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Name: Julia Zherdeva/Julia Jerdeva/Julia Gezerdeva/Julia Petrova


Email: julia_ukraine77@mail.ru/julia_kiev_ua@ukr.net


Address:
A/YA 12A
Veresneva Street 38
Kiev Ukraine



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Julia and I were writing to each other for 11 months starting in December 2007 all was well until towards the end of September when her letters started slowing down.I saw someone was inquiring about her on global 7 I know it does not mean anything some one is just checking to see if she is listed.Well she opended the julia_kiev_ address supposedly just for me and there is where I saw it why or how would anybody get this if she was not writing anyone else.She closed her profile on Elenas Models when we got serious but in September I saw her like ness on American Singles I do believe it was her who poended this there was a pretty recent picture of her when the account was updated.She was very bitchy towards the end and I was travelling to Kiev to see her October 3rd to the 15th well all of that changed when I saw a report on her from 2006 on stop-scammers when she lived in Lugansk.One of her friends Oksana Suhina is listed all over the internet on various scam sites she lives in Kiev also but from Lugansk on that site there are many pictures of them together.She is I believe a taker and not giver I helped her and her son out financially but it was never enough for her.She is very beautiful and is very good at making your heart beat to her tune I will add more when she is posted.


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2008-12-05, 20:32:27
anonymous from United States  
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Steve,

