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Name: Ludmila or Luda K.


Cheboksary (but IP is forged)

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The full header, her introductiory-letter (two lines in Dutch), her first two formletters and the pics I received untill today.

Ludmila/Luda said she found me on

Interesting: I get emails from another girl, using the same formletters. The girl is different, but the picture-ID's are the same: b_img(number).jpg. Same photographer, same scammer? The other girls' IP is Yoshkar-Ola, though. I will link them if those similarities keep occurring.

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Letter 1

Datum: 21-9-2007 17:34:13
Aan: cindyhorsten@home.NL
Onderwerp: Nieuwe matches op Relatieplanet

Het hallo!
I have found at myself in spam to a basket the letter with with several questionnaires and email! This letter from the Netherlands site of dating! I never tried earlier gets acquainted through internet but for the sake of interest have dared to write to you! If it is interesting to you to learn me also that write to me! Only that I now can tell i live in Russia. To me of 25 years. Children are not present. It was not married! my education university! The Rest I shall write at your return answer! Ik zal blij zijn naar uw antwoord en het verhaal over youself!
Van de joue trouw.
My e-mail:

Letter 2

Datum: 26-9-2007 10:54:46
Aan: Dirk van Dellen

Hello! The new friend! I am grateful to you that you have answered me
and show the friendly relation. With the big desire, the best regards
I write you the answer. I hope that it will be interesting to you to
communicate with me, and it is possible to find out me a little bit
closer. I hope that our further correspondence it will not be simple
game, It is a little about itself: I was born in September 18, 1982 in
city of Cheboksary Would like to tell, that my parents together do not
live. When I was small parents began to live separately. We with mum
live separately. She works as the cook in a private school. To my mum
54 years and she does not look on the age, recently my mum Has met
another the man and probably from she was begun with new life. We
frequently see mum also she lives near me. I rent an apartment and I
live separately. My daddy too lives with other woman, but I with daddy
I support relations. he works as the driver of a taxi and for him the
life, to it of 56 years, The main thing for me that my parents were
quiet in the private life. At present I have no the friend. Studied at
university Now I work on a speciality the agent under the real estate,
I very much like my work, as to me per day It is necessary to
communicate with different people much enough. At leisure I visit a
pool, occupations by sports help me to keep the health In the evenings
I listen to music or I look TV Like to chatter with friends. We like
to walk on city, our city very beautiful and very ancient, I can write
much to you about my city, but I think shall write to you of it little
bit later. If certainly it interests you I very simple person, the
first turn want to tell you, that me most of all in the person
Interests his private world, instead of appearance and the size of a
purse, I like people from which the truth proceeds, And having a
definite purpose in life. Most of all I do not like, hypocrisy and
lie. Certainly in our life there are many bad people, But I think that
is not necessary to pay attention to them, as they of it are not
worthy our attention. But we shall not continue further this theme of
conversation, let's continue about good, What you might inform about
yourselves, your qualities, hobbies? Your vital interests? I hope to
you it will be not difficult to inform about myself? I with the great
pleasure send to you a photo, would like to know your opinion about
me? I wish you all good! With impatience I shall look forward to
hearing from you With the best regards Ludmila.

Letter 3

Datum: 27-9-2007 18:10:04
Aan: Dirk van Dellen

Hello my Cute The knight!!!! I hope that you is nothing I will name
you my knight? Now autumn and consequently it is sad from memoirs on
the lived summer a little! I prefer spring or summer more! What at you
today weather? At us today the rain is not present! But from 5:00 in
the mornings the dense fog has lowered! and was nothing is visible on
distance of 10 meters! It is impossible to go to cars without
headlights! Now the fog has dissipated also all became normal! I can
write about it much, but I do not think, that is necessary to point on
it a lot of attention. It will be more useful if I shall speak more
about myself! My growth of 170 centimeters! My weight of 49 kg! I
Cristian belief! I try to visit church once a month, as I not the
religious fanatic. My preference in the foodstuffs is fruit and a
fish. My favourite flowers it is violets. My favourite music is a jazz
or any other qualitative music. My favourite color is gentle - pink.
Ok, I think what for today to suffice the information about me. I
hope, that you to write about the predilections also! It will be very
curious to me to know about you everything, that it is not a pity to
you to me to tell! You most likely remember, than I am engaged also
what work at me. Let even I write you, That I am tired, but my work is
pleasant to me, and dream to come in normal is now simply necessary
for me Condition. I begin to work with 8.00 till 17.00 as usually I
arrive in office in the morning, Also I look the planned the program
of meetings, I move on city rendering the services. After I carry out
the program, I come back in office and I check the mail. You know for
me not usually to remain after a working day, but I make it with the
great pleasure As to me there is very interesting a dialogue through
the Internet and with you it is very pleasant for me To converse I
would like to ask you how you concern to the to work? That you may
inform me about the work. With greetings, respect and the best regards
your friend Luda.

