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Name: Lolly Frings


Email: frings4chat@yahoo.com


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This one I contacted at www.iwantu.com because of the provocative profile she has on there. Her initial response didn't give me much to go on, but she included a couple of pics, so, sucker that I am, I wrote back again. Her second email was much more effusive and inviting.

She immediately tried to get me to meet her on Yahoo chat, so there's not much by way of email records here, but she starts off as very submissive - love you forever, will do anything you desire sexually, etc. then lays the Nigerian scam on you (she went to West Africa as a volunteer with the Catholic Charities organization a year and a half ago, she hasn't been paid, she can't get out of the country, she needs your help, claims her 'friend' will put money in your acount & you only need to forward the funds to her via Western Union, her 'friend' can't send the money to her directly because he doesn't have a visa account to transfer the money with, but he has an account with Bank of America he can transfer to you with, etc.)

Once she thinks she's got you hooked with her absolute submissiveness and sexual devotion to your every desire, she then becomes very manipulative and demanding. She 'ordered' me to open a checking and savings account because 'its what I want', etc. Of course, she quickly apologizes when confronted about this sudden change to manipulative behaviour but then immediately goes and tries some other manipulation. She's got quite a bag of tricks, this one...

For example, she claimed she was running out of fuel to run her electric generator, which costs $30 an hour to run, and which she claims is her only source of electricity to talk to you on the internet, but she won't get offline to save any fuel, and instead will spend another hour initiating and having cybersex, then abruptly reminds you that she's running out of fuel and asks you to send her $150 via western union because she's down to her last $20. Of course, she'll alternate between the 'take away' saying she has to go cause she's running out of fuel, and arguing with you, saying she wants to be with you forever, do you think she could ever hurt you, what do you take her for, etc. and will stay online just as long as she thinks she's got a shot at getting any money out of you, long past when her 'fuel' was supposed to have run out if you play it right. Of course, it's amazing how she shows up online night after night with no fuel, after this as well. This one is amazing in how she goes from so sweet and innocent and so incredibly submissive, to becoming a screaming manipulator overnight. Her explanation being that there's civil unrest in the area, people are being killed for political reasons, and her life is in danger. As I said, quite a bag of tricks.

If you stay on invisible mode, she'll come on night after night looking for you, and sending short innocent inquiries 'you there...?' 'I'm on now', etc. but she will not respond to emails, most likely to avoid providing you with any evidence of how she operates so you can expose her to others.


First letter:

hello dear,
how are you doing, this is Lolly from iwantu and here are some pics of me hope you enjoy them..

Take care
Kisses

Lolly

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2007-03-30, 17:37:28   (updated: )
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2007-03-30, 17:37:28   (updated: )
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2007-03-30, 19:06:22
anonymous from United States  
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Here's Letter #2 -

Hello xxxxx,
I'm like WoW! i cant believe you could write me back. I really appreciate your concern toward me and i will also like to know more about you,... am a simple lady with a heart of gold, easy to go along with, here is a lil about me, my late dad is Dutch but was nationalize in USA, while my mom is from South Africa but was married in Alabama, i was born in Alabama riased and brought in Staten Island NY, I work with Catholic charity Organsation as a Volunteer worker, i love to Volunteer, it really fun and adventure, it's helps me to travel round africa for free, i was posted to Safari West Africa last 6months and it's been fun throughout,....I want to experience new things and i dont mind to visit you and trying something new b/cos i love sex and will also want to explore my sexual fantaise with someone who is real and ready for love. am new to the site and i hope i've found you as the special man in my life... i'll be waiting for you dear...Until then stay sweet and keep smiling......

