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Name: Nadya, Nadezhda, Marina


Area is Yoshkar-ola, Russia

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I have been in contact with a scammer named Nadya. She or he contacted me first through Yahoo personals. Her first contact via Yahoo had her profile set as under review. Within 2 days it was deleted by the user. She also lied about where she was from in the profile saying she was from Brownsville. She never answered questions because her e-mails were pre-written. I have seen the same letters on other anti scam forums with the same pictures. I also saw the letters on this forum from a girl supposably named Alina, but the pictures are different. I am still in contact with her for now, but, I will only be able to keep her waiting for so long as she is getting impatient for the money. I will only include a couple of the letters. In all, she has sent me about 15-20 so far.

Hello XXXXXX!!!
To me it is pleasant that you have not left my message without the answer.
In my letter I would like to tell to you more about me directly.
I very sociable person, but unfortunately at me am not enough friends,
Because in my life so it turns out that I cannot find the present and devoted friend.
Tell to me, at you it is a lot of friends?
I would like to find the friend and even more than the friend.
I know that men from your country very serious because you have a lack of good women.
I am right?
At me as the lonely girl, has desire and intention to meet at last my partner in life and to construct with it family relations.
I have decided to write to you only because you have very much liked me. But from your profile I did not manage to learn you well.
In this letter I wish to tell to you about my life. To me of 29 years.
Already on October, 16th to me 30 years will be executed, and the fourth ten my life will begin, and looking on it,
To me is sad to recognise that for these years I have no own family and still I live with my parents.
All my acquaintances say, what I look young, but I would like to know your opinion, what you think of my appearance?
I really constantly care of the appearance and health.
It will be interesting to me to learn, what you appreciate in the woman? I mean by it not only appearance but also character traits!
Philip where you work?
I think that to you will be as interestingly to learn about my work.
4 years I work as the inspector in militia.
ON work I am engaged in education of youth of minor age.
It is very difficult work which occupies many physical and intellectual forces, but not looking on it, I see sense in this work,
I a supporter of an order also do not want that the future generation grew the criminal.
Certainly I understand that all depends on education in a family, and basically it is children from unsuccessful families,
But I try to correct it because it is sense of my work.
To be arranged for this work to me it was necessary to finish police academy.
We in a city do not have any institute, because my city rather small.
My work means good knowledge of psychology and as I in it did successes I and has decided to choose such sort of activity.
I think that all in our hands and only we can choose as our relations will develop.
I will give the chance to you to learn my life in the maximum degree and is final with the big sincerity.
You can tell to me about your life everything, all will be for me interesting.
XXXXX, I hope that this letter will be interesting to you.
As in this letter I send you some photos, I hope that they will like you.
Write to me that you think of my photos.
It is interesting to me to know that you think of my appearance.
XXXXXX, I wish as to see more than your photos.
I hope that my text without serious errors because I tried to write it attentively.
My knowledge of language not so is good, and I hope, that for us it will not be a problem to understand each other.
I hope that you will help me to improve knowledge of English language.
On it I will finish the letter to you.
I hope to receive from you news again.
I will soon wait from you for e-mail.
Your new girlfriend Nadya.

Hello my dear XXXXXX.
And this time your letter pleased me, I do not know why, but your letters to me
Bring a charge of positive energy and pleasant emotions, before I did not have such feeling.
You work today? How there has passed your working day?
For me today very difficult working day, but my work does not happen easy.
It is pleasant to me and consequently I with interest carry out my duties on work, not looking on complexity.
I have not got used to stop before complexities.
Not looking at all on that that I experience in a complexity life, I do not wish to give up this work.
My working day begins in 9: 00 am, at this time I already should be on work, therefore I wake up in 7: 00 am.
I do physical exercises that on other part of day to be in the good and vigorous form.
After exercises I take a shower.
After that I should make an easy breakfast and
On all it at me should leave in aggregate 30-40 minutes.
Concerning a breakfast that in the morning I eat only bread and the tea, any coffee and heavy food.
For work it is sometimes difficult to reach because a lot of people go in the morning for work.
I reach by the bus, but when there is no a place I should go on foot.
It not small distance, it is necessary to go about 30-40 minutes, therefore I time in advance on road.
When in the winter coldly it so is not pleasant in a frost - 30 degrees to go for work in a current of 30 minutes, you represent?
Since the morning I am am expected by a lot of work with papers.
Every day at us in 10: 00 am the meeting between colleagues is held.
Thereby I have one hour from 9 00 to 10 00 to prepare documents, therefore it is not necessary to lose minutes.
All year is a lot of work, but now the next 2 its months not so it is a lot of,
The boss promised to me to give even a vacation in 1 month, and it is probably a little earlier.
I was not 2 years in holiday and I wish to have a rest.
Already by a dinner I get tired a little.
From 14.00 till at me a lunch break.
Usually I bring a dinner with me but if it is impossible that I I go to a dining room which is 5 minutes of walking from my work.
I still have 30 minutes of a free time, I spend him behind reading, but
Now this time will leave at possibility to write to you the letter.
Other part of the working day passes faster.
At 17:30 I finish my working day and I gather home.
I come home approximately at 18.30 but if my parents are not present still the house,
That I start to make in advance a supper that when they have come all was ready, they get tired very much on work.
Often happens that in the evenings we gather in a circle of acquaintances and relatives.
If the help to my parents in house affairs I always help is necessary.
After my working day and a supper I usually met my best and unique girlfriend, her name Katya,
We walk and we visit various cultural places, cinema, we go shopping and we consider all that to interestingly us.
Often we go to admire the nature, it only in the spring and in the summer when the beauty of the nature blinds charm literally
Also we visit theatres, museums, we go to church in the target.
Already at 23:00 I lay down in a bed, I need to get enough sleep well before work.
I hope that it was interesting to you to learn as usually there passes my day.
Now I will leave you in hope soon to see your answer.
With the best regards, your girlfriend Nadya

