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2009-06-03, 23:31:03
anonymous from Australia  
I have a suspician the girl in the pictures above is not genuine, She has been sending me letters for more than a month, She tells me her name is Alena.
2009-06-04, 00:29:53   (updated: 2009-06-04, 00:30:37)
[hidden] from Salem, United States  
2009-06-04, 00:42:31   (updated: 2009-06-04, 00:44:23)
Agent,86 from Salem, United States  
Anonymous from Australia

You are right to believe the girl in the photo's is a scammer.
Ignore the posting by the Russian Scammer who attempted to
stop the truth from being told here.
Unfortunately, You gave very little information to go on.
So all anyone can do is guess that the girl, Your talking about
is the same as reported on this thread.
That would mean its a scam.
Never tell the scammer about this site for any reason.
Never post, Your e mail address on this site either.
Never tell the scammer how, You came to learn the truth.
Please come back and post everything about this scammer.
E mail address, photo's, how, You were contacted etc.
Please take the time to learn about scams and scammers now
so, You will know what to look for in the future.
I wish, You the best. I do believe that in fact, Your being scammed.
Please keep in mind that scammers use stolen photo's, fake names,
and have many e mail addresses.
So waiting for everything to match up exactly is pointless.
Get, Yourself free now. Never send money to anyone, You do not know.
If, You have not been asked for money yet that doesn't mean anything.
Some scammers wait a very long time to do that.
Nearly all scammers are actually men.

Kind Regards Agent 86 Maxwell Smart \\'^o^'//

2009-06-04, 04:49:30   (updated: 2009-06-04, 05:10:17)
[hidden] from Bega, Australia  
Alena found me on Tagged, email address:

I Hope these letters help stop more people being caught.

1st letter, 21 April


Thanks a lot for your interest to my person.

I'm glade to start correspondence with you and I hope you will give me
a chance to get to know you better. At first I want to remind you that
I'm new person for the Internet, I'm not good computer user, but I
know English not too bad. I can write you letter by myself without any
help, just sometimes I use dictionary, because I don't know
translation of some words. I find your profile at the site interesting
and I want to know you better. At first, I wan to tell you more about
myself. My name is Alena. I'm 28 years old. I have blue eyes and
brown hair, my height is 5'6' and weight is 116 ibs. I live in Murom
city, Russia. My town located 300 km far from Moscow, and I think you
are little surprised, because in my profile I wrote that I'm from
other country. Please, don't think that I wanted to defraud somebody,
just when I tried to register my profile with location Russia I had
error message and for this reason I had to choose from countries list
and my registration was completed aptly. I hope you are not confused
that I live so far from you and you would like to continue our
correspondence. Have you any friends I Russia? Also I have to ask you:
Have you correspondence with any woman now? Have you ever been in
Russia? How many do you know about Russia? If you are interested in
this I would like to tell you more about or cultural and traditions. I
finished College 5 years ago and work as Interior designer. I like my
job and try to do it well. I work full-time from 9:00 am till 6 pm
everyday, except weekends. I hope that you understand all tat I have
written you and my English is not too bad. I really hope to get reply
from you soon and I send you my photo attached. I would be gale to get
your photo too. You can ask me any questions free, and I will be glade
to tell you more about myself. I will be waiting you reply, with my
best wishes, your Alena

2nd, Dear

I am very glad to get your letter, and I have to say, that I'm happy,
that I have decided to communicate with Internet, and to learn
English, I speak English rather good, and I hope, that you understand
me good. You know, when I started my search, I really didn’t believe
that I can find somebody, and I would be interesting for man from
another country! I have girlfriend, she advised me to try, because she
found her husband around 8 month ago in Internet too. She was not
serious first time when she had correspondence with him, but after
some times they understood that couldn’t live without each other and
now she live in France. She visited our town last week and we had
conversation about this, so, I decided to try. But I have to say, that
I am not looking for just empty correspondence, I want to say, that my
intentions are serious, and I look for my future husband. I hope you
understand me, and if it is only the game for you (I don't think so,
but...), tell me about it, please, and may be it will be better for us
to stop our conversation, because I don't want to hurt myself. I have
to say, that I am very interested in you, I want to know you better,
and I want to understand you, what kind of man you are... And you
know, I think you should decide, was I right when I started to write
you. I really hope that we will continue our correspondence, and I
want to tell you some more about myself. As you saw at photos, I have
blue eyes and brown hair. I like flowers; my favorite flowers are
daisywheels, lilies and orchids, but I'd love when my man brings me
flowers, which he picked up, and it doesn't matter what kind of
flowers it is. I like decorate my home, and use in this flowers off
cause too. I like tender colors and pastel tones. What colors do you
prefer? I like ice-cream. I like cooking and this is my privilege when
we have any celebration, because all my girlfriends think that I’m the
best. But I’m not agreeing with them, because I know at least once 1
person, my mom, she cook better, and she is my teacher in this. I am
single, and I have no sisters or brothers. I have no children, but I
want to feel myself as mother, and I hope, I'll feel it beautiful
feeling someday. My desire is to find the man, with whom I can spend
my life together, I understand, that the days go, and we getting
older, and I don't want to feel loneliness, and to think, that I have
had chance someday? With my best wishes, Alena

p.s. By the way, I forgot to tell you that when I did not in the
territory of Russia!

