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Name: Julia Zherdeva/Julia Jerdeva/Julia Gezerdeva/Julia Petrova


Email: julia_ukraine77@mail.ru/julia_kiev_ua@ukr.net


Address:
A/YA 12A
Veresneva Street 38
Kiev Ukraine



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Julia and I were writing to each other for 11 months starting in December 2007 all was well until towards the end of September when her letters started slowing down.I saw someone was inquiring about her on global 7 I know it does not mean anything some one is just checking to see if she is listed.Well she opended the julia_kiev_ address supposedly just for me and there is where I saw it why or how would anybody get this if she was not writing anyone else.She closed her profile on Elenas Models when we got serious but in September I saw her like ness on American Singles I do believe it was her who poended this there was a pretty recent picture of her when the account was updated.She was very bitchy towards the end and I was travelling to Kiev to see her October 3rd to the 15th well all of that changed when I saw a report on her from 2006 on stop-scammers when she lived in Lugansk.One of her friends Oksana Suhina is listed all over the internet on various scam sites she lives in Kiev also but from Lugansk on that site there are many pictures of them together.She is I believe a taker and not giver I helped her and her son out financially but it was never enough for her.She is very beautiful and is very good at making your heart beat to her tune I will add more when she is posted.


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2008-10-21, 13:54:56
Steve  
Hey Ojas,
Yes she is real and using her own pictures this is what gets me she has a friend who has a boyfriend in North Carolina they have a child together I am wondering if her friend knows what she does and goes along with it.I am really thinking of maybe calling the guy and asking him to look out he might re-consider his relationship with her I said I might do this.I am sure myself and the other guy are not the only ones more will probably come forward and whoever else she has on the hook hopefully they check up and google her name this bitch needs to go down bigtime.Hell she can find a man in Ukraine maybe even they have standards and do not like the bitchiness.I have been thinking of this and I think she already does have one the weekend before my travel I called her up all happy and cheerful wanting to talk to her she told me she was busy I could not understand her with the bad connection she finally yelled you can understand English cant you and hung up I immediately called her back and told her it is over after all I have done for you and your son you treat me like this I was mad as hell I did not deserve this sh-t.I know real pictures are unusual even more the real girl's I hope my postings and whoever else posts will help prevent another broken heart.
2008-10-22, 06:11:43
anonymous  
Hey Steve, I didn't like your words about religon. It's saint and don't touch it! I am Muslim myself I don't like when men offend women. or you want the thrid world war?! I don't think so. Please.. change your mind and delete that comment.
2008-10-22, 06:19:04
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WOW!!!!!! WHAT THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IF SHE IS REALLY REAL AS YOU WROTE STEVE I WOULD DO EVERYTHING IMPOSIBLE TO BE MINE. IT SEEMS TO ME YOU HAVE MADE A MISTAKE AND LOST YOUR CHANCE
2008-10-22, 08:32:55
Steve from United States  
Hello Anon,
I made no comment about religon I wanted the poster making the comments to please not say she is Muslim.I do not care what religon a person is.I did not like his language either.And to the Anon who is saying how beautiful she is if only you knew google her name she goes back to 2006 I did not want to believe this at first but it finally showed she is beautiful but her heart is made of granite.
2008-10-22, 08:55:04
anonymous  