Hello the darling XXXXXX.
How today your mood? How at you business on work?
I hope that my letters not looking even for your bad mood, improve your mood and cause
Smile on your person!
It so? Only tell to me sincerely.
Your letters always bring to me huge pleasure.
My mood to become at once better. I with the big interest start to read, answer questions.
I try to devote with each letter gradually you during my life.
We are connected to you one desire, one idea, to meet it of the most suitable partner for a life and a family, but I
I do not wish to hide from you, that I any more do not wish to search for anybody, I have you.
Therefore I since this moment somewhat value our relations.
That you write all expensively for me and it is pleasant, you the unique person.
Only do not accept my words as flattery because I do not like to flatter people.
I speak that that starts with my thoughts and my heart.
While my heart is silent for you, but inside, in a shower fire of hope of the best with you burns.
I would like to ask you what do you think of painting?
In any case I wish to tell to you that today there was an unusual day.
Today I and my girlfriend Katya went on the All-Russia exhibition of Russian painters.
I love all that that is connected with art, I am final not the fanatic, but it is pleasant to me, the desire to look at it proceeds from within.
And as this exhibition comes for some days I have decided not to wait for last day and has released time to go there.
Certainly hardly I had to release for this purpose time because my boss does not love when I take day of rest on work.
Tell to me about a vacation on your work?
I would like to sit certainly somewhere in a romantic place and to speak with you on various themes, I feel
You as fine interlocutor because you can interest in letters.
One more question XXXXXX is very interesting to me.
How at you affairs with kitchen are? At you rich ethnic cuisine?
I think that in this plan of Russia to eat than be proud as we have set of various national recipes.
I very much like to cook food. In me interest to preparation of various recipes already since the childhood has woken up and
When I was small I always turned about my mum on kitchen and tried to help it.
My mum gave me certainly lessons in preparation and lessons in a life.
She has told: 'It is the big positive aspect in the woman when she can prepare, as heart of the man lays
Through its stomach '. You understand that it means?
You could list me at least 2 dishes which to you most of all like?
I will try that that I will recollect to tell about our cookery.
Certainly at us many national dishes for example Smetana.ýòî a surprising product which receive by
Processings of the milk received from a pet.
Smetana it is possible to add almost to all dishes: in soup, in meat dishes, it is possible to use with fruit and berries.
It is widely used with such Russian dish as pancakes.
Among my favourite dish there is such dish under the name 'golubcyu', this stewed meat with which fill cabbage sheet.
If in the future happens so we will be together undoubtedly I will make this dish for you!
In different regions of Russia as the big country has national dishes, I to you have told about our area.
It would be interesting to me to learn about kitchen and painting of other country.
I never abroad was a pity that to Russia, and had even no thought. I have visited very few cities of Russia and business
In that that I like to travel, is simple at me a lot of work.
Tell to me in the following letter in what you was the countries, whether often you travel?
I will wait very much your letter because you to me are not indifferent and already in me there is something to you. At you is?
I do not know as to transfer it....
Well, now I will leave you not on long.
Sincerely, your Russian girlfriend Nadya