Kisses

Lolly

N:B I'll be waiting for you later tonight so that we can chat via yahoo messenger at frings4chat

Take care
2007-03-30, 19:08:08
anonymous from United States  
After a chat or two, I asked for additional pics, She sent me the following 3.
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2007-03-30, 19:08:49
anonymous from United States  
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2007-03-30, 19:09:24
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2007-03-30, 19:33:10
anonymous from United States  
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Before I received these pics, her story was that she was on 'vacation' now that her period of volunteering with Catholic Charities had ended, and she was going to be coming back to the states shortly. Around this time her story changed to how she had not been paid by Catholic Charities, to how she was actually stranded in West Africa, to how there was uprising in the nearby village of Chad and she was fearing for her life, etc. etc. every one of which was designed to elicit sympathy, guilt, and a desire to 'rescue' her from her dire situation... a situation which hadn't existed until after she thought she had hooked me with her undying devotion and promises to be my personal sexual servant for the rest of eternity.

Of course, she claimed to be devoted to me and pledged a life of sexual satisfaction of my every desire by the end of our second chat. By the time I stopped talking with her, however, by the end of the first week, she had turned into a very demanding, manipulative creature.

I forgot to mention in my first posting that I really wasn't sure if she was needing help or not, though I realized I would never have anything to do with such a manipulative woman as far as personal relationships go... but just in case, I had opted to open a separate online account so that any fraud or funds received would not jeopardize my personal account. When I mentioned this to her, this is when she ordered me to 'open a checking and savings account'. When I responded to this, asking why would I want to do that, her initial response to me was actually 'just do it...'. When I asked for a better explanation, her next response was 'it's what I want... that's why'. She was totally oblivious that she had no say in the matter, her name was not on the account, and I was doing this only as a matter of self-protection. This is what I mean by just a total attitude transformation - from being kind, caring, submissive, and sweet, to being demanding, domineering, manipulative, argumenative, egocentric, etc. only a few days later, once she thought she had me hooked by lust and sympathy.
2007-04-03, 21:08:50   (updated: 2007-04-03, 21:11:18)
anonymous from Irving in Texas, United States  
Same letter to me also. You would think they would be a bit more creative. I'm going to play along for a while. At least she or he appears to be cute. Can't wait to get some better pics.

I'm not even using my real name with her. Guess I''ll add more later as I get more.






Hello ,
I am so sorry for the late responds i was busy and don't gte online often but i'm willing to try anything with you if you're truely sincere about a serious Relationship with me. Anyway i cant believe you could write me back. I really appreciate your concern toward me and i will also like to know more about you,... I am a simple lady with a heart of gold, easy to go along with, here is a lil about me, my late dad is Dutch but was nationalize in USA, while my mom is from South Africa but was married in Alabama, i was born in Alabama raised and brought in Staten Island NY,
I work with Catholic charity Organsation as a Volunteer worker, i love to Volunteer, it really fun and adventure, it's helps me to travel round Africa for free, I was posted to Safari West Africa last 6months and it's been fun throughout,....I want to experience new things and i dont mind to visit you and trying something new b/cos i love sex and will also want to explore my sexual fantaise with someone who is real and ready for love. am new to the site and i hope i've found you as the special man in my life... i'll be waiting for you dear...Until then stay sweet and keep smiling......

Take care

Kisses

Lolly

N:B I'll be waiting for you later tonight so that we can chat via yahoo messenger at frings4chat


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2007-04-03, 21:10:10   (updated: 2007-04-03, 21:10:49)
anonymous from Irving in Texas, United States  

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2007-04-10, 20:26:18   (updated: 2007-04-10, 20:36:56)
anonymous from Irving in Texas, United States  
This is in addition to my 2 post above. You are right, she is a little bitch. she wants money to help get her home. I offered to have a ticket waiting for her at the airport. she said that will not work...blah blah blah.

here is tonights chat session...


