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Are you an American or Western European man exchanging emails with a girl from Russia? I was contacted by a girl who turned out to be a scammer. Reader Derrick put together some great advice how to detect scammers.
I only have one advice (#8) to add: If a Russian girl tells you that she will get a visa to the USA instead of inviting you, that is - under the current immigration law - a SURE sign that SHE LIES.

Here is the process how a Russian woman can come to the USA:

If she is considered a relatively young/ attractive woman (let's say under 40, hope I don't hurt anyone's feelings here), then there is virtually NO CHANCE THAT SHE GETS A TOURIST VISA TO THE USA. First the Russian Federation will not allow her to leave the country. Then, even if she was getting out, the USA will deny her admission. The reasoning is that she is considered a risk. How could she not be a risk? If she had family in Russia (husband, children) or a valuable business or real estate. Most likely the woman who writes you will be considered a risk. The only way for her to get a visa into the USA is this procedure:

  1. the foreign man visits her in her native area in Russia
  2. they get engaged during such a visit - take photos of the 2 of you together
  3. he flies back and applies for a K-1 visa. A K-1 visa is also known as Fiancee visa, used for marriage-based immigration
  4. once the K1 visa is granted, the girl can enter the USA and stay there for 3 months. By the end of these 3 months you HAVE to GET MARRIED or the girl has to go back home.
  5. if you get married, the girl gets a greencard and can work
  6. after 3 years of marriage, the girl can apply for a US citizenship. That's when they interview you to find out if it's a real marriage. She also has to answer some questions about US history, political system, etc etc.


Here are Derrick's tricks (1-7) that he uses immediately from the start:
  1. GOOGLE or websearch the first part of the scammers first emails and/or 'profile'. SEE HOW MANY OTHER SITES their listed on! RECORD THOSE SITES FOR FUTURE REFERENCE. THAT alone can give you a good idea IF your dealing with a scammer OR not.
  2. GOOGLE or websearch the return email address. See how many 'hits' come from that search and also note all the sites. (many times you'll see the email end up on a 'scammers list') IF YOU FIND THE EMAIL ADDRESS LISTED ON A SCAMMER LIST - don't bother further, your only fooling yourself - no matter what excuse they might give you.
  3. FROM THE START - ASK FOR SPECIFIC INFOMATION! A full name, address, phone number - something. OFFER THE SAME in exchange, except make it a P.O. box and a CELL PHONE rental card that will protect your identity. If you see your requests ignored, which you usually will, don't waste your time further.
  4. ALWAYS ASK SPECIFIC QUESTIONS that would REQUIRE A SPECIFIC ANSWER outside the use of FORM LETTERS. IF YOU FIND your questions go unaddress in your reply emails from 'them/her' - YOUR DEALING WITH A SCAMMER. Again, don't bother further.
  5. DON'T WAIT 6 MONTHS to offer to talk with the PROSPECT by phone! WHAT A TOTAL WASTE OF TIME! IF THERE IS CHEMISTRY OR APPEARS 'INTEREST' BETWEEN THE TWO OF YOU - then sieze the opportunity. ARRANGE A PHONE CALL! International rates to Russia and most places are reasonably cheap. IF YOU GET THE REPLY ' I'M SO POOR I DON'T HAVE ACCESS TO A PHONE' - drop the whole thing, your only wasting your time and WILL BE SCAMMED at some point in the future.
  6. PHOTO FLOOD! IF IT/SHE/HIM/THEM - LOOK TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE - THEN IT PROBABLY IS! MOST IF NOT ALL OF THE SCAMMES USE PHOTOS OF MODELS IN THEIR HOME COUNTRIES TO POSE ON THE NET IN THEIR PROFILE(s)! Consider this - IF THEY LOOK like a MODEL then tell you they're so poor they don't have access to a phone - YOUR BEING SCAMMED!

    ASK FOR A SPECIAL PHOTO TO BE TAKEN. IF YOU SENT YOURS, HAVE THEM TAKE A PHOTO SHOWING THEM HOLDING UP YOUR PHOTO IN THE PICTURE! That is a good 'scammer filter' - even the most adept with Photoshop will easily be spoted.

    BETTER STILL - ASK THEM TO TAKE A PHOTO THAT SHOWS THEM HOLDING A CURRENT NEWPAPER OF YOUR CHOICE OR THEIR COUNTRY, WITH A RESOLUTION THAT YOU CAN READ THE DATE! NOT some low grade - grainy photo! FEW WILL EVER DO THAT.

