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Gold digger Valeria Novitskaya from Ukraine

 

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Valeria Novitskaya from Ukraine, after they found out that she is a gold digger.


Here is some identifying information:


Valeria Novitskaya
12 Prodolnaya Street
House 44
Flat 91
Nikolaev City
54000
Ukraine.
Mobile number +380633513531
D.O.B.. 30th October 1985 

Comments:

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2016-01-13, 11:16:02
anonymous  
I guess Valeria just sells the gifts guys buy for her. I too bought her jewelery, i-phone,i-pad etc. Which she claimed to have had all stolen on one of her visits to Sharm Egypt. She wanted cash to replace it all.
Her latest boyfriend is an Odessa Olgaric's son Eugeniy Sergeevich Deidei. He has a facebook account but as of yet i can not find a VK account for him. He has influence in political circles and use to work in the Police in Odessa until he was arrested for violent robberies. Surprise surprise. No charges were bought against him. I guess money talks in corrupt Ukraine.
2016-01-14, 15:31:00
anonymous  
I guess bad girls are attracted to bad guys.
Valeria had quite the scams going ... She probably had enough jewlery and gifts to open up a pawn store !!!
She looks so sweet and innocent in some pictures and like an evil bitch in others.
2016-01-15, 12:10:03
anonymous  
She now owns Ekzotour Company a travel agents in Nikolaev and Fit Club a gym in Nikolaev. Who says crime does not pay.
2016-01-15, 13:18:22
anonymous from United States  
She is smart - so she had an exit strategy. I wonder what Kattie and Julia are doing ... they were parasites feeding off Valeria's kills.
2016-01-16, 05:21:41
anonymous  
Valeria always has a sob story where she needs your hard earned cash. She has always got a tale (lie) that that needs your money to resolve it. As soon as she says she loves you. You know your in trouble. Valeria, Kattie and Julia are all worthless parasites.
2016-01-18, 11:50:37
anonymous  
A glamorous bi-polar blond who uses her good looks and body to get what she wants. (usually your hrd earned cash) even though only has sex with about 50% of the victims. As soon as Valeria has got what she wants she moves on to her next prey. She craves power and money and cares not what she has to do to get it. She is very smart with a really foul temper if something gets in her way.
2016-01-19, 06:54:57
anonymous from United States  
She's bi-polar ? Really?
2016-01-20, 01:57:05
anonymous  
There is certainly something not right with her. She has an explosive temper when she does not get her own way. worse than a spoilt child. I was amazed when she exploded at someone in Odessa. 2 minutes later she was all smiles and sweetness again.
2016-01-20, 06:11:36
anonymous from United States  
Never saw that side of her ...
I thought she could be crude at times.
She was always super nice ...she played me like a fiddle.
I thought she was poor just making it by with the help of her mother who watched Dasha while Valeria worked at the travel agency. Never knew why we almost always met in Odessa.

She wrote poetry and said she was religious ... I am fairly religious so she was mirroring me.
All an act ... She probably was chatting and writing emails to twenty or thirty men at the same time ...
Hard to believe what a scam sites HRB etc are.
2016-01-20, 10:26:14
anonymous  
06-11-36

She did the same to me. I feel a fool for believing all her lies. Like husband killed in car crash when Dasha was a few weeks old etc. When i said i would come to Nikolaev to see her she gave me some BS story for why it was better to meet in Odessa. I never did get to Nikolaev. She is a great actress, she probably inherited her acting skills from her father. The whole of the Ukrainian dating scene is a giant scam. Pity governments do not take action against them as what they do is fraud anybody else would be up before a judge.
2016-01-20, 12:52:22   (updated: 2016-01-20, 13:05:13)
Miss Marple from United States  
RE: 2016-01-18, 11:50:37
anonymous

A glamorous bi-polar blond who uses her good looks and body to get what she wants. (usually your hrd earned cash) even though only has sex with about 50% of the victims. As soon as Valeria has got what she wants she moves on to her next prey. She craves power and money and cares not what she has to do to get it. She is very smart with a really foul temper if something gets in her way.

RE:2016-01-20, 01:57:05
anonymous

There is certainly something not right with her. She has an explosive temper when she does not get her own way. worse than a spoilt child. I was amazed when she exploded at someone in Odessa. 2 minutes later she was all smiles and sweetness again.

