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Name: Ritha Desmond


Email: rithadesmond@yahoo.com


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This girl has told me the exact same thing as the dating scammer named Victoria Smith. Ritha Desmond has told me that she is a model, fashion designer, and hair stylist. She has said that she is in Nigeria promoting textiles. She also tried to have me send her $250 to help her pay for her hotel bills, because she has not seen her promoter, And if she does not pay then they will kick her out of the hotel. But a week later she told me that they let her stay until her promoter comes back and she was still asking for the $250. She wanted me to send her the money via Western Union but not on her name. She wanted it sent on the Managers name of the Hotel.
NAME : AFOLABI FOJUDE
COUNTRY : NIGERIA
STATE : OGUN
ZIP CODE: 23439
CITY : ABEOKUTA

I have emails from her and Instant messages that u can read from her. the first is the first email that she sent me.

Hello how are you today? i'm glad to hear back from you.let me tell you little about me.
there are so many time wasters on these sites, I have decided to write you a detailed
message about myself and my personality. The reason for this is to ensure that you know I
am genuine, honest and hopefully looking for a genuine relationship with a real
person.How am I single? - I have no idea at all. However, I am very comfortable with my
skin and I have a great personality. I am a firm believer in chemistry and only you can
decide if you would like to get to know me. This chemistry should not be judged by
material aspects but also personality trends. I have made myself smile when I have written
this and I bet you know exactly what I am meaning.What will I settle for? - I am looking for
the real thing but we all need friends and buddies. I am a happy single but yes there are
lonely times. I am a firm believer that being happy single is better than being unhappily
attached. I really do enjoy my independence but hate sleeping and waking alone.I like to
wake up to see someone I love by my side ,I love my bed but hate not having the cuddles
and nudges in the back while fighting for the quilt. I love keeping my house always tidy
and hate a mess. What I am trying to say is I won't jump in with two feet but I am looking
for a male friend to share laughs, good times, bad times, hugs, kisses and passion. I hate
wishing my life away and wasting time. That means I am ready for the friendship now with
the view to build the relationship for the future. If the relationship takes one day or ten
years to develop so be it. At least we would both be having a great time in the
getting to know process. Sorry if that sounds desperate I am just being 100% honest.
Hope to read from you soon..and send some of your resent pics in your next e-mail.
yours,
RITHA

This is the second email she sent me after i wrote back.

Hello,
How are you today? I want to tell you that I really appreciate your letter . I think the
question below will create chances of knowing much about ourselves and knowing if we
are really compatible before my arrival.I will like to lay emphasis that i'm not looking for
adventures, i'm looking for a serious relationship tat would last long.
THESE ARE THE QUESTIONS:(1) What do you like to do in your free time?(2) What is
your preference in Ladies?(3) What is your likes and dislikes in Ladies?(4) What has been your good and bad experience in your previous relationship?(5) What is your opinion on internet dating generally? How long have you been on this site searching for the right
partner?(6) How did your last relationship with your G/f or ex-wife look like ,can you brief
me more on that?(7) What sort of relationship do you like most?(8) How long have you
been on this site searching for the right partner?(9) can you delete your profile from
match.com so as to face each other squarely?(10)what are the passions in life you would
love doing and which of those would be meaningful to you if I were to do them with
you?(11)do you feel you need to compromise or sacrifice anything to a part of this
relationship?(12)Do you believe you and I should be honest about everything in our
relationship, or should somethings be kept private?
I will want you to answer my question very carefully , try to be truthful while answering all
these so as to know if we are really compatible.My pictures are attached to this email.
Hope to hear from you soonest,
yours,
RITHA

After answering her questions she wrote back in this 3rd email.

Hello,Thanks for your email and you have really impressed me with your answers to my
questions .I hope this letter finds you well... though I am new at this but i have a good
feelings that everything will go fine here. I really appreciate your answers to my
questions.Let me tell you more about myself,i was born in UNITED in the year 1982 and
that was when my whole family was living in HENDERSON, dad was a goldsmith at black
pool in ENGLAND.I'm the only daughter of the family.My dad is originally from
ENGLAND and mum from the HENDERSON, in UNITED.Four years ago,i lost my dad
when he got involved in an auto accident on his way from my mum place where himself
and mum went to visit one of a family member. According to the officers that witnessed the
scene of the accident,He said my dad could have doze off and lost control of the steering
and in his attempt to gain balance he lost control of the car and the accident occured even
though my mum is yet to get over the shock of the accident, she was able to survive while
dad died immediately.After his death, i stayed with mum for sometime in
HENDERSON,for sometime but when things are not as easy as it used to be, i have no
choice than to move to one of our far relations who was then before her death was a
fashion designer and hairdresser . Through her I met so many people and she introduced
me into fashion designing and Female hairdressing . I spent years to learn this from her .A
year after having completed my apprenticeship ,my mum passed away and I immediately
caught up with life and started operating on my own after spending few months working
for her. I was there working with her before a friend of mine that we have been friends
right from the childhood in WA called me that a promoter approached her that he is looking
for qualified fashion designers and whatever happens he would like to take one of us to
Africa for some contracts. My friend was picked but unfortunatley she could not make the
trip because it was during the process that she met the man of her life on dating site and to
my suprise, it was not long at all before they got married and i was really happy for them. it
was her case that got me convinced that this on line dating thing can realy work. And both
of them are still in their honey moon somewhere in hawaii and that was the reason this
man decided to bring me down.I was replaced in her place and getting to Nigeria we met
the CEO of a clothing company in Nigeria,they talked and my promoter agreed that we will
need to advertise his new textile products becuase the company is a newly established one
.it,s been two week now that we have been here now and the contract will be lapsing in
some two weeks time but Mr Mark Gladders who happened to be my promoter quickly
went down to China to secure some contracts and he promised to be back by saturday
morning. So i am kind of lonely for now but i am doing all in my power to keep myself
busy. This is all about me. i am very God fearing .I would like to see more of your photos as
well in your next email.Bye for now and hope to know more about you in your next email
i.e Do you have any dark side? Do you bully?
looking forward to read from you soon.
yours,
RITHA

