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Name: Owusu Stephen



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She is building relationships aiming for a meeting abroad and and claim money for processing documents and travel expenses.


2009-10-10, 17:06:56   (updated: )
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2009-10-10, 17:06:56   (updated: )
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2009-10-10, 17:06:56   (updated: )
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2009-10-10, 17:06:56   (updated: )
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2009-10-12, 02:25:35
Short background:
After over 10 out of 20 years of marrige in where I took the decision to keep the family happy dispite I was was unhappy with my wife.

After that I went into a dating site and this woman contacted me, she wanted to find I husband to marry. I first just replied politely but seriously, -That I was not the guy for her, I getting out of something she wanted to get into. She kept on writing and sent pics of a very beatyful woman, so I thought, -lets play a long and see what this leads to, but I could feel that it was something wrong but all the way even though I hoped not.

I have not paid any money since I detected this scam and I hope no one else will after this informat. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

---5:Email- ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Hello Dear, Thanks for the mail. i hope you are doing fine and having a good day, i'm doing fine and having a wonderful afternoon. i have enjoyed your mail as i always do and want you to know that i went to bed last night with a vision of you next to me. I slept like a baby all night, because I was not feeling alone. When I awoke this morning to see if it was real or if it was a dream, realty hit me that it was only a dream. one day, I know that you will be right next me, and that I will not have to dream of it again because you will be right there so we can hold, hug. Baby, I long to be there with you so I can help build you and support you, so that we can accomplish a whole lot together as husband and wife.

Love always,

----First chat conversation-------(first small talk excluded)------------------------------
Owusu :
i think i told you about making enquiry the day you called, British airways has a flight which will arrive 15:00 in the afternoon and it's $1800 and with the processing of my documents for travelling will all add up to $2300

To walk on a beach and hold your hand, o god, yes my dear!

I forgot, it's so easy to forget that you're not european

That was not cheap Honey

Owusu :
yes it's not cheap at all and can't afford that money after paying my rent fee recently

The documents? ? Is that something that you have to prepare that's a one pay thing so your free to get in and out of Ghana? ? ?

Owusu :
yes dear, things are different here in Ghana. i have to do some medicals, police reports and some other few things to clarify myself

Okay, then we have to start planning fixing prerquisites for us being able to meet.

Owusu :
yes and hope we can start early because they said it will take about three weeks to do everything for me

Clerify to me dear. is it a one thing payment for you to get in and out of Ghana or is it a one time pay? ? ?

If it's a one time travel pay it might be better for me to come to Ghana to meet you? ? ?

Owusu :
yes after doing the medicals and those stuffs i can trave to anywhere i want anytime

i will just buy a plane ticket and travel any time i want

do you understand?

Yes I think so honey.

Owusu :
---it continued and when this line dropped down I new thing where not right---------------
Owusu :
i do understand you but asking you for money to finance a trip we have discussed and planned together should bring a sadden change, what will 2300 do for me or you. is $2300 worth more than our love?

------I small talked me out of it ------and ended-----

And we had a very dry chat the day after, when I just tried to get more contact information which she avoided trained as she is

Patheticly I had grown feeling for her and wanted to feel sure about everything. Ghana, I had no clue about the country or of I her information about cost of processing documents where true or false so to the Ambassy of Ghana:

-- 'Visa, medical costs and processing of documents?'--

Dear sirs,

I've met a lady on an Internet dating site and we have found serious and munual interest in eachother as far as I know. But there are so many gould diggers out there so even if I do want to trust here I have to check with you to feel safe. We have decided to meet halfway and now she explains that it will cost her $2300 for visa, medical clearence and processing of documents? And want's me to send her cash. Is this trustworthy information from her??

Thank you in advance!

Kind regards,


And the reply
--RE: Visa, medical costs and processing of documents?--
torsdag 8 oktober 2009 12.52
'Ghana Embassy Copenhagen'
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This is a scam. We advise you stop dealing with these fraudsters. All the best.


----That was my story and lesson in life, I lost no money but I hope this information is useful to someone and that it helps to stop this evil person---------------



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