I CHECKED HER FULL NAME ONLINE IT'S YOUR JOB STEVE. AND I ALSO READ OTHERS COMMECTS FROM OTHER PEOPLE. THEY ARE DIFFERENT. YOU NEVER MET HER AND YOU DON'T KNOW HER WELL TO WRITE IT. SOME PEOPLE WERE RIGHT ON OTHER SITES, YOU READ NOTES BUT CONTINUE SENDING MONEY. IT IS YOUR FAULT. I HAVE A FRIEND WHO GOT MARRIED ON RUSSIAN WOMAN, SHE WAS ON SCAMSITES TOO.. BUT THEY ARE HAPPY TILL NOW. YOU DIDN'T DISCOVER HER TILL THE END, THAT'S ALL. AND YOU SHOULD DELETE PICS OF HER SON. IT IS NOT CHILDREN FAULT. AND YOU SHOULD KEEP YOUR BAD WORDS TOWARD TO HER. SINCE 2006, I READ IT TOO, WELL THAT GUY DIDN'T MET HER TOO. WHAT DO YOU WANT THEN FROM HER? SHE IS GOOD LOOKING WOMAN AND I AM SURE WITH GREAT HEART! AND YOU SHOULD END YOUR RELATIONS IN PERSON IF YOU REALLY LOVED HER AND WANTED TO HAVE RELATIONS WITH HER. IT IS NOT RIGHT.
2008-10-22, 10:14:03
Steve from United States  
Anon I did check her name online and also got a background check on her but under her real last name Zherdeva.I did not check under Gezerdeva and until I saw her likeness on stop-scammers I thought we really had something and if you read all of my comments you will see I was travelling to meet her on Oct.2nd I guess you are partly correct of my words towards her but I am very angry and sometimes our words come out not so right but she is where she belongs on the scam lists.What do you think it is okay for her to write me and accept my help while she milks other men out of money come on think about what you are saying here.
2008-10-23, 17:52:23
Steve from United States  
Well it appears another unfortunate victim has come forward .He has commented on anti-scam.org about visitng her in May of this year while she wanted me also there in May and was asking for money.I am trying to get this guy to write me so we can compare notes and report her to every embassy in Kiev she will never get a visa to any country then and she likes Egypt a lot.I tell you she was succesful in obtaining money but she really needs a course in covering her tracks I guess her friend Oksana did not teach her well enough or she was not present with her at many of her money letter's.
2008-10-25, 07:41:26
anonymous from Charlotte, United States  
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whats up! Yes I am the latest person to get scammed by Julia Zherdeva...When I first started writing her on Elenas Models, I did all the checks, but nothing came up on her name, and checked all the scam sites, but nothing...I guess I did not do a good job of that....Last time I will try to win a womens heart from another country, it is so true of all the scammer...I really didn't think it was....Yes, I went to see her way back in April 2008. She did not get to much money from me, only $4K...Back in July 2008, I suspected something, I saw someone did a globle check, so I questioned her motives, and she flipped out and turned into a real witch, all letters from there after, where very mean, so I stopped sending money, gifts etc...I dumped her the month after, telling her that I will make a point to stop her, and try to report her, so if anyone whats to help, her is my number and email address jrascona@carolina.rr.com 704-560-0605....Oh, also, I know a man thats been seeing Oksana for 2 years, he now has moved to Switzerland....If this is true about her, please let me know, because, I will inform him....Everyone have a great day, oh....'Go PENN STATE'....
2008-10-27, 07:39:34
Julia,Zherdeva from Ukraine  
To Steve Sawyer from Rohnert Park, California, USA, John ( Johnny ) Roscona from
Charlotte, North Carolina, USA and others people who reading this letter!

After reading of all these comments of this site for sure it will be
right to write my opinion about this existent situation . Even more so
that all your dirty fantasy and insults are having menacing temper
from your sides. It's a very pity that all truth is I can see your REAL
face and the worst sides of your features right now! I have got spite, revenge
and insults because you VOLUNTARY decided to help and support
financially me and my son?!?! Why did I deserve such detestation?

I am not going to outrage, disgrace or throw mud at everybody like you
did towards me. But I know that Internet is that where you can tell
everything, but I don't want and I won't abase myself, my honor and
dignity, but according modest moral and aesthetic rules I will express
my opinion!

Any man understands any letter where speech and thought will be
editorialized on understandable language, where you can make an
conclusion who a man is. According your comments I want to say next.