After writing back she wrote in this 4th email.

Pleased to read from you, I want you to know that reading from you has really make my
day. What is the time overthere? It's around 7:00 pm here, Anyway like i told you I have
just concluded my contract here in africa and i should be back home as soon as my
promoter gets back from his trip. He went to China to get some business settled and i have
to wait for him till he comes back, So as go to the company we worked for here and have
our entitlement, then we will be on the plane home. I am not even sure of what you want
from me now and how do you think we will meet when i get back home, i want you to
know that its not as if i am in a hurry to get married now but that very day i read your
profile, my instinct agreed with me to get to you and i did because i believe that it always
lead me right. I am planning to quit this contract job when i get back home in fact thats one
of the reason my promoter went to China to find another lady that will work for him in his
new job in South africa. but i decided to quit because it has been my dream to settle down
and have my own family healthy and happy in love. And i am sure that if i continue to do
this, i may never be chanced to get my self settled. so i am planning to established a beauty salon for ladies when i get back from the little money i realize from this trip. I am a
proffesional hair stylist and i also engage in costume designing so i am sure of excelling in
that field. i am just praying to God to lead me right to the best location, i am not sure i can
stay again with my friend since she got married and i will be the only one and i think a very
good location is one of the most important thing to make a business boom rightly.
I will like to know more about your family background, my dad always tell me before he
passed away that 'one thing is to have a good wife and another thing is to have bad
in-laws' According to him it was good in-laws from my mum's family that helped them
most in there marriage and life style. Do you want to have children ? if yes how many?
Have you date anyone on the internet before and if yes how does it feel when you meet the
person?I will have stop now.. Till i hear from you again,

Yours,
RITHA

then the next email was

Pleased to read from you, I always look forward to read from you each morning, It has been
cleaning the loneliness in me and i hope you improve in sending more emails.I was just
getting into the passion part and didn't want to lose any important thoughts. It does not
matter where we are or who we are with to make our lives better together. We should bring
out the best in each other always, no matter what the circumstances. If in business we
share ideas that will benefit us, that would be fantastic. If we could share some of our
success with those less fortunate, this would also be fantstic - together. Reaching our
highest goals, sharing our love, our minds and our bodies, everything will be better
together. My passsion for life could be strenthened by your ideas and contributions.
Making love, finding our ultimate pleasure physicaly and emotionally, stimulating both of
our senses could only be done together, wherever and whenever. I do believe we should
stand up for each other always. We should strive to make each others' life better everyday.
To find a way to help each other, put out an open hand and welcome love and caring
attitudes. I do believe we should tell each other everything. Honesty may hurt
occaisionally, but truth wins in the end. It builds trust and strengthens our relationship.
There have been many times I feel I was deceived previously and I do not ever wish that on
anyone in a meaningfull relationship. My ex boy friend lied about not hanging around
with other girls, but later the truth was unleashed and i had to leave him for breaking my
heart so i woudn't want that to repeat itself again. In a great realationship that is based on
honesty and trust this would not happen. I am looking for a great relationship that will last
longer and leads to a happy end eventually.There are no limitations in my mind. How
about yours? I look forward to your reply.
Yours,
RITHA

next email

I am so glad to hear from you today.....thanks for the compliments!!!! i wish you the
same......Your emails has given me a new excitement and goal, though i'm not happy due to
something that happens to me just of recent...., My goal is to work REALLY strong at our
relationship and hopefully in the future we can make a GREAT FAMILY. You and I want
EXACTLY THE SAME THING so even at first when we meet if we are a bit unsure which
I hope is not the case we can keep going out together, spend as much time as possible
together, enjoy being in each other's company. This way our love for each other can only
grow. I am a strong beliver that if two people spend enough time together and are really
committed to establishing a love, then inevitably they will fall for each other. We both
already have a solid foundation upon which to build.We both want to find true love in each
other, we both have no baggage, we both have the time to committ to each other, I cannot
tell you how much I hope we end up together and eventually married. I understand that
being in Nigeria at the moment cannot be pleasant. Dear, I am here for you.We already said
we are going to keep in touch every day,but you can email me more if you like. I check my
emails all of the time and really enjoy writing to you. I also think of you all the time and
hope that when we meet we can just be as open as we are when writing to each other and
talk about our dreams. I am really easy to get on with and I feel you are too. You are so
honest and what I already love about you is that you say EVERYTHING THAT IS GOING
THROUGH YOUR MIND and hold nothing back. I feel that you are really special and I
want to be with you very soon. You have touched my heart. looking forward to read from
you soon.
yours
RITHA

