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Dating scammer Debbie (Debra Roxanne) from Lagos, Nigeria


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Name: Debbie

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This woman has been haunting the halls of Yahoo Instant Messenger and the dating site nationwide. She is currently in Nigeria and has remained there for over one year, and is probably originally from there. She successfully scammed me of $35K (USD) and a one-way ticket to the States.

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2008-01-10, 02:36:48
anonymous from Guam  
mingle_withrosesmith.has been around with the same old story. Not hard to see what she or he is up to, especially when in need of money.
2008-01-10, 02:40:50
anonymous from Guam  
Here are a couple links to this scammer:


If you could get an email from her, then it would be easy to locate the ISP and location where she is using a computer.
2008-01-11, 22:52:21
anonymous from United States  
shes at it again....and i riped the person a new one

going by the name of jullian smith
stuck at a hospital in nigeria and the embassy wont help.....(bs)
dont get duped ppl....stomp this scammer down
2008-01-14, 20:05:34
anonymous from Los Angeles, United States  
She's going by Rose Smith now and I have emails from her!!!!
2008-01-18, 08:38:01
anonymous from United States  
I was just confronted by a Rose Smith on yahoo who tried to hit me up for $750 via western union. Be careful out there....
2008-01-25, 02:18:23
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2008-01-25, 02:19:32
Nigerian Scam Artist

2008-01-29, 13:39:35   (updated: 2008-01-29, 13:40:57)
I think this is she/he is Debbie Cole on Singlesnet. Just FYI
Lengthy but I thought you would like to see.