P.S. My full name Ludmila.

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2007-10-24, 02:12:08
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  
Datum: 24-10-2007 7:47:00
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

Sweet! I have to admit that I have had you on my mind all
day. I look foward to hearing from you everyday and it
seems that everything is happening so fast.
Today I visited my relatives who are very close to me, I told
them about you, the place you live in, about us... They were very
surprised to learn that our relationship get more serious.
I can't believe myself, to be more exact, I couldn't believe that
I will find someone so fast... I am getting used to you... your habits,
interests, hobbies, state of mind, your warm words... I couldn't think
before and I didn't beleive those who found their love via Internet,
but when I met you I began to realize that it is a very serious matter.
I never thought I woudl meet someone like yourself over internet, but now
we have and it will never die...
I also want to know what have you found so
special about me? I am very happy to meet you... I tell you this again and
again and I won't stop saying this...
My sweet love, I have never met a person before that makes me feel the way
you do. The only thing that I can tell you is that I Love You Too....:)
I used to not believe in fate but now you have made me a believer and
renewed my belief in love, because you make me feel so loved, so very happy
with everything that you say to me, I spend all day thinking about you and I
together, Someday we will treasure our thoughts together, Someday you will
be mine forever... I will always be in your thoughts and dreams as well as you,
but very soon our dream will come true...


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2007-10-25, 02:26:15
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  
Datum: 25-10-2007 8:59:56
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

Hello my love! What weather at you? At us the temperature today
has lowered up to -3 degrees! It is a little sad! I to want that there
has as soon as possible come the true winter! It is pleasant to me
when it is snowing but when not so coldly! Also I love New Year's
holidays! I last night very long talked to my mum about you! she
speaks that to her a little sadly that I soon shall leave to you and
they me long will not see! But from other point of view all of them it
is happy for me that I have met the the man! she hopes in the future
will get acquainted with you! she sends the regards to you! I to her
greetings add the kiss! I today shall go on a visit to my aunt! she
lives in the next city! I shall write to you tomorrow! Love you match!

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2007-10-26, 03:02:06
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  
Just love the little mistakes they make...

Datum: 26-10-2007 8:27:47
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

Hello, darling Dirk... I was very happy to get your e-mail!

I am going to visit my girlfriend tonight or tomorrow, she gave birht to her
child and she is very happy, we were schoolmates, and we are good friends.
I love kids very much and I bought very pretty costume (clothes) for her baby-)
she has a little son whose name is Alexander. -)) but the problem is that she
lives alone, she doesn't have husband. and she needs great support, especially
now. I will try to visit her oftener and to help her to sit with her Sasha.
because, any woman can get into such a kind of situation.
yesterday i wacthed a very interesting film on Tv which is called 'The soldier'
this is a fanstastic film but psychological one. I love psychological films very
much and I like to deal with psychological questions, with moral, and simply
human problems. The main character ( Todd) who was brought up as a soldier since
his baby cradle got to people, and it was very difficult for him to get used
to their life... he even didn't know what such words as' to love'... 'to feel'..
'to cry' .... mean. This made me think of many things in our life, and I would
do every possible and impossibkle thing to bring up my son or daughter a very
good PERSON! did you see any film of that kind, dear? Tell me about them, and
I will try to watch them too, ok? In general, I am doing fine today and tomorrow
I will get here to write you again and again, my sweeety!!!!!!!
I always think of you andyou never get out of my mind and of my heart.
Your Larisa.

Datum: 26-10-2007 8:35:55
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

My love! Has forgotten to write to you! This mine the middle a name! So be not surprised! I really now should go! Love! You future wife....

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2007-10-26, 05:01:58
OJAS from United States  
If you're a newcomer who found this thread via Google or whatever, PLEASE READ THIS:
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New US Passport processing time as of this post: 6 Months
Canadian Visa: http://www.delphifa..?p=0#56706
Schengen: http://www.netherla..index.aspx http://www.eurovisa..tries.htm
Russian Visa Steps:
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@Oldbies, once in a while check these links as they may be
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2) Removed by scammers from delphi
2007-10-26, 05:46:21
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  