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Steve Fox: Hi Honey! I hate to wake you!
BUZZ!!!
Lolly Frings: Hey dear
Lolly Frings: Are you there?
Steve Fox: How have you been?
Lolly Frings: I am good
Lolly Frings: and you?
Steve Fox: Yes, I'm here.
Lolly Frings: ok
Lolly Frings: why are you on invisible mood?
Steve Fox: OK. Long day to day. I saw you tried to reach me this morning. Sorry I was not on.
Steve Fox: How ws your Easter?
Lolly Frings: cool
Steve Fox: I've missed chatting with you.
Lolly Frings: though i was out of town for camping b/cos i couldn't stay alone i went to experience the true word of God at the canp ground and it was cool
Lolly Frings: i just came back yesterday
Lolly Frings: i also miss talking to you
Lolly Frings: what have you been doing?
Steve Fox: working. it sux.
Steve Fox: i'm tired of working. need you to help me relax at the end of my day
Steve Fox: wish you were here.
Lolly Frings: Same here
Lolly Frings: I can't wait to jump into your warm arms and make sweet and passionate love with you, after dinner what do you think?
Steve Fox: I think that sounds GREAT!!!!!!
Steve Fox: I would love to feel you...right now.
Lolly Frings:
Lolly Frings: Take me with you and enjoy for the rest of our lives
Steve Fox:
Steve Fox: Come on!
Lolly Frings:
Lolly Frings: why are you on invisible mood?
Steve Fox: I didn't realize i was.
Lolly Frings: It does not show you're online
Lolly Frings: oh ok
Lolly Frings: cool
Steve Fox: it should now.
Lolly Frings:
Lolly Frings: yes
Lolly Frings: So what do you think about me so far?
Steve Fox: I guess it signs me in that way. I usually just look to see if your online. That way nobody else bothers me.
Steve Fox: I want you. That's what I think.
Lolly Frings: I need you
Lolly Frings: I want you more in my life
Steve Fox: When are you coming back to the states? I need you too.
Lolly Frings: i want you to stay with me and never leave myside and i'll proudly be your lovely wife
Steve Fox: That sounds wonderful
Steve Fox: I get excited...if you know what i mean...just thinking about you.
Lolly Frings: Honey i should have been in the States before now but i haven't been paid yet at work and i've not booked for my flight reservation
Steve Fox: that sux
Lolly Frings: I need some money to complete my flight ticket that is what is keeping me here honey
Steve Fox: im sorry to hear that
Lolly Frings: sorry?
Steve Fox: I hate you have not been paid the money you are owed
Lolly Frings: yes
Lolly Frings: for three months now that's why i want to come back home start a new life
Lolly Frings: get a new job, i have a degree in Accountancy
Steve Fox: what is holding them from paying you?
Steve Fox: it's storming here. i hope the power doesn't go out.
Steve Fox: if i disappear you will know why.
Lolly Frings: There is a crisis going on in Chad Republic a near by Country here, and they want some Aid support for resuce team and they want me to go with them but i don't want too b/cos it's a very dark place with no means of communication and i don't know when i will be back from there
Steve Fox: are you going?
Lolly Frings: they want me so bad with them but i have decide to come back to states i don't want to work as a Volunteer again
Steve Fox: that's good. maybe we can be together soon
Lolly Frings: i want to start a life experience new things with someone who is interesting and fun loving
Lolly Frings: Yes we can if you really want me in your life
Steve Fox: i do
Steve Fox: do you really want me?
Steve Fox: i want to know your laugh
Lolly Frings: Yes i want you with all of my heart and soul
Lolly Frings: I wish i am there with you right now
Steve Fox: i want to know how you sound when you make love.
Steve Fox: i want to know your look when you wake up in the morning.
Steve Fox: i want to see you sleep next to me.
Lolly Frings: Same here
Lolly Frings: i want to feel your body heat when it's cold at night
Lolly Frings:
Steve Fox: i love the look of a beautiful woman when she gets out of the shower. i think that is sexy...and i'm sure you would look beautiful and sexy.
Steve Fox: i want to see your naked body on top of mine
Lolly Frings: I am beautiful and sexy as ever
Steve Fox:
Lolly Frings: I cabn't wait to drive like crazy
Steve Fox: i know you are. i can't wait to have you
Lolly Frings: I will drive you wildly
Lolly Frings: Honey if you truely want me around you
Steve Fox: i'm sure you will. you drive me crazy now.
Lolly Frings: You can't support me with my flight ticket so that i can come visit you before i go to NY
Lolly Frings: ok?
Steve Fox: why are you going to NY?
Lolly Frings: I just need a little support from you so that i can book for my flight reseveration for this week
Lolly Frings: ok
Lolly Frings: Just to keep up somethings in my home thats all baby
Lolly Frings: But i will fly to your home first Via KLM airline
Steve Fox: i want your home to be with me
Lolly Frings: Yes i am with you baby
Lolly Frings:
Steve Fox: i have lots of miles built up. let me see tomorrow what it will take to get you a ticket. one way right?
Steve Fox: what's the airport there you would fly out of?
Steve Fox:
Steve Fox: hello
Steve Fox: are you going to answer me?
Lolly Frings: my computer is freezed up
Steve Fox: oh
Lolly Frings: hold on pls
Steve Fox: ok
Lolly Frings: are you still there
Steve Fox: waiting on you
Lolly Frings: here is the name of the airport