These are the Instant Messages

RITHA DESMOND: hi
fernando Perez: hi
fernando Perez: how r u
RITHA DESMOND: amok
RITHA DESMOND: but thinking
fernando Perez: of what
RITHA DESMOND: how i will get over what i told you last night
fernando Perez: what do u mean?
RITHA DESMOND: i maen how i will pay the hotel
fernando Perez: you havent talked to your promoter?
RITHA DESMOND: his no is not going
fernando Perez: what?
RITHA DESMOND: his mobile phone is not going
fernando Perez: whats your promoters name?
fernando Perez: hello?
fernando Perez: Whats your promoters name?
RITHA DESMOND: yes am here
RITHA DESMOND: am very sorry
RITHA DESMOND: what is your question
fernando Perez: what is your promoters name?
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: Mr Mark Gladders
fernando Perez: where were you born?
RITHA DESMOND: i
RITHA DESMOND: i was born in united state
fernando Perez: where in the united states?
RITHA DESMOND: maryland
fernando Perez: did you ever live in Washington?
RITHA DESMOND: yes
fernando Perez: when did you live here?
RITHA DESMOND: why all this quetions
RITHA DESMOND: do you want to help me out or not
fernando Perez: FIRST ANSWER THE QUESTIONS
RITHA DESMOND: pls am not here for that
RITHA DESMOND: just let me know your mind
fernando Perez: what hotel are you staying in?
RITHA DESMOND: sorry
RITHA DESMOND: i think ihave answer much question
RITHA DESMOND: and this is for me and you
RITHA DESMOND: if you help me
fernando Perez: answer my questions and ill help you
fernando Perez: what hotel are you staying in?
RITHA DESMOND: i will know what you can take me for
RITHA DESMOND: pls all this questions is too much
RITHA DESMOND: ok first royal hotel
fernando Perez: what city is the hotel in?
RITHA DESMOND: ogun state
RITHA DESMOND: and what again
fernando Perez: what is the phone number to the hotel?
RITHA DESMOND: sorry i dont have it with me now
fernando Perez: do u know how much money 250 usd is for nigeria?
RITHA DESMOND: i dont
fernando Perez: 31,500
RITHA DESMOND: what
RITHA DESMOND: i dont underst6and
RITHA DESMOND: 31,500 usd or what
fernando Perez: no 31,500 nigerian money
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: but i dont know
fernando Perez: 1 penny in usd is more than 1 dollar in nigerian money
RITHA DESMOND: and i dont have anything with that
RITHA DESMOND: pls and pls
RITHA DESMOND: let me know what you want to do
RITHA DESMOND: because tommorrow is friday
fernando Perez: what is the address of the hotel?
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: just a min
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: the address is
RITHA DESMOND: 15 sapon abeokuta ogun state
RITHA DESMOND: and the hotel no is 8026833637
RITHA DESMOND: i just ask at the hotel now
RITHA DESMOND: are you there
fernando Perez: yes
BUZZ!!!
fernando Perez: you said u live in henderson
RITHA DESMOND: yeah
fernando Perez: where in henderson?
RITHA DESMOND: maryland
fernando Perez: maryland?
RITHA DESMOND: usa
fernando Perez: what is the address u live at in henderson?
RITHA DESMOND: 24
RITHA DESMOND: Popular Place South
RITHA DESMOND: please
RITHA DESMOND: why all this quetions
fernando Perez: so i can help
RITHA DESMOND: you know the hotel cafe will close soon
fernando Perez: then answer the questions
fernando Perez: what is the address you live at in henderson?
RITHA DESMOND: it is getting to much
fernando Perez: what is the room number your in at the hotel?
RITHA DESMOND: why
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: 0016
RITHA DESMOND: S Maryland Parkway, Las Vegas
RITHA DESMOND: that is my herderson home address
fernando Perez: no its not
fernando Perez: that is not in henderson
fernando Perez: that is in las vegas
RITHA DESMOND: what do you mean
RITHA DESMOND: pls try to understand
RITHA DESMOND: the hotel will close in less than 10 min
fernando Perez: you dont live in henderson
fernando Perez: I know the 419 scam
RITHA DESMOND: what do you mean
RITHA DESMOND: you call me 419
fernando Perez: no
RITHA DESMOND: you know what
fernando Perez: nigerian scam is called 419
RITHA DESMOND: if you cant do it
RITHA DESMOND: just let me know
RITHA DESMOND: and i will not have hope to your side
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: pls tell me now
fernando Perez: call me and then i can trust u
RITHA DESMOND: how
fernando Perez: *************
RITHA DESMOND: my mobile is not working here
fernando Perez: use hotel phone
RITHA DESMOND: and i dont have any money to call
RITHA DESMOND: sorry the hotel will only assist to recieve
RITHA DESMOND: not to call out
fernando Perez: how big is the hotel
RITHA DESMOND: not to big
RITHA DESMOND: the hote want to close now
fernando Perez: when you lived in las vegas what music station did u like?
fernando Perez: tell me the name
RITHA DESMOND has signed out. (9/6/2007 12:47 PM)

As u can see I was asking her lots of questions about herself and where she lived because i did not trust her when the first time we talked she asked me for money. This is the email she sent me after the instant message.

