Other Comments: Tamara Bogachenko, have asked me a money transfer trough W.U for translation purposes after 3 letters. A guy from a not identify translation company named Toros in Zorinsk asked a money trasfer too....be aware
I see your point and appreciate educational / psychological approach, but sometimes it's more effective to make it as easy as possible for them.
OJAS from United States
Any approach to convey to newbies, the importance of homework before a serious undertaking.
anonymous from Canada
First of all I would like to take the time to thank you for your
interest and your reply to my message as it was very nice to receive a
I will tell you more about myself which I hope will interest you.
First of all as you know my name is Tamara, I'm 31 years old and
single. I was married but I am divorced now and do not have any
children. All the vital stats you can get from the profile but I can
remind you that I am 172 cm and 55 kg, I have blue eyes and red hair.
And as you can already guess my favourite color is blue as it matches
my eyes a lot. I live in a small town called Zorinsk which is in the
east of Ukraine. I finished technical college in a town near by as
there are no colleges in my town and now I am working. Zorinsk is the
town of coal mines and I work as an accountant at the administration
of one of the mines. I live alone but I visit my family very often.
I want you to know at once that I am not looking to be someone to pass
the time with until someone better comes along, so I will say if that
is your intention then keep looking, I am looking for someone with
whom I can spend a lifetime with, someone who isn't afraid to say
exactly what is on their minds and isn't afraid to express themselves.
About my family, I come from a large family (I have a younger brother
and a sister and a lot of cousins) who like and enjoy spending time
together, we like to joke and laugh when it matters and these values
are what I look for in a relationship. I do believe for every person
there is a soul mate and I'm on a quest to find mine. I love to
socialize with friends and love going to the country where we have
great time, swim in a river and have a picnic. I love nature very much
and I enjoy all activities connected with outdoors.
My hobbies are various as I have a lot of interests but I enjoy
keeping fit by jogging and doing exercises on a regular basis. I also
enjoy reading books such as the ones written by Paulo Coelho and other
writers. I love to listen to music as well, anything really that gets
the toes tapping and the heart going but I do have one favourite music
project and that is ATB, they have very beautiful songs and music.
Like every woman I love flowers but my favourite one is amaryllis and
I have it at home. It has gorgeous flowers and I think it is the most
beautiful plant I have ever seen.
I also like to cook and try different food as I like a lot of national
food such as Ukrainian, Russian, Chinese, Italian and Mexican. I
consider myself to be very outgoing with lots of friends. I would say
that I am an incurable romantic in the sense that I do believe in
telling and showing someone that you love that you do love them as
often as you can.
Anyway I'll finish for now as I don't want to bore you but ask and I
will tell you everything you want to know about me. I would also like
to know more about you and your family, your life. You can share
everything you want with me. If you're still interested you have my
e-mail, please use it. Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Thank you so much for your warm letter! Maybe I can give you a smile
too with this warm greeting, just for you :) It is clear that your
family plays a big part in your life. I think families are very
important to make one's life happy and content.
I'd like to tell you more about myself. I was born November, 9, 1975
in Zorinsk, Ukraine. It is a pity that I haven't been anywhere abroad
but I would like to travel a lot and see a lot of countries if there
will be such chance. I like my native city because I was born there
and my parents live there. My father and mother might actually be the
best parents in the world! We always enjoy being together, support and
giving much of inspiration to each other.
My father is a driver. My mother works in a hospital as a nurse. Both
of them are very good specialists. Their colleagues respect my parents
for their professionalism, friendliness and sincerity. My mother is a
very sincere, outspoken and charming woman. They say I took after her
in my character. I have never met so noble, strong spiritually,
honest, reliable and caring woman, but my mother. And my father is the
head of our family and I think he is the most perfect husband and
father. My parents have a significant difference in age but it didn't
stop them at all. They are the most loving couple I have ever met. I
do not care about the age difference as I know it is not an obstacle
for two loving people. I'd like to find a man who has such qualities
as my father and who's able to care of his family. Besides, I have my
younger siblings. They are nice people and very good friends of mine.
I respect my family very much.