debby debra (1/28/2008 8:05:55 PM): How are you doing ?
(1/28/2008 8:06:02 PM): ok..and you?
(1/28/2008 8:06:08 PM): enjoying Michigan cold
(1/28/2008 8:06:10 PM): that's all
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:06:15 PM): Am fine
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:06:21 PM): Okay
(1/28/2008 8:06:55 PM): what is your full name?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:07:25 PM): Debby Cole
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:07:27 PM): you ?
(1/28/2008 8:07:56 PM): that important? this about spam?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:09:02 PM): What do you mean spam ?
(1/28/2008 8:09:46 PM): dunno....just never had anyone ask my full name off the bat...usually it is...Hi, how are you..etc
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:10:46 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:11:01 PM): i am sorry if i have offended you with that
(1/28/2008 8:11:23 PM): what are you up too Debbie Cole?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:12:49 PM): Well nothing
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:12:52 PM): Just chilling here
(1/28/2008 8:14:05 PM): ic...what brings you to Singlesnet?...debby debra (1/28/2008 8:15:09 PM): Well what really brings me here is that i am here looking for my soul mate
(1/28/2008 8:15:42 PM): oic.....same do you know when you have found your soulmate, or if he exists?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:16:34 PM): Well we will get to know about ourself better
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:16:46 PM): then see where it leads us to
(1/28/2008 8:16:53 PM): ic
debby dbra (1/28/2008 8:17:02 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:17:12 PM): So tell me for how long have been on singlesnet
(1/28/2008 8:17:56 PM): not long.....says you live in Southfield...are you American born?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:18:31 PM): No
(1/28/2008 8:18:57 PM): ahhh...I thought so...where from?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:19:30 PM): Yugoslavia...When i was 5years old my parent brought me to USA
(1/28/2008 8:20:25 PM): you have a pic online?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:20:52 PM): Yes i do
(1/28/2008 8:21:09 PM): lets see it, you see me
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:21:51 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:22:06 PM): But you will have to give me some time to upload them
(1/28/2008 8:22:43 PM): you can send them by clicking the send file button on top of this window...then attach them and send
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:23:08 PM): i will do that if you want me to do that
(1/28/2008 8:23:43 PM): k....if you upload them to singlesnet it takes a few hours to show up on line....but if you send them via this messenger, I will see them in minutes
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:24:36 PM): I know i will let you see them here
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:24:41 PM): Okay
(1/28/2008 8:24:45 PM): k
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:25:05 PM): Or will you like to share pics ?
(1/28/2008 8:25:24 PM): you see my pics online
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:25:56 PM): Yeah but i will like to see it large
(1/28/2008 8:26:46 PM): first sweetie
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:26:59 PM): Okay i will
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:34:10 PM): Can you see me now
(1/28/2008 8:34:50 PM): hmmm.....I see the one...full head of blond hair...hmmm...
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:35:07 PM): Can i see you ?
(1/28/2008 8:35:28 PM): I have the same pics you see of me on Singlesnet
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:35:52 PM): Sdend it here
(1/28/2008 8:37:29 PM): give me a sec...but I don't know why you want to see when you can look at my profile on singles net
(1/28/2008 8:37:33 PM): that is how you found me
(1/28/2008 8:37:34 PM): silly
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:38:13 PM): If you dont want to show me here there is no problem
(1/28/2008 8:39:49 PM): i have sent them
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:40:37 PM): Thanks alot
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:40:43 PM): i have seen it
(1/28/2008 8:40:50 PM): k
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:41:40 PM): So tell me for how long have your been on singlesnet ?
(1/28/2008 8:41:58 PM): maybe a couple of weeks...and you?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:42:14 PM): just 3days now
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:42:37 PM): That mean you have been talking to a lot of girls on here
(1/28/2008 8:42:43 PM): not really
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:43:42 PM): Well ok
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:43:54 PM): so tell me what are you looking for here
(1/28/2008 8:44:18 PM): date, lover, soulmate.....
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:44:47 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:44:52 PM): Are you single ?
(1/28/2008 8:45:00 PM): of course...are you?
(1/28/2008 8:45:28 PM): I met a very nice woman yesterday
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:45:39 PM): Yes i am
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:46:55 PM): For how long have you been single ?
(1/28/2008 8:47:21 PM): I have been divorced for about 5 years
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:47:30 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:47:45 PM): You said you met a nice woman here yesterday ?
(1/28/2008 8:48:09 PM): me met for a drink
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:48:38 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:48:50 PM): So you told her that you are single or something ?
