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Not sure if this lady is real or not. Just need help verifying if anyone else has had dealings with her or someone that may look like her. I have tested all her photos on here and got nothing of course now if I put them on here it will be different, as well I have tested her IP addresses:,
and get nothing. Could it be she is not one of them? What are the odds. Help me out folks if you have had contact with anyone that looks like this. She claims to work for UNISEF in the Benin Republic and lives with her mother there. Who knows she may be real but has given me nothing to verify that she really exists. Have not lost any money, as I did once before so really cautious now. Thanks in advance

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2008-02-03, 09:56:14
anonymous from Canada  
Thanks buddy I figured it was something like that. Knew it was not an Africa registration. Guess they think North American men are stupid. Wrong.
2008-02-05, 19:45:49
I have currently been talking with a rita anderson, says she is in Nigera, and wants money to come see me, different photos, would like to talk with some one about this Rita Anderson. pls help..
2008-02-05, 19:46:41
I have currently been talking with a rita anderson, says she is in Nigera, and wants money to come see me, different photos, would like to talk with some one about this Rita Anderson. pls help..
2008-02-07, 08:28:48
anonymous from Canada  
She moves around a lot was from Russia, then Benin and now Nigeria? Think it is Nigerian men the whole time. Thats real funny cause she wanted to come here up to a a few weeks ago and when I confronted her on the jet ski registration [Oklahoma] and the modeling pictures as well as her claim she worked as a volunteer for UNISEF but they have not heard of her it was the last time I heard from her [them]. Called her a scammer and said I was too smart to fall for it a second time got no reply back and then she disappeared to look for another target? My suggestion is be extra careful as I was taken for a chunk of money already by a scammer before [Jessica Wright] and this Rita uses the same style, same words and even to the point of sending me the same poem about her dreams of being together. I will attach this poem later as it is a common one they are all using to suck us in. Be very careful as she had a phoney travel agent she said was her mothers from Sweden who wanted money for a meeting in Munich but when I checked his IP address [] he was not from there. Have you recieved anything from this address? I suggest you ask her for 'real' pictures of her everyday life and I am sure she can't provide them as she is only copying the pictures from another ladies site so how can she produce them. If I were you I would do a picture search here to see if there are any alerts on them and then post them here for help to see if others have had dealings with her. Did she fall in love fast and say she must be with you right away? Scam! I have now dealt with 3 ladies from this area which were all scammers so what are the odds. Only one got me then I got smart. Any questions you have we will help you out. Don't send any money!
2008-02-07, 08:46:06
anonymous from Canada  
Heres the poem they all like using on us. This Rita is the third one to send it to me from that area. Must be a Nigerian scammers favorite. How long had you been talking to her? I talked to her for almost a year so if she is real she is then a real player and talking to lots of men. When I checked her home IP address it came up Nigeria as well and when I asked her about this she said Nigeria is main internet provider so that is why but she was from Benin. Is this the same IP address? If so she is a scammer or moves from country to country pretty fast. Does she have a phone? Ask her about planning a meeting with a guy from Canada in Munich and if it is same people this may shock her. Well let me know if this all helps and I want so much to screw up these people just let me know if there is anything else I can help with.
Heres the scammers 'suck them in' poem:

Get caught with you in the rain.
Dance with you in the rain.
Stargaze on a clear night in front of our hotel suit.
Watch the sunset together from the balcony.
Spend all day with you doing nothing.
Moonlit walks on the beach.
Be more proud of you than I already am at this very moment.
Go on a carriage ride through the park.
Do a crossword together.
Go to brunch.
Have a disagreement (it could/will only make us stronger).
Go for a twilight horseback ride.
Watch a bad movie together.
Spend the rest of my life with you.
Have our picture taken together.
Eat ice cream with you.
Make love to you passionately.
Go to a museum together.
Talk to each other using only body language.
Give you space when you need it.
Accept you totally and completely - flaws and all (I already do).
Discuss current events in a heated debate.
Have you see the error of your ways from aforementioned heated debate and make mad, torrid love to you, in the midst of all that passion.
Carve our names into a tree/table.
Go for a walk at dusk together.
Be one with you.
Send you a singing telegram.
Spend all night thinking of 101 sweet things to do for you.
Hold you and gaze into your eyes and realize how much I love you...and tell you.
Gently run my hand across your cheek and look into your eyes.
Blindfold you and take you somewhere romantic.
Spend my life making you happy.
Spend my life making our family happy.
Feel your heartbeat.
See our unborn child/children in your eyes.
Go roller/ice skating together.
Give you a backrub just because.
ALWAYS being honest with each other.
Go hiking/camping together.
Have our first fight, make up and feel a stronger bond because we very successfully weathered the storm - together.
Marry you.
Laugh at someone together.
Share a plate of spaghetti.
Give you a stuffed animal just because.
Treat you like my Lancelot.
Go on a road trip across America and canada.
Count thunder together during a thunderstorm.
Envelop you in my soul.
Cook your favorite meal/meals.
Know you better than you know yourself.
Go to a Renaissance Fair.
Plant a tree in our yard together.
Look over at you during a party and have you know without me saying a word - that I love you.
Be able to say 'I love you' in 89 different ways - in 89 different countries.
Hold you when you're at your saddest and comfort you when you need it the most.
Be the one you come to for that comfort and holding.
Wipe away the days' stresses and issues, with just one hug/kiss.
Grow old with you.
2008-02-07, 08:53:09
anonymous from Canada  
Sorry one last question what Dating Site did she catch you on as this one seems to be a scammers favorite? Be careful buddy don't want to see them suceed with another victim. Watch when she wants money to travel to you if she asks for B.T.A. which is a travel allowance to leave she is scamming as there is no such requirement. She will leave you standing at the airport while they party it up with your money.
2008-02-16, 04:28:00
anonymous from Canada  
Here is the email sent to Rita when she sent the last pictures saying they were 'real' pictures she just took and I should trust her now and start sending money for her to come to me.. No reply for extended period since. Guess they knew the gig was up and moved on to next target. Watch it they are out there:


