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2008-02-22, 21:46:07
anonymous from United States  

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2008-02-22, 21:47:20
anonymous from United States  
2008-02-22, 21:48:56
anonymous from United States  
2008-02-23, 10:08:53
anonymous from United Kingdom  

I also got scammed from this person, but she is also going to be in the UK on the 28th February. Was asked in the last two emails to send her $980 for her flight, i replied that i had great news as i've got contacts in the Russian Embassy and i would send the air ticket there where she had to pick it up in person never heard anymore?
2008-02-23, 11:08:08
anonymous from United States  
On her emails, Elmira called me 'My Tiger'. It most be the same form letter she is probably sending everyone.
This is a copy of the second email she sent me asking for money:

Date: Fri, 22 Feb 2008
From: 'Elmira' <>
To: <<>>
Subject: ...I hope very much

Hello, my >>Tiger<<!!
I’m very glad that you replied me so fast.
I thought that telling about money, I have lost you.
In Russia it’s often occurs with men.
I suggest it is for hard economic situation in our country.
Men don’t need women with their love.
I don’t want to believe that the quantity of real men diminishes.
I want to read your sensible and romantic letters.
I know that it is difficult for men. I don’t have possibility to call
you. Unfortunately,
I don’t have a telephone in Moscow.
It’s very expensive to call to your country from Moscow.
And the calls by the cost of subscriber are not practiced in our
But I will find a resolution. I promise. Write me obligatory! Don’t
be lost.
We will put everything onto the phone conversation.
It’s first of all the warranty for you that I am real.
Isn’t it? We will be able to express more emotions and feelings in
It’s difficult to imagine how our parents could live without
They found common language using letters. And they managed to do it.
I read books about it. Love and faith are the feelings that born and
die inside ourselves.
The birth of these feelings depends on our needs.
As for me, I can say that the need to love and to be loved is on the
first place for me.
My request for help from one hand is the opportunity to come to you,
and from other hand is the approval of seriousness of your plans.
I’m sorry that my confidence in our victory against the problems
differs a bit from yours.
Because you are a man and I am a woman.
If everything were on contrary, the world would go upside down.
I will back all money to the last cent without doubt, and if everything
will be ok, I will stand for you forever.
That’s why I ask you a question: are you serious in your intensions?
If yes, write me soon.
I hope very much that I provoked sympathy in you.


I want to send money through Western Union or MoneyGram
you need to

1. Find a local Western Union or MoneyGram office
(they are usually located in the banks and post offices)
2. Fill in their send form with

my name = Elmira
surname = Kabanova
along with my country =Russia (Moscow)
location and the amount you're sending (980)

3. Take a copy of the receipt that they give to you that contains

your full name
and the money tranfer control number

I shall wait! kiss!!

2008-02-23, 12:09:23
anonymous from United Kingdom  

That's the letter i received as well, i'm just giving her the runaround at the moment see what happens.
2008-02-23, 14:14:59
anonymous from Sweden  
have you seen his women she say she is from accra......please let me know

2008-02-23, 14:18:16
anonymous from Sweden  
does anybody knows this women
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2008-02-23, 15:04:29
OJAS from United States  
2008-02-24, 00:12:14
anonymous from United Kingdom  

Just received another email from her with a poem.

Hi Care!

Thank you for helping me! I really appreciate it!

I am getting a little nervous about the trip, but I know that you will help

me to get started when I'll be far away from my motherland. I hope you can

send me some money as soon as possible ((( 980 ))), so that I have time for the

last interview at the embassy.

I'll be waiting for your next email anxiously and I am happy that

I'll be soon able to see your eyes and kiss you. I want to believe

that this moment will be very soon!

Right now I am sitting and listening the warmest and beautiful love sons

and dream about a fairy tale that lasts all life long!


«...the blue evening is melting,

sleep, I'll be sitting by you,

sleep and don't worry about anything,

pull my hand to the sky,

and light up a star.

Feel the warmth of the star,

Sleep and don't worry about a thing.»

I read somewhere that woman is expecting a gentle relation to her.

I think the one who wrote this is right. It is hard to believe and trust

to man, but I really want to! I want to be gentle and sincere, sometimes a little

capricious and beatiful only for my man. I want him to be ahead of the whole planet,

him and not me. I want to be by his side. I will be supporting him and inspire him.

Unfortunately this world is changing.

Sometimes I think that i firsty a good specialist and secondly a good woman.