Lolly Frings: Lagos (Murtala Mohammed Airport)
Lolly Frings: got it?
Steve Fox: i'm writing it down now
Lolly Frings: ok
Lolly Frings: what is the name of the airport nearest to you?
Steve Fox: i would have to drive to atlant to pick you up.
Steve Fox: atlanta
Lolly Frings: that would be so nice of you
Lolly Frings:
Steve Fox: what is the city and country. i think i need that when i check for the miles i have and to get a flight booked.
Lolly Frings: Nigeria Lagos States
Steve Fox: keep an eye on your email tomorrow. i will post some flights and let me know what is best for you.
Steve Fox: i should have enough miles to pay for th majority of the flight.
Lolly Frings: ok
Lolly Frings: Can i ask you something?
Steve Fox: yes
Lolly Frings: Are you willing to support me with the flight from the depth of your heart?
Steve Fox: of course. why do you think i'm going to the trouble of taking care of this?
Lolly Frings: ok
Steve Fox: why do you ask me that?
Steve Fox: it makes me think you may not feel the same
Lolly Frings: I feel the same way you feel about me
Lolly Frings: I want you more in my life
Lolly Frings: just want you to know that i have to but the ticket here myself okay
Lolly Frings: you can check for the price there so that i can give you my infomation to send me the money okay
Steve Fox: i'll have the ticket waiting on you at the airport.
Lolly Frings: what?
Steve Fox: what, what?
Steve Fox: all you have to do is show up and catch the plane
Lolly Frings: oh honey that won't work here if you really want to assist me
Steve Fox: yes it will
Lolly Frings: I have to buy the ticket here myself at the ariline office here
Steve Fox: i've done this for friends before
Lolly Frings: no
Lolly Frings: i am the one here
Steve Fox: yes
Lolly Frings: here is not like States if i'm to use a credit card i have to come with the real card to verferication
Steve Fox: i pay for a flight. the airline holds the ticket in your name. you show your id...that simple
Lolly Frings: Honey yes it is simple but here is Africa and does not work like that, you have to believe me b/cos i am the one here
Lolly Frings: and i know how they operate here okay
Steve Fox: i'm having a hard time with this
Lolly Frings: I have to buy it myself here execpt you don't want to assist me with your heart
Lolly Frings: i am not forceing you on this you know that
Steve Fox: i will check with my travel agent tomorrow. she will know
Steve Fox: you do make me wonder
Lolly Frings: I have a travel agent here myself okay
Steve Fox: ok
Lolly Frings: you don't need to wonder b/cos that is how they operate here
Steve Fox: i will find out tomorrow
Lolly Frings: i guess you don't feel like doing this for me anyway
Steve Fox: that is bull shit and you know it.
Steve Fox: is this how you treat people who try to help you?
Lolly Frings: Steve are Sick or something?
Steve Fox: no
Lolly Frings: what do mean?
Lolly Frings: how do i treat people?
Lolly Frings: excues me pls?
Steve Fox: you seem to only be interested in the money
Steve Fox: not the help
Lolly Frings: oh!
Lolly Frings: money?
Lolly Frings: how much do you have that i am interested in anyway?
Lolly Frings: money is nothing compare to the love i have for you, though i needed your assistance does not means i'm after your money
Lolly Frings: I am not forceing you to support me anyway
Lolly Frings: I know you're not serious about me and i wonder why you're still single, what do you take me for?
Lolly Frings: huh?
Lolly Frings: b/cos i need your assistance you're calling me names
Steve Fox: i didn't call you anything
Lolly Frings: If women were so cheap why are you on a dating site
Steve Fox: you know...i don't want to argue. i was just trying to help you out,
Lolly Frings: If you can't assist me Go and marry your money then
Lolly Frings: You're been mean
Lolly Frings: to me b/cos i need a little assistance from you
Steve Fox: no...you are the one getting mad
Lolly Frings: i was brought up in a good home with standard
Lolly Frings: I know the value for money okay
Steve Fox: i'm trying to help. you are making it difficult
Lolly Frings: I am not mad but you make me feel as if i was after your money
Lolly Frings: I am not making anything difficult you have to do what will work out for me
Steve Fox: i'm going to talk with my travel agent tomorrow
Lolly Frings: If you buy the ticket there your money will be waste that is what i want you to understand
Steve Fox: after i know more, then we can discuss this more.
Lolly Frings: anyway it's alright
Steve Fox: i still want you here. i just have to find a way to get you here and use my miles. i'm a bit short on cash right now....that's all
Steve Fox: i swear, lightning just struck in my back yard
Steve Fox: that was loud. I need to shut down baby.
Steve Fox: are you still there, or are you mad at me?
Lolly Frings: You don't need to swear anyway
Lolly Frings: i am not a kid i know what it's means okay
Lolly Frings: if you want to leave me lonely fine
Steve Fox: what are you talking about
Lolly Frings: you can go
Lolly Frings: You know what is on your mind about me
Steve Fox: i told you earlier that it's storming here
Lolly Frings: that is what i'm talking about
Lolly Frings: Yes you did
Lolly Frings: but i'm not a kid anyway
Steve Fox: i don't get what you are saying
Lolly Frings: it's alright
Steve Fox: i don't get this
Lolly Frings: ok
Lolly Frings: i thought you want to shut down
Steve Fox: bye!




