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Name: Brenda Garcia


Email: sweetdovebrenda@yahoo.com


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Her 'Handle' on Yahoo Messenger is sweetdovebrenda, or sweetdove89101


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Now listed on the IwantU.com dating site as a VIP Member (avg cost: $22. per month for VIP status, vs 'Free' for regular members, got to give her credit, as it adds to the vision that she's 'Real'. Says she's 5'8' tall, 27 yrs old, single. Wants to start a relationship.. don't they all.
Anyway, per my 'gut' feeling, I started the Net search, and found your Romancescams Site; I commend you for it. I was going through same and spotted her photo, per comment logged on 11/17/06, 20:08:57, a different pose, but same dress, and left my comment on that site at 00:21:45 re: her, which you then printed, Thanks. She originally had sent me add'l photos last weekend when I asked, so I thought that I'd share them for posting. Never have sent out $$ to her or anyone else for that matter, but by her comments in 2nd E-mail, saying in part, I quote (per her grammer), '
'But right now things arent fine wit me and dis could be stopping this relationship,i feel you can help me get things right but i think u might be mad at me to hearing this,so i would be needing your help.'...I always get a kick out of the way they write, sorta like the same as the way they talk. Good 'clue' is the word 'because', always typed as 'cos', normally found in their mail, as when you read the initial Profile or Bio on these Dating sites, the grammer is almost perfect. So I guess they get others to write the Site lingo. I'll have to admit, like most men, no matter how educated we are, a pretty nice body/face will almost get us every time, and with their forlorn stories awaking our compassionate nature, like helping a poor puppy, but our 'gut' feelings should never be ignored. In anything I do, I try to listen to these other 'feelings', and the saying 'been there, done that', then takes on a whole new meaning...Just thought I'd share, for the rest of you Guys out there.


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2007-09-01, 13:55:34
anonymous from United States  
She tried to hit me up on hot or not
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2007-09-01, 13:57:16
anonymous from United States  
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2007-09-15, 17:12:00
anonymous from United States  
'Sweet Dove Brenda' contacted me through fling.com. i got the same story as someone else here ... she's in Nigeria...her parents were both killed and she's been in the hospital...please send her $200 etc etc etc. I got the same initial four pictures, also.
2007-09-19, 00:06:41
anonymous from United States  
I was contacted by Brenda Garcia through Fling.com. Wanted me to e-mail her @ sweetdovebrenda@yahoo yesterday. Told me that both her parents were killed in a restaurant in Nigeria. Didn't give her an opportunity to ask me for money, although it seems thats where it was leading. She's still out there!
2007-09-19, 12:55:46
anonymous from United States  
Brenda Garcia is now on www.fling.com with the user name 'sweetdovebrenda96801' and it shows that she is in hawaii. Here is some of the e-mail you will receive from her.

ONE

Hi,My name is Brenda.I'm a gentle,loyal,family oriented,soft,passionate,trustworthy lady.i'm easygoing and outgoing.I'm a lady full of fun,i seem to be seriously wanting to meet the man of my life.I love music,movies,outdoors,sight seeing and reading.I'm caring,understanding and honest.I am seeking a caring,understanding and honest man who must have a great sense of humor and must know how to treat a lady bcos somehow i loved to be pampered.I love kids,I love dancing(Its part of my life)I am all for cuddling and hugging and holding each other as much as possible. I love spontanious actions and suprises. I love to be hugged from behind when I'm cooking in the kitchen. I love to cook, love sports, take walks on the beach, I love to travel.

TWO

Hi Honey
How are you doing today?How is your work(job) and things in general?Hope all is going on well.Thanks for getting back to me as soon as possible.I'm seeking a serious relationship probably to find my life partner..When i went thru ur profile, I found out we are 99% match...I really liked all i saw on your profile and i feel we have great things in common But right now things arent fine wit me and dis could be stopping this relationship,i feel you can help me get things right but i think u might be mad at me to hearing this,so i would be needing your help..I hope you enjoyed reading about me.I seem looking forward to a partner to be with for the rest of my life.I'm yet to find someone on the online dating network.It seems like i'm not so lucky on the online dating thing.Tell me more about yourself?? You sound like a fun loving person whom i would love to be with.Did you met anyone yet on the online dating network?Please tell me ok,i wanna know all about you and your experience ok.Be sincere and honest with me ok so things can work out fine.I wanna get to know more about what you are interested in.Bye for now,take care and have a nice time.Awaiting your reply.Hoping to hear from you soon
Urs Brenda