I started corresponding with Julia in 2006. Back then she was going by the name Julia Jerdeva. We wrote to each other starting around May. I had picked her out from looking at many many pictures online and she is the only girl I have ever written to online. When I saw her I felt compelled to communicate. She also shared my birthday. I was suspicious as I knew there were scammers out there, but as I read up on them she checked out in every way. I called her, her letters were personalized, she lived in a small town, she never asked for money. I think what made me suspicious was her beauty and the professional look of her photos which she told me her sister did. she also had her sister for translation then, with very good English, so that was never a factor. After about 2 months she told me she thought she was falling in love with me, and asked did I feel the same. I caved and told her I did. As the months progressed, we made plans to meet for a romantic vacation in Rome. She then needed money to fly to Kiev to get a visa, as she felt unsafe on the train and it took so long. It was a small amount, maybe 130.00 so I did not mind. This of course did not work out as she told me she could not get the visa. (she later told me she did not go to Kiev and instead spent the money). I was using frequent flyer miles and so suggested I come to Lugansk instead and she was very happy to have me come. She arranged for an apartment for me in Lugansk near her flat that she told me she owned. The trip was long and arduous, but I was excited to meet this beautiful women who professed to love me. I was actually prepared to ask her to marry me if things worked out. Silly me. She was cordial upon our meeting and we drove from the airport into town getting to know each other a little better, about a 30 to 40 minute drive, it was about 10 at night, there are only 2 flights into Lugansk, one early and one late, and the plane has wooden seats and no lights. She took me to my apartment and we said goodnight. The apartment was if I remember correctly about 90/night. She probably made a few bucks on that, but so what, I didn’t mind and that is how things work most places. The next day we got together and she had planned a dinner with her friend and her friend’s date, who was also from the internet. She lamented that she had no kitchen table and chairs for 4, so we went off shopping and I purchased her a dining set for 300.00, The one in your pictures. I did not mind, and she did not ask for the money, but it was understood and expected I would pay. I had read somewhere this is normal in Russia. Belive me when I say, the people in Lugansk are dirt poor compared to the US. Julia however was quite the standout, besides being beautiful, (the streets were full of beautiful girls and they love to dress nice), she drove a yellow volkswagon Beetle in a town where all the cars were old, dark, and dirty. Her aprtment was in an old ex government apartment building, with big steel outer doors and dirty dingy hallways. But she had a security camera and the inside of her apartment was new drywall and nice, but a small one and a half bedroom. She told me it cost her 40k. In other words she is flashy and high maintenance financially, just like most beautiful women in the US. And why not? Julia is a woman who would look good at the nicest club or function you can think of. She was a 9 or 10 and she could easily be with a movie star, senator, or dignitary under different circumstances. She had drive and intelligence and is a remarkable woman. Her friend and date came over that night and Julia made a nice chicken dinner. Her friends date was a cripple, he had a deformed arm and her friend had just met him. After dinner they became amorous and were kissing and nuzzling, but Julia was very non responsive to me, and I must admit I was jealous. Hell, I was dying. Here was a girl supposedly in love with me, who I came half way around the world for (and would never have if I wasn’t in love) and her friend was more loving to the guy she just met. And I am not a bad looking guy either, and am somewhat successful as an engineer, although not rich. I supposed it was just that Russians are more reluctant to express themselves a at first, keeping their emotions closer to the chest, that is until I saw her friend. I brought it up and we discussed her feelings and how she had only lost her husband a year ago, that it was still to soon. Now I knew this and had brought it up in our correspondence, but she assured me she was putting everything behind her and starting a new life. WE spoke of her husband, he was a concert promoter, a young go getter. I know he felt lucky to have such a beautiful vivacious wife, I think they were and ideal young couple until he died in a car accident. Her young son was I believe 4 at the time, and he was adorable. I only knew them for a week, it has been 3 years, and I still think of them now and then and wonder how they are. The next day, the pipes n the wall at Julia’s apartment sprung a leak, the building was very old, and flooded her floor and the downstairs apartment. The whole day, she was full of dread and worry that the water had ruined the apartment below which was really an office of a lawyer. I paid the workman to fix the pipes which had to be dug out of concrete and took all day. I think the young workman had a crush on her. The labor was really cheap, something like 4 dollars an hour. She left me alone at her flat later on late that day while she went off talking to the lawyer. After about an hour, I got fed up and walked back to my apartment. Julia was worried the linoleum on her floor was ruined and maybe the wood below. The whole day was a disaster. I was expecting a vacation and a romantic time. I tried to get her to take me to Kiev but she her comment was she had already been there. Seemed kind of strange to me she didn’t want to go away or show me her country. In retrospect, I don’t think anything that happened was unusual for a young woman with a child and a strange man she hardly knew. She didn’t act any different than a girl from the states, but I expected a lot more and only had a week to be there. I could not afford to come back several times a year and didn’t want to date for 3 years long distance. The next day it was off to find a rug for the floor or new flooring. I didn’t want to spring for the whole thing, and we found and settled for a nice area rug for 300.00 at the market. It has been 3 years now so the days kind of run together. Anyway, that night we went out to dinner. She insisted I leave to walk back to my apartment every night at 11, so she could go to bed with her son. They slept in the same bed. I was always disappointed as I wanted to snuggle up. The next night she took me to her father’s for dinner. But first we had to buy a gift for her father as is the custom. I was thinking a nice bottle of vodka or wine, but Julia had in mind a nicer gift, a cell phone. I thought this was extravagant, especially after reading from Elena that Russian women would try to save their man money. The cheapest one was 100.00, I went along with it, but must have made a face, as she noticed and said something later. Just like here, I guess, I was on trial and everything was a test. I never even realized it, I can’t blame Julia though, if she was looking for a long term partner she had to make sure she picks the right guy, so in that regard, the testing makes sense. I was just to hung up on my conflicting emotions, but I don’t think she would take every guy who came to see her to have dinner with her father. Who knows. Dinner was nice if weird as I didn’t speak the language. Her father’s apartment was really old, a dirty building, tiny old elevator, old tiny water closet with pull chain high tank toilet, etc. I think it was much more representative of normal than Julia’s place. I was there a whole week and we never went sight seeing or anywhere else or traveled in the city. The supermarket and electronics store were all I really saw. I drank filtered or bottled water the whole time I was there and Julia had water from a mountain stream she assured me was safe. I knew better, but one day broke down and tried it, big mistake, I spent a whole day in bed with fever and chills. One day she had to work and I didn’t see her at all till later that day. I had finally had enough, and had it out with her and got mad. She told me that now she got to see what I was really like. It seems like she always tries to turn things around and put it on the other person. Anyway, after clearing the air we seemed to be better off the next day and even smooched a little bit that night, but maybe it was just because it was my last night. She said she worked as an interior decorator, but it was not like we think of here, more like a general contractor for drywall. If you look at the backgrounds of some of her pictures you can see designs in drywall, wall cutouts and ledges. I got the idea this was the kind of design she does. When I got back, I made plans to try and travel with her over my Christmas holiday. She agreed and I spent a lot of time making plans. At the last minute she informed me Christmas was a very important holiday and she had to spend it in the Ukraine with her 4 year old son. I was pissed at all the time I wasted and heartsick. I sent her abot 200.00 in gifts for her and her son, but she said she never got them. At one point I also sent her 600.00 for a new bed and another 300.00 for something else, plus roses for 75.00 and of course handling fees for western Union every time I sent her money. After Christmas didn’t work out, I made plans to get together in March. She wanted to go to Turkey and seemed excited. Later she asked would I mind taking her son, he had never seen the ocean, so of course I said yes. Again I made plans taking a lot of time working out the logistics, and then she told me wanted me to met her in Kiev instead of meeting her in Turkey. I capitulated and she told me her travel agent had it all planned out. She had us booked in 2 separate rooms. That was too much for me and I told her the three of us would stay in one room or we would not go. She got angry and accused me of just wanting sex, which would not have been possible with a 4 year old in 1 room, but she couldn’t see it. Anyway that was the end of it. I can see her point of view though and wanting to protect her son, make sure she picks the right guy, and also if someone offers her money or gifts, why not take them. But she did ask for the cell phone for her father and for me to buy the carpet and wall trim. Anyway, if it makes you feel any better she had really really bad breath. I don’t know if it was from the Ukrainian diet, or poor dental hygiene, but I would have paid to have her go to a dentist if things had worked out between us. She also has Scoliosis which causes severe back pain, and long term it would have been something you would have to contend with. By the way, many of the pictures she sent me, she also sent you. did you get the beautiful ones in underwaer on her bed? You should post those too. I thought she was taking them as we went along, but it is obvious many were old. I deleted all my pictures when we broke up.