In my letters I have never ever outrage or wish to make a hurt. I DO
want to marry! I am alone 4 years. It was hard for me to start
communicating with men again after my husband's death. He was
wonderful person, very tender, kind, cheerful and strong man. My son
looks like him very much. My son is my sonny and thankful him I have
understood that I am still alive after my husband's death. You can't
understand my pain, can't understand how to lose lovely person who
hugged you every morning and made you laugh, constructed a ship for a
son and promised to back home tonight in order to start a ship in the
bath tube...... he gone.... he was only 32 years old... and I still
love him.... Love him so much that I still cry every night. I try to
hide my tears when I look at my son's eyes because he reminds his
father. Last 4 years were the hardest for me without him. I had to
rebuild all over again, not only morally. I had no work, I had 3 years
old son and I was closed in myself, in my pain, in my grief. My mother
dead in 2002, my husband dead in a car accident in 2005. I lost the
closest persons who were in my life. I live in Ukraine. It's a poor
country. Where our government doesn't care about Ukrainian people.
Everyone survives as they can. I moved to Kiev to find a good job. It
is a capital and life is very expensive here. But I have a job, I earn
about 1,000 USD a month and I also get additional welfare payment for
son ( 62 USD ) because he has a single parent. Having this monthly
income I try to live here. I don't have a large apartment, with one
bedroom. My son and I sleep together, in one bed because he has no his
own room. I have a car ( 1999 ) which was given as a present by my
husband when I was born our son. It often breaks because roads are
very awful in Ukraine. You both were here, in Ukraine Steve and
Johnny! I am not poor but I can't spend extra money for pleasure. I
try to save some because I do care of my son alone. I am a mother and
a father for him. People, who know me, are surprised because they
think if I am a beautiful woman I must live in chocolate castle. But I
can't. I can't marry on a man because of his money. I need feelings, I
want to love! I think I will be able to love again... I do want it...
I have a strong decision. If I marry again so I will be sure 100 %
that once I won't be divorced. The divorce is a pain - I don't want it
again... I am emotional, I take all to my heart closely, I am
sentimental.

I don't hide and will never do it that my husband spoiled me all time,
he earned very good money and made magnificent presents. I always knew
he cares of everything himself. Money was not problem for him. I
always knew that caress of his family has taken the first place in his
life. I used to have it. A man is the head of a family by my opinion. I could think about
my studying in a college, at the university, brining our son up and
cosy house. I use to live not thinking about money. If I have money
to buy food for tomorrow or not. Being without him, my life is showing
me how he was the best husband and father for us. I miss so much that
life........

I put my profile on Internet in order to change my life completely. I
thought that a new country, new love can bring a new joy into my life.
Moving to abroad, to foreign country, without friends, relatives,
native language with a man who have understanding about family views
and how to care of it. Financial situation of any man who decided to
bring his fiancee to his home is very important. That's why I was
honest in my letters, telling about my situation here, telling about
my life, about difficulties with money and how I live here, in
Ukraine. And the most interesting I never demanded for money, I JUST
TOLD YOU ABOUT MY PROBLEMS HERE! And it was YOUR DECISION to send
money or not! It must be VOLUNTARY and from the heart!!!

Right now you are screaming on every site that I have to be in jail,
leave my son alone, without his mother. I really don't understand WHY?
Maybe because you proposed your help and supporting yourself??? Or
maybe because I didn't marry on everybody who sent me money??!?!?! I
am not a bank or not a business project! I can love only for kindness,
tenderness and kind heart! Right now Thanks God I DO understand that I
didn't marry otherwise I would move to rude, who outrage a woman and
selfish to me! For a second I am scared with whom I would be right
now and under what power!!!! And I guess if we lived together and I
asked you to buy a desk for a son, you would beat me, abased me just
because I asked money to buy a desk for a son?!?!?! I will never be
with such man!

Please, don't make a cheap circus! Pride and dignity are the main
features in any man!!! Don't tell rude words or outrage people. If we
couldn't build relations and I am glad that this situation has shown
me who you are in real life! And I am glad that I have made a right
choice and break up any relations with every one of you. You both are
over 40 years old and you are still alone, without children and
family.. You never know how to give presents from all the heart.
Simple you are evil egoists.

I don't scare lawyers. I don't see any criminal in my acts because I
was searching a husband with whom I can be happy, but not with you who
count any cent and cheap gifts. I am sure I can explain all this whole
situation to any lawyer. I am not in smb's debt, especially to MARRY
ON FOOL!

