She's at it again... using the email of : firstname.lastname@example.org
Hasn't hit me up for money yet. Just started talking to her today. is using the name Real Mary in her profile.
Here is her sob story:
Real Mary: look some one has hurted me before \
Real Mary: so i do not like to be hurted again
My reply: tell me about it. I have a son that I haven't been able to see in 4 years
Real Mary: Okay This is how i want to explain things to you so that you can understand me well.I had a man named Larry,I met him through the internet dating site.He then proposed to me that he is very interested in me and want to be with me...
Real Mary: I did agreed with his proposal and we tried to get to know each other more for awhile.
My reply: question, when you decribed what you like, did you write it then, or copy it?
Real Mary: What you mean
Real Mary: ?
Real Mary: oh i have understood what you are saying my dear
My reply: I've seen what you wrote, word for word, in the same order
Real Mary: well i wrote it down coz it really hurt me my dear and am never going to forget it that why i wanted you to know why its hard for me to trust someone
My reply: well, like I said. I'm honest to afault
Real Mary: we then also heard each other's real voice on the phone to trust and believe each other more.
My reply: the average man is an ass
Real Mary: Within some weeks later ,Larry told me that he would like me to come to the state and be with him and if possible we can get married.
My reply: and..........
Real Mary: fddfddfdffdfdfdfdfdf I did informed my Uncle about what Larry said,My Uncle, only advised me to take very good care of myself and nowadays men cannot be trusted and maybe he is up to something.
My reply: very true
Real Mary: A week later,We started working on my documents to go to the states and be with Larry.I then depart from Ghana and then met Larry at the airport,He then took me to a restaurant nearer to the airport to have some soft drinks and have fun.
Real Mary: am just copying what i wrote down for you to read and see why its hard for me to trust someone ok
My reply: ok
Real Mary: Which after we moved from the restaurant ,we then went to a house where Larry told me that it was his apartment, I did saw a lady with kids ,Larry told me, that was his sister so i didn't bother to ask him so much questions.
My reply: look, I may not respond emediatly. I do tech support for a program online... Sometimes I may be answering a customers question
My reply: that doesn't mean I'm ignoring you
Real Mary: I was in Larry's apartment for a week,Larry served me good,but it got to a time Larry came to make some discussions with me.Larry told me that ,He would like me to join a prostitution team so that we can earn much money.And that is the kind of job that he has running over there to earn much money.I didn't agreed with Larry at all , I am a very good christian woman and a good christian woman shouldn't have to do such thing and even the almighty God is going to judge you someday.
My reply: when messenger pops because you sent an im, I read it.
Real Mary: oh ok
Real Mary: So I felt so worried and sad ever since Larry did came to tell me about that issue.One day,a lady called me and warned me to stay away from Larry.Not knowing the lady that i did saw with kids was Larry's wife and he lied to me that it was his sister,that also made me confused and thinking always.
Real Mary: So I tried to inform Larry about it,He was not willing to tell me the truth about what was going on.So the lady kept on giving me warning to stay away from Larry and if not she is going to hurt me ,so I did plead with her to tell me much about what she is saying,so we did sat down and she told me that ,she is already married with Larry with 4 wonderful children.
My reply: I'm reading
Real Mary: are you reading how i was hurt
Real Mary: And she even showed me their engagement ring's ,she also showed me some pictures of their wedding day,she even advised me that ,she is a woman and it will pain her so much if I do get cheated and hurt by Larry.So I should try my best to find another man to be with because Larry is just going to use me and dump me somewhere else.
My reply: ok, I understan aas best as I can
Real Mary: So I did went to my room cried so hardly,I prayed to the almighty God for guiding and protecting me from getting hurt.So when Larry arrived,I tried to ask him to tell me the truth about what was going on the house,But it seems like he is not willing to tell me the truth.So even the woman help me with some amount of money to get my trip back to Ghana,I did thank her so much for telling me the truth.So when i arrived here in Ghana, I did told a friend of mine about how i got hurt by Larry,she even told me that now a days men cannot be trust with our heart.They normally just use us and dump us after they do get whatever they want from the woman.
My reply: life is full of trials and tribulations. it's what we take from them, that makes us stronger
Real Mary: she even did advice me to take another chance to see whether I could find a right good man to be with me.
My reply: I'll brb. i needto answer the door
Real Mary: So when i registered this dating site,I just don't know much about it and you are the first person I was able to talk to.And I know that the almighty God has answered to my prayers
Real Mary: oh ok am with you
My reply: ok
My reply: I am looking for a mate. Not to use, but to share my life with. the good and the bad, the ups and downs. but as a team, as best friends.
Real Mary: so have you now found out why its difficult for me to trust someone