H.
2008-12-06, 17:49:56
Steve from United States  
No H I did not get those of her in her underwear on her bed.Send them here hairyarmster@gmail.com thank you.Julia's husband is alive and well H she hides him for scamming purposes he is behing everything and her sister is none other than Oksana Suhina or Syhina google her name you can see this bitch.Quite a story about her she blew it bigtime now she will have to face the music she is getting it from 2 of us so she and all involved are looking at some serious time.
2008-12-06, 21:56:34
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What this woman does is criminal, the fact that the laws cannot or will not be enforced does not change the fact she breaks the law. With her as a role model, her son will grow up to be a gigolo or join the Russian mafia. She should go to jail and have the child taken away from her. She preys on the hopes and dreams of men who want a beautiful, loving, exotic wife and hope to have a family. She uses her “condition” and child to evoke sympathy from her victims. They hope to “impress “ her with their ability to provide for her, and she exploits this to her financial gain. She is worse than a prostitute who conducts a business transaction for sex. This Julia is a destroyer of dreams and gives nothing in return. Dreams that she carefully guides and creates in her letters to her unsuspecting, naïve victims. If she was not a scammer, she would admit she wants a sugar daddy and find one to take care of her, not go from one victim to the next.
She criticizes one man for “only” spending $800.00 a month on her over 5 months. If she spent 20 minutes writing a letter every weekday of the month, she spent 400 minutes a month at her “scam job” $800.00 means she made 42.00 a minute or $120.00 an hour. This is an excellent wage anywhere in the world, more than many doctors or lawyers make. If she has 3 suckers on the hook at a time, she is making 12,000 every 5 months. That is 29,000/yr, very good wages in the Ukraine and equates to $360.00/hour of work. Not bad. No wonder there are so many scammers. This is a very good business with little risk of prosecution. If she has 6 suckers on the line, she makes close to USD 60,000k a year for writing a few letters and going to the Western union office to get paid. $720.00/ hour. Wow. Not a bad job if you can get it. If she works at a legitimate job, I am sure it is only for show or because she only has one or 2 suckers on the hook at a time. She responded here at this website because what john has done is potentially harming her sweet setup. Her and her girlfriends live very well. Once her looks go and she figures out all the angles, she won’t even agree to meet men, just string them along for as long as she can with her old photos and then dump them for the next victim, she can make up her lost income by increases her number of victims. like P.T. Barnum said, there is sucker born every minute, and let’s face it, you guys are the biggest suckers of all when it comes to a pretty face and a sad story or two. You guys should go to a church and find yourselves a nice woman near home.