Am very sorry for not tell you goodbye before i left and that is the reason i try to mail you this night, because when i told the hotel manager that am talking with the person that will pay my bill he agree to give me chance to use his office internet connection.
About your question this are what i can give in my answer to it

1. 910 S. Boulder Highway, Henderson, NV 89013
2. I have told you about my parent and i dont have anybody whom i can go to.
3. I listen to KLUC 98.5
4. FIRST ROYAL HOTEL, 25 sapon abeokuta ogun state
I have tried to find out how to get the money paid to the hotel from there but the hotel manager said they dont accept money in that way because their hotel is not a BIG hotel and the only way is if you can send the money by western union money transfer, that i will help me to cash it here and i will be able to pay. if you really want to help me out you will have to send the money in the hotel managers information.
Here is the hotel managers information
NAME AFOLABI FOJUDE
COUNTRY NIGERIA
STATE OGUN STATE
CITY ABEOKUTA
CODE 23439
and you will have to send this details back to me so i can get the money.
1.. full senders name
2.. amount sent.
3.. MTCN
4.. the text question and answer. u used in sending the money
Babe thanks so much and i hope u can help me send the money ASAP.
i will be expecting the details and i promise to pay you back as sonn as am back to the state.
hope to hear from you soon.

RITHA

I didnt believe her because she told me 2 different addresses and they didnt match up. The address in that email was an address to a hotel in Henderson, Nevada. When I confronted her she said that she didnt want to tell me her real address because she doesnt know me that good. but she expects me to send her money without even ever seeing her. This is the next instant message from her.

