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Dating scammer Alena Pikusova from Kostroma, Russia


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2007-06-22, 16:32:20 from United Kingdom  
hi there have been corresponding with this lady ...her name is nadezhda pavlovskaya..............she tells me she is genuine........has anyone seen her pictures

2007-07-29, 12:34:43  
yes for sure
2007-08-03, 04:09:33
anonymous from United States  
Nobody EVER claims to be a liar.
2007-11-14, 07:58:46
anonymous from Canada  
Wow now she is Montreal kijiji's site. The reason why I found it and that it lead me here is this hidden property in the email:
X-Mailer: The Bat! (v3.0) Professional
And here is the content of her email:

Hello my dear new friend John!
To say the truth I haven’t even expect that you would write me because
I’m for the first time in the internet and almost don’t know how it is
working. But I hope that soon I will be able to understand it better
and write you letters every day if you want to correspond with me
more. As for me I think that we can find much in common. And what
about you, John? I think we can be good friends. The main thing is
to have a very big wish and try to understand each other.
Understanding is very important in the relationship between the
people. I think you can ask me why I have decided to go to the
internet to register on this site of acquaintance. I will try to tell
you the truth from the first letter, I don’t want us to hide anything
from each other because it is also very important for me to be truth
that the person whom I want to get acquainted with knows me and have
the imagination about the person with whom he corresponds. I hope you
understand me, John, and won’t hide anything from me too. Don’t be
afraid, John, I won’t think bad of you even if you tell me any bad
facts from your life because I am such a person who can understand and
share feelings and thoughts of other people. Ok, John, I will
continue to write you the reasons of my registering on this site. It
is a very sad story. I had a boyfriend here in my town, his name was
Roman. We have been studying together at school in one class and had
big love to each other. As for me I loved him with all my heart and
thought that we would be together forever. We understood each other
without words and enjoyed our love every day. I think you can
understand me, John, because in my opinion every person has felt
it even though one time in his life. We were going to marry after
studying at the university and dream about our life together, about
children that we would give a birth but when we both were 23 years old
a very awful tragedy happened to us. We liked going for a drive on
bicycles and one shiny summer day when we were going to the beach of
our river Volga to have sunbathe, we saw a very big cargo car that
raced on us. We didn’t think that it could be dangerous but the driver
of it was very drunk and he misdirected my boyfriend on a bicycle. I
was shocked and unconsciousness. I remembered it vaguely but a very
awful thing for me was that Roman dyed on my hands because of many
traumas he got. It is very very awful to lose the person whom you love
and see how he say goodbye to the life. I remember very well his eyes
at that moment. He wanted to say to me something but he couldn’t. I
cried a lot and thought that it was an awful dream and when I opened
my eyes I would have understood that I simply was sleeping and my
lovely person would be alive. But it was a terrible reality. I didn’t
want to believe in it. I thought of committing suicide because I don’t
want to live alone in this world without the person I loved. I was
used to him and didn’t imagine my life without him. I still remember
this accident. And now when I write you it I cry because remember it
again and don’t want to believe it. This tragedy will always be in my
mind. After that I couldn’t sleep for a big period of time. I was
going to the psychologist and took medicines for depression that I had
that time. I hope you will understand my sincerity. Now four years
later I feel much better, I understood that I should live in spite of
the fact that he is not with me. I saw a dream one night where Roman
said to me that life continued and he wanted to see me happy and want
me to find a man who would be worthy to share my life with, who would
love me not less him and who would take care of me. When I awoke I
thought a lot about it and thought that maybe he was right and I
really should be happy. I think that he was honest and said it to me
with sincerity. But it was difficult for me to get acquainted with new
people because I became unaccustomed to it. I was so used to Roman and
he was not only my boyfriend but also he was my friend he was
everything for me, the person due to whom I breathe, eat, sleep and
live. We had many common friends but almost all the time we spent
together. That’s why I had no a need to have the best girlfriend.
Roman was the man whom I trusted all my secrets, everything that
worried me a lot. I loved him…Now I think a lot about for what I loved
him and can enumerate a lot of his assets but maybe I loved him not
for what he was, I loved him for what I was with him. Do you
understand me, John? I hope I didn’t bore you with my story in the
first letter. But I really need such a person in my life who will
understand me and will share my feelings and thoughts. That’s why I
decided to get acquainted with somebody in the internet because for me
it is more simply than to get acquainted with somebody in person. I
begin to shy and become nervous. That’s why all my thoughts are about
what to say how it to say and the contact become not sincere. But
writing letters through the internet can be more useful for the
persons who want to become closer, we don’t see our eyes and can tell
everything to each other honesty. Am I right, John? I also wanted
you to be honesty with me and to hear your story about why you have
decided to get acquainted with me over internet? As for me I have
chosen you because after reading your profile I understood that we
approach each other. We have some common things in our characters and
to be the truth I simply liked you. I decided to try to write you, who
knows maybe you would write me back and you have written. I was really
glad to see your letter in my mail box today because I was waiting for
it with impatience. I’m very thankful for it to you. Maybe we will be
able to learn later that we don’t approach each other but we will be
able to be good friends, John. I hope you are not against it. Ok,
I think I have written you a lot today, moreover my time in the
internet cafe ends and I should say good-bye to you. I hope to get an
answer from you as soon as possible.