Maria
2008-12-07, 08:10:04
Amandio from Rio De Janeiro, Brazil  
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Steve,
I am quite sure that you guys (oldbies) know a lot abot that.
Just to contribute with a simple info, let newbies know where all this matter is also handled.
I hope, as I know you all do, to help some honest people and avoid some idiots and scammers posting here through out the threads.
See you.
http://www.delphifa..15#120098

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2008-12-07, 10:16:41
Steve from United States  
Hello Amandio,
Nice to hear from you again.Yes it is funny when the scammer's or their flag waving supporter's post on threads.The only thing they succed in doing is making themselves look worse with their words.I like it when they try making their actions justified like Julia here.The very fact she is what she is is nobody's fault but hers and her husbands oh and lets not forget her sister Oksana.These evil bitches and there scam ring need to be stopped and stopped now.I have heard from a person that Oksana has been milking a man for 2 years now he has lost over $100,000 so far.The sad part is he will not listen to anybody I have written him and other's have also.I know for a fact with her track record that she will continue to write him as long as it serves her purpose then he will be but another one of her many vicitim's and another notch in her very busy headboard.I have believed for a long time that all scammer's when caught and convicted should have scammer tattoed on their foreheads let them face the scorn of their society second class citizens.
2008-12-07, 10:20:45
Steve from United States  
Hello Amandio,
Nice to hear from you again.Yes it is funny when the scammer's or their flag waving supporter's post on threads.The only thing they succed in doing is making themselves look worse with their words.I like it when they try making their actions justified like Julia here.The very fact she is what she is is nobody's fault but hers and her husbands oh and lets not forget her sister Oksana.These evil bitches and there scam ring need to be stopped and stopped now.I have heard from a person that Oksana has been milking a man for 2 years now he has lost over $100,000 so far.The sad part is he will not listen to anybody I have written him and other's have also.I know for a fact with her track record that she will continue to write him as long as it serves her purpose then he will be but another one of her many vicitim's and another notch in her very busy headboard.I have believed for a long time that all scammer's when caught and convicted should have scammer tattoed on their foreheads let them face the scorn of their society second class citizens.
2008-12-07, 10:21:57
Steve from United States  
Hello Amandio,
Nice to hear from you again.Yes it is funny when the scammer's or their flag waving supporter's post on threads.The only thing they succed in doing is making themselves look worse with their words.I like it when they try making their actions justified like Julia here.The very fact she is what she is is nobody's fault but hers and her husbands oh and lets not forget her sister Oksana.These evil bitches and there scam ring need to be stopped and stopped now.I have heard from a person that Oksana has been milking a man for 2 years now he has lost over $100,000 so far.The sad part is he will not listen to anybody I have written him and other's have also.I know for a fact with her track record that she will continue to write him as long as it serves her purpose then he will be but another one of her many vicitim's and another notch in her very busy headboard.I have believed for a long time that all scammer's when caught and convicted should have scammer tattoed on their foreheads let them face the scorn of their society second class citizens.
2008-12-08, 05:33:02   (updated: 2008-12-08, 05:40:32)
AMANDIO from Rio De Janeiro, Brazil  
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Hi Steve,
Yes my friend, this kind of people is real scum.
I have been scammed too and I hate this criminals.
I spend some hours a day trying to help but some times it seems worthless.
It is a hard job to convince authorities to do something. But if we insist, they have to do.
It is worse to deal with them here as they hide themselves among honest people.
This bitch never wrote me. She or they are following what goes on here all the time. Many other scammers do the same, including some of my collection.
It is a pity many guys think that here they are “protected” and may do what they want.
It is very tiring to see porn pics all over, guys writing love letters to scammers, idiots posting a single picture all over the site and just saying “here a new bitch” pure and absolutely crazy.
At the end many people do not realize that cases like yours are not so common. Dealing with the real scammer!!!!
They insist to use their anger against a picture. I don’t understand this at all.
Just to illustrate, sometime after I’ve been scammed I found the real girl in a Russian site similar to Orkut. I tried to contact her but I got the message, “Profile deleted by the owner”. Thanks God she found out she had been stolen (so I think). I don’t know if she discovered her photos somewhere else but “she” or her pictures still appear on some dating sites. Par Perfeito, Brazil, for example.
Just to finish, 2/3 out of more than 300 hundred Russian girls in Par Perfeito are scammers. I did my own research. I wrote them (Par Perfeito) 2 or 3 times and what they said was just the following: “ As far as you exchange e-mails with this girls from outside the site, it is not our problem....”. I ask, is it not their problem to at least filter some data before accepting a new member? It should be! But the problem is that almost all Russian girls there are Gold Members, it means that scamming business is profitable as far as “a poor Russian girl” can monthly afford spending some U$ dollars to find a husband outside Russia.
It is a complete mistake. Unfortunately there is a lot of stupid ones that just full the threads with nonsense and rubbish or single photos with no info. Just making our baiting life more difficult.
See you my friend.
BTW: my e-mail to your address is returning as not found.
Could you write me some words just to check? You have mine.
AMANDIO
2008-12-08, 07:28:23
AMANDIO from Rio De Janeiro, Brazil  
'Yes it is funny when the scammer's or their flag waving supporter's post on threads'
Take a look from here on.
Quite the same strategy if not the same at all
http://www.delphifa..ml#115664
See you
2008-12-31, 19:48:56
[hidden] from United States  
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Steve,