3rd, 25 May

My dear !
I'm very glad to get your letters, and I'm also glad,
that I have begun our communication with you, because I feel, that you
are very good man, and every your letter brings me a lot of pleasure,
and I also happy to see your letter from you! Im really glade that
you want to continue correspondence with me, and I want to ask you, do
not stop to write me! I think you are interesting in my person and to
know more about me and about place there I live. I didnt write you
before, I live with my old grandmother in the small flat. We have 2
living rooms, kitchen and bathroom. Off cause may be you would think,
that our flat is too little, but you know, it is very comfortable and
clean. We live very modest, and this flat is enough for us with my
grandmother. My parents live in the village, around 45 km from my
town. I grew up at this village. The name of this village is
Chernushka. There are little river and very nice nature. I like to
spend weekends there, because I can rest from big town and off cause
see my parents. There are Russian bath. Did you ever hear about
Russian bath? It is like sauna, but without swimming pool and in
Russian bath people beat each other special besom. They do this for
make body hotter and perspire, because all bad for health can get out.
Today in the evening my girlfriends will visit me. They names are
Tanya and Natasha. They are married, and have children. When I talked
with them last time, I told them about you too. They were very happy
for me, because I have found such honest and decent man as you. Also
they have told me, that they are glad for me, because they did not see
me such cheerful, and happy for long time! I smile a lot, because I
think about you and I feel myself so happy! I really dont know what I
can tell you else about my self… Have I told you, that I don't smoke?
And I don't drink, but I can drink some wine with holiday dinner. If
you don't mind, I'll ask you tell me about yourself. I am very
interested in all, what takes place in your life. And if you want to
know me better, you can ask me any questions, and I'll answer on all
of it. I will be waiting your reply with impatience, my best wishes,
yours, Alena

4th, 26 may


I am very glad to receive your letter.

I was very happy to find a letter from you. We still know not much
about each other, but I shall try to tell about myself and find out
more about you. You know, I like children. I like to spend a lot of
time with them, to play in games and drawing. One of my girlfriend
have son. He is very nice and clever boy, he is only 2.5 years old,
and sometimes she leaves him with me. Some days ago I was walking with
her son and waiting her from shop, when a woman make me the
compliment: So yang girl with so nice childe, you look as very
careful mother. So funny, but she was surprised when I said that this
boy is not my son. I think Im ready to start my own family and I
hope, that you are honesty with me, and you will not break my heart,
because at preceding year, I had boyfriend, and we was together around
3 years. But after New Year he found another girl, and he started to
defraud me, because he didnt wanted to say me the true - that he
dont want to be with me and find somebody else. After 1 month I
caught them together accidentally in his flat, they made love and
forgot to close the door… he broken my heart, and it was double pain.
I was not so painfully, if he would be honesty and said me all before
I saw this my own eyes. No, I forget him, and I want to start my life
again. Im very optimistic person and I hope all will be ok. Tell me
about your the city what beautiful places do you have there? How do
you spend your free time? Tell me what kind of life are you having in
your country. It is really very interesting for me!! You may ask why I
cannot find the right man in Russia. Though many men wanted to have
love and friendship with me, but as I told you the most men drink here
a lot and always find excuses not to work hard. So, it is really very
difficult to find the right man to date with or marry to among them.
Dear, it seems to me, that our meeting is destiny. Today I saw a
dream... I dreamed that I was walking with the person and it felt so
nice with him. I woke up and understood, that did not remember his
face, but it seems to me, that it is not a casual event in our lives
that destiny brought us closer. Perhaps you are the person who I may
trust. I am looking forward to meeting a person who I can trust. I
want to give you all my care and love to you; I am tired of being
lonely. And you, do you believe in destiny? Im sorry, but I should go
for now, I send you loving kisses, and I hope hear from you soon.
Yours, with my best wishes, take care, Alena

5th, 29 may

Dear !

Thank you very much for the letter that you have sent to me!