Good afternoon my darling XXXXXX!!!
Today I could not wait the end of the working day faster to leave work,
To come to the computer to look the letter from you.
I have been assured that you will write to me.
I am more and more assured every day of our relations, but I do not want with confidence
To speak about our relations.
During our correspondence I have seen some fine qualities in you as in the man,
Undoubtedly gravity of your letters their heat is a prominent aspect, but there are such qualities as kindness.
I feel good from people and when I receive your letter, I open it, I read and with everyone
In the line your letter fills me me with optimism on the future.
If you to me something tell that I visually I represent these moments.
I think that to understand it to you it is necessary to test the same.
I do not know that you test from my letters and that you think of me as about your potential partner.
I write you the letter and I understand as without your presence difficultly in the letter to transfer you all those
Which I could give feelings being near to you.
It is impossible to abuse destiny for that that we live not nearby, for that that we cannot go to restaurant together.
We should, in my opinion to be grateful to that that it has given us and if desire of gratitude
There is that to me it seems that it already means much.
It means that we should have nevertheless now any thoughts on that as to us to continue our relations.
It seems to me that when one person has initially plans and desires in relation to another
To the person that it accordingly has certain resoluteness.
Before beginning partner search on the Internet for me was a riddle as we can overcome
The distance if at us will arise requirement for the friend the friend, I thought as I (the simple girl), which
Never was abroad from financial difficulties in a life can go to other country even at
Huge desire. Surprisingly, the truth XXXXXX?
The unique thought which does not give to me, and did not give rest, it is such case when I will have feelings
And they will be vain then it will be one more scar on my heart.
I hope that at us not to happen it.
XXXXXX, today when I went along the street I dreamt of the future, even to tell dreamt much if fairly to tell,
I felt that as-as if you hold my hand, probably you thought of me during this moment and consequently me have visited
Such dreams. It can be? You think of me? How it is frequent?
On work I weigh day I think of you when I go for work, I also think of you, what you have made with me? To me it is final
Very pleasantly, but probably I should not give in to my emotions.
Well, I learn about that what from you to me thoughts, but now I would like to ask you one important question
If in me something arises to you, I can hope for that that you will support me, instead of will tell that it is nonsenses?
You will be serious to my feelings?
Before to answer this question I ask you to think well!!!
Now I easy finish this letter and I wait for your answer to my questions.
Your pensive girl Nadya

Hello my love XXXXXX!!!
How are you???
At me all is remarkable.
As I also promised to you, today I have visited travel agency and have learnt the information on travel to you.
I think that the information for us important to know even if it will be impossible to meet for us.
The employee of agency has explained me all in details.
At first I need to make all papers it is required about 6 days.
I will need to issue the visa and the passport. Only with these documents I can go to you.
All it for me will make agency, I only need to pay for it 545$.
Also that all has been successfully executed and that the visa has
been approved under the contract it is required to pay at once the approximate price for flight,
That after performance of documents I could order flight to your nearest airport (which you to me will tell) that you could meet me
The approximate prices for plane flight in your country costs nearby 1040$, there and back.
Thereby you see that all trip will cost approximately 1585$.
When I left travel agency that at me there was an awful mood as I have understood that to me not to cope with this trip,
As at me now very difficult financial position.
It is real that you have stretched me a hand and we could meet in my vacation?
Your answer very important for me.
I think that together we are able that that to undertake and meet on my vacation.
It is very important for me as I have fallen in love with you.
I would like to appear near to you though for an instant, any letter would not replace an instant of a meeting.
You agree?
Favourite XXXXXX, now I will finish the letter and I will look forward to hearing from you.
I hope that you will have good news to me.
I love you my prince XXXXXX.
Your future wife Nadya

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I don't know of any country where banks are open on Sundays. This scammer is so stupid, she/he told me Saturday that she did not know how I could send her the money and that she would check with the bank tomorrow. Today she sent me this letter saying she went to the bank and found out. Well, this arrived in my inbox at 8:15PM Eastern time zone USA. Yoshkar-ola is 8 hours different whcih would make it 4:15AM Monday morning. Obviously another lie that she originally didn't know how I could send the money. She definitely did not find this out at a bank today.

I finally found out her full name is Nadezhda Zhirkina. Here was the letter:

Hello my loved XXXXXX
I am happy that you have agreed to help me with payment of my trip and performance of my dream.
I am am overflowed with feelings after all our meeting now I am possible also that of it is very happy.
Today I have woken up in very good mood, my mum since the morning has prepared pancakes
And we with it drank tea and talked about you and about my plans))
I have learnt today all concerning that as you can help to pay to me all.
There is such system of remittances as Western Union which allows to help people on distance.
I think that if you go to your bank and learn about this system you will understand as to help me.
As to me the manager of bank has told, that from me some data that you be required to you
Could carry out transfer of money. I give them to you:
Name.......... Nadezhda
Surname...... Zhirkina
City............ Yoshkar Ola (It is the most nearest city to me in
which there is a Western Union).
The country.......... Russia
The bank address...... AK BARS BANK
Yoshkar Ola, 424000
You should give to me also the data and tell to me when you can help me.
Favourite XXXXXX, I very much love you and with impatience I will
wait for that moment when you will meet me at the airport.
As soon as I receive your help, I at once the same day will begin preparation of documents.
I am happy that soon I will see you, you have made me the happiest woman on the earth.
I love you my prince XXXXXX.
I hope very soon to receive from you the letter.
Yours Nadya.
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