know alot more about it dear .
I like to go Skiing in the Winter. Two places I usually go to are
Rossland, in British Columbia and Winter Park, Colorado. But when I
started visiting in Europe I started visiting some Ski resorts in
Austria, like Kirchberg and Kitzbuhel. I like to read all kinds of
books ranging from Non Fiction to Biographies, I also like super
thrillers and Espionage stories. I have a whole lot of other things I
do to catch some fun but it greatly depends on who I'm with and where
we are. Sometimes I go to see a movie at the Cinema or maybe just
listen to some good
music. I'm thinking about going on a short vacation soonest after my
forthcoming business trip and i hope i could spend all of it with you
dear
I also enjoy taking cruises, shopping, hanging out at the park or
museum. You can also catch me taking long walks at the beach but its
usually always lonely when you don't have someone to share that time
with, someone to hold hands with & dig our feet into the sand, to
Listen to the waves crash on the shore. To feel the sun upon our
faces. Someone willing to travel to new exotic places and appreciate
the things we've got, Even if it's not a lot. To feel the wind flow
through our hair. To feel heaven as if we were there because that
special
someone is next to me and there's no other place I would rather be.
In my short journey in life, I've noticed public opinions about
relationships usually do more harm than good. For this reason I like
to keep my relationships private because when both partners sit down
and talk about there differences they usually find better Solutions
together. I have been very single for couple of years now but didn't
really take note until Jason moved to Yale .
I have reached a level of understanding in which the qualities that
attract me to a woman usually have nothing to do with her appearance.
I'm not the kind of man who wants a woman for just sex or her body.
True love and Compassion can not be based on physical attraction(or
lust) alone. This is one of the important reasons why I don’t date
often.
I don’t have a problem with age, younger or older than me... I feel as
long as we have a connection and the person is mature enough to
understand that Mental Happiness is far more important than physical
happiness, major physical differences do not matter so much. Making
the world a better place is an Enormous task that can not be
accomplished by any individual or group alone. It can only be
accomplished by the cooperation of all human beings.
Well Beauty i respect your demand for my company details as i do
believe anyone could claim to be anyone on here and believe me i only
asked for your phone number as i was hoping we could take our
relationship another step by getting to hear each other on phone ,
anyway here is my company details you demanded for
www.dseengineering.com , i do hope to hear more from you soon as i
find you very nice and someone i would love to be more aquinted with
but you can be sure i am also willing to take things one step at a
time .Wish you are having a great weekend so far and hope to hear
more from you soon
Hugs
Damien

http://www.scamwarn..7&p=97319
2012-05-10, 18:16:50   (updated: 2012-05-10, 18:21:49)
venezolano from Venezuela  
Hello to all ladies that have been scammed or have been receiving letters by this Damien scammer.

Though I’m not specialized with male scammers, the following advices apply.

1.     Most of these male scams come from Lagos, Nigeria or any other African country. They usually write letters at Ciber Café with approval, indifference or knowledge on this matter. It is about time that you learn about tracing IP Headers:
http://aruljohn.com..ipaddress/

2.     If you find out that the letter doesn’t come where it is supposed to come, there are high probabilities that it is a scam. This also applies for phishing scams.

3.     Scammers usually steal pictures from other men without being aware that they’re image is being used for fraudulent purposes. I received once a report from a friend that former Venezuelan Miss Universe 2007 Dayana Mendoza’s image was used by scammers. I’m sure that male scammers do the same.

4.     Like any other romance scam, scammers are writing the same letters to hundreds of victims at the same time. It is important to find letters from other victims and match the content and pictures sent. If you find the same text and pictures from someone else, it is a scam.
Here is some information about these Nigerian scams:
http://en.wikipedia..fee_fraud

I repeat that I do feel sorry for ladies feeling alone becoming victims of these unscrupulous scammers, but it is about time to stop scammers.

P.S. Keep a copy of email letters on your computer for evidence.
2012-05-10, 19:17:19
anonymous from Switzerland  
rating
@Miss Marple

All I can say at the moment is: I am horrified

In other words, this means that these guys will never be caught! or?
2012-05-10, 19:25:22
Nena from Switzerland  
Venezolano:

What's the use anyhow?
They can not be snapped :-(((((((((((((((((((((
2012-05-10, 19:42:51   (updated: 2012-05-10, 19:51:30)
venezolano from Venezuela  
@Nena

It wasn't personal letter for you. It was meant for all victims. Matching letters will happen. Just wait and you will see. Just wait and you will see letters posted with same text. The only variation will come on data like name, date, and location. Scammers use previously written letters. I am only trying to stop other victims. However, beside the job you have to do with aurhorities, I am trying, with your help, to stop other victims from being scammed.

Thanks for your help on this matter, I will appreciate your cooperation,
2012-05-10, 19:53:25
Miss Marple from United States  
@Nena
if this is an scammer that operates from Nigeria there are no police that can help you,they are all corrupt (bought) and basically do not care either as scammers are so many and all goes under fake IDs ..then if the scammers(s) operates from other countries as Malaysia where lot of Nigerians operates from today have some scammers been caught.But receiving your money back can be hard.I know this sounds terrible for you to hear ,but giving hope to victims on scam that they will be recovered their lost money i can not do.If you get mails from people saying that they are police,lawyers or detectives do not trust them as you are scammed out of money scammers will come back to you in other shapes and wants to scam you again,scammers has an suckers list and sells info to other scammers about people that have been scammed.So i advice you to change emailaddress,phone numbers..

2012-05-10, 20:00:38
Miss Marple from United States  
@nena
click on your own user name on the right upper corner to read your messages sent to you ..
i have sent you an message.
@venezolano ,thank you for your valuable help with good information !
2012-05-11, 03:03:29
OJAS from United States  
@Nena, most scammers are ugly looking men, steal other people photos http://youtube.com/..jGF9T325Y

Venezolano gives a good example of a Miss Venezuela photos used by Ukrainian scammers, scamming Dirk. Other photos tried against him are Xenia, a Russian model living in Switzerland, more Swiss models, etc. On this site, hundreds of the actual people in the photos have been identified. Malek is our expert recognizing people.

If you have problems with delphi internal mail, let us know, I will request Dirk to post his email address for you, and he can connect you to other delphians.

You and Finland, also can publish full reports in RealMadrid blog, so in addition to delphi, it will be on another site. He will make sure all your personal information is edited out.

http://www.youtube...SMgGdaGOJM
2012-05-12, 14:51:45
venezolano from Venezuela  
Here is an article about romance scams taken from Wikipedia. It apples with male and female scammers:

http://en.wikipedia..ance_scam
2012-05-12, 16:14:21
anonymous from Switzerland  
@indygrl

Thank you very much for your open description of your case.
I'm going to keep to your advice and can only pray that someday this scoundrel
respectively the group will receive the deserved punishment.

Best regards
N.
2012-05-12, 16:29:06
anonymous from Switzerland  
@venezolano
Hello Venezolano
Interesting article, but unfortunately he is too late in my case but I hope as many people get to face it and stay spared much suffering.
regards
N.
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