But I want it to be a different way round. It is strange, I am dreaming about you, I

would like to be fragile and gentle with you, I would like to make you happy!

And then I go and do the things I don't really want. I am firstly a woman!

Every day is like that - a vicious circle.

I keep on asking myself what womem do men need:

Gentle and fragile? Or may be differet one - srtong and rough?

While finishing this letter I would like to ask you once again - CAN I RELY ON YOU?

I am not scared to let my life to you. I WILL BE WITH YOU FOREVER AND NOTHING WILL

TEAR As APPART! If it all depended on me, I wouldn't waste any time and would come

to you as soon as I can, my honey!

2008-02-24, 18:25:26   (updated: 2008-02-24, 18:32:50)
anonymous from United States  
Elmira, stop asking me for money!...Please send me more pictures!
(Well, that is not I exactly what I said to her, but...I thought about it...)

On this email she gets very poetic...What a shame the writter's strike is over...


Hello <MYName>!

Dear, I do not wish to give you a words of good bye!

I am sorry about all the problems with the money!

But without your help I will not be able to fly to you.

My relatives will no longer be able to help me out.

Mama gave me almost all the money that she had to

help me out with this journey.

If you can not help me, I will be returning to home.

But I do not want to be lonely again.

I do not want to return home.

I do not want to stay in Moscow either.

I do not want anyone but you.

More than anything else, I would like to continue the trip!

I want you! I want you to surround me with your tenderness, warmth and care.

I certainly think about the future. I want us to be together.

I go to sleep and I wake up together with the thoughts about you.

They are not leaving my head.

More to that, I’d like to wake up in your arms every day.

I’d like to be sure that you really need me now and in the future.

I just want to look into your eyes.

I want to feel your warm breath.

I want to see your smile and know that this smile is for me.

I want to be waken up by you rather than some kind of alarm clock.

I want to be your sunshine.

I want you to warm your hands up in the back pockets of my jeans.

I want you to pay me with your kisses for the rental of my jeans pockets.

I want to belong to you and. I am yours and you’re mine.

I want to believe you and never question anything you say.

I want to hear your voice. I want to get to your inner thoughts.

I want to be everything you need. I want you to know all these things.

I want you to love me.

Can’t wait for the moment I board the plane and start my final journey to you.

I am sick without you. Thank you for your letter and kind words!

I am looking forward to hearing some good news from you.

Hope you can help me out and give me your support.

2008-02-26, 05:33:35
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  
Elmira is called Olga now. E-mailaddress:

[See: Flower Sage

2008-02-27, 16:01:20
anonymous from United Kingdom  

As anybody got anymore info on this scammer.
As the big dats tomorrow 28th Feb where she's meeting everbody in France, London & USA at the same time lol.
If anybody's got any info on her/him let us know.

2008-02-27, 19:53:13   (updated: 2008-02-27, 19:53:54)
anonymous from Spring Hill, United States  
I offered to arrange for her to pick up the airline tickets at an office in Moscow (in person with prove of identifcation). She gave me some story about electronic tickets (the email displayed below).
Then, I offered to pay the travel agent directly for her airline tickets...
I wonder why she did not reply to such a generous offer...
Do you think she never intended to come to London, Paris, New York, Chicago, Miami and Orlando on February 28 2008...

Date: Mon, 25 Feb 2008
From: 'Elmira' <>
To: <>
Subject: do you imagine our meeting

Hi <My_Victim's_First_Name>!


...I wanted to ask you about electronic tickets but they tell that

I can't use because it is their businees to arrange all travel details

and they have some extra money from all the things...

Unfortunately the time goes very slowly.

I would like to pack my luggage right now to get on plane to go to you.

I want to see you. I want to find peace in your arms.

When I close my eyes I imagine our meeting.

Do you imagine our meeting?

My heart is going to jump out of my chest when I think about it.

I feel I always want such man. I’m dying without you.

I have never been such in love before.

When I arrive I won’t have any white flag in my hands.

I’ll submit to you completely. I’ll be yours forever.

Kiss you and embrace you.

I want to say that I can hardly bear to stay in Moscow.

When will I be able to touch you?

Tell me the day when I will be able to get on plane and to fly to you?

I finish my letter.

I’m waiting for good news from you!

2008-02-28, 20:56:53
anonymous from United States  
hey tell us if anyone gets a vist from santa cause thats what she is if she can be in 101 differt places all at the sametime
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