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Name: lyudmila lebedeva


Country: Russia
city: Saint-Petersburg
Sadovaya, st. 3, apt.8
Postal code: 190571

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From: Alton Dutton []
Sent: 18 November 2009 09:06
To: Brian Hull
Subject: I want to write you

Hello! My name is Lyudmila. and i am from Russia. I found your email and
i want to write you.
Iam searching my real love and looking for a dating in Internet.
Probably you are surprised to receive this letter but if you are
interesting then you can answer me only to my personal e-mail: I will wait.

Hello Brian!
In this letter i'd like to give you more information about me. i'm 29
y.o. my weight is 54-56 kg and i'm about 171 cm high. i'm trying to
keep fit so i'm in good shape. I live in city St-Petersburg it is in
european part of russia. i share the flat with my daddy and brother. i
work as a teacher of art learning children how to draw. i love my job.
it gives me a good chance to communicate with children as i don't have
any myself. that's why i want to meet a person to create a family.

I dated a person from russia but he deceived me. i found out that he
had serious relations with another girl. that was rather hard to me..
. i don't want to deal with russian men anymore as they do respect
women and very many of them are alcoholic or drug abused you might
happen to know... i tell it to you because i want to be honest with
you. i don't want any misunderstanding and mistrusting.

i don't trust people since that but i'd love to try with you. i try to
follow a proverb 'don't wish a person smith you don't wish to
yourself'. it would be perfect if all the people followed it. i hope
you understand my letters because i'm not perfect at english. i
understand pretty well, either i can talk. i like this language i
studied it at school and later at university. i try my best to have a
good command of english. i think it's enough for the first letter.
tell me what you think about all this. if you want to learn more you
can write on my mail. i'd be very glad if you did so.
look forward to hearing from you

Re: Hi my new friend Brian.