BUZZ!!!
RITHA DESMOND: are you there now
fernando Perez: hi
RITHA DESMOND: hi
fernando Perez: what are u doing
RITHA DESMOND: do you get my mail
fernando Perez: yea
fernando Perez: what time is it over there?
RITHA DESMOND: am in the managers office
RITHA DESMOND: trying to mail you
RITHA DESMOND: am about to go
fernando Perez: let me speak to the manager
RITHA DESMOND: then i saw you sign in
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: you can call him
RITHA DESMOND: i have giving you the hotels no
RITHA DESMOND: call him
fernando Perez: it didnt work
fernando Perez: i tried
RITHA DESMOND: he will pick it
RITHA DESMOND: try more
fernando Perez: i tried 3 times
fernando Perez: let me speak to him like this
RITHA DESMOND: i told him he sais it is due to bad network
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: but i want to go out of here now
RITHA DESMOND: because it is night
fernando Perez: just let me talk to him
RITHA DESMOND: and i have to sign out
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: no problem
fernando Perez: i cant talk to him because the phone doesnt connect
RITHA DESMOND: just a min
RITHA DESMOND: i have to call him
fernando Perez: ok
RITHA DESMOND: is outside
RITHA DESMOND: hello
fernando Perez: hi is this the manager
RITHA DESMOND: you want to chat with me
RITHA DESMOND: yes am the manager for first royal hotelany problem
fernando Perez: yes i am going to pay the bill but I need you to email me the bill
RITHA DESMOND: what bill
fernando Perez: for the $250 she owes
RITHA DESMOND: ok ok
RITHA DESMOND: i have told her
RITHA DESMOND: you cant pay from there
RITHA DESMOND: you have to send it to her
fernando Perez: ok but all i want is to see the bill
RITHA DESMOND: then she will pay
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: the bill
RITHA DESMOND: how
fernando Perez: if you can email me the bill to *****************@yahoo.com
RITHA DESMOND: sorry
RITHA DESMOND: i cant do that now
RITHA DESMOND: because i have alot to do
RITHA DESMOND: mind you if she did not pay tommorrow
RITHA DESMOND: we are going to send her out
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: Well if I see the bill she can pay it when i send the money
fernando Perez: i just want to verify the amount
RITHA DESMOND: that is not my problem
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: it is her problem
RITHA DESMOND: if she did not
fernando Perez: do u realize that $250 in american money is over 31,500 in Nigerian
RITHA DESMOND: yes
RITHA DESMOND: i know
fernando Perez: I must have the bill in order for her to pay it
RITHA DESMOND: but we are not dilling with naira here
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: the bill is with her
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: you can talk to her
fernando Perez: ok
RITHA DESMOND: i have to go and do something i was doing
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: if you want me to give u the money i need a copy of the bill
fernando Perez: this is very important
RITHA DESMOND: love
RITHA DESMOND: i dont know how to send it to you
fernando Perez: try to fax it to me
RITHA DESMOND: because i dont have scanner
fernando Perez: do u have fax
RITHA DESMOND: and the hotel did not
RITHA DESMOND: they dont have it here
RITHA DESMOND: pls
RITHA DESMOND: try your best
RITHA DESMOND: just try to put a trust in me
fernando Perez: No you find a place that has a fax machine and you send it
RITHA DESMOND: i dont go out
fernando Perez: you have to so you can send it
fernando Perez: go to the post office
RITHA DESMOND: post office
RITHA DESMOND: i dont know there
fernando Perez: ask the manager where you can find a fax
fernando Perez: if i dont have the bill i cant pay
RITHA DESMOND: and if i know that will take more days two get to you
fernando Perez: no its like an email but i get a copy
fernando Perez: I can not pay the bill if i dont have a copy
RITHA DESMOND: what am saying is
RITHA DESMOND: if i want to send it by post
fernando Perez: no the post office has fax machines
RITHA DESMOND: you know what
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: let me ask
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: just a min
RITHA DESMOND: love
fernando Perez: let me give you the fax number
RITHA DESMOND: they send the post office did not have fax
fernando Perez: *-***-***-****
fernando Perez: go to another hotel
RITHA DESMOND: but i dont seems to understand
RITHA DESMOND: what do you said i should fax to you
fernando Perez: the bill
fernando Perez: I NEED THE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: the bill is just a letter
fernando Perez: NO ITS A REGULAR BILL
fernando Perez: IT HAS THE DATE THE NAME OF THE HOTEL AND THE AMOUNT OWED
RITHA DESMOND: no
fernando Perez: IF I DONT GET THIS I CANT PAY
RITHA DESMOND: it is a letter
RITHA DESMOND: they are going to give me that when i pay
fernando Perez: NO THATS THE RECEIPT
RITHA DESMOND: you know what
fernando Perez: NOT THE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: yes
fernando Perez: I KNOW WHAT IM TALKING ABOUT
RITHA DESMOND: that is what i think it is important
fernando Perez: ITS LIKE A CREDIT CARD BILL OR A PHONE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: no
fernando Perez: THEY TELL YOU THE AMOUNT OWED THE NAME OF THE PERSON THE NAME OF THE COMPANY
RITHA DESMOND: they dont give that here
