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Dating scammer Miss Jenifer James


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Name: Miss Jenifer James


sandhurt, London and South East, UK

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this person has been sending me lots of emails the last 3 or 4 days and i noticed she/he was not very responsive with questions i asked so checked her out and found this site, she got in touch with me on my-space & it says on her profile she lives in london, i noticed most of them live over seas so dont no how she would of got around it but 1 of her letters as word for word as one i read on here. says her dad is english & mum american but they both died in car crash 13 months ago. here are some emails she sent me...

Perhaps you will be astonished for receiving a letter from me. I feel that a letter is more eloquent than words. That is why this will definitely speak for itself. I am a little bit confused on how and what to do just to eradicate you to know from my vivid mind your charming and beautiful face. The more time I spend with you the more I like everything about you and the more I want to find out all about you - how you think, how you feel, what your dreams are and everything nice from you. If I could only do something just to persuade you.

Sweetie very thing I wish to do was left undone because of this unexplainable emotion. My admiration was still bubbling within me these past lonely days. Truthfully, and undoubtedly, I can fool anyone but I cannot fool myself. I would be a great liar if I uttered that I'm not in love with you. No matter what you think or say, all I can say is; I really love you with all my heart and I will not hesitate if you will give me just a little time to prove my feelings of endearment and to prove to you that I'm deserving of your feelings, from your heart. My dearly beloved, you became so honorable in my eyes, like a precious gem, counted with extremely good intellectual reasoning makes me emotionally struck and speechless just like late michael Jackson track. I am very serious now in telling you that I can no longer endure such extreme anxiety and sleepless nights that I am experiencing right of this moment. Since the first day i read from you.... I felt I was living in a new and wonderful world, full of love. And the sun is brighter, the pastures became greener and everything I do was magnificent. You should inculcate and instill in your mind that 'I cherish you so much'. Such love, like everything, deserves to be given much attention and care in order to grow more and more.
Love always,
Your Queen.

Martyn your letter keeps chilling me up with hopes and thoughts of a future plans .Sorry i have been unable to reach you over couple of hours now is just that i am just coming in now from church as we choir have a little rehearsal.I cant just believe this is happening to me, i was just carried away in the sense that i cant just explain whats really happening to me, i dont know maybe you understand what am trying to say? I mean even when a guy came to woo me face to face, i do not trip or have any feelings for them not to talk of you that just come my way through internet and just few days of exchanging mails with you, i am deeply falling for you. At this very moment i am sitting here dreaming and fantasizing about how nice it would be for you to be near, where i could do what i enjoy most and that is being able to romance the special one I have in my life...In me babe you are going to find the most passionate, loving and romantic woman you have ever met. I would have love to see you in my appartment tonight or anytime you are chanced but am having little problem with my landlord, so i dont want to have visitors for now, am very sorry if that sound somehow to you but i hope you understand?.....

There are very few promises in life but this is one of them!. ROMANCE is the key to my happiness and to my heart and soul!. It is the single biggest reason I am single today is because I have yet to find a man who will romance me with the passion of there heart and be a giver of there love, and not just a taker. I am a woman who is very committed to the special man I am sharing my heart and soul with.

I totally dedicate and devote my life totally to this person 24/7, for he is my King and it is my belief that as long as he is my King, God would want me to treat him as such, by putting him on a pedestal that is reserved only for a King and showing him with an endless amount of affection, attention, passion, and unconditional love. It is my duty as a follower of the word of God to be his provider, providing for his emotional, mental, and sexual needs. It is my responsibility as his Queen to take any problems and stress that he has in his life and put it on my shoulders to free him of it, for I am a woman and his Queen!. My shoulders are bigger so it is my obligation to carry the burdens he has in life on them, allowing him to have a healthy mind, body, and heart and soul at all times....

I love and cherish this role babe, and it is because I love it so much, that I feel God has a role for everyone in life, and his chosen role for me is to be a excellent wife, mother, and family woman, because of the way I live my life, and because of my passion to be a great lover and family woman, in addition to the passion I have for children. I believe children play a big part in my life.

Dear you are really going to be in for a big surprise as you get to know and understand me as my words mean nothing compared to my action as soon as i was able to settle with my landlord. Please do take good care of yourself.

Thanks very much Martyn {i hope i get your name right} for giving your email address, i really appreciate. Like i told you earlier on that am new on this online dating stuff especially my space, my first search brings me your profile which i believe you and i could work out something good, that was why i mailed you in the first place.

I have been into different kind of relationship but all ended in jilt and betray, that was why i decide to come online and i guess it may work here, to me it seems guys are not serious, they are always looking for fun, sex, club, other dirty stuff and some are even scammers because i have once fall victim and i was scammed about 7000USD when i was in CA

If I am in a high spirits whaoo!!! I like to listen to LUDACRIS. I like to dance a lot, that's one of my favorite things to do. I've been doing dancing for a year, that was great. I can say that I like to be in shape, I go to the gym, to keep my figure slim. Do you like sport? especially European football games, i love it very well. I also like to keep my house cosy, this is important for me and also attend Sundays service at church and some other weekly programs, i hope that wont change your mind because am a practicing christian.