you stated when I wrote in a few weeks ago that you knew her husband was alive. What makes you think so, any evidence? I would love to hear more about your experience in Kiev with Julia and what transpired.

H
2009-01-01, 15:36:38
anonymous  
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Can anyone say who this fool is that Oksana has been milking?
2009-01-02, 07:35:10
Steve from United States  
Hey H,
Everything points to him being alive and behind the scam ring.Why would she have such nice clothes and her teeth so good.There has been a man using her ukr.net address and it was opended by a man that is all that was found out about this no name.It is a perfect scam using the widow with child scam since most scam victims have a big heart why else would we want to help.These pieces of S*IT SHOULD BE DEALT WITH with the most violent type of Justice there is I know I would love to give them a dose of mine.And the poor soul who is being milked by Oksana is an American man living in Switzerland he is a friend of one of Julia's other victims this bitch needs to be locked up along with all of the other scum for a very long time.He is into to her for over $100,000 I do not even call these people animal's I like animal's they are below Amoeba s*it and that is even an insult to the Amoeba.Hopefully they all will face the man I am out of it since I have passed it on to pursue I have my own scum to deal with now.
2009-01-02, 13:40:23
anonymous  
What proof do you have that Oksana is milking this American who lives in Switzerland? Do you have documents or other hard copy information regarding this or is this all being driven by paranoia.
2009-01-02, 17:43:50
Steve from United States  
Well Anon it looks like you are another scammer or a scammer supporter.If you open up your eyes you will see in my posting that he is a friend of another one who was caught in her web or cannot you not read was your hooked on Phonics tapes lost in the mail?
2009-01-02, 18:31:56
anonymous  
Cheap Shot ... your words are my proof of your childish behavior and you have no proof ... only words fueled by hysteria and paranoia ... just what I thought. End of my conversation.
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