She is such an idiot. I'm going to start some type of argument from now on.

This is fun!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-13, 20:23:35   (updated: 2007-04-13, 20:24:04)
anonymous from United States  
Well I finally offered to send her a ticket to come 'back to the states' and she said she would have to have the money so she could by the ticket there. Let's just say that's when her little plot started to unravel. I even got someone from the airline on the internet to prove to her she could pick up the ticket at the airport and that was the point she began to get angry. Even after I accused her of trying to scam me, she tried to get all sweet and say she wasn't trying to force me into anything. She's the 3rd scam artist to contact me this year. Said I needed to marry my money and that's why I was on a dating site...blah blah blah. Bitch found me somehow, but not sure how. The previous post is when she first started trying to guilt me into giving her money. The next chat got even worse. Forgot to save it. I'm still fucking with her. Calling her a scamming whore and such. I sent an instant message tonight saying that she could be on a plane this Sunday, but she was too stubborn. Guess that would not work by sending her a ticket as her pimp wouldn't get their cut that way.


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2007-05-24, 07:37:56
anonymous from United States  
This one tried to sucker me as well. Thanks to this page I turned the tables. Thanks.
2007-05-24, 10:44:43
anonymous from United States  
I dealt with this one back in Nov. Not very smart and will give up if ignored.Was operating on IwantU back then.
2007-07-28, 07:05:01
anonymous from United States  
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this picture is from iwantu .com she is calling herself frings4fun. she just sent me e-mail to meet on yahoo messenger as frings4chat. thank you for this web site! I just may play dumb and mess with her to see what info I can get.


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2007-07-28, 08:20:00
anonymous from United States  
Anon US,If you had checked with the search you would have found a thread on 'Lolly' I daelt with 'her' too.Got REAL mad when I refused to 'help' Got down right nasty!
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