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: I CANT PAY IF YOU DONT SEND THAT TO ME
RITHA DESMOND: they just give me a letter
fernando Perez: I CANT
RITHA DESMOND: pls
fernando Perez: IF I DONT GET THAT BILL I CANT PAY
RITHA DESMOND: i will pay you back
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: I NEED IT
RITHA DESMOND: and i will send you the receipt
fernando Perez: NO I NEED THE BILL
fernando Perez: ANY ONE CAN MAKE A RECEIPT
fernando Perez: BUT I NEED THE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: well
fernando Perez: IF U DONT UNDERSTAND THIS I CANT HELP
RITHA DESMOND: is like you are trying to turn me
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: IM PROTECTING MYSELF
RITHA DESMOND: but am sad
RITHA DESMOND: because you let me put mind on it
RITHA DESMOND: pls
RITHA DESMOND: you dont have anything to fear of
fernando Perez: LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING
RITHA DESMOND: i will not do you wrong
RITHA DESMOND: what
fernando Perez: YESTERDAY I WAS WATCHING THE NEWS AND THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT NIGERIAN SCAMS
fernando Perez: PEOPLE WHO TRICK OTHER PEOPLE FOR MONEY
RITHA DESMOND: what is that
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: and you think i can do that
fernando Perez: I DONT KNOW
fernando Perez: IF YOU SEND ME THE BILL THEN I BELIEVE YOU
RITHA DESMOND: pls trust me
RITHA DESMOND: if you can do this
fernando Perez: NO THERES TOO MANY THINGS I HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT
RITHA DESMOND: i will know the type person you are
RITHA DESMOND: and i will be yours forever
RITHA DESMOND: pls
RITHA DESMOND: i dont know where to go
RITHA DESMOND: if they send me out
RITHA DESMOND: pls
RITHA DESMOND: i need your help
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: I NEED THE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: because of this i cant sleep
RITHA DESMOND: pls
fernando Perez: LOOK AT YOUR TYPING YOU DONT SOUND LIKE YOUR BORN AND RAISED IN AMERICA
fernando Perez: YOU DONT MAKE COMPLETE SENTENCES
RITHA DESMOND: that is not the issue
RITHA DESMOND: i was typing fast
RITHA DESMOND: and my hand is chaking
fernando Perez: OK TYPE NORMAL SO YOU DONT SOUND LIKE A NIGERIAN
RITHA DESMOND: because i dont know what will hapen tommorrow
fernando Perez: IF I GET THE BILL I WILL PAY IT TOMORROW
fernando Perez: IM NOT KIDDING
RITHA DESMOND: i have tell you
RITHA DESMOND: i dont know how to sent it to you
fernando Perez: FAX
fernando Perez: I WILL GIVE YOU THE NUMBER
fernando Perez: YOU SEND ME THE BILL AND ILL SEND THE MONEY
RITHA DESMOND: no where to fax
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: ALL HOTELS HAVE A FAX
fernando Perez: NO MATTER WHERE THE HOTEL IS
fernando Perez: THEY HAVE A FAX
fernando Perez: I KNOW
RITHA DESMOND: how will i go to another hotel to fax
fernando Perez: WALK
RITHA DESMOND: beside i dont have much time
RITHA DESMOND: tommorrow is the last day
fernando Perez: THATS ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS SEND ME THE BILL
fernando Perez: SEND ME THE BILL
fernando Perez: ILL PAY IT
fernando Perez: IF I DONT GET THE BILL
fernando Perez: I CANT PAY
RITHA DESMOND: well
RITHA DESMOND: if you dont
RITHA DESMOND: i can understand
RITHA DESMOND: but i think you will understand me
RITHA DESMOND:
fernando Perez: NO IM NOT GOING TO CHANGE MY MIND
fernando Perez: I NEED THE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: good night
fernando Perez: THATS ALL YOU HAVE TO DO
RITHA DESMOND: but you should have tell this before
RITHA DESMOND: am so sad
fernando Perez: ITS REALLY EASY, JUST FAX ME THE BILL AND ILL PAY
RITHA DESMOND: i have tell you what i can do
RITHA DESMOND: this is just a latter
fernando Perez: HERE IS THE FAX NUMBER
fernando Perez: WRITE IT DOWN
fernando Perez: AND SEND THE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: and ik
RITHA DESMOND: k
fernando Perez: WHAT? SEE I DONT UNDERSTAND THAT, THATS WHY I DONT THINK YOUR BORN AND RAISED IN AMERICA
fernando Perez: AND OK?
fernando Perez: YOU HAVE 2 PROFILES ON MIGENTE WHY?
fernando Perez: RITHA234 AND RITHADESMOND
RITHA DESMOND: i said am gona send it .ok
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: IM NOT STUPID
RITHA DESMOND: there was a problem with the first one i did on there ok
RITHA DESMOND: and i had to make up another
fernando Perez: I WAS ON MIGENTE AND YOU WERE ON ABOUT 15 MINUTES AGO
fernando Perez: WHY?
RITHA DESMOND: yeah i was on here aby just checking my box on there
RITHA DESMOND: baby
fernando Perez: SO YOU WERE SO WORRIED ABOUT GETTING KICKED OUT OF THE HOTEL THAT YOU CHECK YOUR MAIL BOX ON MIGENTE?
fernando Perez: THAT DOESNT MAKE SENSE
RITHA DESMOND: hey a trying to do things to get my mind away from the thought of the hotel i have to be sincere with you
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: ILL SEND ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS AN EMAIL ON MIGENTE AND ASK THEM ABOUT U
RITHA DESMOND: thats the way i see things
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: HA HA REMEMBER IM NOT STUPID
RITHA DESMOND: but i know i talk to you only u on there
RITHA DESMOND: why are u tryin to add more to my problem
RITHA DESMOND: i think u should help me solve things out..ok
fernando Perez: BECAUSE 250 IS ALOT OF MONEY AND THE FIRST TIME I TALK TO YOU U ASK FOR MONEY