(1/28/2008 8:49:16 PM): hmmm......I am not married if that is what you mean
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:49:33 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:52:32 PM): You there
(1/28/2008 8:52:46 PM): yes sorry
(1/28/2008 8:52:54 PM): where do you work?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:53:12 PM): Are you busy ?
(1/28/2008 8:53:27 PM): no...chatting with you
(1/28/2008 8:54:00 PM): goofing on the computer and reading news stories as usual
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:56:45 PM): Okay
(1/28/2008 8:56:58 PM): how many peeps are you chatting with?
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:57:35 PM): You only
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:58:13 PM): Why did you asked ?
(1/28/2008 8:58:14 PM): ic
(1/28/2008 8:58:31 PM): cause I thought you may be chatting with others...that is all
debby debra (1/28/2008 8:59:04 PM): I was waiting for you to type
(1/28/2008 9:00:18 PM): oh....I am typing...just thinking of stuff to first
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:00:46 PM): lol
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:01:18 PM): So tell me about yourself
(1/28/2008 9:02:33 PM): hmmm...I am 6ft, 200 lbs....debby debra (1/28/2008 9:02:53 PM): That is great
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:03:07 PM): so tell me for how long have you been on doing this ?
(1/28/2008 9:03:44 PM): the last internet date I had we dated for the lst 3 years
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:04:08 PM): How did you do that
(1/28/2008 9:04:36 PM): we dated for three years...but she moved away about 6 months ago
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:04:58 PM): Ohh
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:05:03 PM): Why did she moved away ?
(1/28/2008 9:05:21 PM): her job transferred
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:05:37 PM): Ohh...How do you feel
(1/28/2008 9:06:04 PM): I feel ok
(1/28/2008 9:06:06 PM): u?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:06:36 PM): i am ok too
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:06:51 PM): When last did you talk to her last ?
(1/28/2008 9:07:13 PM): we talk from time to time
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:07:33 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:07:47 PM): So tell me is there anything you still have in common with her ?
(1/28/2008 9:08:12 PM): hmmm...we are friends
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:08:54 PM): Okay
(1/28/2008 9:09:39 PM): and about your last date?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:10:13 PM): I dont like to remember about it again
(1/28/2008 9:10:21 PM): yikes
(1/28/2008 9:10:46 PM): where were you born in Yugo?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:11:03 PM): Yes
(1/28/2008 9:11:29 PM): ever go back there or want to?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:11:55 PM): Nope
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:12:11 PM): i have not cos i dont have anybody there again
(1/28/2008 9:12:44 PM): yeah...icc
(1/28/2008 9:12:45 PM): ic
(1/28/2008 9:15:29 PM): so tell me about yourself...describe yourself...all I can see is a blonde picture but it is difficult to see
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:17:57 PM): Are you there ?
(1/28/2008 9:18:12 PM): yeah...I typed a message about describing yourself
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:18:50 PM): I did not get it
(1/28/2008 9:19:05 PM): so tell me about yourself...describe yourself...all I can see is a blonde picture but it is difficult to see
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:19:05 PM): maybe it was when i got booted
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:19:30 PM): Okay
(1/28/2008 9:19:36 PM): k
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:19:37 PM): i am 5'6tall
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:19:39 PM): 128lbs
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:19:50 PM): blond hiar
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:21:04 PM): You get that
(1/28/2008 9:21:26 PM): yes...was looking at your profile on Singlesnet
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:21:46 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:22:21 PM): Have you finish reading it ?
(1/28/2008 9:22:48 PM): yes....
(1/28/2008 9:22:58 PM): what do you do for work?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:23:19 PM): I dal with Sculpture
(1/28/2008 9:23:59 PM): ic...artist
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:25:11 PM): Yeah
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:25:20 PM): that is what i do for living
(1/28/2008 9:26:15 PM): kids, and no husband...what's up? sound nice
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:26:58 PM): Yeah i dont have Kids and i dont have husband
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:27:07 PM): i have been single for 2years now
(1/28/2008 9:27:33 PM): last boyfriend was two years ago...ic
(1/28/2008 9:27:39 PM): where do you live in Southfield?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:29:36 PM): East Yorkshire
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:30:03 PM): You know there ?
(1/28/2008 9:30:18 PM): not really...let me look it up
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:30:53 PM): Okay
(1/28/2008 9:34:06 PM): hmmm....I can't find that...did an internet search of East Yorkshire in Southfield
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:34:48 PM): Wetwang
(1/28/2008 9:35:04 PM): wetwang?
(1/28/2008 9:35:56 PM): not sure where that is