Take care,
Your new Russian friend,

2007-11-14, 07:59:26
anonymous from Canada  
She also has the following pics.

2007-11-14, 08:00:06
anonymous from Canada  
And this one is included in her email.

2007-11-14, 09:31:24
OJAS from United States  
If you are new to this site, PLEASE READ: http://www.delphifa..p=52#60711

@allbies, once in a while check these links for information currency [Link Version 2007-11-13, 09:37:32]
2007-11-14, 10:29:51
Peter from Germany  
2007-11-14, 15:46:05   (updated: 2007-11-14, 15:46:50)
anonymous from Toledo, United States  
I sincerely doubt you will ever have anyone tell you they are NOT honest and sincere.
2007-11-14, 17:51:34
OJAS from United States  
2007-12-07, 09:34:54
anonymous from Peru  
I colaborate with you sending a new scammer, she send me a lot of romantic letters in the finish she take a surprise...rsrsrs

Hi my sweetheart joe! I am glad to read your message and to learn,
that I can hope for your help in payment of agency. Dear, I feel
itself it is a little inconvenient because I had to address to you
for the help. I always counted myself the independent person, which
itself can solve all problems. But, this time, I could not all to take
into account and was mistaken that I can pay all travel itself . When
I travelled earlier, it costed for me less. But i'm glad that now I
have you joe, - the man, which can help me. After ours acquaintance,
at me varies sensations of. Earlier I counted myself the strong and
independent person, and it was pleasant for me to feel, that I can
care of myself. And now I feel simply the woman who requires support.
But it is pleasant for me, to feel beside strong the man which
protects me from all excitements of a life! joe, I informed a place
of arrival to you to the agent and he has calculated the staying
payment for me. It will be for me $1749.
Into it enters tickets,
insurance, road up to the airport and some other necessary charges.
With me have still remained money, after payment of the first parts of
cost. It about $200, and now is necessary for me, in 8-9 days about
$1549 to pay in agency the second part of cost travel. I hope dear,
that this money not difficulty for you and you can help to pay to me,
in 8-9 days, $1549 in agency . I shall learn from the agent as you can
send them it. Lovely, I hope, that I did not make to you difficulty by
the haste. Probably it is not planned expenditure for you. If it so,
do not become angry about me please, I very much miss you and i wait
for ours meetings very much. I wait for your letters joe! Thousand
kisses. Yours Valentina.