RITHA DESMOND: well i think i thats some times ago
fernando Perez: I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT U SAID
RITHA DESMOND: and this is now pls just accept me the way i am and help make things work out for me pls
RITHA DESMOND: yeah i mean that happen cos what i was going through and have to xplain what i was going through to you
fernando Perez: YOU GO TO THE FRONT DESK AND ASK FOR A BILL
RITHA DESMOND: ok i will
fernando Perez: AND YOU SEND IT TO THE FAX MACHINE
fernando Perez: WRITE THE PHONE NUMBER NOW
RITHA DESMOND: ok immediately tommorw morning
RITHA DESMOND: i wil do tht ok
fernando Perez: *-***-***-****
RITHA DESMOND: ok i will
fernando Perez: AT THE TOP OF THE BILL YOU MUST WRITE
fernando Perez: ATTN: *** *******
RITHA DESMOND: what?
fernando Perez: WRITE THAT ON THE TOP OF THE BILL
RITHA DESMOND: ATTN?
fernando Perez: YES
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: i will
RITHA DESMOND: addresssing it to you?
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: ***********
fernando Perez: ATTN: **************
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: ok understood
fernando Perez: AND WHEN I GET THAT BILL I WILL MAKE SURE ITS AUTHENTIC
fernando Perez: DONT THINK IM STUPID
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: YOU HAVE THE NUMBER?
RITHA DESMOND: what again?
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: DID U WRITE THE NUMBER?
RITHA DESMOND: i will ok
RITHA DESMOND: i have the number
fernando Perez: GIVE ME THE NUMBER TO THE HOTEL
fernando Perez: AND GIVE ME THE AREA CODE
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: i will
RITHA DESMOND: of where?
RITHA DESMOND: here?
fernando Perez: YES
RITHA DESMOND: ok i will have to ask the hotel mamager..ok
fernando Perez: THIS IS WHAT THE NUMBER SHOULD LOOK LIKE
RITHA DESMOND: i dont know that off hand
fernando Perez: X-XXX-XXXX
fernando Perez: X-XXX-XXX-XXXX
RITHA DESMOND: dont worry i will ask
fernando Perez: AND I WILL CALL RIGHT NOW TO CHECK
RITHA DESMOND: you can
RITHA DESMOND: baby i have to go
RITHA DESMOND: i will be expecting ok
fernando Perez: NO
RITHA DESMOND: what?
fernando Perez: GIVE ME THE NUMBER
RITHA DESMOND: why?
RITHA DESMOND: after sending you the bill ..ok
fernando Perez: GIVE ME THE NUMBER
RITHA DESMOND: which one?
RITHA DESMOND: for the manager?
fernando Perez: BOTH
fernando Perez: MANAGER AND HOTEL
fernando Perez: PHONE NUMBER
RITHA DESMOND: ok amin pls
RITHA DESMOND: +2348026833637
RITHA DESMOND: use this
RITHA DESMOND: thats only what i have here with me..ok
fernando Perez: WHATS THE COUNTRY CODE
RITHA DESMOND: 234
RITHA DESMOND: every thing is there
fernando Perez: WHATS THE HOTELS FAX NUMBER
RITHA DESMOND: i dont know
fernando Perez: GET IT
RITHA DESMOND: may be tomorrw when i talk to the hotel manager
fernando Perez: YOU SEND THE FAX TO ME FROM THE HOTEL
fernando Perez: THE HOTEL HAS A FAX
fernando Perez: DONT SEND IT FROM ANYWHERE ELSE
RITHA DESMOND: No
RITHA DESMOND: but i still have to ask to confirm..ok
fernando Perez: NO
fernando Perez: THEY SHOULD SEND IT FOR YOU ANYWAY
fernando Perez: I USE TO WORK AT A HOTEL
fernando Perez: AND THATS WHAT HOTELS DO
fernando Perez: FAX BILLS
RITHA DESMOND: hey i wouldnt want any problem with this people let them scan and send on mail..ok
fernando Perez: THE EMAIL?
RITHA DESMOND: yeah
RITHA DESMOND: it will be scanned and forwarded to your mail ..ok
fernando Perez: OK
fernando Perez: WHEN
fernando Perez: REMEMBER SEND THE BILL NOT THE LETTER
RITHA DESMOND: tomorrw morning ok
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: i undersatnd your English ..ok
fernando Perez: ok
RITHA DESMOND: ok bye
fernando Perez: wait
fernando Perez: let me tell you something
fernando Perez: why did you tell me you lived in S. Maryland parkway, las vegas
RITHA DESMOND: what?
fernando Perez: yes
RITHA DESMOND: i think i just met you and think we need sometimes to know each other better..ok
RITHA DESMOND: when am back right there
fernando Perez: why did u lie?
RITHA DESMOND: i will make sure you know every necessary thing you are ought to know
RITHA DESMOND: ok am sorry
RITHA DESMOND: was lieing at first
fernando Perez: so where do u live on maryland or boulder highway
fernando Perez: YOUR TAKING TO LONG TO TELL ME
RITHA DESMOND: 910 S. Boulder Highway, Henderson,
RITHA DESMOND: NV 89013
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: i have to go now..ok
fernando Perez: ok
fernando Perez: ciao
RITHA DESMOND: i hope you are sending the money when you get the bill tomorrw
RITHA DESMOND: ciao
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: are you?
fernando Perez: ill find out when i see the bill
BUZZ!!!
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: and ill authenticate the bill
RITHA DESMOND: bye
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: SO IF YOUR A NIGERIAN SCAM ARTIST DONT THINK IM STUPID
fernando Perez: ciao
RITHA DESMOND: ok nothing like that..ok
RITHA DESMOND: whats ciao
fernando Perez: italian for by
fernando Perez: bye
RITHA DESMOND: but i know its your language right?
fernando Perez: NO
RITHA DESMOND: ciao
fernando Perez: italian
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: i will call the hotel
RITHA DESMOND: ok
RITHA DESMOND: ok
fernando Perez: i will make a copy of this whole messenger
fernando Perez: log out
RITHA DESMOND has signed out. (9/6/2007 6:33 PM)