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:36:13 PM): Well that is where i stay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:36:22 PM): So tell me where do you stay
(1/28/2008 9:36:51 PM): debby debra (1/28/2008 9:38:15 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:39:13 PM): So tell me are you planning of getting married?
(1/28/2008 9:39:34 PM): some day......
(1/28/2008 9:39:38 PM): no hurry
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:39:44 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:39:54 PM): How old are you ?
(1/28/2008 9:40:29 PM): 42
debby debr (1/28/2008 9:40:44 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:40:51 PM): That a nice age
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:40:58 PM): and you are still single
(1/28/2008 9:41:52 PM): was married before
(1/28/2008 9:42:10 PM): are you really in the states or are you oversees?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:43:08 PM): I am in the state
(1/28/2008 9:43:17 PM): which state?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:43:32 PM): Michigan
(1/28/2008 9:43:39 PM): ahh...ic
(1/28/2008 9:50:07 PM): have you met anyone from Singlesnet?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:50:25 PM): No
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:50:34 PM): u?
(1/28/2008 9:50:56 PM): one
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:51:28 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:51:37 PM): When did you foubd her ?
(1/28/2008 9:51:53 PM): met for a drink..that is all
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:52:08 PM): Ok
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:52:16 PM): you told me before
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:52:36 PM): but you told me that you have nothing in common
(1/28/2008 9:53:24 PM): hmmm....I did not say that...just said that I met someone yesterday...did not discuss what we had in common
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:53:46 PM): Okay
(1/28/2008 9:55:55 PM): were you married before?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:56:05 PM): Noe
(1/28/2008 9:56:28 PM): how come you are single for the last two years
(1/28/2008 9:56:34 PM): ?
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:57:07 PM): just some boy lover and a girl lover stuff
(1/28/2008 9:58:10 PM): sounds
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:58:56 PM): Okay
debby debra (1/28/2008 9:59:34 PM): What made me single was that i met my boylover sleeping with my best friend inside my bedroom
(1/28/2008 9:59:51 PM): hmmm....better wash the sheets
(1/28/2008 10:00:22 PM):
(1/28/2008 10:00:27 PM):
(1/28/2008 10:00:34 PM): sorry to hear that
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:00:50 PM): Well i try to
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:01:04 PM): that is the reason i am looking for someone to console m
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:01:13 PM): Cos i am an orphan also
(1/28/2008 10:01:46 PM): ic..that is sad too
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:02:50 PM): So you can see why i need someone by me
(1/28/2008 10:03:58 PM): I think so
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:04:12 PM): okay
(1/28/2008 10:06:25 PM): is that the only pic you are blonde but it is hard to see
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:07:04 PM): NO
(1/28/2008 10:12:53 PM): sooo...what else?
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:13:09 PM): like what
(1/28/2008 10:14:00 PM): dunno....what do you like to do for fun?
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:14:34 PM): going to the beach and watch sport on the tv
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:14:37 PM): u ?
(1/28/2008 10:15:41 PM): same.....
(1/28/2008 10:15:46 PM): no beach this time of year though
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:15:58 PM): Yes
(1/28/2008 10:18:08 PM): what else is good?
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:18:36 PM): You mean that i like for fun ?
(1/28/2008 10:18:50 PM): yeah
(1/28/2008 10:19:02 PM): teasing peeps on the net?
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:19:24 PM): lolo
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:19:32 PM): well i dont know how to tease
(1/28/2008 10:20:02 PM): k
(1/28/2008 10:28:02 PM): I am sure u do
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:28:24 PM): ok
(1/28/2008 10:30:47 PM): chatting with anybody else from Singlesnet
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:31:28 PM): no
(1/28/2008 10:33:31 PM): what are you up too tonight?
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:34:02 PM): nothing
(1/28/2008 10:35:49 PM): do you live by yourself or with friends or parents/
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:36:25 PM): ,y pareent are late
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:36:34 PM): am an orphan
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:36:40 PM): i dont have friend
(1/28/2008 10:37:15 PM): how come no friends?
(1/28/2008 10:37:29 PM): live by yourself then?
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:37:48 PM): yes
(1/28/2008 10:41:07 PM): sound so lonely
(1/28/2008 10:41:12 PM):
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:41:29 PM): yeah i am lonely
(1/28/2008 10:42:49 PM): is that your photo on the right?
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:43:22 PM): yeah
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:43:39 PM): i have to rest bow i will be back in an hour
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:43:41 PM): ok
(1/28/2008 10:43:49 PM): talk to you later
debby debra (1/28/2008 10:43:58 PM): ok
2008-01-30, 16:39:40
anonymous from New Zealand  
Hi Has anyone heard of Joan Williams from Nigeria? She apparently works with UNICEF over there and is from England.

