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does anybody know about this girl.A nurse in nigeria,comes form california has had many indicidents and has wanted large amounts of money. Says she is flying over to australia, and sent me a cheque to help her out, but it was a counterfiet. She says she is 25 and staying at Kambili hotel and wants money for food and hotel bills. I met her through my space.

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2007-08-11, 14:34:26
OMG...I'm almost trapped!! I am also meeting 2 caucasian girls via who are telling the exact same story!! One called Elena and another called Kellis, I added them few days also to my MSN but one thing strange they get online at the same time when I asked Elena does any American working as a nurse in Nigeria as well she said 'No, I am alone in Nigeria', then I asked again 'do you know a girl called Kellis who is working in Nigeria as well' she said 'no, I don't know another called Kellis', but then a few minutes later Kellis respond me telling me that she knows a nurse called Elena working in Nigeria too. STRANGE HUH?? I think they're not smart to scam.
2008-03-12, 19:50:08
anonymous from United States is the primary way my husband and I meet likeminded 'friends with benefits.' There's no uncomfortable wondering if you ought to approach someone, you already know upfront when you meet them, and it is definitely worth the extra cost of becoming silver/gold imo, so you can exchange notes or pics before meeting and make sure its a good fit.

My hubby is str8 and I am bi and we have had no problem finding partners on We've had fun sex with lots of single men, single women and full swap couples that we met on O4L. And yes, I'm real, and no, I don't work for O4L or think they're perfect (they can be pricey and they goober up email sometimes,) but I think they're the best thing going by far for meeting other people who just want to have sex without strings!

For those complaining about the cost—ok, I agree, but I think you get what you pay for. I pretty much don't write people unless I can see what they look like and all, not because I'm shallow or a snob but because I want to know THEY'RE for real too and don't trust blank profiles...can you blame me? Also, it can be risky to contact people to swing with! Are they my boss? My brother? Twice my age? You get my drift. I’d like to know who I’m initiating a conversation with! The extra cost put into a good profile helps narrow down those you want to meet. How long do you pause on a profile that does not show a picture? (Faces can always be “smudged” until you know each other better to avoid embarrassing compromises.) And, although we are admittedly 'just after recreational sex', part of having fun is that we have to LIKE our bedpartners too, so we look for things like a sense of humor and easygoing fun nature and a “click”. (And more expensive memberships include more matching criteria and stuff, too to help the odds of getting that “click” without too much searching.) So I guess I'm saying that if you don't cough up the extra cash for a full membership, don't expect overwhelming responses. There are lots of people who post their pictures and info, so when looking for people it's easy to breeze by the ones that don't. We may miss out on meeting some great people because of it...but we meet lots of great people too.

I agree there’s a high ratio of men to women, but I don’t know why that surprises anyone. Seems expected to me—although many women love sex, there do seem to be a lot more guys that are ok with swinging or casual sex than girls, for whatever reasons, and that’s not specific to O4L.

I definitely vote that it is worth the time and the money! We've had many a fun night of frolic thanks to connections we made on O4L. :)
2008-04-19, 08:34:46
anonymous from United Kingdom  
I talked with the lady in the photos, lol she claimed to be a single parent from poland.
I have found her using 3 names, i dont believe the person writting the letters is really this women.
2008-10-31, 10:56:10   (updated: 2008-10-31, 10:57:57)
anonymous from Gonzales, United States  
Been Targeted by Mary Kate Jones, says from UK.

Address given is
15 Primrose Close
Catford London SE6 3NR
United Kingdom

Phone number given is 447011136588
Pictures are stolen from Focus International. Model used is Annie

We met on website

I was very upfront with her in the beginning about my experience with online scammers. I told her if she was not who she said she was then to move on. It did not happen! But of course, her brother just got into a car accident and now she has to drop out of school because her father can't afford to pay for school and the surgery. But all she asked for was for me to buy 'her' a Playstation 3 so she wouldn't be bored sitting at home. We have spoken on the phone many times. Hell, I even got a dozen red roses from 'her'. This chick is good, so be very careful!

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Olga Kudryavzeva alias Elena Shamova

2008-12-05, 12:44:30
anonymous from Sweden  
this thes is the same text that sent to me from a sexy boy , exactly the same word bye word

How are u doing?I am doing good.i would really like to have a long term relationship wit you ..I am from Phoenix ,am a nurse.But i have to tell you this,I am presently out of USA now,i am presently in West Africa,to take care of some patients there oh k...So i will be leaving here in about 2 weeks time .....I think i also have to tell u little about my background.I lost my parents when i was 20..I have really suffered in my life,so i don't want that, that's why i wrote to you after i read Ur profile and saw that u are a very lovely person....When my parents died i had no help,so i had to be the father and mother at the same time too..I worked in a restaurant from there i was able to train myself in a nursing school and i still worked and went to nursing school...I was able to succeed and graduate there then i got a job in little hospital ,the job was not giving me enough ,so i decided to travel to West Africa,to render them my professional service so that i could make a little more than Wat i got in USA..