As you can see i was getting really mad at her. This is all i have from her. All I can say is that I wish she was real and not a scam artist, I will miss the person i thought she was. GoodBye Ritha.


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2007-09-13, 16:46:41
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LMAO! That signature is a real winner!
2007-10-24, 15:01:04
anonymous from United Kingdom  
This girl is also posing under the name of Elizabeth Rice, email address bebeliza01@yahoo.com. This was through match.com dating site. I hope this helps anyone else in touch with whoever this person is. The story has interesting variations - she has been claiming her mother was from Hornchurch, Essex, UK

They are using the picture attached now


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2007-11-02, 08:17:45
anonymous from Australia  
Don't know if this is of any help, but, another email address she does use is rithadesmond@hotmail.com (she also goes prowling around at www.wayn.com (deleted my profile and all because of jolly scammers). Anyway, hope it is of some help
2008-03-14, 22:45:05
anonymous from Ireland  
I'm taking to elizabeth rice at the min, 2 mails in and i knew it was a scam, so i have been playing along and sending them on wild goose chases to collect the money, i have given her a series of numbers from which 2 obtain money from a western union account and the numbers will be activated if she quotes where i live to the cashier as this is the password 'wotzupdoc' bugs bunny anyone??
2008-05-03, 11:54:08
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Hey we have another story the saga continues.................he/she is so f*cking thick IT has got to get a new identity!!

She sent me an e-mail to which i replied. It was from a dating site called Singles.com. On her profile she said she was from Oxford, England and judging by her grammer and spelling she definately was not from Oxford! If you want a laugh read on, bearing in mind this is her second e-mail to me and IT is telling me IT's life story.........stupid bitch!!

Hello,
Thanks for your email and you also look good in the picture.I hope this finds you well. I already told you that I am new at this internet thing but i have a good feelings that everything will go fine.i was born in England in year 1980 and my family stay in Essex, I'm the only daughter of the family.My dad is originally from US and mum from England.4years ago,i lost my dad when he got involved in an accident on his way from my mum place where himself and mum went to visit one of a family member. According to the officers that witnessed the scene of the accident,He said my dad slept off and lost control of the car that resulted to an accident. I have no choice than to move to one of our far relations who was a fashion designer . Through her I met so many people and she introduced me into fashion designing. I was there working with her until my childhood friend from WA who told me about a Boss who was looking for a well qualified fashion designer and whom he would like to take to Africa
for some business contract. And due to the nature of my job, i practice internationally andi'm a professional in my field, so i was qualified and my friend was picked but unfortunately she could not make the trip-it was during the process that she met her husband on dating site and to my suprise thier relationship ended well to a marriage and they nolive happily together and i was really happy for them,her story convinced me that this on-line dating thing can really work. That was the reason Boss decided to bring me down only to Africa. We met the CEO of the clothing company in Nigeria,we talked and my Boss agreed that we will need to advertise his new textile products as the company is a newly established one .It's been 2weeks that we have been here now and the contract is over but(Mr Mark Gladders)my Boss quickly travelled to China to get some contracts and he promised to be back soon. So i am lonely for now but i am doing my best to keep myself busy.
I hope you are not tired reading this long letter,this is all about me.I would like to know more about you and see more of your photos as well in your next email.Bye for now and hope to know more about you in your next email i.e Do you have any dark side? Do you bully? I wait your response.
yours,
Elizabeth

My heart bleeds......................................NOT!!!!!!! HA HA. Attached are the pics she sent me, thought it might be beneficial.


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2008-05-27, 08:34:01
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Guess who emailed me yesterday after sending her a wink? Yep, Elizabeth Rice. The email i got from her yesterday only said that she saw my profile and would like to get to know me but to email he through her yahoo. I did and then today i got this.......
Thanks for your email,its so good to know about you.I am new at this internet thing but i have a good feelings that everything will go fine.i was born in Ireland and my family stay in Wexford, I'm the only daughter of the family.My dad is originally from England and mum from Wexford, in Ireland.4years ago,i lost my dad when he got involved in an accident on his way from my mum place where himself and mum went to visit one of a family member. According to the officers that witnessed the scene of the accident,He said my dad slept off and lost control of the car that resulted to an accident. I have no choice than to move to one of our far relations who was a fashion designer . Through her I met so many people and she introduced me into fashion designing. I was there working with her until my childhood friend from WA who told me about a Boss who was looking for a well qualified fashion designer and whom he would like to take to Africa for some business contract. And due to the nature of my job, i practice internationally and i'm a professional in my field, so i was qualified and my friend was picked but unfortunately she could not make the trip-it was during the process that she met her husband on dating site and to my suprise thier relationship ended well to a marriage and they nolive happily together and i was really happy for them,her story convinced me that this on-line dating thing can really work. That was the reason Boss decided to bring me down only to Africa. We met the CEO of the clothing company in Nigeria,we talked and my Boss agreed that we will need to advertise his new textile products as the company is a newly established one .It's been 2weeks that we have been here now and the contract is over but(Mr Mark Gladders)my Boss quickly travelled to China to get some contracts and he promised to be back soon. So i am lonely for now but i am doing my best to keep myself busy. I hope you are not tired reading this long letter,this is all about me.I would like to know more about you and see more of your photos as well in your next email.Bye for now and hope to know more about you in your next email i.e Do you have any dark side? Do you bully? I wait your response.
yours,
Elizabeth


lol, Does she really think i would believe this crap? The email address for this one was ....
rosaagasy01@yahoo.com


one email from her and did a search right away for Mark Gladders, hence being here ;)
P.S. Her profile on match.com is down under lizblu and her picture is below.


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