I would be very interested to know.

2008-02-14, 12:48:56
anonymous from Netherlands  
Yes, I had contact with someone with that name.
Underneath is a copy of the 1st letter. With my 1st and last reply.
Since a week I became familiar with scammers.
Often easy to recognize.
F. Kooijman

-----Oorspronkelijk bericht-----
Van: Joan Williams []
Verzonden: do 14-2-2008 14:56
Aan: ------
Onderwerp: HI from iwantu

Thanks for the mail you sent to me i am so excited and i will be more excited to mail you back and tell you more about me and what i do for living and maybe all you need to know as a friend.My name is Joan Williams but my parent call me(sisi)hmmm my dad used to tell me i am his little angel and i love it whenever i heard him say pearls!sounds sweet to me,Well i am age 30, 5.5ft tall and a briton and a graduate i had my first degree in accounting, I think i had the best family my dad and mom has been so wonderful and i feel they are the treasure sent from above i have a liltte daughter and shes just 3yrs old and her name is julliana .we both resides in the western part of london(chelsea)mmm more of me and i hope this time i wont be blowing my trumpet by myself huh?i am Intelligent, passionate, sensual, affectionate, funny, honest, witty and nurturing: there are many sides to my personality. My life has been a wild and at times bumpy ride, (Oh, the stories you will hear!
LOL!) but it’s made me stronger and smarter. I don’t obsess about little things anymore, and never take any of my loved ones for granted. Even though I can take care of myself, I long for a partner in life who will care for me as I care for him. Life is so much better when shared by a kindred soul. About me: I have always been the life of the party, with wild funny stories and jokes. People seem to naturally gravitate to me, and often confide in me and seek my advice. You'll frequently find me in deep conversations with complete strangers when I'm out and about. I can fit into almost any situation comfortably. I love the beach and the power of the ocean. Shopping, flea markets, various types of shows and fairs, art, music, historical places: I'm open to many adventures. I have found that I can be happy doing just about anything, as long as I'm with that special person. I would even like to curl up and watch sports with him, or cook him something wonderful as I listen to
him yell at the television. These are the moments that make up the best parts of life. I have all the qualities a man desire in a soul mate but i dont want it to look like am blowing my trumpet on here,you will get to confirm things as time goes on and we make more contact .I like reading,watching movies,playing tennis,swiming,and going to the museum. I never ever want to remember the events of sadness that had occured in my life but i will tell you all when things develop between us. I personally can't see beauty being the reason of loving somneone or having emotional feelings for the person, but you know that there are a few sayings about that maybe one mans trash is another mans treasure,people base their reasons on diff grounds.I have just been through a single relationship since i reached the age of reasoning and because I was not forced to love ,i have since then believe love will always find a way if its real and genuine. I have been seeing things for what they are
worth.In describing myself, i can say more of that will be known with time as i dont it look like am blowing my own trumpet. I am a good woman and will sure become great wife someday. I have a good sense of humor; I have always tried to be fair and understandable. I am very careful with my thought, for they become my word, my word for they become my actions, my action for they become my habits, my habit for they become my character, my character for it will for sure become my destiny and i tend to think good always.
I posses alot that makes me a good lady and hope i am not blowing my trumpet here huh?lol,i am an affectionate lady, very romantic and God fearing ,the man of my dream must possess these as a man;must be a caring man,loving,affectionate,sincere,trustworthy man,very romantic and must be God fearing man,man that cant mind the beating of my emotions and understand what i leave unsaid,kindhearted,someone who will not take advantage of my weakness but rather build up a good and long lasting happiness with me,someone i can share those beautiful and wonderful dreams with and build up a shining visions with.I have been hurted in the past and even though i dont like to talk about the past but rather get on with life i still beileve the past made up my future.i am so sorry to tell you this like i would not want you worry just that it makes me a bit skeptical about relationship as my whole life has been a drama and this has made me smarter and wise.even though i am new to online
dating I think i would want someone mature and soundminded and maybe serious and value time and other half(me)someone who realise the purpose of having a friendship who would value it much more than i will do.I think i am doing this in a whole but i feel we could do this little by little and can you pls tell me about you and all you think a new friend like myself can learn and pls i dont want HEAD GAMES as i would appreciate your sincerity i wil be willing to accept you for the kind of man you are i mean more natural i dont care about your status,color,race,look and i want of you is just the real you .Moreso,about my my job,i work for unicef as a volunteer and i started this when i lost my husband some years back.I have been to asia,europe and some countries in america. i work as a volunteer not for the money just for the love and passion for all the kids like julliana all over the world and more in particular what they are going through either with a single parent or
non most are going through one hardship or the other and i am so happy to do this and to make sacrifice maybe someday i'll like to become mother theresa II lol (that was just a joke).I have travelled to alot of places and hope for more and not until the day that i am married that i will lay off to have more time for my family(husband and kids,future)So about my country,Its a very nice place with all the natural endowments and a great place.Well i think i will have to stop here,and wait to have a response from you,so we could get to know some more better.I will like you to tell me about your person too,your likes,dislikes and hobbies and anything you can think of.
From your hopefully now a bit better known friend,