How are you? I'm fine, and I hope, that you all right too! How was
your day? As for me, I worked all day today, and I left my job some
more early today, because I want to visit my parents. As you know, my
parents live in the village, and I spent there the most of my life,
only last 6 years I live in the town with my grandmother. Today, in
the evening, I will visit my parents and if you were not against, I
would be glade to tell them about you. I try to visit them as often as
I can, but I have no car and on the bus it is long way and take many
time. I meet them once a week, usually on weekend. My parents are
really kind and understanding people, my mom is 52 years old and my
father 56 years old. They live together a lot of time, and as my
mother said, she never stays alone on weekend or celebration. They
love each other very much. My father retired and my mom is teacher.
So, dear, Im sorry, but I don't have a lot of time now, I have to go,
because my bus would leave town after 40 minutes, but I only want you
to know, that I did not forget about you, and that I hope, that your
day was good, and everything alright with you! I want to tell you some
more about my personality. People say that I am a very happy person
and rarely if ever feel down or depressed. I look at relationships and
the concept of marriage as a wonderful thing in my life. I would love
nothing more than to fall in love with someone who would love me as
much and as passionately as I loved them. I would like to find someone
who wanted to be partners in love and life and willing to work
together for common goal instead of separately. I guess I should
mention that I am a non-smoker and I am very drug free. All in all I
am very healthy and hope to share that quality with my partner. I am
also very patient and easy going. I hardly ever get upset or mad. You
know, I have some questions to you, because I want to learn you
better. For example, what do you like most about women and Why? What
was the most romantic moment of your life so far? If you had to
describe yourself in one word, what word would that be? What is your
life's ambition or ultimate goal in life? Ultimate goal? What you want
in a woman, what you don't want in a woman? Ok, I have too many
questions for you; I hope it would not be too weary. I will be
thinking about you, my warm wishes, and I will write you as soon as it
would be possible my dear, kisses, Alena.

6th, 31 may

My dearest

You make me happy! Your letters are like a present to me.

You know, when I told my parents about you, they were very happy! This
is the first time, when I’m so happy and my eyes bright! I close my
eyes, and I feel you in my arms, I would like to spend all my days
with you, and I hope, that one day, I'll spend all of them with you.
Every your letter are so important for me! I print all your letters
and read them again at home. This night, I couldn't sleep. You've come
in my dream, in my thoughts. You've come in my mind, in my night, and
I dreamed to hold you in my arms, I dreamed that you're by me, taking
my hand. I feel my heart is missing without you, without your presence
the light appears black, and I feel emptiness in my life, in my skin,
in my spirit. I dream about you, and I don't sleep, I token your
letters in my hands, and I understood, that I want to meet you so much
.. I wait for our meeting like for the end of a tunnel, the tunnel of
my life, and on this end, I can see a bright gleam. This gleam is you.
Your image gleams like a possible hope, a fairy story, and a fairy
dream. I'm seeing this bright gleam, and I want to run in its
direction. I don't want you to stay only an idle fancy, I want you to
become real, my reality. I want to share my life with you, to share my
laugh and my tears, to share all my emotions and my feelings, my joys
and my pains, my hopes and my despairs. And of course, I want, that
you share everything with me, your thoughts, yours desires,
everything. Would you like to share your life with me, would you like
to give me the right to love you all your life? Dear ????? please,
give me permission to love you, to kiss you, to caress you, to give
you all my tenderness and my heart. I read your letters, I close my
eyes, and I give free vent to my imagination, and I see you flying to
me, taking my hand, and you come back with me in your arms. I dream
about us together, you and me, flying under the stars, through the
continents, around the world, around our world, in love, only in love.
You are invading my heart and my mind. You are so great, so... I can’t
find the good word! I can’t find enough words. May be I’m too
romantic, but I just write you words from my heart, I feel this and
hope you feel the same. With impatience I wait for your answer. I
dream of you day and night, yours forever, Alena