Hah, Hah, Hah!!! Do you really think men are that dumb especially this man? You are right we need to proceed to the next level now and I thank you so much for satisfying my mind in which way to go and not allowing my heart to screw me around again. It is so totally over and as they say the 'GIG' is up. I can't believe you folks could not even come up with a better attempt then that one. At least change the exposure or reduce the bits to make it look fuzzy or something not leaving it like a professional models photo's. Adding some writing to a few nice but a joke as well. Oh well next time and next victim try harder. You truly must think I am very stupid to believe that these 5 pictures are real of you at least you should have been smart enough to remove the jet ski marine identification number as its a give away. Wow, wow, wow how silly you are. I told you I got burned once and wanted real pictures and you were probably right that if you had come along before the other scammer got me I was nieve enough then to fall for all this game. Well I am not anymore. I have known who and where these photo's came from for awhile now and the new ones confirm this. I must say though you were persistent staying with the game for so long and pursuing me even after I suspected you and moved on. Thought later lets give her one more chance she may be real well this was last chance.
UNISEF yeh right they have never heard of you so try something else next time. Yes we are proceeding to the next level and my heart is finally settled but still thought I would give you one last chance to show me the real you even though I felt you were a fake. Don't bother me anymore with the words and lies it won't change my mind now. Can't believe you are so heartless you would have had me standing alone in Munich just for the almighty dollar. You know you folks there must have a scam handbook that is identical with the same plan, same poems, same words, same instant love, same phoney type copied pictures, etc. because everything you have done and said is identical to the lady that got me before. When I told you this you should have realized I was no longer an easy target.
Don't be silly and continue to try and play me because it is not in my nature to have to get ignorant or rude here so just count the small amount of money you got as a blessing and move on to the next target he may be a scam virgin and fall for it. You count on getting someone who is blinded by his heart which I was before but I am no longer. Yes you created a nice fantasy lady and were #1 in my dreams. Move on to your next victim and next time make a better attempt to prove yourself real.
SINCERELY if this was the proof that you are real in my eyes 'get real' & 'get lost'! Canadian men and specifically myself are not idiots. By the way you may want to switch pictures that you stole because these are posted and easy to find with a search. 2 out of 2 how could I be so unlucky? No more Africa ever!
2008-04-10, 11:55:37
I was talking to this lady today the second time. I met her at CherryBlossoms ( I do not know any more if she clicked me or I her. She is registered there as being from Kiev, Ukraine, but she told me she is at the moment in Cotonou, Benin. Long time I had no reason to assume that she is not real, but finally thre was the plan to come to me if I help with visa and ticket. That woke me up, and I made a search in internet. And voilà, here I find her, and with one of these pictures she is at CB.

I didnt send anything and clearly said, I wouldnt. Let's see how long this conversation will last after denying any money
2008-07-12, 07:03:11
anonymous from United States  
Hey guys!! well I'm just ty to help all men who are in danger to be scammed.
Ok, listen DON'T SEND ANY MONEY to al the 'women ' are from benin republic under 'unicef' that is a big scam issue , they are real profesionals and will make you belive that they are real .
So no matter what never belive that any pictures they send are real all those pictures are stolen pic.
I so if you are about to send money STOP!! you will lose your money and time badly.
I hope my comment helps to all the men are just to be scamed.
2012-12-15, 21:29:50
anonymous from Australia  
this so called Rita anderson is still at it, tried to scam me but thanks to this article i am now sure shes not the real deal. you cant beliveve anything on the internet these days, its all b/s the pics she sent me are of a dark haired girl, but im sure its the same scamer
2012-12-30, 17:22:39
Asked me for money, when I said no, it ended
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