Hi my new friend Brian! this is Lyudmila! I'm so happy to receive a
letter from you. Franckly speaking, I didn't hope that such a man as
you're would answer me. It's very pleasant for me! Now i'm going to
tell you about my hobbies and interests.
I like plenty of things. My favourite colour is a colour of red roses.
I'm fond of reading stories about love. I'm rather romantic you see. I
listen to different kinds of music. It makes no difference to me. But
the music must be beautiful. I like classical things like Beethoven
(especially ' a lunar sonata '). Also I go for 'Roxette', Celin Dion,
Madonna. And I like 'Scorpions', their song 'The wind of change' makes
me cry. At the same time i listen to pop music i like Avril Lavin
'when you're gone' that's a thing! Sjmetimes i prefer R&B you know
Justin Timberlake, Nelly Furtado. Very rythmical music. I don't go to
disco clubs often i prefer staying home making myself comfortable on
the sofa in front of TV.
I like 'Beautiful woman' with Julia Roberts. This story is worth
admiring. I'm fond of films where love wins, it is so touching! . I
also love films about residual friendship (' We were the soldier ',
'the Blade ', ' the Brotherhood of the wolf ', 'Gladiator'). From a
comedy I love comedies where plays Jim Carry: his unforgetable 'Mask',
' Silly and still Silly ', also love film of ' Criminal literary dust'
and film with Al Pachino ' Aroma of women '. Have you watched them?
What do you think about 'The house of evil-1,2,3'? I watched them but
there're too many violence there to my mind. As for the leisure time,
I keen on sport as i've already told you. I love tennis and badmington
in the open air. Also i like swimming and just sunbathing. It's nice
when you want to relax liying on the beach.When winter begins it's
rather cold here. Children go toborganning and snowfighting. I'm fond
of skating and skiing when the ponds are frosen over and the air is
fresh. I also enjoy dancing. It's a wonderful way to have time. You
see i'm a bit romantic so i'm fond of travelling though i can't afford
myself to travel a lot. I love sunsets and sunrises. It's amazing! I
like reading, and I love children very much, and because of this I
dreamed to become a teacher when i was a little girl. When I have free
time, I like reading. I love different books: about love and about
risk, sometimes I like detectives. My favourite authors - in general
from the Russian Literature are for example, Chehov, Turgenev and
Tolstoy.What do I wait from our correspondence? I'm a gentle
andsociable girl. I want to be loving and to be loved. I want
toreceive care and attention from the person I love. I'll givehim all
my tenderness and love. I'll admire him and our love.I want to share a
remarkable life with beloved and all my private thoughts. I would like
to share all my private secrets with him. I search for the reliable
and honest person, which loves me and estimatesme. I'll stay by him
every second when he requires me. I want to have steady family and
children. I'll be a my family. I think, that the family will be for me
the most important thing on the Earth. I search for the person who
will be mybeloved, my friend, my husband, and father of my children.
And I wish my dream come true. I really dream from the future steady
family. I'll be a happywoman with such a family. But I should add here
that children are very important, but, first of all my attention will
be devoted to my husband as children become the adult, and, they will
work independently, while a husband - a unique person with whom I'll
stay for the whole my life. Here i would like to put some questions.
Have you ever had serious relationships? If so, why did it stopped?
Have you ever been married? What do you dream of? What is your perpose
in life? What do you expect from our relations? What kind of people is
your wife to be? I'd be very glad if you answer me. I hope that my
letter is not too long. Didn't you get tired with reading it? Could
you send me more pictures? I hope you understand what i write you.
Hope to here from you soon! Yours sencerely, Lyudmila.
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Hello dear Brian!
I hope I can call you a friend because you seem to be a very nice
person. So I'd like to continue our correspondence to know you better.
I feel you're the one I could have serious relationships with.
I must confess therer's a new feeling in me.
I remember it since I was in love for the first time. When I was 12, I
fell in love with one boy as it often occurs in school, but now when
he became an adult he drinks a lot and is completely unreliable.
Unfortunately, alcoholic drinks are an unresistable temptation for
most of our guys.
I don't understand it at all. I don't like having a lot of drink, I
don't smoke either. Though I can have some wine on parties. I prefer
red wine.
What do you like?
I'm a person who desire to find true love and I believe that for all
of us there's our second half in this big world. The only thing we
have to do is to start listening to each other.
I'm so happy to meet you, I want you to understand that I begin
enjoying my life since our correspondence. That's true. Brian, all I
want to tell you - you are an increasingly interesting person and I
really would love to become someone you will trust and support. I'm a
kind of person who makes her choice only once and very seriously. Hope
you understand what I mean.
If you want such person to be with you till the rest of your life, you
only have to believe me , to try to understand me and to support. I
think that you won't decieve me? I only need respect and estimation.
You know today I was going home with my friend (she works with me) and
I saw a pair: a boy and a girl. They were so happy! They were hugging
each other and smiling. I tought of you immidiately. If we went
walking like them, everybody would envy us. I admire the ability of
people to love till the end of their days . You know I'm romantic, I
like watching the stars and just the sky. Sometimes I wish I could fly
to touch them. I'd be so happy if I meet a person who will care of me.
Unfortunately, there's no one here.
But luckily I met a girl who advised me to try corresponding via
I-net. She helped me and I chose you from thousands of men. You can
see how I look like on pictures I send you. Write me what do you think
of it. If you don't like smth , tell me honestly because I don't want
us to have secrets from each other. I won't take offences.
Tell me more about you: your family, friends, hobbies.
I feel crazy about you, I want to know more and more!
I think, that then our relations can become really serious and who
knows, probably, for ever.
Write me back as soon as you can.
Have a good day!