First I wish you both to find yourself inside of yourself and then
start searching a wife!

Sincerely, your Julia Zherdeva.
2008-10-27, 09:49:59
anonymous from Australia  
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To everyone on this thread and all others. The above comments prove that scammers have well and truly infiltrated this site. From just reading the comments etc over the past 6 months the scammers are obviously growing privy to all the tricks we once used to catch them out with. the unfortunate thing is they are now in our midst, addind comments on a site that is dedicated to exposing the very vermin they are. No doubt you will be reading this comment julia Zherdeva, or whatever your real name is and if you are honest about everything you say then perhaps you could return the money that you have wrongfully taken from the men that you mentioned. Although, I suppose it is now too late for that, as you or the pimp you are working for would have no doubt squandered the said monies on your pathetic selves or your bad habits. I hope Steve and John get some sort recompsense, even if it means you spend time in prison. This is very unlikely though as you scammers are that thick on the ground in your part of the world that the local authorities cannot keep up.
Your long and teary treatise that you have submitted is obviously well thought out and meant to raise sympathy for a hard done by down on her luck Ukrainen girl. You obviously are going to continue your little scamming game by submitting the above load of offal. I am sorry if I have used too many English expletives in my damnation of you julia, but no doubt you have the latest version of the 'bat', which will enable you to encode any of the irregularities I have cited in this rather short essay. Here's hoping that one day, someone does the same thing to you!
cheers Mad Mick Australia
2008-10-27, 11:20:05
OJAS from United States  
mad mick, well said mate!
A few points are striking, and I felt like expanding on them.

1) Gold diggers like her use OWN IDENTITY for scamming ... sparing the efforts of stealing others' photos

2) Most girls receive gifts, it is normal to accept, and this is ONLY a small part. But scammers in addition receive a large part, through DECEIT, as in gold dig cases, several thousand $

3) If she is no longer interested in the MEN who sent this large part, as mick asks, why doesn't she return that part to those guys?

4) Does she need that huge amount to pay a English translating consultant? Sure, The Bat! is cheaper, but it does not know how to turn around and accuse a victim http://www.delphifa..p=1#29195

5) Julia is not a run-of-the mill scammer sending 300 letters http://www.datingnm..erate.htm

6) She can focus on a small number of victims, with high-end, thousands of $ scam on each

7) Are her victims responsible for her difficult life in Ukraine? She almost sounds like they are responsible for the death of her husband ... nice try, to evoke sympathy!

8) Having only a few victims at a time to handle, she certainly has the time to visit anti-scam sites to work on improving scam strategy

9) But not all foreigners are swayed! Many also know that proud Slavic girls DO NOT ask money from strangers, they also read scam advisories http://lonelyrussia..212095480

10) Asking money from strangers is scam http://www.ladies-r..t/Scam.php
2008-10-28, 16:58:51
Steve from United States  
Today John received a letter from one of the scam sites and what it said was a man has been using her ukr.net address I truly believe now that her supposedly dead husband is alive and well and in charge of the scams.She said he made really good money what better way to do this than scamming.There is nothing like prostituting your wife out for money a full investigation will be ordered we need answer to all of this and until we get them.Ceck out page 3 of anti-scam.org there are over 126 comments on her and more to come there are also a few from scammers themselves it is funny how they make themselves look like buttwads.
2008-10-28, 18:08:50
OJAS from United States  
2008-10-28, 20:54:31
Steve from United States  
You bet Ojas it is getting funny there has been a person calling themself Somone From The Past on that site it appears they are too chcken Sh-t to use there real name I want them to show themselves and have it out with me we all know how these people act when caught and Ojas you know me why would I lie John got the same letters almost word for word as I.Every money request has been saved although she claims to never having asked for money yeah and I have a bridge in New York called the Brooklyn for sale.
2008-10-29, 10:23:06
OJAS from United States  
Scammers ''Justification''
Poverty or Larceny http://www.delphifa..p=3#58164
With this ''Justification'' http://www.dailymai..ge_id=1879
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