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Name: Michelle


Born, Netherlands

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Contacted me through Dutch site where she clamed to be from Dutch parents. Now living in Finland
1st letter after I asked to tell more about her.

Good morning here...!!!‏
Van: michelle polderman (
Verzonden: maandag 8 december 2008 7:55:14
Aan: [removed]

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Dear Paul,
i am really interested in getting to know you better i am just 29 years old and my hight is..5.8ft tall and weigh70kg.

I am a very warm and friendly person with a good sense of humor and passionate . I give freely of myself and i am always ready to lend a hand to someone who truly love..I am strong and independent and no matter how bad things get i am always looking for that silver lining. I still believe in true love and I believe that life is magical and i don’t sweat the small stuff. I’m very spontaneous and adventurous and I love the outdoors. I believe strongly in family and celebrating tradition.
I am a devoted, loving person and to have part of me is to have all of me. I have my own thoughts and my own idea ,I can come to a better understanding of my strengths and weaknesses.I can improve my interpersonal relationships, realign my expectations towards others,and gain a better self-knowledge that will help me define and achieve goals.I am online with the hope to find a man with a big big question for you have a bigheart?
I'm looking for a man who has similar interests looks, race, religion, size, and age don't matter to me. I look for whats in the heart, not the outside. I don't like them to be synical, I don't like atittude, sarcasism is ok. I'd like a man to be honest and no games, i like fun loving, bubbly, goofy, silly at times, a good sense of humour. I'm not too picky a man who is serious, loving, caring, warm hearted, understanding, loyal, and patient.someone i can spend my life with.someone i can spend the rest of my life with,my soulmate and my dream mate.I'm not too picky a man who is serious, loving, caring, warm hearted, understanding, loyal, and patient.someone i can spend my life with.someone i can spend the rest of my life with,my soulmate and my dream mate.

He must be nice and friendly, get along with people and romantic. He doesn't need to be afraid to tell me how he feels about certain things or expressing himself. I admire strong independent men who aren't afraid to do just anything. I beleive in 100/100% and being fair with each other. honesty and comunication are keys to a good relationship. understanding and compassion for each other is one thing that I learned that makes a better relationship too. I beleive that two people should listen to each other. If no one speaks up, then it's kept bottled up inside then it leads to unhappines. I think men and women should serve each other.
I also make an effort to understand each others needs, and most important emotional support is important, kindness, nurturing, love, tenderness, understanding, and support by listening and not just hearing. those are the ingrediants for a great relationship...

My dislikes are lies,cheats,fraudulence and other negative vises which demoralise human being or life styles that are not worthy of emulation... i m not online to play games nor pranks and i dont want to be played by anybody.
My hubbies are,listen to music,goin to beach,travelin,shopping,beeing in the mist of kids as well as doing other productive things during my leicure hours.these are things i believe you should first know about me and every other things comes i really wanna know more about you and what you are looking for in relationship..what you do for a living and everything you want me to know about you.

I have some question for you and to ask you and if you could answer me i will be greatfull to you.

what does love means to you.
My answer about this is that, love is the usual thing,love is nice,patient,kind,truehonest and trustworthy,i guess it is just a feelinds of not just an attaraction or chemistry,but of deep respect and appreciation to others.

How will you describe your self.
Also think am fun loving, easy going,honest,nice,gentle,kind,smart,sociala ble,friendly,also intelligent and trustworthy,passion,wonderful lady,very open mind,well educated with a good sense of humour.I am a serious person,responsible.

What do you do for funs during your leisure time
During my leisure time i like hunting ,dancing,swimming, gardening,reading novels,watching movies.riding,beach,travelin,shopping,beeing in the mist of kids as well as doing other productive things during my leicure hours.

what are you looking for in a relationship.
As for me,am looking for loving,caring,honest ,passion,hardworking,easy going,gentle,kind,smart,sociala ble,friendly,also intelligent trustworthy and have the fear of God in his mind and must ready to support his love in hardship.Also looking for a humble person who will amend my broken heart.who will loves,care and respect me for whom i am,also looking for longtime relationship.truelove with true mind,childrens and happiness.the man that we love, care and respect me for whom i am,am also not here for games or inother to play pranks.

This are things i want you to know and i hope you understand all what i said here..
I will also like to read from you soon .. i am a serious person and i am not kiding or joking about all my feelings i write down for you.
Thanks so much.

Contacted me through hotmail probably not knowing about the letter. Clamed she lived in USA and was now on business in Nigeria. Was a bit confused when I asked her if she had contacted me under different name. Told her that the name she had chosen was of a dececed woman in Holland. Was again very confused and then a story came were first her father was from Finland and then her mother, probably because she realized that the chosen surname was Dutch! Claimed she is in diamond trading.

See she has a lot of contact through hotmail


2009-01-02, 12:49:51   (updated: )
[hidden] from Netherlands  

2009-01-02, 12:49:51   (updated: )
[hidden] from Netherlands  

2009-03-09, 19:16:03 from United States  
hey ive been talking to this girl for a while now. ( at first she seemed nice, but soon she was asking for money to help her get from Nigeria back to the us. she promised things like gold, money and marrige lol. i didnt fall for it but bid continue to talk to he. recieved pics and video. she is a very pretty girl but a total slut.

lets bring down this girl so she cant do this scam to other guys

2009-04-13, 16:22:55
anonymous from Netherlands  
Got into contact with me again through life messanger. Same story, was still in Nigeria and needed money to pay customs to be able to get out of the country. Didn't realy ask for it because before she could I told her that sending money was out of the question. Never heard from her again.



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