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2007-12-07, 09:38:03
anonymous from Peru  
really a scammer, here another pic
This image was also posted here:
Dating scammer Maria at

2007-12-07, 11:04:36
OJAS from United States  
Gracias Peru
Can you post headers? Details are under the red banner (Are yoy being scammed and is this your first visit) welcome page/ primer for newbies
Hasta Luego
2008-01-17, 17:00:16
[hidden] from Boise, United States  
Hello, here is another one to add to your collection :)
Hello Derek, I am glad to receive today your letter. Thank you very
much that you found time to write a letter to me. I waited for it from
you very much. You have made today my day especially happy, you have
decorated it with this letter. I want to say, that I am a cheerful
girl. Usually I dont hesitate by dialogue with people, but now I am
excited. I hardly can get hands on keys of the keyboard. My heart is
beaten more rapidly! First of all, I I worry that you will have a
problem in understanding of my English language. I studied the English
language at school, and then at university. Probably my English,
differs from yours colloquial one. Can you understand what I speak
you? If something will be not clear for you, do not hesitate to ask
about it. I do not want, that there will be the essential barrier of
language between us. I really live in Russia, I live in city Penza.
Many kilometers divide us, but I hope, that it will not be a problem
for our communication. I want to tell to you, that I dont like the
Russian men and there is for a reason for it if for you it is
interesting, I can tell to you in the following letter. I have solved
to look for the love outside Russia, I do not know why, but I like
America. I have addressed to agency of acquaintances, which is to be
in our city. I filled in various questionnaires, answered some
questions, and they sad me that in the first day will be uneasy to
find men who fully match me. They advised me to come to agency in some
days. Yesterday I come to the agency of acquaintances and some
profiles of men who mostly match me were presented to me. Also I was
informed that, that match rate in some cases reached 95 percent. It is
a pity, that on my profile it was not possible to place a photo on my
profile, agency informed, that it will be difficult. I shall send the
photo to you today. Derek, I hope you like my photo. Please, send to
me your photos too! Now, probably I should tell you about myself. I am
28 old year, my Birthday is on May, 4, 1980. I am 165, my weight is
55kg, I try now to transfer them into your metric system. My growth 5
' 8, my weight of 121 feet. You better judge my appearance on my
photo. I care about my appearance very much, I attend courses of
aerobics and fitness, it helps me to keep my body and elegance
top-level. It is very important for me because I am a girl and I must
be beautiful. Probably it will be interesting for you to know about my
work. I work as a advertisment agent. I am engaged in designing of
advertising famous trade marks in Russia. Various orders come to us. I
have higher education on the speciality ' Marketing and Advertising
Business '. I like my work very much. I like it because it helps me to
communicate with different people and we have a rallied group of
workers. In our group the success of one employee depends on the
previous success of other employees. Our friendship and unity are
connected just with it. Work allows me to express myself and my
individuality. My work helps me to be well-being. I live to work and I
work to live. I live an independent life, and I liked, I do not like
to need something. I live with my sister in two room apartment. The
majority of the population in Russia lives in apartments. My parents
live separately from us in a country house, they like silence and
fresh air. Our family lives friendly. I love and respect my parents,
because they have presented me the most valuable thing that I have -
my life. Also, parents raised me, brought me up very well, and give me
good education. I am grateful to my parents for everything, that they
have made for me. Derek, please tell me about your family.
kingsnake, I also want to tell you, that my purposes are very
serious. I want to find the man of my love. I want to have serious
relationship and have a good family in which relations will be formed
upon love, mutual understanding, respect, friendship and trust. These
traits are very important for me. I want to find the man, who will be
happy together with me and will support me in despair. Please, tell me
about yours ambitions in your live. It is interesting to me to know
about it. I am really interested in communicating with you. I had
never had communicated with a man from in another country. I shall be
glad to hear about you, about your family, your life. It is also
interesting for me where you work. Derek, please tell me, does the
city where you live have places which are worth to see - theatres,
exhibitions, museums? I like to visit such a kind of establishments in
our city. In last weekend I have visited a planetarium with my
friends. It was great, we had possibility to observe the star sky,
also we observed planets. I liked it very much. Ok, Derek, I have to
finish my the letter. I hope, you take my letter seriously. I want you
take my letter with gravity and responsibility. I hope, it was
interesting for you to know about me, and I hope it takes not much
time for you to read my letter. Please, write to me. I wait with
impatience for your letter. Have a nice day! Sincerely, Ma.
Looks like it came from

Good Luck,
Derek S

2008-01-17, 17:06:18
Derek from Boise, United States  
Heres the headers for that messag.

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