Martyn!!! i would like to find a serious, honest, caring and decent man, the person I could share my life and create a strong family with, based on kindness, love, understanding and tenderness. But in my opinion, the most important thing for me is love, I think that two people can't create a family without that great feeling. I want my future hubby to love me and take care of me. And I will do the same for him back. I have much love and tenderness in my heart, but there is no person near me I can give it to. I would like to find that special person and be happy with him together. So as every normal woman I would like to love and be loved in return. Graham i believe that you already know almost everything about me as my profile as already say much about me.

Martyn am really interested in wanting to know about what makes you the special person you are today, I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, what you do for living, and anything else you want to tell me. I even want to learn about the secrets you very rarely share with someone! So come on and share it all with me, as I am not here to talk to you about general things such as partying, the weather, sports, e.c.t. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential.
I look forward to read from you soon!.
I care Jenny.xxxxxx

OK just got new mail n can see were the scam is going now, have a read...

Hi, Babe, you're always lighting up my heart with the things you say. I feel so happy just being with you this way. You're my baby, and will forever be my baby. You will always be the love of my life, and please never give up, always have faith in yourself and you will gain the greatest gift of all, the gift of hope and love you righteously deserve..............., My sweetie, my lover, my friend - I want you to know how much I love you and why.....Thank you for acknowledging my thoughts and feelings whether they are positive or negative, justified or unjustified. I feel safe to be myself knowing I can not be perfect and you will continue to love me. Thank you for all the time you take to write me and telling me I am wonderful ...Those silent moments recharge my senses of appreciation for you. Thank you for writing me at the right time... it shows me that you are genuinely supportive of my goals, which are such a part of who I am. Thank you for answering all my questions without criticism or impatience - you have shown me that my dream of a kind and considerate relationship is a reality. You motive me to expect and tolerate no less and to be the same with you and those around me. You have created calmness and safety in my life which I only ever imagined.

Every time I think of you my heart misses a beat. You're my theme for a dream! Every moment I read from you, it always make my mind get more closer to you and i must tell you that you have make me stop thinking about my late parent because i do think of them every morning when i woked up but now its you i always think about even when am about to sleep . I'm simply hanging by a moment, waiting to see you so you can hold me so tight that all else fades; I thought upon the distance between us the feelings we had will fade away from my mind, but still everyday I wake up dreaming of our time together. I will never forget you as i believe you are also thinking of me right now. I love you with all that I am, all that I was and all that I will ever be if you must believe me as i will love to even see you right now. Please know that my love and I are inseparable and I would want it no other way and if time could express my love for you then it's forever and a day. I can't wait to be with you, see your smile, look in your eyes, feel your sweet touch, hear your perfect words and kiss your perfect lips. The way I feel about you some people may call it crazy, some call it insane, but I call it true love and so i believe people that understand it call it as well. I really love you, Babe.

Am very sorry i have not been able to respond to your mails on time but i think it time i open up for you, i was just coming in now from my landlord apartment with my pastor as we have been pleading to him, babe can you believe this man as posted my apartment for rent just because i was owing him 450 and i have paid 150 just owing him 350 now and he was frustrating my life. Babe is that how landlord behave here in UK or because the man is just an Africa man as i found out from his lawyer that he inherit the house from his late father. hunni he said he his traveling tomorrow morning to visit his family in Africa and he need some money to take along, i have explain to him that i can send the money down to him immediately my goods is been shipped down here from Australia but he insist and has ask his lawyer to start a case with me, at this very moment i am very worried and disturbed but i just have to try my hardest to write you, so don't be annoyed for not responding to your all you mails..

I love you and only you as i could never have even imagined or wished for such a blessing when it comes to you and me being together and how lucky we are to be in love............, Hunni, I love you so very much and I hope this reassures you believe me.
Love Always,
Your Angel of Mercy


2009-07-09, 18:11:24   (updated: )
[hidden] from United Kingdom  

2009-11-15, 17:25:03
anonymous from Venezuela  
Hi, well it seems that there is a maniac or a bunch of then cose i have recived a lot of email with the same text and the same history about a guy called dylad hamilton from usa florida acording to him. he has a several sites like tagged, window live, and wrote my his parent die in a car crach 8 years ago, that he is very catolic and blablabla and also sent me several letters that he copy and paste to several girls and even he copy and paste in chating at msn during the sesion... he or she is very sick so all of you take care with this people.
2009-11-24, 18:24:11
anonymous from United Kingdom  
I got several e-mails from this woman. So she's definitely a scammer? Such a shame. Glad I Googled her name now before it went far.



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