As you already know I was married but I am divorced for more than
three years. I got married too young when I was only 20 and I thought
then that this was the love of my life. I was so wrong. But when you
are 20 you think that the whole world belongs to you and you are the
happiest one. The first three years were happy, we both were studying
and finishing our colleges. But then something went wrong and we
didn't do anything to save our marriage. We had a lot of fights
because my husband started to come home late and wasn't very sober. I
didn't like it at all and what woman would? He didn't want to work and
changed a lot of jobs because something was always wrong with the new
job. And he also started to gamble a lot. When he lost our last money
that we were saving for our future children it was the last point for
me. I left him and never regretted about it. I am glad that we didn't
have any children though we planned to have the first one before it
all happened. I realized that I made the wrong choice but I became
more sure that there is someone just for me and I still believe that I
will find the love of my life. I tried to do it here in my country
many times but haven't been lucky yet.
I have plenty of tenderness and warmness inside my heart. It would be my
pleasure to share it with someone special. I feel it's a time for me to
create my own family. I'd like to devote my life to a caring man who
doesn't want to live without me.
I think there is a chance for us to become great friends with a
possibility of something much greater. I know that we have to overcome
some hurdles on our way such as distance and language but I am ready
to do my best to get through them all. I hope that my not knowing
English won't make you change your mind about our possible future. I
know that I should have learnt it many years ago but I didn't do it. I
can speak two languages now and they are Russian and Ukrainian. But I
will do everything possible to learn your language as soon as I can
with the first given opportunity and talk to you without someone's
help. And now I am using the professional help of a translation firm
so you can understand my words and my thoughts. But I want to assure
you that all the words you see here are mine, nobody changes the
meaning and the firm is very good and they do their job very well.
They also provide me with the Internet service here. The Internet
helps us to communicate and, maybe, one day some travel agency will
help us to meet each other in person. I'm going to dream about it and
hope my dreams will come true one beautiful day. I'm excited about the
opportunity to know you better I do believe our first personal meeting
can be as a meeting of two loving hearts. What do you think of this?
Your letter gives me a feeling like I am dreaming. When I close my
eyes I see all the things you write me. I can't believe. But when I
open my eyes I see the distance between us. You are so far away, so
many different miles. I imagine I look into your eyes, and butterflies
are in my soul. In my deep blue eyes is a sparkle, but in the next
moment the reality is around me. Cars are driving across the road,
children are laughing and people walk through the streets. So I will
close my eyes again, and let us dream the same dream. Sunset on the
ocean, gently kisses, and our souls turned to one big energy. Is there
a chance to let this dream turn into reality? I hope you do not
consider me a dreamer or a pathetic romantic for writing these words!
I am looking forward to getting your next letter. It would be
wonderful to know you better. Why are you also in the Internet? How do
you want your relationship to be? Do you think that love can conquer
anything, even distance and language?
First of all I want to thank you for your nice letter! It is very
interesting and I appreciate what you share with me. I do hope that we
will become more than just friends as I like you a lot and want to
take the chance to build my future with you.
I am sure you wonder why such girl like me is here in the Internet
looking for love. I will tell you why I wanted to meet someone this
way. I have had my own disappointments in past relationships. It does
seem sometimes like Ukrainian men are selfish, and not honest when it
comes to relationships. I know that can be found in anyone, and
anywhere, but it's just what I have seen here. I think people can meet
in any kind of way. I also think there is something special, and
exciting about 2 people from different countries, and cultures,
starting relations together. I want a relationship of closeness. There
would have to be trust in each other for it to work. We would be able
to share and do things together like good friends. The relationship
would have much affection in it, and with being good lovers for each
other. We would be supportive of each other's lives, and help make
each other's dreams become real.
I know that it has to be a very big decision for me to look for a
partner from another country. To move such a distance away, to change
life and leave everything behind... family, friends, culture, and
lifestyle. I think I am brave enough to decide this is what I want.
But, when it comes to being happy in life there are times that
decisions have to be made. And changes can be a very good thing at
times. And if you want to find the kind of life you want, and to
fulfill your dreams... sometimes there are risks that we have to take.