Re: Hello my best friend Brian

Hello my best friend Brian!
Thanks for the letter back and for the shown interest in me.
It is very pleasant for me, that you do not forget about me.
I think that we're becoming good friends. I feel that our friendship
becomes stronger every day. I'm glad I wasn't mistaken in you and I'll
try not to disappoint you. You know during this small period of
correspondence as you have already understood you became a part of my
life. I'm getting very upset when I have no new messages from you. But
if I have a new one , this really makes my day! It makes my spirit go
up. I would like to tell to you about my family.
My brother works in the furniture industry as a joiner. His name is
Andrey. He is 31. He joins different parts of wooden furniture . I
would call him 'golden arms'.
I also have a grandmother, she is already in her middle eighties(84).
When I was a little girl, I used to come to see her on holidays and in
summer. I enjoyed staying with her and my grandfather a lot. He was 5
years her senior. After his death granny's health worsened badly. We
tried to persuade her of moving to our place but she doesn't want to.
She says she'll stay where she was happy with her beloved . We respect
her feelings and we wouldn't insist on it but we simply worry about
her. My father works as a bodyguard in FSA ( Federal Security Agency)
so I can't tell you more about his job- it's a secret even for me.
Sometimes I behave childishly, I'm simply too trustful. So it's easy
to deceive me.
For example, I never go to buy things to the market. I always buy
things by more expensive price than they cost. So I usually take a
friend of mine with me. When I have free time I like be sitting
somewhere thinking about various things. I like dreaming about future
maybe you are laughing reading it but I'm rather thoughtful person. I
look at the world through the pink-coloured glasses. Perhaps, it isn't
always good.
I would like you to write me more about yourself not only about your
passtime but your character, feelings. What are your feelings and
intentions to me? I-net is a greatest achievment of peole. Due to it I
have met such a nice person as you are. Isn't it amazing that two
persons can talk to each other like this? We are so far but I don't
feel it. You seem to be so close when I read your letters! Brian, tell
me how are you? Are you busy all day long?
It's so bad I have no telephone! It's a problem in Russia
unfortunately. But I simply have to hear your voice! Maybe I would be
able to call on your number from somewhere. I can't wait to talk to
you personally!
I always think of you. It makes no difference wether I work or free.
I think of children, they are very important. Children bring happiness
to our lifes. It's our aim to grow then as good-natured, kind and
honest persons. We should be examplary parents for them and show good
moral traits of character. I dream of meeting a person who will be a
good father for our children will take care of us and will be the most
loving man. You see I share all my dreams with you because I trust
you. Sometimes I think That I have met a person who will bring
kindness and tenderness to our family. Brian every day I wait for your
letters and miss you terribly. I write you with huge pleasure! Have a
nice day honey!
Write me please it's neccessary for me like an air.

Re: Hello my lovely Brian!

Hello my lovely Brian!
I'm so happy to receive a letter from you. When I get it it brings me
joy and highest spirit. My heart is filled with emotions though it's
difficult for me to express myself in english. I feel that every day
we become closer and closer to each other. I'm sure you don't forget
about me within a minute. I also think of you a lot. I think 'What is
He doing now? How is His day?'
I really enjoy reading your letters they're so kind and full of real
interest. Noone ever wrote me like you. It's rather cool now here but
I'm fond of walking in the open-air. I like nature and animals.
Especially kittens and puppies. They're so marvellous! Do you like
going outside? What kind of trees grow in your locality?
Here there're lots of birches, maples, oak-trees and fur-trees, of
course. Today i and my Dad went to the grandmother's and he told her
I'm corresponding with a foreigner. I thought she would be strongly
against it but to my great surprise she wished me a good luck and
heppiness. She was so glad that I'd found a person who appreciates and
respect me and whom I'm so interested in. This person is you my dear
Brian. I feel this way now.
We have a bath in the village. It is very popular in Russia. it' s our
pride I can say. Have you heard about it? If no, I'll explain to you.
Russian bath is a small wooden building made of logs. There's a bake
there and a chimney. It's very hot there about 90 degrees Celceus.
Like your sauna. We have a wash here. It's very pleasant and good for
health. Especially when you dive into cold pond after this. My daddy
was aganst correspondence with a foreigner but when I showed him your
letters he said you're a very nice person and deserves respect . By
the way, he sends his best regards to you.
He's sure we'll be close friends and we should trust each other
because there's no real relationships without honesty and respect. I
try not to think about a long distance between us. It's hard to me to
realise that you're so far. But with every letter I feel that this
distance is becoming sorter and shorter. I've never been abroad but
I'm fond of travelling. So it makes no difference to me where to be
happy. If it is neccessary to go on the other side of the earth to my
husband, well I'll do it. I dream of finding true love and being happy
together. I think that is very important for every person. Don't you
think so?
I want to find a man with strong will and good sence of humour to love
and support me. I enjoy conversations with a clever and intellectual
person so I'd be happy to spend hours with my husband talking in front
of the fireplace. I think it's time to finish a letter.
Write me what you think about all this.
Looking forward to hearing from you.
Your Lyudmila.
Re: Hello my precious Brian!