I find myself laughing a lot -- and I can make you laugh and smile too, I bet-YA!! In person you will find me a lot more self-effacing, and way not so serious sounding a-character. Still and all I highly value simple sincerity. I'm self-reliant, conscientious, intuitive, inspired, curious, grounded, and have clearly defined goals. I know what I want and how to achieve it. I'm communicative. I have faith in myself to ask the appropriate right questions if I need to know something.I keep the golden rule,I'm mindful we aren't here on earth to make things rigidly perfect.I dare to dream and I like finding ways to have them come true.I am fair minded, insightful, possess practicality and integrity, honesty, focused work etc a commitment and a mission to shine a little light in the world!A bit of wisdom I've learned and nurtured along the way -- do what you love - love what you do, and work 'SMARTER', not 'HARDER' !! Life's too short to be a workaholic!! I can cook you a fabulous meal I can write you a poem. It's said that I'm Beautiful/ physically attractive.Perhaps a good first date might be anything from dinner and a movie to a nice evening walk around town. I think mostly I'd like someplace where conversation is possible, wouldn't you? Talking and listening are the best most intriguing first date activities!I'm told I'm very easy to talk with. It's said: 'like attracts like', so 'intense-wise', if you've made it this far reading through my little rhapsody, I figure it's likely we are both looking to attract into our lives pretty much the same thing -- someone we can open up to and trust, be best friends with, learn from and most of all admire.I'd like to share this journey with the ONE man I cherish and adore. I have much to share and I'm ready for the RIGHT man to SHARE with. . .are you ready?
I attached pics for u and i still have more oh k..I hope u come online tomorrow so we can chat .

2011-11-11, 08:59:41
anonymous from Canada  
I may have wrote the other day that they used Annie yet again. this time as Valentina Jones. I searched back again after reporting to facebook. What is facebook doing. I was blocked for a whle week for too many freind requests. This criminalwas only off 1 day back with the gall of uaing Annies person, and poked me! Call me crazy but I asked for an explanation even put in a friend request.
I would not have but they are blocked and I am curius if this unblocks them they would be stupid if they accept it because I will unfriend firat chance I get. i sent a nte to fucus international. After all these stories I wonder if they will send one back. They really made me fall for Annie hard. they will get whats coming some day karma is a bitch and in someway they will pay. I wouldn't wish what they deserve even on them. I hope no one has ever blamed Annie Ifound pictures of her they gave me only 6. If I wasn't so smiten I would have caught on right away. they also took 3 weeks to tell me where they were.

I want to repeat we give thes nutcases to much credit. I gave them a perfect scam angle they never even took. I thought they sounded like they were in persecution in a country. Never took that angle.
My mistake was in trusting. But its hard not to trust an honest face. The face of annieis very trustworthy. Plus even though she is a model she looks totally approachable. \\i said beforeI think we woul be freinds. I hope she is doing well and this crime is against her and I and anyone with the real name of Valentina Jones.
2011-11-11, 14:57:17
Listen up guys... if you have to wonder why some young sexy babe thousands of miles away can't find a partner in their part of the world ? The clear answer emerges... cash, dollars, euros, rupees... or whatever you wanna call it, the motivating answer is simple = SCAM SCAM SCAM SCAM !

There's no sexy babe on the other end ! More than likely some young dude with balls is being pimped by a greedy maestro, who has knife at his throat should he try anything else. And he's not alone. The cafe is crowded with lowlife scammers working for a 'maestro' who buys the computer time and hires them to scam you under the pretense of being a woman seeking romance. To these immortal thieves, it is just a business. And more often than not pictures of sexy PORN models are cleverly used to lure you into their web of deceit and deception. The 'maestro' gets a 60 percent cut and reserves another 20 percent to pay off law enforcement officials who rarely come around. That still puts plenty of cash in the scammer's pocket. The typical scammer spends up to 12 hours a day, seven days a week, huddled over one of many computers, pretending to be a sexy woman working his scams.

Don't take it personally that they're trying to scam you... just move on, brush off the dirt and learn from experiences. If not, the con artist wins because they leave a mark on you that YOU choose not to handle, and the next quality love of your life may have to pay the price for you not dealing with it.
2011-11-11, 16:31:31
Who is this?
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2011-11-11, 16:38:13
Im trying to find out who this woman really is. She goes by Blessing Tetteh,is she working this with some guy,any info would be much apprecated
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2011-11-11, 21:40:45
Who is this woman
2011-11-11, 23:07:16
hi all
i chated with this woman i did and things broken off it did during chat and bad words to like lier and freak and scammer and dork so watch out and beware of this and woman.
i cant remember her name but i did chat witrh out for the shirt now and chats and emails.
2011-11-12, 08:40:04
There is no sexy gal on the other end ! Just some young black dude or ugly hooker in one of many internet cafes in Nigeria or Ghana ! More than likely it's a lowlife gang member that's being pimped by some greedy gangster, who keeps a knife at their throat should they try anything else. These thugs work under a pimp's supervision pretending to be lonely women seeking romance. To these immortal jackals, it's just a business with a goal to scam you into sending their gangland boss as much of your money as possible.


You don't have to question it, you don't have to ask why, you don't have to seek exceptions from the rule, because there are NONE. That's just the way it is ! And your beautiful chick in Nigeria or Ghana regardless of their apparent ethnicity is also no exception. Sorry !

If a supposedly white, asian or hispanic chick contacts you online and then turns out to be in Nigeria or Ghana, it's a scam. Always ! As for black people, if they claim to be African-Americans, but 'presently' temporarily in Nigeria or Ghana (or anywhere in Africa) for any reason: job, taking care of a sick parent, etc.. this is also a scam ! Especially if their picture looks like an African-American model. And more often than not a picture of a sexy PORN model cleverly used to lure you into their web of deceit and deception !
2011-11-12, 22:35:13 from Sdertlje, Sweden  
venho assim por este meio denuçiar certos mails que contantemente estou receber na minha caixa de correio de menssagens de meninas russas que me mandam fotos. o que despois de muitas mails enviados para mim me pedem dinheiro. é claro que eu nunca o fiz porque já verifiquei que isto são sites fraudulentos. eu sou portugues estou divorçiado tenho 44 anos. último que eu recebi passo a citar.< ao qual me soliçita esta mesma 322 euros para gastos e tratamento decumentos.

agredeçia desde já vossa atenção este assunto
2011-11-13, 14:55:37
OJAS from United States  
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