I know that I will have to move to another country and this option
doesn't scare me at all. On the contrary, I am very open to my new
life with my beloved man. So I want to assure you, if we decide we are
to be together... I will make sure I do all within my power to make
you happy and to make your dreams come true. So, let us continue our
passage to happiness. I will always be honest and truthful with you.
Only a relationship built on honesty and trust is going to last.
I think it's better to explain what exactly I'm doing here. I want to
find the person who I miss whenever they are gone and who always has a
way of making me feel really good, no matter how bad the day was. I
also want the kind of love that other people see and know that they
also want the love like we'd share. I am looking for a life partner. I
am not looking for a man who simply wants to be with someone. He has
goals and career ambitions and I want us to be equal parts of the
relationship and we both accept one another for who we are and make
each other better. I also want a man who I love so much that I always
want to touch him and be intimate with him because I feel so strongly
about him. I would love for you to tell me your hopes and dreams and
where you can see this going and how we can continue to grow together
as a couple. Hopefully you are finding me as appealing as I find you,
that is why don't make me wait for so long for you, I would love to
know you and see more of you.
I want to find the man who I could stay with quietly and romantic at
some moments, I imagine we will listen to some music and look towards
the horizon and the sea outside, and we truly realize that we were
meant to be together and our hearts belong to each other. I understand
that this is a dream for the moment but I hope that soon this dream is
going to come true...
I would like to write about love and share the views. I think that
life is meaningless without loving someone. We always should be given
an opportunity to love. Love is magic, which, in turn, sometimes will
make our lives magic and wonderful. I hope that there will be a lot of
such moments in my life... Maybe even with you...
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anonymous from Canada
Yes very hot model Eddie . P
hudsonbruce5 from United States
Thanks to this site, I have foiled by investigated a possible scam attempt by this same person. I greatly appreciate this site an I thank the People of Russia and the people who maintain this site.
anonymous from Netherlands
this one is from November 14 2007:
Thank you for your heartwarming message. I hope that your eagerness to
find out more about me also includes - or at least implies that - as
we travel through space and time in search of happiness, you would
become my most loyal and willing accomplice in my criminal attempt to
corrupt your heart and your mind.
Seriously, nothing I want more than for you to be faithful, honest,
loyal and frank with me. Yes! Distance between us is one of the
considerations. But, for me, distance is only secondary. Where there
is a will, there will always be a way. Don't you think? Legends record
how people travel for ages and how people die searching for love.
The more I read your messages and the longer I think about you, I
always come to the very same inescapable and inevitable conclusion:
What a stunningly wonderful man you really are with a matching name. I
am glad you are here. I could not believe what you are saying to my
ears. Have you not been so far, I would have already been at your
doorstep by now. I want you to know that I wish you were here. For all
these long and lonely times, I hope and I dream that someday a
stunningly wonderful, compassionate and charming man like you will
appear and will save me from the cruel dance, the dance I perform
everyday in a world full of human cruelties, a world full of human
beauty, a world full of glee, a world ostensibly full of gloating.
In fact, a few nights ago, under the vanishing stars, with a somewhat
chilling breezes blowing, I sat silently by myself, outside, looking
at a deserted field. I was alone under a picturesque sky, so calm, so
peaceful and so quiet. I was lost in my thoughts. I was lost in my
dreams. Images of you were beaming. I did not know what came over me.
Completely unsure whether it was a reality or was it just a dream. Was
our contact for real or was it potential? Or was it an in-between?
I imagined that I was with you on a sandy beach. On that deserted
beach, I have drawn your strong but tender hands on the wet sand, a
silent face, smiling at me. As time passed ever so painfully slow, you
looked so handsome as you look so motionless. On that beach, you
teasingly invited me for a dance, the last dance and the best dance.
As slowly we danced, you seductively passed your gentle fingers
through my silky hair as they flew in the air, caused by the gentle
breezes of the sea and I pretended to be helpless in stopping your
wandering hands, unstoppable hands moving from my soft hair, downward
along my curvy shoulders and smooth-skinned back towards my thighs, as
a clear sign that I have long ago decided to remain forever yours.