7th, 2 june,

My dearest

I read your letter, and I really have no words to explain, what I feel.
I feel, I found the closest person in my life! It is about you, my
sweet! You opened your heart to me, you even can't imagine, how long I
waited for you, dreamed about you!!! You are really the man of my
dreams! I cant believe, that fate give us so great chance! Many years
ago, when I was a little girl, my mother told me many fairy tales. I
loved one of them most of all. There was a beautiful princess and
handsome prince in that fairy tale. There were a lot of difficulties
and barriers between them. They had many troubles, but the prince
knew, that his princess was the one, who was created for him. After
many efforts they came together. I can think only of you now. You make
me happy, and I know now, when I'll hold you in my arms, when I'll
kiss you, I'll never let you go! I am asking myself: is it dream? If
it is a dream, please, don't let me to wake up! Now I know, how easy
to fall in love, when two lonely hearts find each other on the long
and difficult road of life. My Prince, I know, that you can invite me
to the beautiful world of love, where we can carry out all our secret
amazing dreams, all our desires and wishes. I know, that you can
change my lonely life, I believe in it, and I'm ready to travel
thousands kilometers, because I know, that you are my soul mate. My
sweet, I don't doubt, that we have love intimacy between us now. I
feel how your heart beats despite of distance between us, it beats in
a step to my heart now... I know it. Were we created for each other?
Now I need only one: to meet you. I have a great desire to do it. I
already talked with my mother, and she lets me to come to you. She is
a little afraid for me, because I'm still her little daughter, but she
trust me, and she gave us her parental blessing. My father is not
against too, he told me that I have my own head on the shoulders, and
he said, that Im right in my choice and he trust me in this. If you
really want to see me in person, I'm ready to talk to you about it. I
wait for your decision. Your princess, Alena.

8th, 4 june

My dear !

Thanks a lot for your nice reply; today I just can't wait
to read your mail! I couldn’t sleep this night well, because I was
afraid perhaps you wouldn’t like to meet me now. I’m so happy now! My
sweet prince, I’m really glade that you want to meet me and I will go
to the travel agency soon, but today in the evening I will go to my
parents, because we have great family celebration - the day of wedding
my parents 25 years ago. They invite many friends and we would present
them with my grandmother very nice thing - tea kit, there are many
caps and nice kettle. So sorry that you can't be here with us, because
my parents will be happy too much if you would be here with me! You
know my love; I miss you very much, and I'm so sorry that I can't
write you long letter, because I should go to take my grandma and go
to village, but I will write you the letter as soon as it will be
possible I promise you! I am afraid to lose anything we have now,
because letters is good and it give us for understanding each other
but it does not compare with personal meeting. You know, I imagine us
together holding hands, I want to touch your hair and feel your warm…
You know, only now I feel how difficult to save happiness, because it
is so frail! My heat singing the song of love, and I can’t wait that
beautiful moment, when I would hold you in my arms. I will try to get
all information from the travel agency and let you know, now, I kiss
you and will be glade to get letter from you when I will come back
home. I think I will need some more information for the travel agency
about you, please, give me your exactly postal address, full name and
the name of a airport which is locate near with you. I send you my hot
kisses, and I wish my kisses flight to you with wind and touch your
with warm rain. Only your, Alena

2009-06-04, 05:11:43
anonymous from Australia  

2009-06-04, 05:12:59
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2009-06-04, 10:06:21
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2009-06-04, 20:29:22
wanwan from Japan  
@2009-05-12, 07:30:10
anonymous from Russian Federation

Вы должны говорить правду.
Истина является наиболее важным для вас.
Остановить вашу ложь.
Остановите ваши мошенников.
Остановите ваш идиот.
Никогда сюда.

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2009-06-05, 01:02:17
[hidden] from Australia  
I may have upset the people doing these things if the interpretation is right.

2009-06-06, 03:44:26
[hidden] from Australia  
The other day I was on email and next to Alena's name and the online status came the name wayne s vincent. I thought this odd.

Alena has now asked for me to contact her travel agent to organise tickets for her travel. She has never answered a direct question I've asked about herself in any.

2009-06-06, 05:37:10
Agent,86 from Salem, United States  
Hidden from Australia

Scammers very rarely answer direct questions.
They are working under a script and even multiple scammers
handle, You at any given time.
They cannot keep the details straight if one Tell's, You something
another doesn't know about.
One of the most common mistakes is they will tell, You
two different Birthdays when asked.
They tend to get busy when scamming more than one person.
Its very easy to ask a question for the very first time and insist
that, You asked it before. They won't even acknowledge that they
know, You really didn't ask before. LOL
They are very rarely very smart.
Very easy to trap in a lie.
Just keep track of what, Your told.
Then ask Questions based on those fact's eventually they screw up.
The second person that, Your being hooked up with is part of the scam.
I wouldn't take this scam very far. Jerk them around wasting their time
then drop the scammer all at once. No explanation just Boom Gone.
Never mention this site. Never post, Your e mail address here.
Good luck with, Your playing with the scammer.

Kind Regards Agent 86 Maxwell Smart \\'^o^'//
2009-06-09, 06:53:50
[hidden] from Australia  
Re, Alena G

Here is the travel agent they submitted for me to contact I wonder about the girls who are in these pictures, either they are part of it or have been scammed themselves.
2009-06-15, 04:19:22
[hidden] from Sydney, Australia  
Regarding Alena G, found on Tagged

I checked the email address in the search function of Tagged. It came up a A guys name, a differnt city and country. Meanwhile on facebook the email came Alena Usanava.
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