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British and a degree and then this kind of English?
Why do I think I am dealing with a SCAMMER here?
You are right about one thing, I quote you:
'I am very careful with my thought, for they become my word, my word for they become my actions, my action for they become my habits, my habit for they become my character, my character for it will for sure become my destiny and i tend to think good always.'
Do you now?
Well, it WILL make your destiny! Continue this actions and you'll see !!
Until never.
2008-02-14, 20:49:34
anonymous from United States  
Same at myspace with the name nikki or grace2011
2008-02-14, 20:54:46
anonymous from United States  
her email,
2008-02-15, 21:37:52
[hidden] from Broken Arrow, United States  
Watch out for Becky James.

I received an email from her from
(Single_Ok99030 []).

I have included the text and three pictures she sent me. I am not sure if this is a new alias or if she is a copycat. You be the judge.

1st Message

Hi John,How are you doing today?I hope you are having a great time anywhere you are..Well,thank you very much for the response to my e-mail on the dating site..Well,i am very new on the site and i signed up for 3 day free trial..I am Beckey James,I am 28 year old and am about 132 lbs..I am about 5 7 tall too..Right now i live in Tulsa,Oklahoma and am really new to the whole area..
Well,i had lived in Waterbury,Ct before..I later moved over to Sweden with my parents..That was where i spend most part of my life..My father was moved to Sweden because of the nature of his work..I was the only kid of my parents,so that made it easy for them to move anywhere they want to move to..My father was a construction engineer and my mother was a nurse,but she later gave up her career because of her family,but my father was still working..They are both late now..I never met a family,so i dont have one family right now..
Well,right now i am single,i live alone,i have never been married and i have no kids..My last relationship was about 1 year ago..I was cheated on by my ex,i dont really like to talk about it,cos it was really a bad experience,but i am really happy now,because i am read to get into a really good relationahip and i am ready to give another man a chance..I am vey caring,loving,i have a good sense of humour,and am very open minded...I am looking for someone thats honest,faithfull,loving,caring,have a good sense of humour,love to try new things,and someone thats passionate..I am looking for a serious relationship with someone thats a one lady man..
Right now,for work i travel around the world to buy antiques and sell them in the state..Right now am in West Africa(Nigeria) for a business,and i will be back in few days..I am very new to the whole business and this is just my second time out of the state..Well,i moved back to Oklahoma,because that where my parents met and it really hold a good memory for me..I love to make most out of life,i love to have fun and enjoy myself..For fun,i enjoy cooking,shopping,sightseeing and traveling,swimming,boating ,skiing,skating,movies,music and sports..
Well,i hope i have not bored you with my e-mail,take time and tell me more about you too,well,i want to tell you that i have a cat,and his name is Jack,i always go with him anywhere i travel too..I have a stoe in my home where i sell my antiques..Well,i have to stop for now,tell me more about you and you can ask anything you would like to know about me..