The signals I gave invited you to chase and as reward you pour me a
glass of wine, and I allow you to feed me chocolates, piece by piece,
holding them with your lips. As you fed, you deliciously gave me an
irresistible kiss for each and every one of those pieces of chocolate.
As two love birds, deeply submerged in the sea of passion, I
voluntarily became your most loyal and willing accomplice in 'your
criminal attempt to corrupt my heart and my mind'. Without ever
uttering a single whisper or a lone murmur, I wish, I hope and I dream
that from now on you will forever remain mine.
Never before have I felt so lonely, so desperate, so hopeless, so
helpless and so despair. On that silent place, during that silent
night, during that cruel night, in this vast planet, at that lonely
night, I wished you were here. If you were, I wondered whether you
would be nervous. If so, I simply wanted to tell you that there is
really no need to be nervous. At this moment, there are only the two
of us. Should you have butterflies, I will tell you, 'honey, you are
mine'. Kiss me tenderly and there will be no more butterflies – soon
there will be a new life, another human being, the beginning of our
family. You will be with me for the rest of the night. You will be
with me for the rest of this life, in the mid summer night, for the
rest of your life, in the cold winter time, and for the rest of our
life, until the end of time. You should never be nervous again, my
darling, because you are mine. There will never ever again be any more
butterflies. During the many years to come and during those sleepless
nights, there will only be pages of an album, a family album, an album
you and I will put together. A family album is an art. After all, it
is really an affair of the heart. Would you agree?
Deliciously I will kiss you, holding you tight, with my arms firmly
wrapped from behind, you will never again be able to take flight, for
the night, for the rest of our life, until the end of time, exploring
every single inch of your body... With your help and capable hand
guiding me, I will find the most secret of all spots that will lead me
to your inner most secret and trembling body. You will give me the
honor of always be mine. Once - definitely; twice - absolutely; three
times - we can discuss about bringing in new lives into this world
despite human cruelties in the midst of human beauty.
In the years to come, in the garden of roses will play the children of
today as will those of tomorrow, with you and I watching over them
where will always exist only mirth and laughter. Years from now, in
the backyard as in the front porch, will play our grandchildren, the
joyful lads. Years from now even when we will have grown old, even in
a state of frailty and fragility, I will still love you, holding your
hands, recapturing moments past, as if it is still our very first
contact, from the start, full of sparks, in the dark, as we were once
youthful, seeing you for the first time, meeting in that big world of
cyber space, the moment I attempt to gain access to your heart, those
moments long ago indelibly filled with hesitations, moments you once
reluctantly and unexpectedly called me 'hun', moments that had past
but not disappeared from memories, moments to be filled with glee but
enduring beauty, ageless memories that will bring only smiles ever so
lovingly pretty, moments that once thought of will definitely cause
you to give away the secrets, moments before telling the
grandchildren, you will have giggled followed by blush, moments of
intimate details that no one will ever know, tender moments that we
will never share, moments that only you and I know what secrets - the
most secret of all secrets - have been revealed in whispers and in
murmurs so ever softly, deliciously and angelically a fashion.
Nothing I want more than the fulfillment of my hopes and my dreams.
anonymous from Netherlands
And one more...
I think I have the whole set...
Tom from Canada
Tamara Bogachenko, I am the one that was taken for $5000 , I wish I had known about this site before. I met Tamara on Lavalife, then immediately wanted me to correspond to; email@example.com. The letters and pictures I recieved are exactly the same as the ones sent to everyone else. Being abit skeptical about all this, I got her to send me a picture of her passport that I sent money for, which she did, the dates all were correct for the transaction. After seeing the passport, I assumed everything was good, but after sending her money via western union to Kiev for her flight,which she had all the flight numbers to Canada, she told me that her visa was turned down. After a day, she apparently found an agency that would give her a work visa for Canada, I checked out this agency, it seemed fine, so reluctantly I sent her more money, after all, I went this far. That was the last time I heard from her.
It is to bad that people take advantage of others, I did research her through these sites, but found her very convincing. Please be carefull.
I am attaching her passport.