THREE

Well this is what happened...my dad is a sailor and owns a sales bussiness which makes sales of Jewelries/textiles internationally.He makes sales within United States and European countries & also North African countries.He had a deal worth 570m $ in Nigeria at North Africa which he saved all his money against investing in this bussiness So he thought instead of going and coming,he decided to move with his family to Nigeria.So all bcos i had noone to love and care for me back in the states,i decided to join my family in going to nigeria,i had no man.So we all get set to go to Nigeria for a new life,but before we left the states my dad has sold our house and the rest of our properties.
On arriving at the airport in Nigeria around 9pm Nigerian time,we went to a restaurant to get something to eat but unfortunately for us my family was attacked & murdered(shot) at the restaurant so we were rushed by some samaritans to a hospital.I didnt realise all this untill i woke up in the hospital bcos I could not remember some certain things after then I asked after the rest of my family,the dr told me that i was the only survival of the incident except for the fact that only my mom struggles for her life and was in coma for weeks but died yesternite.
I dont know anyone nor anywhere in this country.My mom is scottish while my dad was adopted when he was young,so now i'm all alone.I am oweing the hospital a bill of 200$ so they did seize all my travelling papers and return ticket,saying I'll have to pay off before i can leave.I would be very gratefull and most glad if you can help me out of this situation and help me with an apartment or come and live with you back in the states.Or if you love me i dont mind to be with you for the rest of our lives The hospital bill is all i need to leave this country bcos i seem to have all my travelling papers and return ticket to fly back to you in the states but they are being held down over here by the hospital management.My family had an Inheritance account document in the states which worths 160 milllion usdollars,i cant be able to access the money from here .. i've to be there in person in CA to get it.As soon as you can get me out of here and im back with you in the states,i would go claim and use it to begin a new and happy life together.
Would you help me out of this?

And after this last email googled her name and came across this website. This is pretty cool so here is an update for ya'll
2007-09-19, 20:19:38
ma_fi17@yahoo.com from United States  
I was contact by her on Fling.com she told me she lived in Eau Claire wi USA, but she was on a travel to Nigeriawere her parents were killed, and she was in the St. paul Hospital in Ikeja Lagos Nigeria, and needed money to pay the medical bill.
2007-09-26, 03:15:01
anonymous from Kapaa, United States  
I have come across this woman also on fling.com as brenda garcia sweetdovebrenda@yahoo.com, same spcheel parents killed in nigeria nees help $$$ to get to states.
2007-09-27, 06:54:31
anonymous from Suffield, United States  
I also came accross her on fling.com an also last year under a different screen name anatoby@yahoo.com. she used the same pictures. she didn't get me then and she will not this time. i sent her this page so she knows that we know she's a scammer.
2007-10-11, 22:31:28
anonymous from United States  
Update 10/11/07 SweetDoveBrenda is now on Fling.site and has tried to make contact with me. Ha, I checked on her profile here first and found this. Says she is in Beverly Hills. Rich girl,eh!
2007-10-15, 17:26:32
anonymous from United States  
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Brenda Garcia strikes again. I was just chatting with her today on Yahoo and she used the exact same words and same sad story. Frankly I dunno how anybody could fall for this. I know am not the one to talk because for some reason she ended up in my yahoo list. But for God's sake don't send money to a stranger!!!
2007-10-19, 16:39:30   (updated: 2007-10-19, 16:41:23)
anonymous from United States  
Update: Brenda Garcia Strikes again!

1st email:

'Hi,My name is Brenda.I'm a gentle,loyal,family oriented,soft,passionate,trustworthy lady.i'm easygoing and outgoing.I'm a lady full of fun,i seem to be seriously wanting to meet the man of my life.I love music,movies,outdoors,sight seeing and reading.I'm caring,understanding and honest.I am seeking a caring,understanding and honest man who must have a great sense of humor and must know how to treat a lady bcos somehow i loved to be pampered.I love kids,I love dancing(Its part of my life)I am all for cuddling and hugging and holding each other as much as possible. I love spontanious actions and suprises. I love to be hugged from behind when I'm cooking in the kitchen. I love to cook, love sports, take walks on the beach, I love to travel.'

2nd email:
'Hi Honey
How are you doing today?How is your work(job) and things in general?Hope all is going on well.Thanks for getting back to me as soon as possible.I'm seeking a serious relationship probably to find my life partner..When i went thru ur profile, I found out we are 99% match...I really liked all i saw on your profile and i feel we have great things in common But right now things arent fine wit me and dis could be stopping this relationship,i feel you can help me get things right but i think u might be mad at me to hearing this,so i would be needing your help..I hope you enjoyed reading about me.I seem looking forward to a partner to be with for the rest of my life.I'm yet to find someone on the online dating network.It seems like i'm not so lucky on the online dating thing.Tell me more about yourself?? You sound like a fun loving person whom i would love to be with.Did you met anyone yet on the online dating network?Please tell me ok,i wanna know all about you and your experience ok.Be sincere and honest with me ok so things can work out fine.I wanna get to know more about what you are interested in.Bye for now,take care and have a nice time.Awaiting your reply.Hoping to hear from you soon
Urs Brenda'

I guess I know what the third one would be....

BTW, she says we are match 99%! I don't have a picture in my profile, and any description! That's why I got suspicious and started searching her name.

Thanks for the posting
2007-11-08, 21:21:51
anonymous from United States  
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Just so you know...she's now on fling.com
2007-11-20, 03:32:50
anonymous from Nigeria  
SHE IS NOT A SCAM .. I KNOW HER


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2007-11-20, 06:55:49
anonymous  
You are right, she is not, but you don't know her, not personally - you have only stolen her pictures.
2007-11-26, 06:51:47
anonymous  
This chick has about 10 accounts on fling.com that show up as in/around Kansas city with various names, but all the same pictures that have been set up here. It's truely amazing how some people can try to scam so many people.
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