2nd Message

How are you doing today?Its really good to read from you again..Well,i am really sorry i was not able to reply your e-mail real soon,i had a problem with my pc,its working well now and i can get to reply you real quick..Well,its about 8am here now..I have been thinking about you here and would love to meet you in person as soon as am back in the state too.Well,i will be back in 2days as i earlier said from now,and this is my first time here and when am back am not traveling to anywhere until June.My cats name is Jack and i have had him for about a year now.You are just my kind of man..I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with..I dont want someone that will play me and make me feel unappreciated...Well,i will be back in the state in 1day from now,i am almost done here..Well,i have been in Africa for about 5days now..I have not really enjoyed my stay here,because i dont feel comfortable here,i think thats because i missed my home so much,am homesick right now...Well,i am still very young in the antiques business,i studied art in a college in Sweden,so its kind of easy for me to diversify...I am still young in the business anyway..I hope you read my first e-mail,i have not traveled so much,this is my second time outside of the state.Well,i cant wait to meet you in person.Do you live alone?What are your favorite foods?whats your favorite book to read..Well,for me my favorite foods are good steak,pizza,lasagna and italian food..Have a nice weekend..Love,Beckey

3rd message

Good morning dear,how are you doing today?I hope you had a wonderful nite..Well,its about 7am here and i just woke up..Its really a good treat to read from you again..Well,i am suppose to be home now,but i am having trouble here getting back home..I lost my wallet and it has all my money in it,and i owe the hotel some bill here i need to clear before i could leave..I have tried all i could to get funds here but all to no avail..The hotel manager told me i have to pay the bill before i could leave here.I hope you can help me dear.I would really appreciate and be grateful if you can help me and i can get you the funds back as soon as am back.I will be waiting to read from you..Lots of hugs and kisses from me..


4th message (I got this one when I asked her how to contact the hotel)

How are you doing today?Well,i was having problem with my e-mail account here..Its ok now and that wont happen again..Well,the name of the hotel manager is Mr Yemi,the name of the hotel is Adeyinka Hotel and the phone number is 234-80-51566152..Let me know if you can help me,i am owing the hotel 720$ and would appreciate any amount you could be of assistance..I will be waiting to read from you..Love,Beckey

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Dating scammer Debbie (Debra Roxanne) from Lagos, Nigeria

2008-02-18, 08:51:40
anonymous from Ireland  
tryin to find out about a girl called lora perry she says she is a nurse with unicef and working in nigeria looked at your pictures not there would you have more info pass
2008-02-20, 08:48:33
[hidden] from Germany  
Hi guys !!!

I ´m the first german here I think, who was scammed by this ' nice person'!!

I met her at, her name was, her name Lisa Deborah Jacobs, the second name for the money transaction she used was Lisa Roxanne Jacobs !!!

E-mail adress:

She obviously was in Nigeria/Lagos for buying Gold and gemstones, as she has a jewelry in Bedford UK. Her living adress in Uk is: Uk 7 Brookes Ave Flitwick Bedfordshire Uk,
but she said me she lives also in Gladstone in Queensland/Australia.
Her Story : she was a single child of her parents, father australian , mother irish.
Her parents died when she was 18, had some relationships to men , but was hurt so many times.

Then the same staory as everywhere: she couldnt pay the hotel in Lagos, and her flight
to Australia was expired, she asked me to send money , and she would take a flight right away to Frankfurt.

I have send her all together 1800 Euros, by Western Union to Lagos.

Details : Name: Lisa Roxanne Jacobs
Hotel Address: 208 Akowonjo Road
City: Lagos
State: Lagos
Zip code:
Country: Nigeria

Lisa Roxanne Jacobs
City: Lagos
State: Lagos
Country: Nigeria
Zip code: 23401

'Lisa : give me a call on the number : +2348025194851' , +2348069657151'

Boys watch out at this person, she is soo charming, and that makes her
dangerous !! I will give al this information to the crime police here, hopefully the
will get her one day !!
I attached 2 new pictures of her, the yare not already here in this forum!!

If there is any chance to catch her or him, let me know !!

Sincerely .......

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