Datum: 26-10-2007 13:43:24
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

mY love! I did not know that it will matter! Simply I was with my
girlfriend in Internet cafe! she always names me larisa. I on a habit
have signed the letter also! Larisa this mine the middle of a name!
Also I today went and with the girlfriend to bank and to me have told
that on the account of my girlfriend of money did not act! What does
it amount to???? Love! Luda. '
2007-10-26, 11:41:15
Pablo from Mexico  
I also got exactly the same letters from 'Ludmila' and 'Larisa', stupid Boris must be drunk.
2007-10-26, 12:17:22   (updated: 2007-10-26, 12:18:02)
Eddie from Sweden  
Dirk...this one's English seems better than usual, mistakes or not.
2007-10-26, 18:30:13   (updated: 2007-10-26, 18:35:45)
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  
Eddie: Pablo and I don't point out spelling- and grammarmistakes in Luda's letters. When I posted this Thread, I stressed the fact that I received the same stuff (letters and pics) from Larisa. Picture Search linked both Threads. Later on one of our Belgian friends introduced a 'Larisa' with different pics, but the same letters. Another piece of evidence that we are dealing with one and the same scammer in three Threads.
Agree with Pablo: the fool was drunk when he signed a Ludmila-letter with... Larisa. It's simply hilarious to see how he tries to correct his mistake. His girlfriend always calls him Larisa. LOL

2007-10-27, 11:31:03
OJAS from United States  
Good idea guys,

Don't point out spelling / grammatical errors, because they should be hit by google search for these.

Also ask at some stage for their passport numbers clearly typed out in a line by itself, in addition to sending a scan. They should be made to supply google text search like passport number

Keep up the good work
Everyone have a great weekend!
2007-10-27, 20:43:58
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  

Datum: 28-10-2007 3:35:50
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

Where are you Dirk?? Love! Luda.
2007-10-27, 22:23:43   (updated: 2007-10-27, 22:32:05)
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  

Datum: 28-10-2007 3:35:50
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

Where are you Dirk?? Love! Luda.

Datum: 28-10-2007 5:17:17
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re: Talk?

Hello, Dirk) how are you? I couldn't write you yesterday dear
because I was at my girlfriend's place again, I helped her to sit with
her Baby whose name is Sasha, do you remember? I told you about her in
my previous letter. She will need my help now from timw to time. I
feel much sorry for her but on the other hand I jealous her as she is
very happy with her baby-).... what's the news with you? Here is
almost nothing new, except that I watched a new novie 'Spiderman-3'
yesterday together with my gf while her baby was trying to fall
asleep. Today I shall help my mum! she has told that we with her shall
make cleaning in an apartment! As the weather is getting warmer and
warmere my desire to be with you grow with each day... each hour...
each minute... each second... this will ne hard to overcome it soon...
but my letters to you will help me to express all my feelings and
wishes about our happy future ... I will finish up for now and will
wait a letter from you very soon ok?

Write me soon...
Vsegda tvoya (It is written in Russian).

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Van: Dirk van Dellen
Datum: 28-10-2007 5:29:27

Dobroye utro moya l'ubimaya,

My yavl'ayems'a rannimi. YA dolzhen pojti, chtoby rabotat' teper'. YA nadeyus', chto Vy imeyete priyatnyj den' s vashej mater''u.

Napishite skoro.



Good morning my favourite,

We are early. I should go to work now. I hope, that you have pleasant day with your mother.

Write soon.

2007-10-27, 22:42:30
Pablo from Mexico  
Hei Dirk:
In this last letter her girlfriend's baby is named Sasha, but in the previous letter the baby is name Alexander:

Previous letter:
'I love kids very much and I bought very pretty costume (clothes) for her baby-)
she has a little son whose name is Alexander.'

New letter:
'I was at my girlfriend's place again, I helped her to sit with
her Baby whose name is Sasha, do you remember?'

Stupid Boris is making stupid mistakes
2007-10-28, 04:49:08   (updated: 2007-10-28, 05:05:24)
OJAS from United States  
I searched dephi on top left for sasha sacha (the second one French spelling)
2007-10-28, 07:13:04   (updated: 2007-10-28, 07:14:25)
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  
Datum: 10/28/07 05:58:35
Aan: Dirk van Dellen
Onderwerp: Re:

My love! I am glad to receive your letter soon! I now should go! At me
one question! You have transferred me of money or? I yesterday went
together with my girlfriend and to me have told that on the account of
money did not act! When they will be on the account??? Love! luda.

Of course, honey, of course.

See, Pablo? A Sasha is a short Alexander.
2007-10-28, 07:54:51
PABLO from Mexico  
Subject:     Re[8]: Hi Ludmila
Date:     October 28, 2007 12:49:39 AM GMT-05:00

My love! I am not going to help all time to my girlfriend! When you
will send money and when I shall pay over my documents that I I shall
arrive to you! I now should go! I shall write tomorrow more! You have
transferred me of money on Friday or? When they will be on the
account??? Love! luda.

Dirk, hi, now I see about names.

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