    AT THE LEAST - ASK THEM FOR A PHOTO of them wearing a specific combination of clothes and/or colors - something different then the usual 'model clothing' - most use to send out. OR AN OBJECT - TOASTER, ELECTRIC CLOCK, BY A COUCH, IN A ROCKING CHAIR something that would be very hard to use PHOTOSHOP to just PUT in another FILE PHOTO.

    *** IF this person is real or sincere, they won't mind doing this for you! ALSO - offer to do the same for their comfort also - that is only fair.
  7. IF THINGS GET SERIOUS - then ASK THEM TO DELETE ALL THEIR OTHER WEB PROFILE POSTS! CHECK ON THE ONES YOU NOTED EARLIER! Again, IF THEIR SINCERE - they will - happily as your their DREAM and future!
  8. If she talks about getting a visa or that she needs money to get a travel visa to the USA, she lies. See the proper course of action described at the top.



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2007-06-12, 11:08:47
anonymous from Mexico  
Real pretty Scammer.
Watch out !!!
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2007-06-12, 11:12:03
anonymous from Mexico  
Real pretty Scammer.
Watch out !!!
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2007-06-12, 11:13:04
anonymous from Mexico  
Real pretty Scammer.
Watch out !!!


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2007-06-12, 11:19:45
anonymous from Mexico  
Real pretty Scammer.
Watch out !!!

She is using the Name Ele
She says she is a Dentist and she is from Kirov.
The email she is using right now is tenderne_ss@yahoo.com

Watch out !!!

Thanks for the site guys !!!
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2007-06-12, 16:29:49
anonymous from United States  
I have been emailing back an fourth with a Russian woman now for about 4 months and i thought she was a scammer and after reading some of your posts i know for sure now she is one. She used the usual lines that she was getting a visa to come here and had almost all of the money and needed about 184 dollars and i thought this to be a really odd amount. Her handle is natalya sunshine and she emails as natalyasunshine@yahoo .com. Has anyone else out there came in contact with this person? If you have let me know my email is t79f@aol.com
2007-06-12, 16:36:03
anonymous from United States  
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this girl loveanasta@rambler.ru is also aleksa27love@yahoo.com she recently sent e-mails and a different photo to me


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2007-06-12, 21:01:22
anonymous from United States  

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2007-06-13, 10:20:40
anonymous from United States  
Anon that posted the last pic.How about a name and e-mail add???
2007-06-14, 20:45:18
anonymous from United States  
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This girl is very convincing. These are some of her letters and pics.. Good luck guys. She even sent pics of her sister. Cool huh
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2007-06-16, 18:15:32
anonymous from Netherlands  
I really don't think all these people are involved in any of this but their identity stolen from different sites. Photos, passports, etc. can be stolen from the web and used by international criminal organizations collecting money which ever way they can to be able to finance other illegal crimes. Poor people, probably been exposed without their knowledge and the criminals getting in other peoples minds and pockets. Instead of photos, all 'Scams' e-mail addresses should be traced.
BTW, NEVER SEND MONEY TO STRANGERS!!!
(:P
2007-06-16, 22:35:10
anonymous from United States  
The furthest you can get with an IP trace is the ISP.Plus many Russian scammer's use proxies so that will do no good at all! The main purp[ose of sites like this is to inform about scam's/scammer's and expose them.
2007-06-17, 13:58:10
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hi me again it looks like i m a magnet for thes russian ladys again another one she says she is 25 yes again this magic number i think this is a duplicate idea from senagal girls club operating in russia .just chit chat but again from moscow town centre yes in flat like other 2 lonely no friends etc etc no money yet .she says like to come to england but as no passport i wonder whats the catch ear.or yes name again is elena. i think they all know each other. any one seen her


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2007-06-18, 20:54:05   (updated: 2007-06-18, 21:00:01)
anonymous from United States  
I think I might be getting scammed as well. I found only a couple of scam reports of her. Although for me she's using a different last name. She of course is asking for money. The only thing is she's answering my questions and I got a phone call from her the other day. Are scammers starting to call and answer questions now?
2007-06-19, 10:12:44
anonymous from Mexico  
Hello Guys !!!

Have you seen this girl before?

She is using the name Ekaterina and she says that she is living now in Izhevsk

She is using the email larkoshka@gmail.com

If you know her or have contacted her before let me know.

Thanks !!!


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2007-06-19, 10:13:56
anonymous from Mexico  
Hello Guys !!!

Have you seen this girl before?

She is using the name Ekaterina and she says that she is living now in Izhevsk

She is using the email larkoshka@gmail.com

If you know her or have contacted her before let me know.

Thanks !!!



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