Hello my precious Brian!
I hope my previous letter hasn't cause your confusion. You might be
surprised 'Why is she so impatient?' I'm answering you that I couldn't
hold these feeling in me anymore so they escaped outside. I didn't
know how to tell you about it and not to look like a little girl who
has fallen in love with a prince on the white horse. I was afraid you
wouldn't understand me. I've never felt this way before. I think God
created you specially for me, and if you even wanted it, you will be
the only man I would belong to.
You letters always bring comfort to my heart when I remember we're so
far from each other. Those moments you seem to be so close to me. I'm
sure that it'll be always warm and comfortable with you even in the
coldest weather. I believe you are the man I've been searching for all
my life . I'm so lonely here without you, I miss you terribly! I hold
all your letters with me printed. And when I feel lonelyness I read
them and realise that I'm not alone. That makes me a little bit
happier. Sometimes I think if we met somewhen and stay together even
for several minutes, it would be the happiest day in my life. That's
the only thing I desire. Is there any way for our meeting I wonder? I
wish it was possible... Tomorrow I'll go to one of the travel agencies
and find out about the possibility of travelling to your country. I
must ask you before- do you object my coming to you? Let me know what
you think of it, if you like the idea of my coming over there or not.
To love all ages are obedient. I completely understand your character
and it makes it quite easy to me to open all my heart and thoughts to
you. I believe there're four sourses love depends on: these're
understanding, trust, honesty and respect. These are the main
principles of love and I think noone can create love without them.
Maybe I write you too much about my thoughts but I want you to know
everything about me. Of course, when two people love each other they
come across some problems, misunderstanding and disappointments. But
finally they come to compromises and the Big Victory what is Love and
Tender Family. If you have love in your soul, you don't need anything
else. Love overwhelms you and the only thing you need is to make your
lover happy. I think everyone desires such relationships. I would be
so happy if you could call me you great love for ages!
If you doubt abot me, you should tell me immediately. Maybe I say smth
you don't like and so on.It's important to be honest with each other.
I'm confessing I have no reason to doubt about you. Your letters are
filled with such tenderness and support that I can't help trusting you
in everything.
I can't but say you're the most wonderful person I've ever met.
I started feeling something more than friendship to you much before
but I was afraid to confess in it even to myself. It's long time ago I
felt a warm feeling of love to you I guess.
I'm waiting for your letter with impatience.
Tell me about your emotions.
With greatest tenderness,

Re: Hello Brian, my love!

Hello Brian, my love! How are you doing today? Hope everything is
fine. I think that all people are lunatics in love. They depand on
their second halves completely. Love makes them behave like crazy
people. Perhaps that's not bad. It causes strange actions sometimes.
If love is a poison I would prefer be given this poison every day.
Only the person who is in love can fullfill a bath with champagne for
the lover, only he can give his beloved hundreds of roses and spend
the whole night singing songa for his love. That's the most wonderful
thing in the world. To feel that you need someone so badly that you
can't help thinking of Him every minute. To feel that someone need you
to be able to breathe. Your letters are so tender and warm! I never
heard such words from anyone. I think that russian men simply don't
know these word. Your words're so pleasant for me that it brings me to
the sky! Sometimes I feel so lonely here during weekends. I have got
some friends but they're not you. Since I met you they are not enough
for me. I can't emagine how I could live without you. You showed me
what real life is, filled with emotions and expectations. I'm so happy
I found you Brian! I thought A person can live without love as I did.
I thought it's better not to love than feel hurt and humiliation one
day. But now I know that love can avoid disappointment. You tought me
how to be pleased with your life, to be satisfied with every day.
Every morning when I wake up I think of you Brian. And I know that
noone can hurt me because there's you in my life - so understanding
and tender. I've been searching for a person who'll be worth trusting.
And I've found you finally. This person may be my second half I think
sometimes. I'll fill the emptiness in his soul, And in he'll be the
one in my heart. Person needs several things to be happy and now I
know that Love is the most important. I tried to find love here but
iwas given only roughness and disrespect. It hurt me horribly.But in
the end I met a person who I can dream about future with. That's you
honey. Lie spoilts relationships. That's why I ask you not to deceive
me. You know - bitter true is better then sweet lie. I'm sure you're
an honest person and you'r not going to deceive me. Am I right? I hope
I am. I'm afraid of my heart being broken again. I really want to come
to you and to try to create serious relationships with you. This is
essential now for me. I talked to the menager of the travel agency and
tomorrow he is going to tell me all the details of my trip. He said
it's possible for them to organise my coming to you. They've already
experienced such trips. I hope we'll come to agreement. This agency
seems to be very reliable. I'll write you tomorrow or the day after
tomorrow about our contract.

If love is rain, I'm looking for thunder
If soul is a ray, Im searching for sun
If loving heart is happiness, I waiting for you...

Lots of kisses to you!

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