Have you seen any medical records that supports your statement that she is Bipolar? Are you the same poster that wonders if Valeria has HIV also? These statements are only assumptions made by you, it is very easy to draw all kind of conclusions of an person when you do not have all the answers. This is a typical behavior in a person when feeling violated or victimized. You are scammed by a person that is most likely a pure sociopath or narcissist.
If Valeria ever felt remorse, guilt or shame she would most likely call you and say I am sorry that I did you wrong, right? But she never will as scammers that cons people out of money for their own purpose has lack of empathy and this is why you feel like this robbed, abused and worthless and No justice done. You will probably never get all the answers you would like to have either unfortunately. I am sure all of you that have been scammed by Valeria that this is a hard lesson for you learn in life.
Please go into the link below and read for your own healing:

99.99% of what a sociopath says is a lie.
Deliberate manipulation in lies, upon layers of lies, upon lies. They have no conscience.


“When individuals operate without a conscience
they are able to do horrible things we would never dream of doing –
and there is no moral compass or guilt feelings to stop them.”
– Dr. Deborah Ettel, PhD. Psychology

http://www.truelove..ociopath/
2016-01-21, 02:31:26
anonymous from United States  
Interesting dialogue.

I think Valeria is a sociopath and a narcissist. I wonder how she can be happy.

I hope Valeria shows some remorse ... she did not with me. I asked her why she did it and she told me she did not answer to me... she wanted me to be happy but it didn't work out with us ... happens all the time. It didn't dawn on me until maybe a year afterwards that I was just a little piece in a much bigger game for her. She never liked me let alone loved me. I was just a game piece that she manipulated using all the scamming tools she had. I missed all the signs - you see them so clearly after you have been scammed. Like Miss Marple says we will not get closure. It sucks to be used but it is a valuable lesson. I have never been scammed again. I am very careful who I give money to and I double and triple check every sob story I hear from relatives or friends that ask for money. I trust people but I check things out. Maybe Valeria was a blessing in disguise for me. I moved on met a wonderful woman, beautiful loving nice ...we married. We just had a bay girl a year ago. So maybe Valeria and being scammed was a lesson for me a painful one. I come back here I guess looking for closure from that painful time in my life.

I wish there was more I could do to prevent other men from losing time, money and from being hurt so deeply.
2016-01-21, 02:31:26
anonymous from United States  
Interesting dialogue.

I think Valeria is a sociopath and a narcissist. I wonder how she can be happy.

I hope Valeria shows some remorse ... she did not with me. I asked her why she did it and she told me she did not answer to me... she wanted me to be happy but it didn't work out with us ... happens all the time. It didn't dawn on me until maybe a year afterwards that I was just a little piece in a much bigger game for her. She never liked me let alone loved me. I was just a game piece that she manipulated using all the scamming tools she had. I missed all the signs - you see them so clearly after you have been scammed. Like Miss Marple says we will not get closure. It sucks to be used but it is a valuable lesson. I have never been scammed again. I am very careful who I give money to and I double and triple check every sob story I hear from relatives or friends that ask for money. I trust people but I check things out. Maybe Valeria was a blessing in disguise for me. I moved on met a wonderful woman, beautiful loving nice ...we married. We just had a bay girl a year ago. So maybe Valeria and being scammed was a lesson for me a painful one. I come back here I guess looking for closure from that painful time in my life.

I wish there was more I could do to prevent other men from losing time, money and from being hurt so deeply.
2016-01-21, 11:26:27
OJAS from United States  
Somewhere Miss Marple mentioned her good psychological observation on the grieving phases after a painful experience... Denial, Anger, Doubt, Rationalization, Acceptance.

Scam victim typically undergo many, or all of these phases, sometimes even switching between phases. It takes time, eventually they may reach a semblance of closure.

I can say one thing for sure, for most victims, the money is gone down the drain. But helping newbies itself has helped the emotional healing process. And whenever possible try to have fun at the expense of scammers. Some cultures actually believe that laughter is a natural medicine. This site has a dedicated humor thread http://www.delphifa..086_0.htm

Understand that delphians are sympathetic to victims, but spare nothing to poke fun at the scammer profession.
2016-01-21, 16:16:00
Miss Marple from United States  
RE:2016-01-21, 02:31:26
anonymous from United States

It takes time to heal completely from a scam and especially when not finding the closure that is needed to eventually move on and to be able to live a full normal life again. Having issues to be able to trust people can be difficult and often I hear victims say they cannot trust people within their own family or friends, the ones who actually has nothing do with any scams. Sometimes victims of scam can have hard to find a inner peace and can get severely damaged emotionally and financially, where the victim cannot find ways to move further and in these circumstances even professional help with counseling is the only way to help the victim to get over the scam eventually. Unfortunately the resources are still poor for scam victims out in the society as the knowledge among people what online scams are still connected with shame.

I am glad that you have found happiness again in life, and do not hesitate to post here for future victims as you know how it feels and therefor you are an excellent resource and help for others. We all have our own ways how we can find the closure for ourselves and in the way by as you say coming here helps you.
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